Becoming Her Anyways

Natasha Bellefort
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Hello, my name is Natasha Bellefort and I’ve created this podcast based on how I dealt with my real life experiences and struggles. I want my audience to feel connected to me, and I want those who have grown up in turmoil to understand that they can still choose to have a fulfilling and healthy life. However, I also want to connect to all women and anyone in general as everybody goes through hardships. I’ve been told my friends that I am great at giving advice, and so this podcast will be like the voice messages I send my best friends. Thank you so much for listening.

  1. 31/08/2025

    Signs Someone Is Dimming Your Light (And What To Do)

    Ever felt like someone was subtly dimming your light? In this episode of Becoming Her Anyways, I open up about my own experience with people who tried to tear me down, minimize my success, and make me question my worth. We’ll break down the red flags of jealousy, manipulation, and quiet sabotage, and I’ll share how I learned to protect my energy and rise above it. This is your sign to trust your intuition, set boundaries, and step fully into your power. If you’ve ever dealt with toxic friendships, draining relationships, or people who can’t stand to see you shine, this episode is for you. Keywords: toxic friendships, jealousy, manipulation, boundaries, self worth, protecting your energy, becoming your best self, confidence, empowerment, healing, glow up

    16 min

  2. 11/08/2025

    The Real Reason Women Don’t Feel Instant Attraction To Men

    Why don’t women feel instant attraction to men the way men often do? In this episode, I reveal the science and psychology behind responsive desire vs. spontaneous desire, and why female attraction usually builds over time. We’ll explore how safety, trust, emotional connection, and personality shape women’s attraction to menand why this “slow burn” can lead to deeper, more lasting relationships. Whether you’re a woman who’s never experienced love at first sight, or a man who’s confused by female dating patterns, this episode breaks down the real differences in how men and women experience chemistry. Keywords: women’s attraction, female desire, responsive desire, spontaneous desire, dating psychology, attraction differences, how women fall in love, slow burn attraction, love at first sight myth.

    11 min

  3. 10/08/2025

    How I Manage My Anxious Attachment

    Anxious attachment doesn’t need “curing”—it needs a system. In this episode I share exactly how I manage dating anxiety with boundaries that actually stick: reassurance on a schedule, space without stories, and standards over sparks. You’ll hear my calm-down routine for overthinking and texting anxiety (self-soothing, emotional regulation, nervous system resets), the green flags I filter for (consistency, clarity, secure attachment energy). If you’re tired of chasing bare minimum and want healthy relationships without abandoning your needs, this is your playbook. Keywords: anxious attachment, attachment styles, dating anxiety, boundaries, self-soothing, emotional regulation, secure attachment, overthinking, texting anxiety, reassurance, attachment theory, nervous system regulation, healthy relationships.

    12 min

  4. 09/08/2025

    My Unfiltered Thoughts on Men and the Red Flags I Look Out For

    In this unfiltered episode, I’m sharing the real red flags I look out for in men — and why ignoring them will cost you your self-respect. From emotional immaturity to control issues, I talk about the behaviours that reveal someone’s true character, even when they try to hide it. We’ll cover why women need to stay independent from men, the subtle warning signs of toxic relationships, and how to stop lying to yourself when you see patterns that don’t sit right. If you’ve ever fallen for potential instead of reality, this is your wake-up call. Keywords: red flags in men, dating red flags, toxic relationship signs, avoidant men, emotionally unavailable, relationship advice, self-respect, self-worth, female empowerment, independence for women, healthy boundaries, dating tips, signs of manipulation, relationship psychology, personal growth

    13 min

  5. 08/08/2025

    Peace Feels Like Boredom

    If you’ve ever thought “Why does my life feel so dull lately?”, this episode is for you. The truth is, it might not be boredom at all. It might be peace. But when you’ve spent years living in emotional chaos, survival mode, or constant drama… calm feels empty. In this episode, I’m talking about how healing rewires your nervous system, why stillness feels uncomfortable at first, and how to stop mistaking peace for a problem.

    10 min

  6. 07/08/2025

    What No One Tells You About Self-Love

    Self-love isn’t always pretty. It’s not just skincare routines and positive affirmations; it’s crying on the floor after setting boundaries, it’s walking away from someone you thought you couldn’t live without, and it’s learning how to choose yourself even when it hurts. In this episode, I’m sharing the truth about self-love that no one talks about, including my own story of losing myself for a boy, and how I spent an entire summer rebuilding the relationship I had with myself. We’ll talk about boundaries, habits, hygiene, and how self-love isn’t something you feel, it’s something you practice.

    11 min

  7. 06/08/2025

    Everything You Need to Know About Attachment Styles (Backed by Science)

    Ever wondered why you chase emotionally unavailable people? Or why you push people away even when you crave connection? In this episode, we break down everything you need to know about attachment styles, using real psychology. Learn how your early experiences shape your relationships, the difference between anxious, avoidant, disorganized, and secure attachment, and how to move toward healthier connection patterns. Whether you’re healing from heartbreak or trying to break toxic cycles, this episode gives you the science-backed tools to finally understand yourself. Keywords: • attachment styles • anxious attachment • avoidant attachment • disorganized attachment • secure attachment • relationship psychology • childhood trauma • healing attachment wounds • emotional intimacy • why we attract toxic partners • nervous system + relationships • science of love • attachment theory explained • psychology of love • inner child healing

    12 min

  8. 05/08/2025

    The Importance of Forgiveness: How Letting Go Sets You Free

    In this episode, we dive deep into the real meaning of forgiveness and why it’s not about excusing what they did, but freeing yourself from the weight of it. If you’ve ever held onto pain because it felt like justice, this conversation will shift your perspective. Learn how forgiveness isn’t about weakness. It’s about reclaiming your peace, your power, and your emotional clarity. Letting go isn’t about them. It’s about choosing you. Keywords: ​ forgiveness​ emotional healing​ letting go​ inner peace​ how to forgive​ trauma recovery​ healing from the past​ self-forgiveness​ mental clarity​ personal growth

    9 min
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Hello, my name is Natasha Bellefort and I’ve created this podcast based on how I dealt with my real life experiences and struggles. I want my audience to feel connected to me, and I want those who have grown up in turmoil to understand that they can still choose to have a fulfilling and healthy life. However, I also want to connect to all women and anyone in general as everybody goes through hardships. I’ve been told my friends that I am great at giving advice, and so this podcast will be like the voice messages I send my best friends. Thank you so much for listening.

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  • Creator
    Natasha Bellefort
  • Years Active
    2K
  • Episodes
    27
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Natasha Bellefort
  • Show Website
    Becoming Her Anyways