Friend Forward

Danielle Bayard Jackson | Female Friendship Expert
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This is a podcast for modern women looking to understand the complexities of female friendship. Hosted by Danielle Bayard Jackson --female friendship coach and educator-- Friend Forward provides research, strategies, and tough-love truth to answer your questions about how to navigate relationships with other women. Tune in every week for new insights about how to create and maintain better female friendships. (And in between episodes, follow along on TikTok at @thefriendshipexpert or IG @daniellebayardjackson)

  1. 1일 전

    The grief of outgrowing a friendship because of misaligned values, with Gina Moffa

    She's the same person you've loved for years… until suddenly she isn't. Maybe it was a comment that stopped you cold, or the slow realization that the worldview you thought you shared has been cracking underneath you for a while. How do you stay connected when you can no longer relate? Danielle sits down with therapist and author Gina Moffa to talk about what happens when a friendship splits over values– not just opinions, but matters of principles and identity. 🎧 BUT WAIT… THERE'S MORE. This week's bonus content for Office Hours members includes an extended version of this episode (12 additional minutes of content!), including strategies Gina provided to help you navigate a friendship that dissolved because of split values. You’ll also enjoy a coaching exercise Danielle personally uses with clients to help you identify the gap between your lived values and your ideal values, and position yourself to attract friendships that actually align. Members of Office Hours get supplementary material like this with every episode to deepen their friendships. Join anytime (and get your first 2 weeks free) at: https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/office-hours. TOPICS IN THIS EPISODE: Why perceived similarity matters more to friendship quality than actual similarityValues vs. opinions: how to tell the difference and why it changes everythingRepetition compulsion and why we sometimes seek familiarity over safetyThe grief of losing a friend who's still alive but no longer recognizableHow to decide whether to stay, speak up, or step away ABOUT GINA MOFFA Gina Moffa is a licensed psychotherapist, grief and trauma specialist, and author of Moving On Doesn't Mean Letting Go: A Modern Guide to Navigating Loss. Based in New York City with nearly two decades of clinical experience, she specializes in helping people navigate grief, loss, and life transitions. She is currently writing her next book on friendship breakups. CONNECT WITH GINA: Website: https://ginamoffa.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/ginamoffalcsw/Book, Moving On Doesn't Mean Letting Go: https://www.hachettebookgroup.com/titles/gina-moffa-lcsw/moving-on-doesnt-mean-letting-go/9781538740675/Grief Coaching: https://www.ginamoffacoaching.com 📚 EPISODE RESOURCES & REFERENCES: "Similarity in Relationships as Niche Construction" — the study on 1,523 pairs of friends showing that value similarity matters most in early friendship formation: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/26828831/Gina Moffa, Moving On Doesn't Mean Letting Go: A Modern Guide to Navigating Loss: https://www.hachettebookgroup.com/titles/gina-moffa-lcsw/moving-on-doesnt-mean-letting-go/9781538740675/Danielle Bayard Jackson, Fighting for Our Friendships: https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/book 🎙️ GET FEATURED ON THE PODCAST Have a friendship question, hot take, or personal story you want featured? Send a voice note via Instagram DMs @friendforward or email a voice note or video to hello@betterfemalefriendships.com. WORK WITH DANIELLE BAYARD JACKSON: Join Office Hours for bonus content and community → https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/office-hoursJoin the Friendship Elevated Fall 2026 Waitlist → https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/friendship-elevated-waitlistCheck out more connection resources → https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/resources FOLLOW DANIELLE BAYARD JACKSON: Get the book "Fighting for our Friendships" → https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/bookFollow on Instagram → https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/instagramFollow on TikTok → https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/tiktokLearn more about Danielle → https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/website 🗣️ BOOK DANIELLE TO SPEAK Looking for a speaker on women's cooperation, communication, and conflict? Send your inquiry to info@tellpublicrelations.com.

    23분

  2. 4월 30일

    4 things I no longer believe about friendship (because learning THIS research changed my mind)

    You've probably had at least one friendship belief you were sure about… until life proved you wrong. Maybe it was the idea that your two best friends are all you need, or that men just "do friendship better," or that conflict is the beginning of the end. These beliefs feel true until they don't. In this solo episode, Danielle gets personal about the friendship beliefs she once held that have completely shifted since doing this work. She pulls from the research, her own relationships, and nearly a decade of studying women's relational patterns to explain why some of our most popular ideas about friendship are actually keeping us stuck, and what to believe instead. 🎧 BUT WAIT… THERE'S MORE. This week in Office Hours, Danielle shares TWO additional friendship beliefs that have evolved for her as a result of doing this work. You'll also get this month's Gathering Kit: a step-by-step activity so you can host your people in a low-cost, low-key way. Members of Office Hours get supplementary material like this with every episode to deepen their friendships. Join anytime at: https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/office-hours. TOPICS IN THIS EPISODE: What the research actually says about only needing "your two besties"Why men's friendships seem “easier”What happens to friendships on the other side of conflictThe case for not inviting everyone to everything 📚 EPISODE RESOURCES & REFERENCES: Priya Parker, The Art of Gathering: How We Meet and Why It Matters: https://www.amazon.com/Art-Gathering-How-Meet-Matters/dp/1594634920Charles Vogl, The Art of Community: Seven Principles for Belonging: https://www.amazon.com/Art-Community-Seven-Principles-Belonging/dp/1626568413"Ghosting and Destiny: Implicit Theories of Relationships Predict Beliefs About Ghosting": https://gilifreedman.com/Ghosting.pdf 🎙️ GET FEATURED ON THE PODCAST Have a friendship question, hot take, or personal story you want featured? Send a voice note via Instagram DMs @friendforward or email a voice note or video to hello@betterfemalefriendships.com. WORK WITH DANIELLE BAYARD JACKSON: Join Office Hours for bonus content and community → https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/office-hoursJoin the Friendship Elevated Fall 2026 Waitlist → https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/friendship-elevated-waitlistCheck out more connection resources → https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/resources FOLLOW DANIELLE BAYARD JACKSON: Get the book "Fighting for our Friendships" → https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/bookFollow on Instagram → https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/instagramFollow on TikTok → https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/tiktokLearn more about Danielle → https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/website 🗣️ BOOK DANIELLE TO SPEAK Looking for a speaker on women's cooperation, communication, and conflict? Send your inquiry to info@tellpublicrelations.com.

    23분

  3. 4월 23일

    Why some women rush platonic intimacy in new friendships, with Minaa B.

    You finally meet someone you click with. You've got things in common, the conversation flows, and suddenly you're ready to tell her everything. But that hunger for closeness in a new friendship can actually push people away before the relationship has a chance to build. In this episode, Danielle sits down with therapist and author Minaa B. to explore why so many women rush platonic intimacy, what happens when a new friend doesn't match your energy, and how early sibling dynamics can subtly fuel competition and scarcity in adult friendships. Minaa also shares what it actually takes to break the pattern, starting with the self-worth work most of us skip. 🎧 BUT WAIT… THERE'S MORE. This week's bonus content for Office Hours members includes three original exercises to help you adopt a healthier pace in friendship, created by Danielle herself, plus bonus content from Minaa B. explaining how platonic intimacy can look different from friendship to friendship. Members of Office Hours get supplementary material like this with every episode to deepen their friendships. Join anytime at: https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/office-hours. TOPICS IN THIS EPISODE: What oversharing (unintentionally) signals to othersWhy some women don’t “match energy” right awayHow sibling competition and scarcity show up in adult friendshipsWhy the sitcom fairy tale of friendship and why it sets you up for disappointmentThe secret to taking it slow moving forward ABOUT MINAA B. Minaa B. is a licensed social worker, therapist, and author of Owning Our Struggles: A Path to Healing and Finding Community in a Broken World. She created The Siblinghood Theory, a framework for understanding how sibling and peer relationships shape adult connection, belonging, and conflict. CONNECT WITH MINAA B.: Podcast, "This Feels Familiar:" https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/this-feels-familiar-with-minaa-b/id1726002567Book, Owning Our Struggles: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/707127/owning-our-struggles-by-minaa-b-lmsw/The Siblinghood Theory: https://www.minaab.com/the-siblinghood-theoryInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/minaa_b/Website: https://www.minaab.com 📚 EPISODE RESOURCES & REFERENCES: Minaa B., Owning Our Struggles: A Path to Healing and Finding Community in a Broken World: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/707127/owning-our-struggles-by-minaa-b-lmsw/ 🎙️ GET FEATURED ON THE PODCAST Have a friendship question, hot take, or personal story you want featured? Send a voice note via Instagram DMs @friendforward or email a voice note or video to hello@betterfemalefriendships.com. WORK WITH DANIELLE BAYARD JACKSON: Join Office Hours for bonus content and community → https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/office-hoursJoin the Friendship Elevated Fall 2026 Waitlist → https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/friendship-elevated-waitlistCheck out more connection resources → https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/resources FOLLOW DANIELLE BAYARD JACKSON: Get the book "Fighting for our Friendships" → https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/bookFollow on Instagram → https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/instagramFollow on TikTok → https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/tiktokLearn more about Danielle → https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/website 🗣️ BOOK DANIELLE TO SPEAK Looking for a speaker on women's cooperation, communication, and conflict? Send your inquiry to info@tellpublicrelations.com.

    21분

  4. 4월 16일

    I asked women with a lot of friends to share their "social secrets". Here's what they said.

    You know those women who seem to make friends everywhere they go? Have you ever wondered how they draw people to them so easily? When Danielle asked her audience about their "social secrets" , more than 500 women responded-- and the patterns were hard to ignore. In this solo episode, Danielle breaks down six themes that came up over and over again from women who have built large, joyful friendship networks. From the role of proactive initiation to the identity shifts that make connection feel natural, these mindset tips and habits will change your friendships. 🎧 JOIN US FOR BONUS CONTENT IN OFFICE HOURS Want to go deeper into this work? Members of our Office Hours community get access to bonus material for this episode, including a set of reflection questions to evaluate how your ambition may be impacting your friendships, plus scripts for making new friends when you tend to lead with your accomplishments. Join anytime at: https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/office-hours. TOPICS IN THIS EPISODE: They initiate first, and don't keep scoreThey keep expectations low, especially with new and outer-circle friendsThey categorize their friends by context instead of lumping everyone togetherThey have relational diversity, and the research says that makes them happierThey show up authentically, even if it turns some people offThey stay deeply curious about other peopleThey own their role as the initiator or the planner: identity over willpower 📚 EPISODE RESOURCES & REFERENCES: Magic Words by Jonah Berger: how identity-based language (nouns vs. verbs) drives behavior: https://www.amazon.com/Magic-Words-Jonah-Berger/dp/0063204932 🎙️ GET FEATURED ON THE PODCAST Have a friendship question, hot take, or personal story you want featured? Send a voice note via Instagram DMs @friendforward or email a voice note or video to hello@betterfemalefriendships.com. WORK WITH DANIELLE: Join Office Hours for bonus content and community → https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/office-hoursJoin the Friendship Elevated Fall 2026 Waitlist → https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/friendship-elevated-waitlistCheck out more connection resources → https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/resources FOLLOW DANIELLE: Get the book "Fighting for our Friendships" → https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/bookFollow on Instagram → https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/instagramFollow on TikTok → https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/tiktokLearn more about Danielle → https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/website 🗣️ BOOK DANIELLE TO SPEAK Looking for a speaker on women's cooperation, communication, and conflict? Send your inquiry to info@tellpublicrelations.com.

    18분

  5. 4월 9일

    Venting, co-rumination, and trauma dumping: what's the difference and where do we draw the line?

    Venting used to just be what friends did. Now it feels like a social minefield; and we can't seem to agree on whether it's a sign of closeness or a boundary violation. You've probably caught yourself mid-vent wondering, am I being too much right now? Or maybe you're on the other side, nodding along while silently drowning in your friend's update about her boss for the fourth time this month. Danielle sits down with licensed therapist Amanda White, the voice behind @therapyforwomen and co-host of the Nuance Needed podcast, to break down what's actually happening when we vent, when it tips into co-rumination or trauma dumping, and why we've gotten so weird about a friendship behavior that used to be second nature. If you've ever wondered whether you're allowed to bring your hard stuff to your friends anymore, this one's for you. 🎧 JOIN US FOR BONUS CONTENT IN OFFICE HOURS Want to go deeper into this work? Members of our Office Hours community get access to bonus material for this episode, including a set of reflection questions to evaluate how your ambition may be impacting your friendships, plus scripts for making new friends when you tend to lead with your accomplishments. Join anytime at: https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/office-hours. TOPICS IN THIS EPISODE: Venting vs. co-rumination vs. trauma dumping: what's actually differentWhy venting doesn't reduce anger but still strengthens friendshipsHow our shrinking tolerance for discomfort is eroding connectionThe "catch-up loop": when seeing friends rarely turns every hangout into a vent sessionThe anti-venting and anti-gossip overlap, and why both have historically protected womenWhy you can't hold space for a friend if you can't sit with your own hard feelingsWhat both the chronic venter and the vent-avoider need to hear ABOUT AMANDA Amanda E. White is a licensed therapist, bestselling author of Not Drinking Tonight, and the founder of Therapy for Women Center. She is the creator of the popular Instagram account @therapyforwomen (463K+ followers) and co-host of the podcast Nuance Needed with Sam Dalton. Amanda's work challenges quick-fix mental health culture and explores the messy gray areas most content creators avoid. CONNECT WITH AMANDA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therapyforwomen/Podcast, Nuance Needed: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/nuance-needed/id1769274006Substack, Nuance Needed: https://nuanceneeded.substack.com/Website: https://amandaewhite.comTherapy for Women Center: https://therapyforwomencenter.com 📚 EPISODE RESOURCES & REFERENCES: Julie Beck, "The Common Friendship Behavior That Has Become Strangely Fraught" (The Atlantic, January 2026): https://www.theatlantic.com/family/2026/01/venting-complaining-advice/685529/Kjærvik & Bushman (2024), "A meta-analytic review of anger management activities that increase or decrease arousal: What fuels or douses rage?" — Clinical Psychology Review: https://news.osu.edu/breathe-dont-vent-turning-down-the-heat-is-key-to-managing-anger/The Gottman Institute on the 5:1 "Magic Ratio:" https://www.gottman.com/blog/the-magic-relationship-ratio-according-science/ 🎙️ GET FEATURED ON THE PODCAST Have a friendship question, hot take, or personal story you want featured? Send a voice note via Instagram DMs @friendforward or email a voice note or video to hello@betterfemalefriendships.com. WORK WITH DANIELLE: Join Office Hours for bonus content and community → https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/office-hoursJoin the Friendship Elevated Fall 2026 Waitlist → https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/friendship-elevated-waitlistCheck out more connection resources → https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/resources FOLLOW DANIELLE: Get the book "Fighting for our Friendships" → https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/bookFollow on Instagram → https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/instagramFollow on TikTok → https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/tiktokLearn more about Danielle → https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/website 🗣️ BOOK DANIELLE TO SPEAK Looking for a speaker on women's cooperation, communication, and conflict? Send your inquiry to info@tellpublicrelations.com.

    27분

  6. 4월 2일

    When ambition makes friendship harder: how high-achieving women can bridge the gap between success and connection

    You're driven, you're accomplished, and you've got no shortage of people in your life. So why do your closest friendships still feel like something's missing? In this episode, Danielle sits down with executive coach Monique R. Shields to unpack the ways ambition can quietly erode the depth and quality of women's friendships, even when your social calendar is full. Together, they explore three areas where high-achieving tendencies show up in our platonic relationships: vulnerability (and how self-reliance can block intimacy), identity (and the trap of leading with your "utility" in friendships), and presence (and why getting still with a friend feels so uncomfortable when you're wired to always be doing). Monique also shares a practical reframe for the woman who wants deeper connection but doesn't know where to start. 🎧 JOIN US FOR BONUS CONTENT IN OFFICE HOURS Want to go deeper into this work? Members of our Office Hours community get access to bonus material for this episode, including a set of reflection questions to evaluate how your ambition may be impacting your friendships, plus scripts for making new friends when you tend to lead with your accomplishments. Join anytime at: https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/office-hours. TOPICS IN THIS EPISODE: The self-reliance that fuels professional success can quietly block the vulnerability friendships actually needHigh-achieving women often know plenty of people but still feel unseen — because their relationships are built around utility, not intimacyLeading with your "achiever identity" trains people to see you as the strong one, then you resent them for itStillness with a friend feels impossible when you can't even get still with yourselfMonique's reframe: if being relied on brings you joy, you might be robbing your friends of that same joy by never letting them in ABOUT MONIQUE Monique R. Shields is an executive coach and host of the Ambition Without Compromise podcast. She works with high-capacity women of color CEOs and leaders, navigating what comes after achievement. Trained in Co-Active coaching with experience at Stanford GSB and UC Berkeley Haas, she brings nearly a decade of leadership development to the conversation. CONNECT WITH MONIQUE: Learn more about Monique's program CLAIMED: a private coaching accelerator for accomplished women leaders who are ready to grow beyond corporate or institutional success and build the visibility, thought leadership, income, and self-trust to shape their next career chapter on their own terms. Cohorts open 2x/year. Join the interest list to learn more about the June cohort here.Podcast, “Ambition Without Compromise:” https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ambition-without-compromise/id1678404545YouTube: https://youtube.com/@moniquershields?si=FvD-3GH13ACy1BhnInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/moniquershields/Website: https://moniquershields.com 📚 EPISODE RESOURCES & REFERENCES: Trevor Noah on “liming: https://www.youtube.com/shorts/hNZSSRe4rlw 🎙️ GET FEATURED ON THE PODCAST Have a friendship question, hot take, or personal story you want featured? Send a voice note via Instagram DMs @friendforward or email a voice note or video to hello@betterfemalefriendships.com. WORK WITH DANIELLE: Join Office Hours for bonus content and community → https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/office-hoursJoin the Friendship Elevated Fall 2026 Waitlist → https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/friendship-elevated-waitlistCheck out more connection resources → https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/resources FOLLOW DANIELLE: Get the book "Fighting for our Friendships" → https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/bookFollow on Instagram → https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/instagramFollow on TikTok → https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/tiktokLearn more about Danielle → https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/website 🗣️ BOOK DANIELLE TO SPEAK Looking for a speaker on women's cooperation, communication, and conflict? Send your inquiry to info@tellpublicrelations.com.

    26분

  7. 3월 26일

    Why making friends in your 30s feels impossible (and how you can make it happen anyway)

    Why does friend-making feel especially challenging in our 30s? In this episode, host and friendship expert Danielle Bayard Jackson explores the unique challenges women face when making new friends in their 30s, offering practical strategies tailored to busy, depleted women. Drawing on recent research and personal insights, she shares: 4 unique challenges of this particular decadefriend-making strategies from other listeners3 evidence-based ways to attract new friends (when you're short on time and energy) JOIN OFFICE HOURS AND GET *MORE* Members of our private $9 Office Hours community will receive bonus material, including a "gathering kit" to help you host a lowkey gathering for new friends you're meeting in your 30s. NEW: On Thursday, March 26, members can join our fireside chat with former NYT "friendship correspondent" Anna Goldfarb, author of the book Modern Friendship. Talk at 1:00pm EST. Learn 4 strategies for maintaining friendships as a tired woman. Join now (with a free trial!) to attend. Join NOW for a 14 FREE TRIAL!!!!! https://www.betterfemalefriendships.com/podcast GET DANIELLE'S BOOK Grab your copy of Fighting for our Friendships: The Science and Art of Conflict and Connection in Women's Relationships. Want to see other (fiction) friendship books releasing this spring? Check-out our latest roundup at betterfemalefriendships.com/articles. INVITE DANIELLE TO SPEAK AT YOUR EVENT If you're looking for a speaker to share the research about women's cooperation, communication, and conflict, invite Danielle Bayard Jackson for your event. Learn more about her work, experience, and services at daniellebayardjackson.com. Then send your speaking inquiry to info@tellpublicrelations.com today.

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  8. 3월 20일

    Why you feel anxious about inviting people over (and how to fix it) with Ashlee Gadd, Author and Founder of Coffee and Crumbs and Friendship expert Danielle Bayard Jackson

    You want to host more often, but you're anxious about having people over. Why? (And how do you fix it?) In this interview with Ashlee Gadd, founder of Coffee and Crumbs and co-author of You're In Good Company: The Gift of Friendship, Motherhood, and Showing Up, you'll learn: 3 common fears about hosting in your home (and how to get over them)2 ideas for lowkey gatheringshow to bridge the gap between Pinterest-worthy hangs and pajama-themed get-togethers JOIN OFFICE HOURS AND GET *MORE* Members of our private $9 Office Hours community will receive bonus material (6 extra minutes!) from this episode, a bonus "lowkey hang" idea, and an excerpt from Ashlee's book. Join NOW for a 14 FREE TRIAL!!!!! https://www.betterfemalefriendships.com/podcast GET ASHLEE'S BOOK Get Ashlee's book "You're in Good Company" here: https://www.coffeeandcrumbs.net/book/ INVITE DANIELLE TO SPEAK AT YOUR EVENT If you're looking for a speaker to share the research about women's cooperation, communication, and conflict, invite Danielle Bayard Jackson for your event. Learn more about her work, experience, and services at daniellebayardjackson.com. Then send your speaking inquiry to info@tellpublicrelations.com today.

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This is a podcast for modern women looking to understand the complexities of female friendship. Hosted by Danielle Bayard Jackson --female friendship coach and educator-- Friend Forward provides research, strategies, and tough-love truth to answer your questions about how to navigate relationships with other women. Tune in every week for new insights about how to create and maintain better female friendships. (And in between episodes, follow along on TikTok at @thefriendshipexpert or IG @daniellebayardjackson)

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    Danielle Bayard Jackson | Female Friendship Expert
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