Grown Man Game

Rod and Big Mike

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Welcome to Grown Man Game. This ain’t just another podcast; it’s a kickback with your brothers Mike and Rod. We’re two Black fathers trading knowledge and wisdom on everything from navigating relationships to the music that shaped us. We’re talking money, mindset, and the unspoken truths of manhood. If you want to laugh, learn, and level up without the fluff—you’re in the right place. Let’s build.

19 MAR

Why Grown Men Need Checkups and Better Birthday Gifts | Grown Man Game Ep. 10

In this one, Mike and Rod talk about what it looks like to get older as men and actually take your health seriously. They get into doctor visits, bloodwork, hydration, stretching, recovery, and why too many men wait too long to handle their health. They also get into a funny but real debate about relationships and gifts, including why sex should not be the only birthday, Valentine’s Day, or Father’s Day gift. The conversation turns into a bigger talk about effort, thoughtfulness, helping at home, and what men actually want when it comes to feeling appreciated. They wrap up with talk about consistency, content creation, better daily habits, and giving your family a broader experience through travel. Timestamps 0:00 Intro 2:28 Doctor visit and bloodwork 10:44 Why men need regular checkups 12:34 Prostate concerns and staying ahead 14:26 Aging, soreness, and recovery 17:22 Young habits and old-school knowledge 23:08 Maturity gaps in dating 29:20 Sex as a gift debate 40:52 What thoughtful gifts for men can look like 44:08 How helping at home changes relationships 46:22 Congratulations Brother 48:05 Mike on taking health seriously 49:04 Small changes matter 50:49 Family trips and perspective Instagram: @grownmangamepod Rod: @4fitfatherhood Mike: @maybenicemike Email: thegrownmangamepodcast@gmail.com

59 min
12 MAR

From Jive Turkey to No Cap: How Language, Love, and Manhood Changed

Language always changes. Slang comes and goes. Some words die fast. Some stick around for decades. In this episode, Rod and Mike talk about the evolution of slang, regional language, Black culture’s impact on the way people talk, and why certain phrases last while others disappear. But the conversation does not stop there. What starts with “jive turkey,” “off the heezy,” and “no cap” turns into a deeper talk about generations, race, relationships, emotional intelligence, and how men communicate when life gets heavy. From Bay Area slang to hard conversations about love, accountability, and what men bring home to their families, this episode covers a lot in a real way. If you enjoy honest conversations about culture, manhood, relationships, and the way we live, this one is for you. Follow Grown Man Game Instagram: @grownmangamepod Email: grownmangamepodcast@gmail.com Support the show If you’re enjoying the podcast, leave a 5-star rating and a review. Send us a DM or email with topics you want us to cover next. Chapters 00:00 Intro 02:33 The evolution of slang 07:33 Regional slang and culture 11:22 Religion, identity, and perspective 15:00 Group chat topics 15:35 Podcast consistency and congratulations 18:04 Clifton Powell and generational love 25:51 Jim Crow and emotional development 32:08 Race and understanding other perspectives 39:46 Nikki Giovanni, James Baldwin, and relationships 42:04 Why men bring the worst home 46:27 Parenting daughters and safe spaces 49:28 Emotional processing and communication 53:35 Self-development and final thoughts

58 min
4 MAR

Code Switching, Commitment, and Black Culture | Grown Man Game Ep. 8

In Episode 8 of Grown Man Game, Rod and Big Mike get into current events, Black culture, parenting, aging, health, and what commitment really looks like in a relationship. They open with the Kane Velasquez case and the emotional weight behind it, then move into Kevin Gates, trauma, code switching, and how Black men often have to adjust depending on the room they are in. Later in the episode, the conversation shifts to health, getting older, colonoscopies, Black culture, and a real discussion about attraction and boundaries in marriage. This one is honest, funny, and full of the kind of conversation men need more of. Timestamps 00:00 Welcome back / current events 00:22 Kane Velasquez and why Rod says “free Kane” 03:01 Kevin Gates, trauma, and protecting children 08:54 Code switching and moving between worlds 11:57 Job interviews, names, and being taken seriously 15:31 White privilege, stress, and never having to switch 17:02 Parenting, language, and generational differences 27:14 Congratulations Brother 27:27 Rod on turning 43 and feeling good 29:50 Big Mike on health and getting a colonoscopy 35:55 Black culture, double dutch, and what gets left behind 40:20 Group chat: how married men handle attraction 56:26 Closing thoughts and the grown man game takeaway Follow the show on Instagram: @grownmangamepod Follow Rod: @4fitfatherhood Follow Big Mike: @maybe_nice_mike Share this episode with a man who needs this conversation.

59 min
26 FEB

Brotherhood Is Collapsing and It’s Killing Men | Grown Man Game Ep. 7

The Grown Man Game Podcast talks about the quiet collapse of brotherhood and what it’s doing to men. We all have “friends” in the group chat, people we follow, coworkers we dap up… but most men don’t have real brothers who can check blind spots, hold you to your word, and push you to lead at home and in life. We get into the lone wolf mindset, surface-level connection on social media, mentorship, accountability, and why asking for help doesn’t make you weak. It makes you smart. If this hits, share it with a brother who needs it. Follow + Contact IG: @thegrownmangamepod Email: thegrownmangamepod@gmail.com Chapters / timestamps0:00 Intro: “We get better together” 2:01 Brotherhood collapsing + group chat isn’t real connection 4:14 No one checks your blind spots (accountability + integrity) 6:42 Mentorship makes you a better husband and man 9:56 Loneliness, spirals, and why men “take themselves out the game” 11:16 Red pill talk + “step your game up” 12:51 Men need men + “iron sharpens iron” 18:59 “Infantilization” of men and responsibility 22:53 Trauma response, single-parent homes, and cycles 30:01 Gym spot story: “You need a spot because you’re strong” 33:38 Batman, Robin, Alfred, and support systems 37:21 Phoenix idea: brotherhood dies, comes back stronger 41:17 Call your people. Don’t text. Build the habit 42:01 Suited brotherhood walk + rebuilding the culture 43:18 Where to find the show

44 min
19 FEB

Men Don’t Know What Happiness Is (But We Know Peace) | Grown Man Game Ep. 6

Grown Man Game Episode 6 is a real convo on what happiness looks like for men, why peace feels like the real goal, and how we’ve been conditioned to avoid certain emotions. We also get into travel sports parenting fees, learning emotional discipline in front of your kids, and why men need to stop playing games with their health. Chapters 0:00 Intro, travel sports parenting reality check1:22 The “pay to play” tournament money machine7:01 Your kids watch your emotions for cues9:11 Rod’s new merch idea: “Rooted” and “Grow Down”13:09 Big Mike’s cyst surgery, blood pressure, and finally going in17:20 White coat syndrome and why the doctor spikes your numbers22:47 Main topic: What is happiness for a man?24:13 Peace vs happiness and why men stop asking what they want30:16 Why rich people can still suffer33:36 Receiving compliments and letting yourself feel joy41:37 How men hide fear with jokes46:38 Men “compensate” emotionally (fear/sadness turns into anger)49:02 Final thoughts and where to find the show Listen to the full episode on your favorite podcast app. Follow the show on IG: Grown Man Game Podcast Email: grownmangamepodcast@gmail.com

52 min
12 FEB

Partner + Provider: How Grown Men Show Up at Home | Grown Man Game Ep. 5

Episode 5 of the Grown Man Game Podcast is a real talk on being a partner and a provider. Rod and Big Mike break down what it looks like to support your woman’s goals, communicate like an adult, handle conflict without trying to “win,” and why you’ve got to celebrate the small wins. They also get into men’s health, doctor visits, and how stress shows up in your body. Tap in and share this with a brother who’s trying to lead better. Timestamps 0:00 Intro, catching up, weekend recap3:16 Rod’s foot issue, doctor visit, possible gout6:19 Big Mike on tribe, family support, community11:04 Topic starts: how to be a better partner13:34 Supporting her goals and learning to listen16:47 Emotional intelligence and “solutions vs ears”19:38 Talk “war” during peace, fight language22:13 “Do you want to be right or happily married?”26:35 Provider vs partner, what providing really means33:37 Small things that hurt your woman’s feelings (shoes)35:33 Shaq clip, carrying everyone, men cracking under load45:28 Celebrate your wins, even the expected ones54:41 Congratulations segment, health check and wins56:54 Go see the doctor, stop waiting until it’s late58:03 Congrats to Rod on building the gym and growth1:07:26 Final takeaways1:08:36 Where to find the show, subscribe and share Links IG: @grownmangamepodcastYouTube: Grown Man Game PodEmail: grownmangamepodcast@gmail.com

1hr 11min
4 FEB

Modern Masculinity in 2025

Masculinity feels harder to define than ever. In Episode 4 of Grown Man Game, Rod and Big Mike talk through what modern masculinity actually looks like in 2025. They get into leadership without chest beating, money pressure without panic, dating expectations, insecurity disguised as toughness, and why real strength usually shows up quietly. This isn’t a debate episode. It’s two men thinking out loud about responsibility, courage, self-sufficiency, and how men can lead without losing themselves in the noise. If you’ve ever felt caught between old-school expectations and modern realities, this one will hit.

57 min
29 JAN

Men Want Validation Too (And It’s Killing Relationships)

In Episode 3 of the Grown Man Game podcast, Rod and Mike talk about why so many male friendships stay surface-level, and how that bleeds into marriage and relationships. They get into validation, desire, and the quiet question a lot of men carry: “Am I enough?” The conversation moves through infidelity, the difference between being “nice” and being assertive, and how men lose their relationship by stopping the pursuit. They close with a real take on masculinity: strength and nurturing can live in the same man, and insecurity often hides behind loud “alpha” talk.

1hr 33min
22 JAN

The Weight Men Carry: Friendship, Marriage, and Letting It Out

Rod and Big Mike get real about why so many men feel isolated, why it’s hard to be vulnerable, and what happens when you keep stacking stress without talking to anyone. They talk about the decline in close male friendships and how that shows up in marriage, fatherhood, and mental health. Rod shares what it looked like to hit a breaking point, break down, and finally admit he needed therapy again. Mike shares how grief surfaced in unexpected ways, and how holding emotions in can spill over into how you show up with your kids. They also talk about the tension men feel when they want to protect their wives’ image while still needing someone to talk to. The episode closes with a “grown man game” message: share what you know, help the next generation start further ahead, and teach them the process, not just the outcome. Subscribe, share with a dad, and leave a quick review. Key takeawaysMost men have very few real friends they can call when life hits.You can love your wife and still need a safe place to talk things out.Stress stacks up quietly until it spills over.Crying can be a release, not a weakness.“I’ll just power through it” works until it doesn’t.Kids don’t automatically value what you used to dream of having.Progress creates different problems for your kids than the ones you had.Teach your kids how you built the life they live in.Timestamps00:39 Welcome back + why this show is “fly on the wall” talk01:07 Men losing friendships and getting isolated04:29 Needing a brother to talk to when marriage gets hard08:53 “Congratulations, brother” + going back to therapy21:25 Rod’s emotional breaking point at practice29:50 “Life is averages” and how Mike thinks about highs/lows51:54 Unprocessed grief showing up years later1:06:06 Losing patience with your kid when you’re holding grief1:15:26 Forever 21 story: are we giving kids too much?1:31:50 Closing “Grown Man Game” message: teach the process

1hr 35min
15 JAN

Nice Guys & Neighborhood Codes: Lessons from Two Fathers

In this raw, unfiltered premiere episode of Grown Man Game, hosts Rod and Mike introduce themselves by sharing their contrasting childhood experiences - from family compounds to crack houses, suburban racism to urban survival. Their authentic conversation reveals how these formative experiences shaped their approach to fatherhood today. The hosts explore how their different upbringings in the Bay Area and Southern California during the crack epidemic and racial tensions of the 80s and 90s gave them unique perspectives on parenting. They discuss why today's kids don't play outside like they did, how they navigate school choices for their children, and the delicate balance between protecting kids and building resilience. This episode establishes the foundation for future discussions on manhood, fatherhood, and giving listeners some genuine "grown man game" - wisdom earned through real-life experiences that can only come from men who've lived through both challenges and triumphs.

44 min

10 Episodes

Welcome to Grown Man Game. This ain’t just another podcast; it’s a kickback with your brothers Mike and Rod. We’re two Black fathers trading knowledge and wisdom on everything from navigating relationships to the music that shaped us. We’re talking money, mindset, and the unspoken truths of manhood. If you want to laugh, learn, and level up without the fluff—you’re in the right place. Let’s build.

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Rod and Big Mike
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2k
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10
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