Grown Man Game

Rod and Big Mike

Welcome to Grown Man Game. This ain’t just another podcast; it’s a kickback with your brothers Mike and Rod. We’re two Black fathers trading knowledge and wisdom on everything from navigating relationships to the music that shaped us. We’re talking money, mindset, and the unspoken truths of manhood. If you want to laugh, learn, and level up without the fluff—you’re in the right place. Let’s build.

Episodes

  1. The Weight Men Carry: Friendship, Marriage, and Letting It Out

    22 JAN

    The Weight Men Carry: Friendship, Marriage, and Letting It Out

    Rod and Big Mike get real about why so many men feel isolated, why it’s hard to be vulnerable, and what happens when you keep stacking stress without talking to anyone. They talk about the decline in close male friendships and how that shows up in marriage, fatherhood, and mental health. Rod shares what it looked like to hit a breaking point, break down, and finally admit he needed therapy again. Mike shares how grief surfaced in unexpected ways, and how holding emotions in can spill over into how you show up with your kids. They also talk about the tension men feel when they want to protect their wives’ image while still needing someone to talk to. The episode closes with a “grown man game” message: share what you know, help the next generation start further ahead, and teach them the process, not just the outcome. Subscribe, share with a dad, and leave a quick review. Key takeawaysMost men have very few real friends they can call when life hits.You can love your wife and still need a safe place to talk things out.Stress stacks up quietly until it spills over.Crying can be a release, not a weakness.“I’ll just power through it” works until it doesn’t.Kids don’t automatically value what you used to dream of having.Progress creates different problems for your kids than the ones you had.Teach your kids how you built the life they live in.Timestamps00:39 Welcome back + why this show is “fly on the wall” talk01:07 Men losing friendships and getting isolated04:29 Needing a brother to talk to when marriage gets hard08:53 “Congratulations, brother” + going back to therapy21:25 Rod’s emotional breaking point at practice29:50 “Life is averages” and how Mike thinks about highs/lows51:54 Unprocessed grief showing up years later1:06:06 Losing patience with your kid when you’re holding grief1:15:26 Forever 21 story: are we giving kids too much?1:31:50 Closing “Grown Man Game” message: teach the process

    1h 35m

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Welcome to Grown Man Game. This ain’t just another podcast; it’s a kickback with your brothers Mike and Rod. We’re two Black fathers trading knowledge and wisdom on everything from navigating relationships to the music that shaped us. We’re talking money, mindset, and the unspoken truths of manhood. If you want to laugh, learn, and level up without the fluff—you’re in the right place. Let’s build.