Speaking With Confidence

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Are you ready to overcome imposter syndrome and become a powerful communicator? Whether you're preparing for a public presentation, sharpening your communication skills, or looking to elevate your personal and professional development, this podcast is your ultimate resource for powerful communication. The Speaking with Confidence podcast will help tackle the real challenges that hold you back, from conquering stage fright to crafting impactful storytelling and building effective communication habits. Every episode is designed to help you communicate effectively, strengthen your soft skills, and connect with any audience. With expert insights, practical strategies, and relatable examples, you’ll learn how to leave a lasting impression. Whether you're a professional preparing for a high-stakes presentation, a student navigating a public speaking class, or someone simply looking to enhance their interpersonal skills, this podcast has the tools to empower you, all with a bit of humor. Join us each week as we break down what it takes to inspire and influence through communication. It’s time to speak with confidence, captivate your audience, and make your voice heard! Want to be a guest on Speaking With Confidence? Send Tim Newman a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/timnewman

  1. Communication Superpowers: Building Confidence, Empathy, and Clarity with Antoni Lacinai

    2 DAYS AGO

    Communication Superpowers: Building Confidence, Empathy, and Clarity with Antoni Lacinai

    Have you ever wondered what it really means to speak with confidence, and how your words, presence, and mindset can transform every conversation? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I explore that question and much more with a truly remarkable guest. I’m Tim Newman, your host—recovering college professor turned communication coach—and today I’m joined by Antoni Lacinai, an internationally acclaimed workplace communication expert, keynote speaker, and author. Not only has Antoni delivered masterclasses worldwide on compassionate leadership and empathy-driven engagement, but he’s also written and co-written 14 business books, hundreds of magazine columns, a novel, a radio theater play, and even released his first song on Spotify. Clearly, he’s not just a business mind; he's a creative soul with a unique perspective on what it means to be authentic in our work and communication. We kick off the episode by diving into Antoni’s creative pursuits, including his Christmas song written for fellow speakers—because it’s important to show you’re more than just your job title. We talk about bringing humanity and authenticity back into business, how being creative makes us more relatable, and why it helps people see us beyond our professional roles. From there, the conversation moves into pivotal moments in Antoni’s journey that led him to recognize communication as his superpower, such as being the only seven-year-old at a parent-teacher meeting brave enough to raise his hand—and discovering the impact that being listened to can have on a young mind. We discuss the importance of listening and encouragement for children, and how that applies to interactions throughout our lives. We also touch on research showing how positive recognition drives better team performance, and how small acts of kindness—like simply saying “good morning”—can profoundly elevate workplace culture. Here’s what we covered: Antoni’s creative journey and the value of authenticity How pivotal childhood moments and being listened to shaped his confidence The impact of positive recognition and kindness in the workplace Practical ways to build confidence and get into the right mindset before communicating The three communication superpowers: empathy, clarity, and energy How to balance these superpowers for world-class communication The importance of emotional intelligence and practicing new habits The role of analog vs. digital communication and what AI means for human connection Why SMART goals might not be enough, and the alternative model of HAPPY goals Encouragement for listeners to use their voice to make a difference By the end of this episode, you’ll know the secret ingredients to speaking with confidence—and why your words truly matter. Thanks for listening, and as always, remember: your voice has the power to change the world. Connect with Antoni: Website: https://www.antonilacinai.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lacinai/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/antonilacinai/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    1h 6m
  2. Stop Asking Boring Questions and Start Connecting | Tim Newman Spea

    6 DAYS AGO

    Stop Asking Boring Questions and Start Connecting | Tim Newman Spea

    Have you ever wondered why some networking conversations feel awkward and stale while others just flow with authenticity and connection? In today’s episode of Speaking with Confidence, I tackle exactly that question: why those standard "What do you do?" Icebreakers fail so spectacularly, especially with Gen Z, and how you can transform surface-level small talk into meaningful, memorable conversations. I dive deep into the challenges of genuine communication in both personal and professional settings. As someone who's spent years studying and coaching communication, I've seen too many capable people get overlooked not because they're not ready, but because they haven't learned how to confidently show up and connect. This episode is all about stepping off the script and embracing authenticity in every conversation that counts. In this episode, I walk you through my Connection Catalyst framework, designed to help you shift from fact-finding to insight discovery, and show you how strategic curiosity can make you stand out in any room, especially if you’re looking to connect with Gen Z or anyone craving genuine dialogue over tired transactional questions. Here’s what we covered in this episode: Why typical networking questions ("What do you do?", "Where are you from?") rarely create real connection The psychology behind scriptive responses and why Gen Z sees right through transactional conversations How boring questions signal a lack of curiosity, and why deep, value-driven questions build trust The three principles of the Connection Catalyst: moving from information to insight, creating a value exchange, and building momentum for deeper conversations Examples of transforming closed questions into open-ended ones that uncover beliefs, vulnerabilities, and real stories (like replacing "Do you like your job?" with "What's a belief you had about your industry that turned out to be completely wrong?") The importance of the hidden value exchange in networking how strategic questions demonstrate genuine interest and build social capital Practical tips for weaving strategic curiosity into your conversations without sounding robotic, including the use of conversational bridges and active listening Why building rapport matters before diving into deeper questions, and how to keep the conversation comfortable and engaging A challenge for listeners: replace one standard question in your next conversation with a strategic one and notice the change in dynamic Reminders on progress over perfection, and resources for public speaking and communication improvement If you want actionable ways to upgrade your networking skills and create conversations that matter, this episode will give you the tools and the confidence to do just that. Listen in, and let’s start having dialogues that actually build connection, not just check boxes. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    15 min
  3. Communicating with Confidence: Why Behavior and Mindset are Essential for Leaders

    23 FEB

    Communicating with Confidence: Why Behavior and Mindset are Essential for Leaders

    Have you ever wondered what separates an effective leader from a high-performing technician, and how personal branding can make or break your success? Today’s episode of Speaking with Confidence dives deep into these questions with practical wisdom, actionable steps, and a fresh perspective on leadership in the modern world. I’m Tim Newman, your host—recovering college professor, communication coach, and curious asker of big questions. This week, I had the pleasure of speaking with Walter Dusseldorp, better known as the Dutch Mentor. Walter’s journey is a fascinating one: from aspiring physician and paramedic, to executive leader, pilot, mentor, and now founder of the Pure Leadership Power program and the Smart Performance app. His story is packed with lessons on adaptability, growth, and communication that anyone can apply. We started with Walter’s unique background, touching on his formative experiences in Holland, responding to 9/11 as a paramedic, and catching the flying bug that led him to pursue piloting as both passion and profession. Walter shared insights about transitions, living with purpose, and the moment that changed his outlook: realizing that dreams need to be lived today, not put off for tomorrow. From there, we explored Walter’s evolution from technical roles into mentoring and coaching—how he recognized a need for better leadership, saw the gap between technical expertise and people skills, and decided to help others make that pivotal transition. He shared how a growth mindset and continuous learning are essential for becoming an effective communicator and leader, emphasizing the importance of vulnerability, seeking mentorship, and taking ownership of your own development. If you’re looking for concrete steps to amplify your leadership, hone your communication skills, and clarify your “why,” this conversation is for you. Here’s what we covered in this episode: Walter’s journey from paramedic and pilot to leadership mentor The power of transitions and living with purpose Moving from technical expertise to effective leadership Why communication is the number one reason teams fail—and how to fix it The importance of continuous learning, growth mindset, and daily habits Building and protecting your personal brand (and what mistakes to avoid) The difference between mentoring and coaching Outward-facing leadership and the need for confident humility Why vulnerability and seeking mentorship accelerate your growth Creating a “why” statement that differentiates you in interviews and organizations The perils of groupthink, how it devastated the Challenger mission and companies like Blockbuster The importance of dialogue, civil discourse, and learning to speak the language of younger generations Practical frameworks for leadership, including Lean Six Sigma and the Pure Leadership Power program Walter’s Smart Performance app: what it offers and how to get involved Walter brings a rare mix of technical expertise, personal experience, and pragmatic Dutch wisdom, making this episode one of our most insight-packed to date. If you’re ready to take your leadership to the next level and create a brand that truly reflects who you are, tune in! You can connect with Walter on LinkedIn, Instagram, YouTube, or email him directly at thedutchmentor@gmail.com. The Smart Performance app launches January 1st—reach out if you’re interested in joining as a founding member. Thanks for listening to Speaking with Confidence. Remember: your voice has the power to change the world. Connect with Walter: Website: https://www.thedutchmentor.com   LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/walter-dusseldorp-mba-fache-8965b610/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thedutchmentor Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    50 min
  4. Why Introverts Are Actually Better at Communicating | Tim Newman Speaks

    19 FEB

    Why Introverts Are Actually Better at Communicating | Tim Newman Speaks

    Are you an introvert who’s ever felt pressured to be “more outgoing” at work? Maybe you’ve been told to “speak up more” or “just be charismatic”—but trying on someone else’s style feels fake and leaves you burnt out. What if your natural quietness isn’t the obstacle everyone says it is, but actually your biggest professional edge? That’s the question we’re diving into in this episode of Speaking with Confidence. I’m Tim Newman, your host—a recovering college professor turned communication coach, and today’s episode is all about turning the corporate world’s obsession with extroversion on its head. We’ll explore the evidence that introverts not only belong in high-visibility roles, but often outperform their extroverted colleagues, especially when it comes to leadership and influence. In this episode, I get real about the exhaustion introverts feel under non-stop pressure to network and perform. I break down research from top journals that shows the loudest voice isn’t necessarily the most influential. Instead, introverted professionals possess some major superpowers: deep listening, keen observation, and a thoughtful approach that builds psychological safety and trust on teams. Here’s what we cover in this jam-packed episode: The myth of extroversion as the only model for leadership (and what the latest research says instead) How introverts’ natural strength as listeners can build powerful trust and influence within teams A practical explanation of the 80/20 listening rule for meetings, so you can contribute with confidence and precision Turning your natural tendency to pause before speaking into a deliberate mark of thoughtfulness (not hesitation) The “pause and pivot” technique: responding to tough questions without panic or filler, and commanding the room when you do speak A real-life coaching case study to show these strategies in action The Precision Protocol: a simple, three-step framework for making every contribution count by preparing smarter, bridging smoothly into discussion, and dropping concise, value-packed insights How using these strengths consistently can build a reputation as the person everyone wants to hear from—no fake charisma required The unique power of this approach for Gen Z professionals, remote workers, and anyone seeking greater authenticity in the workplace A quick-start action step so you can begin leveraging your introvert edge for your next big meeting I wrap up with a reminder: Progress beats perfection, and your voice—used thoughtfully—can transform your entire team, project, or organization. If you want to go deeper, be sure to check out my conversation with Stacy Chasen from January for even more strategies for quiet communicators. And don’t forget to visit speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com for your free resources and to sign up for my new course. Remember, your quiet nature is a strength you just haven’t been shown how to use—until now. Thanks for tuning in, and I’ll talk to you next time! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    17 min
  5. Mastering Interview Techniques: Insights from a Secret Service Polygraph Examiner

    16 FEB

    Mastering Interview Techniques: Insights from a Secret Service Polygraph Examiner

    Have you ever wondered how the world’s top interrogators communicate with calm, confidence, and true connection—even in high-stakes, emotionally charged scenarios? In today’s episode of Speaking with Confidence, I dive into this question and so much more with Brad Beeler, a retired United States Secret Service special agent and course manager for interview and interrogation techniques at the National Center for Credibility Assessment. Brad’s career is nothing short of extraordinary: he served 25 years in the Secret Service, spent 17 years as a polygraph examiner, and has conducted more criminal polygraph examinations than anyone else in Secret Service history. Brad's experience spans thousands of interviews with some of the most difficult individuals—often in cases involving the sexual exploitation of children. What struck me in our conversation is how central communication is, not just for uncovering the truth, but for creating safety, trust, and effectiveness in the most challenging environments. Brad shares why calm leads to calm, and how emotional contagion, body language, and tone shape every interaction—whether you’re in a high-stakes interview or talking with your family. Here’s what we cover in this episode: Brad Beeler’s career journey and transition to teaching The power of calm and emotional contagion in communication The science of body language, tone, and presence Listening as a full-contact sport and why neutrality matters Practical strategies for building connections and safe spaces How to research and prepare for impactful conversations Safety and privacy in the digital age, especially for children Insights from Brad’s book, "Tell Me Everything" Understanding horns and halos and confirmation bias The difference between ethical influence and manipulation Treating everyone with respect and the importance of truth-finding You’ll walk away from this episode inspired to rethink how you show up in every conversation—with strategies and mindsets used by one of the world’s top communicators. If you want to connect with Brad, visit BradleyBeeler.com or find him on LinkedIn or Instagram at BradBeeler1865. Thank you for joining us, and remember: your voice has the power to change the world. Connect with Brad: Website: https://bradleybeeler.com    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/bradbeeler1865/   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bradbeeler1865   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    57 min
  6. How to Say No Without Being a Jerk | Tim Newman Speaks

    12 FEB

    How to Say No Without Being a Jerk | Tim Newman Speaks

    Have you ever felt guilty saying no, even when your brain screams that you don’t have the time or energy to help? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I tackle one of the most challenging—and universal—skills for communication and leadership: how to set boundaries and say no effectively, without damaging relationships or your credibility. As I celebrate the podcast’s two-year anniversary, I’m excited to announce a special giveaway for listeners—a free 3-hour one-on-one coaching package for anyone who leaves a review and tags me on social media. But before we dive into the details of the contest, let’s get real about the Gen Z struggle, which honestly affects almost all of us: we want to be helpful, but we desperately need to protect our time and energy. This episode is all about striking that balance, and learning to say a strategic no that actually builds trust and influence. Today, I’m guiding you through real-world strategies grounded in science and research for better boundary-setting. I start by unpacking why it feels so hard to say no: our brains literally perceive it as a social threat, triggering fight-or-flight mode thanks to the amygdala. Most people fall into two traps when refusing a request—either ghosting (avoiding the person altogether) or becoming a jerk (being overly blunt or aggressive). Both hurt your professional reputation and relationships. Then there’s the spotlight effect, which tricks us into believing everyone will notice and judge our refusal way more harshly than reality suggests. Here’s what we covered in this episode: Why saying no feels dangerous, and the neuroscience behind our aversion to refusal Common failure modes to avoid: ghosting and aggressive rejection The Value Anchor Method explained and demonstrated with real-world scripts How to say no to your boss, teammate, or friend without burning bridges Tips for maintaining professionalism and protecting your reputation The mindset shift from seeing boundaries as walls to viewing them as foundations for strong partnerships A practical implementation challenge for listeners to practice the three-part refusal framework Resources for deeper learning, including my video with the NOPE Coach Suzanne Kolberg and my Formula for Public Speaking course Details about the two-year anniversary contest and how to enter If you’re ready to upgrade your communication skills and build lasting influence—plus maybe win some free coaching—this episode gives you everything you need to start saying no with confidence, clarity, and kindness. Let’s turn boundaries into bridges for stronger, healthier connections in both your work and personal life. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    19 min
  7. Overcoming Barriers: How Values and Self-Belief Shape Confident Communication

    9 FEB

    Overcoming Barriers: How Values and Self-Belief Shape Confident Communication

    How do you find your true voice and lead with confidence when you’re the only one in the room who’s different? That’s the question at the heart of today’s episode of Speaking with Confidence. Today, I had the pleasure of sitting down with empowerment executive coach Varuschka Nagesar, whose rich and diverse background weaves together corporate law, global commercial leadership, and transformative coaching for high-achieving women. If you’ve ever struggled to speak up, felt like the outsider, or navigated culture clashes at work, this conversation is for you. We started by diving into Varuschka’s extraordinary journey, from her roots and legal training in post-apartheid South Africa—a world shaped by diversity, multiple languages, and complex cultural nuances—to major commercial leadership roles in the UK, US, the Middle East, and Europe. She shared powerful stories about learning to honor different communication styles, from deciphering idioms in new countries to gaining respect for those doing business in a second or third language. Her insight: real connection starts with meeting people where they are, not just linguistically but culturally and emotionally. Here’s what we covered in today’s episode: How global and generational diversity shapes communication and trust at work Why language and nonverbal cues matter—and how to navigate misunderstandings across cultures Dealing with being “the only one” in the room and turning that into your strength The difference between confidence and self-belief—and how to build both How self-limiting beliefs show up, and simple, real-world strategies to overcome them The role of core values and intuition in major life and career decisions Real-life stories and mindset shifts that helped Varuschka stop “swimming upstream” and find alignment Advice for listeners on taking the first steps toward authenticity, fulfillment, and empowered leadership If you’re ready to step into your full influence, communicate more powerfully, or simply need inspiration to trust yourself, this episode is a must-listen. Thank you to Varuschka Nagesar for sharing her journey, wisdom, and practical takeaways. And as always, remember: your voice has the power to change the world. Connect with Varuschka: Website: varuschkanagesar.com   LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/varuschka-nagesar/  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    1 hr
  8. The #1 Habit That’s Killing Your Authority on Stage | Tim Newman Speaks

    5 FEB

    The #1 Habit That’s Killing Your Authority on Stage | Tim Newman Speaks

    Have you ever wrapped up a presentation and just felt like something was off? Maybe you had all the right data, your facts were solid, but somehow, the audience just didn’t connect—or worse, you left the room wondering if your expertise really came through. If you’ve had that lingering doubt, you’re not alone, and in today’s episode, we’re answering the critical question: What are the invisible habits that might be secretly undermining your authority and what can you do to fix them? Hi, I’m Tim Newman, host of the Speaking with Confidence podcast, and in this episode, I’m sharing the two biggest culprits I see sabotaging even the most brilliant communicators: a subtle vocal pattern that makes you sound like you’re asking for permission, and body language that screams nervousness instead of confidence. Instead of trying to sound perfect or change your personality, we’re getting practical with the “status reset protocol”—an actionable system you can use straight away to project authentic authority when you speak. It’s just you and me digging deep into the mechanics of presence and authority. You’ll hear real-life examples, simple frameworks, and low-pressure exercises that you can start practicing immediately, whether you’re prepping for a big pitch or just explaining your work to a friend. Here’s what we cover in this episode: Why up-talking—that rising inflection at the end of statements—can subconsciously make you sound unsure, even when you’re an expert. The hidden psychological impact of vocal patterns and how your audience’s brains interpret them. The most common physical habits that undermine your credibility, from “T. Rex arms” to the “fig leaf” and the infamous “windmill.” Why leaders look comfortable in their own space and how fidgeting or over-controlling your gestures actually backfires. How to become aware of your invisible communication habits (and why recording yourself is the most powerful tool you have). The “Punctuate, Don’t Pacify” method for transforming your vocal delivery, making sure your key points land with certainty rather than doubt. The “Gesture with Intent” framework so your hands support your message instead of highlighting nervous energy—and how to keep movements purposeful, not robotic. Easy, low-stakes ways to practice these new skills before you’re under pressure in a big presentation. The status reset protocol: picking one habit to watch for this week, building awareness, and gradually building unshakable authority. Plus, I share details about our special giveaway to celebrate the podcast’s second anniversary, including how you can win a free, three-hour one-on-one coaching package focused on communication and leadership skills. If you’re ready to stop unintentionally asking for approval and start commanding the room as a true expert, this episode is packed with practical strategies to make that leap. As always, head to speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com for a free eBook, more resources, and info about the Formula for Public Speaking course. Remember—progress, not perfection, and your voice truly can change the world. Let’s build your confidence, one episode at a time. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Are you ready to overcome imposter syndrome and become a powerful communicator? Whether you're preparing for a public presentation, sharpening your communication skills, or looking to elevate your personal and professional development, this podcast is your ultimate resource for powerful communication. The Speaking with Confidence podcast will help tackle the real challenges that hold you back, from conquering stage fright to crafting impactful storytelling and building effective communication habits. Every episode is designed to help you communicate effectively, strengthen your soft skills, and connect with any audience. With expert insights, practical strategies, and relatable examples, you’ll learn how to leave a lasting impression. Whether you're a professional preparing for a high-stakes presentation, a student navigating a public speaking class, or someone simply looking to enhance their interpersonal skills, this podcast has the tools to empower you, all with a bit of humor. Join us each week as we break down what it takes to inspire and influence through communication. It’s time to speak with confidence, captivate your audience, and make your voice heard! Want to be a guest on Speaking With Confidence? Send Tim Newman a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/timnewman

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  • Creator
    Tim Newman
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    128
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    © 2026 Speaking With Confidence
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    Speaking With Confidence

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