The Emergence Room

by Space2BeHuman

The Emergence Room by Space2BeHuman is a space to tell and hear stories of being human without any prerequisite to change or be the best version of ourselves. It is a place where we share humanity with others and connect in both the mundane and the sublime. rhusband.substack.com

  1. 24 MAR

    The Boy in the Backseat: Solomon’s Story of Meeting Self-Doubt with Compassion

    In this episode of The Emergence Room, we continue our exploration of the things that don’t leave us – the inner forces, patterns, and experiences that stay with us and shape the way we move through life. This time, we’re joined by Solomon, a mental fitness trainer, coach, and co-founder of the Changemaker Collective. In a slightly different format, this conversation unfolds as a spacious and reflective dialogue, allowing Solomon to take us into both his personal story and the foundations of his work. While in other episodes “the thing that doesn’t leave” might be a passion, a value, or a calling, in this conversation it takes the form of a story — one that began in adolescence and quietly shaped Solomon’s inner world for years. Together, we explore how such inner narratives are formed, how they can both drive and limit us, and what it means to begin relating to them differently. Chapters in this episode 00:00 Welcome 01:35 Meet Solomon and His Work 04:47 The Stories That Don’t Leave Us 06:01 The Incompetence Story 11:20 Solomon’s Path to Mental Fitness 13:52 The Catch and Celebrate Tool 18:23 Strengths and Self Compassion 23:05 Being Human Our speaker Solomon Mehta-Slade https://substack.com/@altacademy Our hosts You can find more information on Rob: https://space2think.org/ linkedin.com/in/robhusband You can find more information on Eveline: www.inwardcreations.com linkedin.com/in/ehmvandenheuvel This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit rhusband.substack.com/subscribe

    25 min
  2. 06/08/2025

    A Fisherman’s Wisdom: Reflections on Progress

    In this last episode of our series on the Myth of Progress, we explore the concept of progress through the lens of a parable about a fisherman and a businessman, setting the stage for a deeper reflection on what it means to advance in life. We will also hear from two anonymous listeners, questioning whether the pursuit of progress always leads to fulfillment. The conversation delves into the distinction between "being" and "doing," examining how our drive for achievement is often rooted in a sense of dissatisfaction and the neurological interplay between pain and pleasure. The episode concludes by challenging the audience to consider their own motivations for progress, the impact of technology and routine on human experience, and the importance of self-awareness in shaping a meaningful life. Through stories, philosophical musings, and poetry, the episode invites listeners to reflect on when they are the "businessman" and when they are the "fisherman" in their own lives. Chapters in this episode 00:00 The Fisherman's Tale 03:04 First Anonymous Reflection 04:52 Second Anonymous Reflection 07:10 Being vs Doing 11:19 The Pain-Pleasure Balance 15:27 Simplicity and Complexity 19:40 Concluding Reflections on this Series about the Myth of Progress 20:40 Poem by Rob Husband External References * Dopamine Nation by Anna Lembke: https://www.annalembke.com/dopamine-nation * Referenced Know Thyself podcast episode with Anna Lembke: https://open.spotify.com/episode/1UJOqn1NYk9YgsIT3RFaui?si=okKMjkB-TD6RrHcRYcNvNw * The Way Home by Mark Boyle: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/42515426-the-way-home * David Whyte on Routines, in his Consolations II Book: https://davidwhyte.substack.com/p/routine-eb1 This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit rhusband.substack.com/subscribe

    21 min
  3. 08/07/2025

    The Quiet Invitation: Conversations Beyond the Surface

    This episode centers around a profound conversation with Skeena Rathor, a political activist and co-founder of Extinction Rebellion. The dialogue delves into the hidden depths of individuals we meet daily, the importance of acknowledging our ancestries, and the journey to fully arriving in relationships. Skeena shares insights into community, cultural connections, and how true progress is about fostering environments where life flourishes. The episode challenges listeners to rethink how they define and introduce themselves, emphasizing relational integrity and the heart's capacity to hold the world. Chapters in this episode 00:00 Introduction: Reflecting on Strangers and Conversations 02:23 Skeena's Introduction and Ancestral Invocation 02:36 Political Activism and Spiritual Journey 03:37 The Power of Ancestry and Relational Conversations 05:22 Challenging Cultural Assumptions in Conversations 10:18 The Importance of Arrival and Safety in Relationships 19:36 Rematriation and Cosmologies 25:30 Concluding Reflections and Poem by Rob Husband If you want to listen to the full unedited conversation with Skeena, head over to our Substack and subscribe to our premium plan. Our speaker Skeena Rathor * Instagram link to ‘Water is Love’ Film: https://www.instagram.com/p/DHn2RiTJYEE/?hl=en * Interview with Skeena on the Human Potential Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/episode/6CsJIYgBalWlf0TytZOo6E * Interview with Jonathan Weekes from Sacred Earth Activism: SEA Conference - Skeena Rathor: Co-liberation in the Change Movement * Article by Skeena on Jem Bendell’s website: https://jembendell.com/2025/03/22/water-is-love-restoring-an-ecological-approach-to-climate-change-and-beyond/ External references * Extinction Rebellion Website: Extinction Rebellion * Our Substack: https://substack.com/@robhusbandevelinevdh This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit rhusband.substack.com/subscribe

    29 min
  4. Tending the Garden of Life: A Different View on Progress

    01/04/2025

    Tending the Garden of Life: A Different View on Progress

    In this episode of 'On Being Human,' Eveline and Rob delve deep into the concept of progress with guest Sue. They challenge traditional views, drawing parallels with nature and life experiences. Sue shares her perspective on internal and external growth, using personal anecdotes from her Arctic expeditions and leadership coaching. The conversation also touches on the importance of finding joy in the present moment and the hidden growth that happens beneath the surface. Two poems, 'The Patience of Ordinary Things' by Pat Schneider and 'The Gardener' by Mary Oliver, serve as reflective pieces, encouraging listeners to reconsider their relationship with progress and find contentment in simple, everyday experiences. Chapters in this episode 00:00 Introduction 00:34 Welcome to On Being Human Podcast 01:41 Exploring the Myth of Progress 04:51 Decoupling Internal and External Progress 05:41 Controlling the Controllable 06:11 The Psychological Splasher Analogy 07:54 Navigating Tensions and Individuality 11:31 Evolution, Growth, and Personal Development 20:21 Leadership and Growth Perspectives 23:00 Sue's Self-Introduction and Curiosity 24:50 Poetry and Reflection 34:30 Final Thoughts and Experiment Our speaker You can find more information about Sue Stockdale at: * Sue’s website: https://suestockdale.com * Transformation Begins in the Mind | Sue Stockdale | TEDxRoyalHolloway: https://youtu.be/HZGkfLf66as * Sue’s Access to Inspiration Podcast: https://accesstoinspiration.org/ * “Explore: A Life of Adventure” by Sue Stockdale: https://www.amazon.nl/-/en/Sue-Stockdale/dp/1909771325 External references If you want to learn more about the work referenced in our conversation: * The Johari Window: https://www.communicationtheory.org/the-johari-window-model/ * The Patience of Ordinary Things, Pat Schneider: https://www.yourdailypoem.com/listpoem.jsp?poem_id=311 * The Gardener, Mary Oliver: https://tellingthetruth1993.com/2022/04/25/the-gardener-mary-oliver/ This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit rhusband.substack.com/subscribe

    36 min
  5. Progress and the Pursuit of Joy

    04/03/2025

    Progress and the Pursuit of Joy

    In this episode of the On Being Human podcast, we talk with Adie, a former senior leader in education, about his transition from a career driven by progress to a life focused on creativity and joy. We delve into the concept of the 'myth of progress,' discussing how societal and personal metrics often detract from experiencing life fully. Adie shares his journey of reclaiming his creative passions and the challenges and reflections that came with stepping away from a conventional career. The conversation explores the value of integrating play and creativity into adult lives and how current systems of measurement, especially in education, may need reevaluation to allow for more meaningful experiences. The episode concludes with thought-provoking prompts for listeners to assess their own metrics and values in life. Chapters in this episode 00:00 Introduction to Playfulness and Progress 01:36 Margaret Wheatley's Perspective on Progress 03:09 Personal Reflections on Progress 04:40 The Balance of Creativity and Ambition 07:13 Transitioning from Career to Life Path 10:11 The Joy of Creativity and Playfulness 21:17 Challenging the Obsession with Growth 23:27 Who is Adie? 26:59 Reflections and Conclusion 39:18 Final Thoughts and Experiment 41:05 Recap of our Couch Session with Adie Our speaker You can find more information about Adie and his music at:  https://www.facebook.com/share/1BSKUyxC1q/ https://www.facebook.com/adiebmuso/ External references If you want to learn more about the works referenced in our conversations please visit the following links:   * Margaret Wheatley: Who Do We Choose to Be? https://margaretwheatley.com/books/who-do-we-choose-to-be/ * Charles Eisenstein: The Illusion of Progress https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nVsh9Z4WxlI This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit rhusband.substack.com/subscribe

    43 min
  6. From Activism to Acceptance: A New Narrative

    04/02/2025

    From Activism to Acceptance: A New Narrative

    Episode 2 of Series 2 of the OnBeingHuman Podcast explores the concept of progress and challenges the traditional view of it. Mariah emphasizes the importance of self-reflection and understanding one's triggers to respond thoughtfully rather than react impulsively. From within her own deep exploration of her own burn-out, Mariah presents the idea that progress is about being fully present with ourselves and making space for those parts that we might find hard to look at. The speakers challenge the idea that progress isn't about constant upward growth but about knowing when systems need to change or end to make space for new ideas. Mariah’s personal anecdotes from a career with Doctors Without Borders and founding a business, Yoni, illustrate the theme that true change comes from self-acceptance and compassion, rather than focusing solely on end goals and consumerism. Chapters in this episode 00:00 Challenging the Myth of Progress 02:28 Exploring Personal Views on Progress 05:16 Internal vs External Progress 10:11 Business Perspectives on Progress 17:44 Personal Journey and Burnout 20:20 Reflections on Self-Development and Goals Our speaker You can find more information about Mariah Mansvelt-Beck at: https://yoni.care/our-story/ https://youtu.be/WyZjuIchMUw?si=V0oRgVWmKCj2-X67 TEDX Talk: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XWCTQoF3mdA https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariah-mansvelt-beck-64212a7/ External references If you want to learn more about the work referenced in our conversations please visit the following links:   * Margaret Wheatley: Who Do We Choose to Be? https://margaretwheatley.com/books/who-do-we-choose-to-be/ * The Paradoxical Theory of Change: https://gestalt.org/arnie.htm This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit rhusband.substack.com/subscribe

    37 min

Descrizione

The Emergence Room by Space2BeHuman is a space to tell and hear stories of being human without any prerequisite to change or be the best version of ourselves. It is a place where we share humanity with others and connect in both the mundane and the sublime. rhusband.substack.com