MentalityWithEbuka

Ebuka Obi-Uchendu

MENtality with Ebuka is an exclusive, limited-series podcast hosted by Ebuka Obi-Uchendu, with Banky Wellington as co-host. The show provides a thoughtful and culturally relevant platform to explore the evolving landscape of masculinity; examining how gender, culture, identity, and societal expectations shape the lived experiences of Nigerian men today. A Production of The She Tank Studios and EME.

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  1. Finding Yourself | MENtality with Ebuka, Banky W & Mai Atafo

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    Finding Yourself | MENtality with Ebuka, Banky W & Mai Atafo

    In this episode of MENtality with Ebuka, host Ebuka Obi-Uchendu is joined by co-host Banky Wellington, alongside celebrated and Award-winning fashion entrepreneur and creative visionary Mai Atafo, for an honest and thought-provoking conversation about identity, purpose, and the lifelong journey of finding yourself as a man. What does it truly mean for a man to find himself in a society that has already decided who he should be? Across Nigeria and much of Africa, men are often handed a script long before they understand who they are. Be successful. Get married. Provide for your family. Lead. Achieve status. Yet, beneath these expectations are men quietly navigating questions of identity, self-worth, fulfilment, and purpose. The discussion explores the tension between authenticity and expectation, examining how economic realities and deeply rooted cultural beliefs around being the "provider" and "leader" can significantly shape the psychological wellbeing of young men. The episode challenges the notion that manhood is a destination defined by external milestones and instead presents it as an evolving journey of self-discovery. Together, the conversation unpacks personal reinvention, the courage to redefine yourself beyond the labels society assigns, and the pursuit of a purpose rooted not in performance, but in alignment with one's values, passions, and convictions. Through Mai Atafo's personal experiences and insights, the episode offers a refreshing perspective on embracing change, navigating transitions, and becoming the man you were created to be rather than the man the world expects. Because perhaps finding yourself isn't about becoming someone new. It's about having the courage to meet yourself honestly for the very first time. Connect with the Hosts: • Ebuka – Instagram, X • Banky W – Instagram • Mai Atafo – Instagram • MENtality Podcast – Instagram Listen & Subscribe: • YouTube – Link • Apple Podcasts – Link • Spotify – Link Join the Conversation: • Use #MENtalityWithEbuka • Rate & Review the show MENtality With Ebuka is a production of Knight & Sheriff and EME.

    1h 15m
  2. Mentorship, Legacy & Lifting Others | MENtality with Ebuka, Banky W, M.I Abaga & Dika Ofoma

    5 giu

    Mentorship, Legacy & Lifting Others | MENtality with Ebuka, Banky W, M.I Abaga & Dika Ofoma

    In this episode of MENtality with Ebuka, host Ebuka Obi-Uchendu is joined by co-host Banky W, alongside music executive, entrepreneur, and artiste, M.I Abaga, and award-winning filmmaker Dika Ofoma, for a thoughtful conversation on mentorship, legacy, leadership, and the responsibility of one generation to guide the next. Across Africa, many successful men can trace pivotal moments in their lives and careers back to the influence of mentors, sponsors, teachers, role models, and elders who shared knowledge, opened doors, offered guidance, or simply believed in them at critical moments. Yet for many young men today, access to mentorship remains largely informal, uneven, and often dependent on proximity, privilege, or chance. The conversation explores why mentorship matters beyond career advancement, examining its role in shaping character, confidence, decision-making, emotional intelligence, and long-term personal growth. The guests reflect on the mentors who influenced their own journeys, the lessons they carried forward, and the moments that changed the trajectory of their lives. Ultimately, the episode presents mentorship as more than professional guidance, it becomes a conversation about stewardship, community, and the enduring impact of lifting others as you rise. In a world increasingly focused on individual success, the discussion reminds listeners that true leadership is measured not only by what we achieve, but also by who we help become successful after us. Connect with the Hosts: MENtality Podcast – Instagram Listen & Subscribe: YouTube – Link Apple Podcasts – Link Spotify – Link Join the Conversation: Use #MENtalityWithEbuka Rate & Review the Show MENtality With Ebuka is a production of Knight & Sheriff and EME.

    1h 30m
  3. Redefining Success | MENtality with Ebuka, Banky W, Farooq Oreagba & Tobi Bakre

    29 mag

    Redefining Success | MENtality with Ebuka, Banky W, Farooq Oreagba & Tobi Bakre

    In this episode of MENtality with Ebuka, host Ebuka Obi-Uchendu is joined by co-host Banky W, alongside entrepreneur and cultural figure Farooq Oreagba and actor, media personality and entrepreneur Tobi Bakre, for an honest and reflective conversation on career uncertainty, ambition, identity, and what success truly means for men today. As career paths become increasingly unpredictable and non-linear, many men find themselves caught between survival, passion, financial responsibility, and societal expectations. The pressure to “figure life out” early, achieve visible success, and constantly provide can leave many silently struggling with anxiety, comparison, disappointment, and self-doubt. The conversation explores the realities of navigating career uncertainty in a rapidly changing economy, the emotional weight tied to employment and financial stability, and the difficult choices men often face between pursuing passion and choosing security. The episode also examines entrepreneurship versus traditional employment, challenging the glamorisation of hustle culture while highlighting the unseen sacrifices, risks, and emotional toll attached to both paths. Against the backdrop of economic instability, rising living costs, and shifting definitions of achievement, the discussion unpacks how deeply career status can shape male identity and self-worth. Together, the guests reflect on failure, reinvention, delayed dreams, resilience, and the importance of redefining success beyond job titles, income levels, or public perception. Ultimately, the episode encourages men to separate their worth from societal timelines, embrace growth at different stages of life, and build lives rooted not only in achievement, but also in purpose, fulfillment, stability, and authenticity. Connect with the Hosts: MENtality Podcast – Instagram Listen & Subscribe: YouTube – Link Apple Podcasts – Link Spotify – Link Join the Conversation: Use #MENtalityWithEbuka Rate & Review the show MENtality With Ebuka is a production of Knight & Sheriff and EME.

    1h 34m
  4. There is an Addiction Epidemic | MENtality with Ebuka, Banky W & Aproko Doctor.

    22 mag

    There is an Addiction Epidemic | MENtality with Ebuka, Banky W & Aproko Doctor.

    In this episode of MENtality with Ebuka, host Ebuka Obi-Uchendu is joined by co-host Banky Wellington, alongside medical doctor, health advocate and digital creator Aproko Doctor, for a deeply insightful conversation on addiction and the hidden ways men cope with pressure, pain and emotional overwhelm. The discussion explores how addiction, whether to alcohol, drugs, gambling, work, sex, social media, success, or validation, often hides beneath the surface of male coping mechanisms. For many men, addiction is not always loud or obvious; sometimes, it looks like overworking, emotional avoidance, chasing constant approval, or using substances and distractions to escape unresolved pain. Against the backdrop of Nigeria’s growing substance abuse challenge, with about 14.4% of Nigerians aged 15–64 reportedly using drugs, nearly three times the global average, the episode examines addiction not simply as a moral failure, but as a response to pressure, silence, trauma, loneliness, and the expectations placed on men to “be strong” without support. Together, the conversation unpacks the relationship between masculinity and escapism, the shame that prevents men from seeking help, and the importance of recovery, accountability, honesty, and healthier coping systems. The episode also challenges men to confront the things they run to when they are unable to speak about what they are running from. Connect with the Hosts: Ebuka – Instagram, XBanky W – InstagramAproko Doctor – InstagramMENtality Podcast – InstagramListen & Subscribe: YouTube – LinkApple Podcasts – LinkSpotify – LinkJoin the Conversation: Use #MENtalityWithEbukaRate & Review the showMENtality With Ebuka is a production of Knight & Sheriff and EME.

    1h 7m
  5. Are Men Allowed To Grieve - MENtality With Ebuka, Ft. Banky W, Ali Baba & Samuel Otigba

    15 mag

    Are Men Allowed To Grieve - MENtality With Ebuka, Ft. Banky W, Ali Baba & Samuel Otigba

    In this episode of MENtality with Ebuka, host Ebuka Obi-Uchendu is joined by co-host Banky Wellington, alongside comedy icon and media entrepreneur Ali Baba and entrepreneur Samuel Otigba, for a deeply reflective conversation on grief and emotional suppression among men. The discussion examines how men are often conditioned to internalize pain, despite experiencing profound losses, whether through bereavement, relationships, identity shifts, or missed opportunities. The episode unpacks how this silence shapes emotional wellbeing and long-term mental health outcomes for men across Nigeria and the broader African context. Grief is not a weakness, it is a human experience. This episode challenges long-held beliefs about masculinity and calls for a cultural shift toward emotional openness, healthier coping mechanisms, and redefining what it truly means to be strong as a man. Connect with the Hosts:  • Ebuka – Instagram, X • Banky W – Instagram • MENtality Podcast – Instagram Listen & Subscribe:  • YouTube – Link • Apple Podcasts - Link • Spotify – Link Join the Conversation:  • Use #MENtalityWithEbuka  • Rate & Review the show MENtality With Ebuka is a production of Knight & Sheriff and EME.

    1h 21m

  6. 05/12/2025

    Masculinity & Fatherhood – MENtality with Ebuka, ft Banky W, Sonariwo, IK Osakioduwa & Murewa

    Boys today are growing up in a world very different from what many adults knew. In this episode of MENtality with Ebuka, Host Ebuka Obi-Uchendu and Co-Host Banky W are joined by IK Osakioduwa, the MD of Lite Radio, and Host and Co-host of “Menisms” Podcast, Sonariwo On Deck and Murewa to explore how gaming, social media, isolation, online dating, and rising incel culture are shaping young boys. Why are so many boys struggling quietly? Who and what are they listening to? And what do they actually need from the men and families around them? MENtality with Ebuka is a production of The She Tank Studios and EME. Connect with the Hosts:  • Ebuka – Instagram, X • Banky W – Instagram, X • MENtality Podcast – Instagram  Listen & Subscribe:   • YouTube – https://www.youtube.com/@Ebuka  • Apple Podcasts – Link  • Spotify – Link Join the Conversation:  • Use #MENtalityWithEbuka  • Rate & Review the show

    1h 43m

  7. 28/11/2025

    Masculinity & Fatherhood – MENtality with Ebuka, ft Banky W, Timi Dakolo & Hermes Iyele

    Becoming a father changes a man in ways few people talk about. In this episode of MENtality with Ebuka, Host Ebuka Obi-Uchendu and Co-Host Banky W are joined by Artiste, Timi Dakolo and Dancer, Actor, Influencer, Hermes Iyele for an honest conversation about fatherhood – what shapes it, what challenges it, and what it demands. How did their own upbringing influence the fathers they’re becoming? What does being present truly look like today? And how do men balance discipline, love, emotional safety, sacrifice, and the everyday pressures of raising children? A grounded conversation about the realities of modern fatherhood  and how men can approach it with intention. MENtality with Ebuka is a production of The She Tank Studios and EME. Connect with the Hosts:  • Ebuka – Instagram, X • Banky W – Instagram, X • MENtality Podcast – Instagram  Listen & Subscribe:   • YouTube – https://www.youtube.com/@Ebuka  • Apple Podcasts – Link  • Spotify – Link Join the Conversation:  • Use #MENtalityWithEbuka  • Rate & Review the show

    1h 51m

  8. 21/11/2025

    Masculinity & Friendships – MENtality with Ebuka, ft Banky W & Alexander Ikemefuna

    In this special episode of MENtality with Ebuka, Ebuka Obi-Uchendu sits with Co-Host Banky Wellington and Creative Consultant & Music Executive Alexander Ikemefuna for an honest, vulnerable, and deeply reflective conversation about male friendships – how they form, why they break, and the unspoken emotional world men rarely discuss. From growing through boyhood labels and early rivalries, to ego, loyalty, distance, marriage, vulnerability, and the quiet ways men show love, the trio unpack the joys and complexities of male friendships. MENtality with Ebuka is a production of The She Tank Studios and EME. Connect with the Hosts:  • Ebuka – Instagram, X • Banky W – Instagram, X • MENtality Podcast – Instagram  Listen & Subscribe:   • YouTube – https://www.youtube.com/@Ebuka  • Apple Podcasts – Link  • Spotify – Link Join the Conversation:  • Use #MENtalityWithEbuka  • Rate & Review the show

    53 min

  9. 14/11/2025

    Masculinity & Relationships (Part 2) – MENtality with Ebuka, ft Banky W, Alexander Ikemefuna & Johnny Drille

    In this follow-up of the relationship episode of MENtality with Ebuka, host Ebuka Obi-Uchendu, Co-Host Banky Wellington are joined by Creative Consultant & Music Executive Alexander Ikemefuna, and Singer-Songwriter Johnny Drille  for an honest, thought-provoking conversation about marriage, manhood, and the pressures that come with both. From why and when men choose to marry to the fear of commitment, financial expectations, and the weight of cultural and family pressure, the group reflects on how men today navigate love, relationships, and identity — and the ways upbringing and faith could  shape how men show up in relationships. MENtality with Ebuka is a production of The She Tank Studios and EME. Connect with the Hosts:   • Ebuka – Instagram, X • Banky W – Instagram, X • MENtality Podcast – Instagram  Listen & Subscribe:   • YouTube – https://www.youtube.com/@Ebuka  • Apple Podcasts – Link  • Spotify – Link Join the Conversation:   • Use #MENtalityWithEbuka   • Rate & Review the show

    1h 20m

  10. 07/11/2025

    MASCULINITY + RELATIONSHIP (PART 1) | MENtality With Ebuka: ft Banky W, Bovi & Do2tun

    In the second episode of MENtality with Ebuka, host Ebuka Obi-Uchendu, Co-Host Banky Wellington are joined by Entertainer Bovi Ugboma  and Media Entrepreneur Do2dtun “Energy gAD”  for an unfiltered,  hilarious, and deeply honest conversation about heartbreak, gender roles, submission, cheating, and the evolving shape of modern relationships. From their first heartbreaks to questions about monogamy, the “provider” myth, and what it really means to lead or love in 2025, the men hold nothing back. MENtality with Ebuka is a production of The She Tank Studios and EME. Connect with the Hosts:  • Ebuka – Instagram, X • Banky W – Instagram, X • MENtality Podcast – Instagram  Listen & Subscribe:   • YouTube – https://www.youtube.com/@Ebuka  • Apple Podcasts – Link  • Spotify – Link Join the Conversation:  • Use #MENtalityWithEbuka  • Rate & Review the show

    1h 12m

  11. 31/10/2025

    MASCULINITY + MONEY | MENtality With Ebuka: ft Banky W, Seun Kuti & Noble Igwe

    In the first episode of MENtality with Ebuka, host Ebuka-Obi Uchendu and Co-Host Banky Wellington sit with Artist & Activist Seun Anikulapo-Kuti and Creative Entrepreneur Noble Igwe for a brutally honest conversation about money—how it shapes men, pressures men, defines men, and often breaks men. From the expectations placed on boys from childhood, to the pressure to provide, the rise of betting culture, the glorification of wealth, and the fear of appearing unsuccessful, this episode digs into the financial weight Nigerian men silently carry every day. MENtality with Ebuka is a production of The She Tank Studios and EME. Connect with the Hosts:  • Ebuka – Instagram, X • Banky W – Instagram, X • MENtality Podcast – Instagram Listen & Subscribe:  • YouTube – https://www.youtube.com/@Ebuka Join the Conversation:  • Use #MENtalityWithEbuka  • Rate & Review the show

    1h 50m
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Descrizione

MENtality with Ebuka is an exclusive, limited-series podcast hosted by Ebuka Obi-Uchendu, with Banky Wellington as co-host. The show provides a thoughtful and culturally relevant platform to explore the evolving landscape of masculinity; examining how gender, culture, identity, and societal expectations shape the lived experiences of Nigerian men today. A Production of The She Tank Studios and EME.

Informazioni

  • Creatore
    Ebuka Obi-Uchendu
  • Anni di attività
    2025 - 2026
  • Puntate
    11
  • Classificazione
    Contenuti espliciti
  • Copyright
    © 2026 MentalityWithEbuka
  • Sito web del podcast
    MentalityWithEbuka
  • Fornitore

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