Dead Dads

Two Dads Media

Dead Dads covers everything that comes after the funeral. We talk about the stuff people usually skip: the paperwork marathons, the garages full of "useful" junk, the password-protected iPads, and the grief that hits you in the middle of a hardware store. Hosted by Roger Nairn and Scott Cunningham, it’s a show for men figuring out life without a dad—one uncomfortable, occasionally hilarious conversation at a time. More grief resources are available at: https://www.deaddadspodcast.com/ Watch us on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@deaddadspodcast Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@deaddadspodcast Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/deaddadspodcast Follow us on Substack: https://www.substack.com/@deaddadspodcast

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  1. Unqualified, But Willing | Dead Dads

    2月20日

    Unqualified, But Willing | Dead Dads

    Bill Cooper joins the table to share stories of his father, Frank, a British-born radiologist with an adventurous spirit and a questionable approach to home maintenance. From the perils of unlabeled dish soap to the specific comfort of blaring classical music, this episode explores the "unqualified but willing" nature of fatherhood and the quiet resilience found in keeping family traditions alive. Learn more about the podcast at: https://www.deaddadspodcast.com/ More grief resources are available at: https://www.deaddadspodcast.com/grief-resources-for-men/ Watch us on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@deaddadspodcast Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@deaddadspodcast Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/deaddadspodcast Follow us on Substack: https://www.substack.com/@deaddadspodcast Chapters: 00:00 Why We Talk About Our Dads (and the Not-a-Therapist Disclaimer) 00:54 Meet Today’s Guest: Bill Cooper, Fellow Hockey Dad 02:30 Quickfire Get-to-Know-You: Music, Comfort Habits & Napping 04:05 Fix-It Philosophy: ‘Unqualified but Willing’ Home Repairs 05:27 Introducing Frank Cooper: Names, Roots & Moving from England to Canada 06:29 Adventurous Spirit & Mischief: Camping Trips and Family Pranks 09:39 The Side of Him You Might Not Know: Classical Music at Full Volume 10:30 How He Passed: Lewy Body Dementia, Paranoia, and the Final Episode 13:32 Saying Goodbye Without Lucidity: The Last Days and a Birthday in Palliative Care 15:23 The First Days After He Passed: Who Handles What? 16:26 Staying Busy to Cope: Work, the Call, and Keeping It Together 18:01 Family Weekend Ceremony: Small Tasks That Help You Grieve 18:35 How the Kids Took It: Grandkids, Support, and Showing Emotion 19:43 Keeping Frank’s Memory Alive Through Family Meals & Stories 20:59 The Classic Camping Story: Dish Soap in the Nasal Spray 22:10 What You Inherit After Loss: Laughs, Humming, and Dad’s Traits 24:19 Why Grief Looks Different: Resilience, Guilt, and No Rulebook 28:05 Mortality & Perspective Shifts: Losing a Job, Watching Your Kids Grow 29:13 Advice, What You Miss Most, and Closing the Episode

    33分
  2. Buying Condoms in Bulk (+ The Power of Positive Thinking) | Dead Dads

    1月30日

    Buying Condoms in Bulk (+ The Power of Positive Thinking) | Dead Dads

    Guest Tiff Daniels joins Scott and Roger to honour the memory of his father, George—a lifelong salesman and "Caring Canadian" award recipient who lived by a mantra of self-accountability. The group explores the heavy transition of becoming the family’s new "roof" after a father passes, shifting from the role of the protected to the protector. From the humour of a Costco-sized errand to the complexity of navigating a parent's medical advocacy, this episode is a thoughtful look at how a father's lessons on positivity and community continue to provide shelter long after he's gone. Learn more about the podcast at: https://www.deaddadspodcast.com/ More grief resources are available at: https://www.deaddadspodcast.com/grief-resources-for-men/ Watch us on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@deaddadspodcast Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@deaddadspodcast Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/deaddadspodcast Follow us on Substack: https://www.substack.com/@deaddadspodcast Chapters: 00:00 Introduction and Initial Shock 00:58 Meet the Hosts and Guest 01:19 Tiff's Motivation to Join the Podcast 02:17 Tiff's Relationship with His Father 03:54 Discussing Tiff's Father's Personality 11:55 Tiff's Father's Final Days 27:00 Coping with Loss and Family Responsibilities 27:44 Reflecting on Parental Influence 28:08 Supporting a Grieving Mother 29:39 Becoming the Family Patriarch 31:35 Living Up to a Father's Legacy 33:01 Unexpected Traits and Memories 34:29 Handling Grief and Family Memories 41:42 The Practicalities of Grief 51:34 Final Thoughts and Reflections

    54分
  3. Not Being Able to Say Goodbye | Dead Dads

    1月30日

    Not Being Able to Say Goodbye | Dead Dads

    Kevin Barrett joins the podcast to share the story of his father, Rowe, a man who balanced a gregarious public persona with a deep, quiet devotion to his family. From his recurring fascination with a documentary about migrating geese to the steady tradition of 6:00 AM Saturday pancakes with his grandson, we look at the small moments that define a legacy. We explore the internal process of navigating a sudden loss and the profound perspective shift that occurs when you realize that "being strong" is far less important than being present for the people who remain. Learn more about the podcast at: https://www.deaddadspodcast.com/ More grief resources are available at: https://www.deaddadspodcast.com/grief-resources-for-men/ Watch us on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@deaddadspodcast Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@deaddadspodcast Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/deaddadspodcast Follow us on Substack: https://www.substack.com/@deaddadspodcast Chapters: 00:00 Breaking the Stigma: It's Okay Not to Be Strong 00:21 Introducing the Hosts and Their Unique Approach 01:04 Welcoming Kevin Barrett: A Personal Connection 01:56 Kevin's Journey: Finding Therapy Through Friends 04:03 Coping Mechanisms: Music and TV Shows 05:42 Reflecting on the Universe and Grief 07:38 Remembering Roe Barrett: A Father's Legacy 14:11 The Emotional Side of Roe Barrett 18:34 Roe Barrett as a Grandfather 19:17 Grandfather's Legacy and Memories 20:06 A Funny Nighttime Incident 20:35 The Passing of RO 22:06 Discovering the Loss 24:42 Dealing with the Aftermath 25:50 Clearing Out and Moving On 27:19 The Legal Side of Loss 29:07 Grief and Therapy 35:51 Support from Friends 40:20 Advice for the Grieving 43:00 Conclusion and Podcast Wrap-Up

    44分

番組について

Dead Dads covers everything that comes after the funeral. We talk about the stuff people usually skip: the paperwork marathons, the garages full of "useful" junk, the password-protected iPads, and the grief that hits you in the middle of a hardware store. Hosted by Roger Nairn and Scott Cunningham, it’s a show for men figuring out life without a dad—one uncomfortable, occasionally hilarious conversation at a time. More grief resources are available at: https://www.deaddadspodcast.com/ Watch us on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@deaddadspodcast Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@deaddadspodcast Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/deaddadspodcast Follow us on Substack: https://www.substack.com/@deaddadspodcast