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For the curious singers who want to find more fulfilment from their craft, join Grace for a deep dive into comprehensive vocal training techniques and profound emotional awareness. Featuring insightful interviews with experienced performers and practitioners, listen in as Grace gleans wisdom about the technical know-how, mental resilience and ways to navigate this turbulent industry with integrity and purpose.

  1. 6 DAYS AGO

    #20 Vocal Cringe: Why Your Recorded Voice Sounds Strange (& How to Overcome it)

    Ever wonder, "Is that really me?" when you hear a recording of yourself? In this episode Grace talks about the phenomenon of voice confrontation—the psychological and physiological "cringe" we feel when hearing our own voices played back, the importance of recording ourselves as singers and practical ways we can overcome our discomfort. She breaks down the science of bone conduction versus air conduction to explain why the voice in your head sounds different to the one on tape. Beyond the anatomy, learn from psychological insights, famous artists' experiences of vocal cringe, and simple exercises to improve self-acceptance. Takeaways Your voice sounds different to you because your own anatomy acts as a low-pass filter Many artists disliked their recorded voices, including John Lennon and Bowie. Recording yourself and watching back is crucial for singers’ and musicians’ improvement Practicing recording and listening desensitises you to your voice. The slightest anxiety or discomfort causes you to subtly ‘hold back’ which disproportionately affects how your voice comes across. Your voice mirrors your body language. Throwing an imaginary ball as you vocalise can help bring out confidence in your tone.   Chapters 00:00 The Discomfort of Hearing Our Own Voices 01:23 The Science Behind Voice Perception 02:52 Demonstration of Why Your Voice Sounds Different to You 04:06 How Beethoven Used His Bone Structures to Hear 05:58 The Disconnect Between Your Voice and Your Identity 07:43 Is Your Subconscious Sabotaging Your On-Air Voice? 09:22 Famous Voices and Their Insecurities 11:38 A Trick to Bridge the Gap to Your Recorded Voice 13:22 Reasons Why We MUST Record Ourselves as Singers 16:29 Outro    References & Further Reading: 'How Did Beethoven Hear Music?' - Rick Beato: www.youtube.com/watch?v=3bA2V0jZMo4 John Lennon’s "Tomato Ketchup" Vocals: As famously recalled by producer Sir George Martin in the Beatles Anthology. Lennon’s insecurity was so high he often asked Martin to "smother" his voice in effects and ADT (Artificial Double Tracking) to hide its natural sound. David Bowie’s Vocal Identity: See Bowie’s 2003 interview on the Parkinson show (BBC), where he admits he never viewed himself as a "singer" and only took the microphone because no one else was performing his songs. Bono’s "Early Recording" Cringe: In a 2022 interview on the Awards Chatter podcast, the U2 frontman revealed he "turns scarlet" when hearing his early vocals (specifically on the album Boy), describing his younger voice as "strained" and lacking the resonance he has today. Jimi Hendrix’s Studio Shyness: Legendary engineer Eddie Kramer has often shared how Hendrix—despite his wild stage persona—was incredibly self-conscious about his singing. He famously requested recording screens or partitions in the studio so he could sing without the engineers or other musicians watching him. Dolly Parton’s "High and Trilly" Critique: Dolly has often joked in interviews (including her memoirs) about her "cartoonish" or "high and trilly" natural tone. She famously credited her success to leaning into that "twang" to cut through the noise, despite her initial personal critiques of her own pitch. About the Host Grace is a seasoned singer-pianist, vocal coach and composer. Over the past decade she has dedicated her life to music and creativity, performing aboard luxury cruise ships across the world and composing for theatre and short films. Her original compositions have been recognised by festivals such as the Paris Film Awards and Only the Best International Film Awards. She strives now to determine how to cultivate authentic expression in music and the importance of it for mental health and human connection.   Contact Method gracehancockmusic@gmail.com www.gracehancockmusic.com Instagram: @gracehancockmusic Facebook: @gracehancockmusician

    18 min

  2. 13 MAR

    #19 Losing Your Love of Music? Understanding Burnout with Psychotherapist Jessica Quiñones

    In this conversation, Grace Hancock and Jessica Quiñones delve into the complexities of musical burnout, exploring its symptoms, the impact of perfectionism, and the relationship musicians have with their craft. They discuss the importance of understanding the psychological aspects of musicianship and how to reclaim joy in music through setting boundaries and addressing personal needs. Grace and Jessica explore the complexities of maintaining a relationship with music, setting boundaries, and the therapeutic process of reconnecting with one's inner child. They discuss the challenges of songwriting, the importance of play in creativity, and how to navigate burnout in the music industry. The dialogue emphasises the significance of creating a new relationship with music that fosters joy and fulfilment, rather than pressure and expectation.   Takeaways Musical burnout encompasses a variety of symptoms and experiences. Many musicians face existential exhaustion and performance anxiety. Perfectionism can lead to a toxic relationship with music. Identifying personal motivations for making music is crucial. Setting boundaries is essential for mental health in music. Musicians often need to redefine their relationship with music. Therapeutic work can help musicians reconnect with their essence. Not all musicians return to music in the same way after burnout. Understanding one's history with music can aid in recovery. Connecting with one's inner child can unlock creativity. Therapeutic techniques can help in reconnecting with lost parts of self. Re-entering music after burnout requires a new approach. Creating a new relationship with music involves changing expectations. Engaging in playful activities can replenish creative energy.   Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Jessica Quinones 03:04 Identifying Symptoms of Musical Burnout 05:46 The Impact of Feeling Like You Are Never Enough 09:06 Musicianship as an Abusive Relationship 11:55 Why Do We Perform? 14:12 Perfectionism and the Need for the 'Safe Zone' 17:55 Coming Back to Your Essence 19:20 Setting New Boundaries in Your Musical Relationship 22:28 The Difficulties of Accessing Creativity 25:02 Connecting with the Inner Child 27:17 Therapeutic Techniques for Reconnecting with Self 32:07 Rediscovering Joy in Music 33:12 Finding Time for Play to 'Fill the Well' of Inspiration 37:06 Re-entering Music After Burnout 39:45 Finding Support in the Music Industry   Mentions: Contact Jessica: drjessicaquinones.com The Music Industry Therapists Collective MITC: www.musicindustrytherapists.com The Concept of ‘Artist Dates’ from the book ‘The Artist’s Way’ by Julia Cameron   About the Host Grace is a seasoned singer-pianist, vocal coach and composer. Over the past decade she has dedicated her life to music and creativity, performing aboard luxury cruise ships across the world and composing for theatre and short films. Her original compositions have been recognised by festivals such as the Paris Film Awards and Only the Best International Film Awards. She strives now to determine how to cultivate authentic expression in music and the importance of it for mental health and human connection.   gracehancockmusic@gmail.com www.gracehancockmusic.com Instagram: @gracehancockmusic Facebook: @gracehancockmusician   #burnout #psychology #musician #mentalhealth #self-identity #perfectionism #musictherapy #creativity #innerchild #settingboundaries #therapy #fulfillment, #musicindustry

    44 min

  3. 6 MAR

    #18 From Jealous Rage to Creative Flow: Ending the Comparison Trap

    Ever felt like someone else’s musical success is your own personal failure? If you’ve ever felt the urge to slam your instrument down in a fit of jealousy, this episode is for you. Grace explores the complex emotions of jealousy and anger that often arise in the creative process. She shares her personal experiences of feeling inadequate in the face of her partner's success and discusses the psychological mechanisms behind these feelings, including the concept of the 'amygdala hijack.' Grace emphasises the importance of recognising and addressing these emotions, understanding that each artist's journey is unique, and creating a supportive inner environment for creativity to flourish. She offers practical strategies for managing anger and energy, and encourages listeners to embrace their individual creative rhythms without succumbing to comparison and competition.   Takeaways Anger is often a defence response to a more vulnerable emotion, such as jealousy The amygdala triggers our fight or flight reactions. It's important to separate your musical journey from others’ in your mind. Comparison of your inner world with someone’s outer world can create an impossible standard for success. Creativity has phases or seasons; not every stage seems outwardly productive. Tending to your inner world is crucial for maintaining creativity. Physical activity can help release pent-up emotions. Trust in your unique artistic journey is essential. Embrace the love for music that inspired you as a child.   Chapters 00:00 How Others' Success Can Feel Like Our Failure 04:25 Understanding How Our Emotions Try To Protect Us 05:41 Naming Emotions to Regulate Them 06:46 Separating Your Journey from Others' Success 08:26 The Comparison Trap and Its Pitfalls 09:33 How We Can Attach Our Worth to Our Achievements 13:17 There Are Seasons in a Creative Life 15:00 Physical Manifestations of Anger and How to Release It 17:08 Practical Strategies for Emotional Reset 21:14 Embracing Your Unique Creative Path   Mentions: What is meant for your will not pass you by - Episode 3 with Avionce Hoyles: https://open.spotify.com/episode/6ZbWBXtSN4F5eha7IYNdjC?si=54b35d9088174a59   About the Host Grace is a seasoned singer-pianist, vocal coach and composer. Over the past decade she has dedicated her life to music and creativity, performing aboard luxury cruise ships across the world and composing for theatre and short films. Her original compositions have been recognised by festivals such as the Paris Film Awards and Only the Best International Film Awards. She strives now to determine how to cultivate authentic expression in music and the importance of it for mental health and human connection.   Contact Method gracehancockmusic@gmail.com www.gracehancockmusic.com Instagram: @gracehancockmusic Facebook: @gracehancockmusician   #jealousy #music #creativity #comparison #emotions #mentalhealth #amygdala #personalgrowth #artisticjourney #angermanagement #selfacceptance #innercritic

    24 min

  4. 27 FEB

    #17 The Original Artist’s Reality Check: SJ Mortimer on the Adrenaline, the Burnout, and the In-Between

    Singer Songwriter, SJ Mortimer pulls back the curtain on the reality of following her dream as a front-woman of multi award-winning Americana Rock Band, Morganway. From recognising the red flags of the burnout cycle, to the paralysing perfection trap that often kills the very creativity it’s trying to polish. We move past the highlight reels to discuss the need for healthy sleep patterns, a genuine support system and a deep look inwards as the cure for imposter syndrome, burnout and the balancing act of life, business and creativity. If you’ve ever felt like you’re faking it—or just wondered if everyone else is struggling as much as you are—this conversation is the reality check you been needing.   Takeaways Live performance has potential to be your friend and foe depending on your mindset If the love for it is gone, don’t assume it’s dead; take a break. Support from partners and friends is crucial in the music industry. Don’t go it alone. Everyone feels imposter syndrome at some point. The people you think have ‘made it’ probably feel the same about their life as you do. Perfectionism isn’t often in the best interests of the overall creation The first take is often the best Mistakes on stage can create a deeper connection with the audience. Community and shared experiences in music foster support and understanding.   Chapters 00:00 SJ Mortimer's Onstage Persona 02:56 The Stage as Your Friend or Foe? 07:53 Fear of the Unknown as an Independent Musician 09:30 Balancing Everyday Life with Music 11:35 How Going Full Time Changed the Creative Process 15:06 Sleep Patterns and their Impact on Creativity 19:19 The Reality of Life as a Gigging Musician 23:52 Mistakes Onstage and The Musician's Inner Critic 31:03 Remembering the Purpose of Music in Our Lives 34:33 Working Around Perfectionism in the Recording Studio 38:33 How to Keep the Creative Juices Flowing 46:58 Where to Find Sj and Morganway 48:34 Quickfire Questions   Mentions: SJ’s Americana Rock Band: www.Morganway.co.uk SJ website: www.SJMortimer.net www.instagram.com/sjmortimer/ www.facebook.com/sjmortimermusic   About the Host Grace is a seasoned singer-pianist, vocal coach and composer. Over the past decade she has dedicated her life to music and creativity, performing aboard luxury cruise ships across the world and composing for theatre and short films. Her original compositions have been recognised by festivals such as the Paris Film Awards and Only the Best International Film Awards. She strives now to determine how to cultivate authentic expression in music and the importance of it for mental health and human connection.   Contact Method gracehancockmusic@gmail.com www.gracehancockmusic.com Instagram: @gracehancockmusic Facebook: @gracehancockmusician   #Americana #rock #musicindustry #burnout #liveperformance #creativity #independentmusician #impostersyndrome #songwriting #singersongwriter #frontwoman #musicianlife

    53 min

  5. 20 FEB

    #16 Why You Shouldn't Sing How You Speak: Dipthonging is Holding You Back

    Are you confused about whether to sing like you speak? Grace takes you through how singing in a speech-like quality can rob your voice of a certain ‘je ne said quoi’ and how to alter your vowels for that flowing, professional sound. The episode explains the concept of dipthonging and why it’s detrimental to your sound. It’s a practical, virtual lesson focusing on the importance of vowel alterations, tongue positioning, and airflow management in singing. The discussion includes practical exercises and examples from professional singers like Adele, illustrating how to navigate high notes and manage consonant sounds effectively. The session concludes with key takeaways for singers to enhance their vocal performance.   Takeaways Singing requires breaking the habits of conversational speech. Diphthonging is when a singer sings through the smaller vowel sounds in each word Maintaining a consistent airflow is crucial for singing Tongue positioning affects sound quality and resonance Professional singers often alter their vowel sounds without you realising The largest part of the vowel should be juiced for maximum resonance Narrow vowels should open up when singing higher notes, wide vowels should round off. Consonant sounds should be softened to maintain airflow. Understanding vowel trees can reduce pressure and resistance especially in higher ranges   Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Diphthonging and Vowel Juicing 01:46 Understanding Diphthonging and Its Impact on Singing 06:17 Practical Examples of Adele's Vowel Alterations 09:52 Consonant Sounds and Maintaining Airflow Exercise 14:13 Vowel Trees Exercises to Relieve Pressure Up High 19:51 The General Rule for Making Your Vowels Work For You 21:10 Breath Support Exercise for Maintaining Open Throat 25:20 Conclusion   Mentions/Resources: Brett Manning’s Singing Success - https://singingsuccess.com Vowel Trees (part of Brett Manning’s Singing Success teachings): - ‘Oo’ as in ‘boot’ —> ‘Ouh’ as in ‘book’ —> ‘Uhh’ as in ‘buck’ ‘Ee’ as in “beat’ —> ‘Ih’ as in ‘bit’ —> ‘Eh’ as in ‘bet’ Narrow vowels should open a little and wide vowels should round slightly as you sing higher in your range to enable better airflow and resonance. Feel the pressure lessen on the top notes as you migrate these vowels from left to right. To use this in practise, pin point ‘problem words’ in any song you’re singing where the pitch is high and the vowels are narrow or splatty. You might find it feels squeeze or shaky. You can tweak the vowel more towards the left side of the diagram to release some of the pressure and stabilise the sound in your voice.   About the Host Grace is a seasoned singer-pianist, vocal coach and composer. Over the past decade she has dedicated her life to music and creativity, performing aboard luxury cruise ships across the world and composing for theatre and short films. Her original compositions have been recognised by festivals such as the Paris Film Awards and Only the Best International Film Awards. She strives now to determine how to cultivate authentic expression in music and the importance of it for mental health and human connection.   Contact Method gracehancockmusic@gmail.com www.gracehancockmusic.com Instagram: @gracehancockmusic Facebook: @gracehancockmusician   #vocaltechniques #dipthonging #singingesson #diphthonging #vowelshapes #vocaltone #singing #vocalexercises #airflow #highnotes #consonants #singingcoach

    27 min

  6. 13 FEB

    #15 Musical Theatre Mastery and Mindset with Rebecca Southard

    Need help navigating the technical and nerve-wracking world of Musical Theatre singing? In this episode, powerhouse vocalist, Rebecca Southard who won 2nd place in her vocal category in the New York IMTA contest 2023, talks about the vast landscape of the Musical Theatre sound—from the bell-like clarity of Julie Andrews to the more modern emotive belt. They clear up the distinction between twang and nasality, give practical exercises for vocal stamina, strengthening your head voice and ways to combat tension for optimal vocal performance. Rebecca gives tips on how to approach those dreaded auditions and reminds us that singing in character requires a surrendering to the role and a trade-in of anxiety for overt self-belief. It’s an invitation to stop competing and start trusting, ensuring your craft is driven by a love for the music rather than the weight of comparison.   Takeaways There are a variety of vocal styles to explore within Musical Theatre The Legit musical theatre sound is the classic, bell-like quality like Julie Andrews Twang and nasality are two different things Belting is a style, not a register Vocal stamina starts with a mindset shift Balancing head and chest voice can lead to natural development of mix voice Singing in character requires an element of self trust and surrender to the character Audition anxiety can be combatted with overt self-belief Singers should assess what drives them - the love of it or the culture of competition and comparison   Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Rebecca Southard 04:07 The Legit Musical Theatre Sound 08:57 The Belt Box for Muffling Loud Rehearsals 11:01 The Difference Between Twang and Nasal 13:47 Vocal Longevity For Regular Belting 18:16 The Importance of Strengthening the Head Voice 20:29 The Art of The Mix Voice 22:54 Character Development in Musical Theatre 26:20 Override Nerves With Belief 29:28 What Do You Do Onstage When NOT Singing?? 36:11 Relieving Tongue Tension for Optimal Singing 41:36 The Importance of Self-Observation in Performance 47:44 Tips for Music Theatre Auditions 50:25 Finding Joy and Perspective in Performance 53:25 Where To Hear Rebecca's Work 54:53 QuickFire Round 57:14 Outro   Rebecca’s Socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rjsouthard/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@SecondNature-s7o8c Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/7G1JAoODQoiPyoB5kFEbT8?si=uwzybX9MS7G2I6KxSEdWhw Website: https://www.rebeccasouthard.co.uk/   Mentions: Belt Box: https://beltyafaceoff.com/ Curious Vocalists episode on vocal tone including mentions of difference between nasal and twang: https://www.podbean.com/eas/pb-b58qn-1a18f99   About the Host Grace is a seasoned singer-pianist, vocal coach and composer. Over the past decade she has dedicated her life to music and creativity, performing aboard luxury cruise ships across the world and composing for theatre and short films. Her original compositions have been recognised by festivals such as the Paris Film Awards and Only the Best International Film Awards. She strives now to determine how to cultivate authentic expression in music and the importance of it for mental health and human connection.   Contact Method gracehancockmusic@gmail.com www.gracehancockmusic.com Instagram: @gracehancockmusic Facebook: @gracehancockmusician   #musicaltheatre #vocaltechniques #singing #characterdevelopment #auditions #performanceanxiety #belting #headvoice #chestvoice #twang #nasality

    58 min

  7. 6 FEB

    #14 Music & Motherhood: Reframing the Creative Career Balance with Cloudi Lewis

    Singer songwriter Cloudi Lewis discusses the surprising benefits to her creative career since having children. Hear how she faced disillusionment with life and music after graduating from her Popular Music Degree and how the additions to the family have shaped her creative powers - from ultra efficient time management, to discovering her own resourcefulness in monetizing a wider range of her creative skills. This episode is a light in the dark for those anxious about the balance between family life and a creative career.   Key Topics The impact of parenthood on creativity, time management, and personal identity Strategies for juggling multiple roles: performer, teacher, photographer, and community contributor How moving back to Devon and networking transformed her music scene involvement and opportunities The role of support from her partner Sam and how shared responsibilities enable her to thrive creatively The effect of motherhood on her productivity, mindset, and self-confidence Practical insights on adapting to life's unpredictability and finding creative inspiration in daily routines Reflection on postnatal depression, anxieties, and how her perspective on time and self-care evolved Cloudi’s upcoming projects, including new singles, gigs, and freelancing work under her creative brand Studio Cloud Creative   Timestamps 00:00 Introduction to Cloudi Lewis 02:38 Disillusionment with Life and Music 06:13 Kids Made Me More Productive 09:09 Embracing New Opportunities 10:13 Motherhood Quietened my Inner Negative Voice 11:58 The Importance of Sharing the Load 14:00 Creating In And Around Family Life 15:58 Getting Creative With Skill Monetisation 19:19 How 'Mother Mode' Helps Conquer Fears 20:21 Anxiety Before Vs After Kids 22:53 The Hardest Part is Also the Most Fleeting 26:14 Financial Reality and Opportunity 28:43 Where To Find Cloudi's Music 33:14 Outro   Connect with Cloudi Lewis Instagram Spotify Facebook For more info on Cloudi's Music Photography and Videography: https://www.instagram.com/studiocloudcreative?igsh=MnZ5ajNhazZqYnVs    About the Host Grace is a seasoned singer-pianist, vocal coach and composer. Over the past decade she has dedicated her life to music and creativity, performing aboard luxury cruise ships across the world and composing for theatre and short films. Her original compositions have been recognised by festivals such as the Paris Film Awards and Only the Best International Film Awards. She strives now to determine how to cultivate authentic expression in music and the importance of it for mental health and human connection.   Contact Method gracehancockmusic@gmail.com www.gracehancockmusic.com Instagram: @gracehancockmusic Facebook: @gracehancockmusician

    34 min

  8. 30 JAN

    #13 The Courage Hack: Creative Growth in Adulthood (with Toby & Grace)

    Lost that passion for your music you had when you were a kid? In this conversation, Toby and Grace explore the pitfalls of their courage in their creative lives as adults, how adulthood can grind your creativity down to a pulp, and the mindset shifts around courage that are key to claiming back your passion. They invite you to analyse your subtext: are you being impatient with yourself? Could your priorities be re-jigged a bit? Who are you ultimately trying to please? Avoid being crushed by your own ambition as a singer and put your craft firmly in the place of enrichment. Then you will see it blossom in an environment like the free, joy-filled one you had as a child.   Takeaways Courage is often misunderstood as the absence of fear. Creativity can become pressured as adults, leading to self-doubt. Courage can be engineered and is often the one thing missing in creative adults. Overcoming fear involves accepting mediocrity and failure. Setting small, achievable goals can lower inertia in creative practice. Poor creativity levels can be directly linked to poor self-care practices. The vague ‘what ifs' of negative thought need to be brought into the light to be countered. Relationships and community should take precedence over work. Creative work should be seen as enrichment, not your whole life and worth. Action is the key to overcoming fear and self-doubt.   Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Courage in Creativity 02:30 Falling Short of Childhood Expectations 08:23 Strategies for Building Courage 13:11 Fostering Self-Belief 18:54 Self-Care and its Impact on Creativity 19:52 Patience is Key for a Creative Life 22:51 Talk Back to the Self Criticism 26:48 Overthinking Sucks Balls 31:57 A Priorities Shift Changes Everything 35:41 Final Words of Encouragement   Books mentioned: The War of Art - Steven Pressfield Man's Search for Meaning - Viktor Frankl   Find today’s co-host, Toby Brown on: Facebook: @tobybrownmusic Instagram: @tobybrownguitar   About the Host Grace is a seasoned singer-pianist, vocal coach and composer. Over the past decade she has dedicated her life to music and creativity, performing aboard luxury cruise ships across the world and composing for theatre and short films. Her original compositions have been recognised by festivals such as the Paris Film Awards and Only the Best International Film Awards. She strives now to determine how to cultivate authentic expression in music and the importance of it for mental health and human connection.   Contact Method gracehancockmusic@gmail.com www.gracehancockmusic.com Instagram: @gracehancockmusic Facebook: @gracehancockmusician   Keywords #courage #creativity #self-doubt #mentalhealth #artisticjourney #overcomingfear #selfcare #relationships #creativepractice #personalgrowth

    37 min
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For the curious singers who want to find more fulfilment from their craft, join Grace for a deep dive into comprehensive vocal training techniques and profound emotional awareness. Featuring insightful interviews with experienced performers and practitioners, listen in as Grace gleans wisdom about the technical know-how, mental resilience and ways to navigate this turbulent industry with integrity and purpose.

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    Grace Hancock Music
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
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