Yes, I Can!

Betty Fotofili
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Yes, I Can is a podcast for conscious women who want to feel safer, calmer, and more confident in themselves. Hosted by Betty Fotofili, confidence coach, solo mum by choice, and somatic guide. The show is about transforming your “I can’t” into a Yes, I Can that’s fully felt in your body. Through real conversations with solo parents, therapists, and inspiring voices, you'll hear stories, tools, and insights to trust yourself, create safety in your body, and create a life that supports you, and feel steady in every choice.

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  1. It Was Easier Alone | Solo Dad by Choice, Surrogacy & Solo Parenthood

    3월 24일

    It Was Easier Alone | Solo Dad by Choice, Surrogacy & Solo Parenthood

    In this episode, I sit down with a solo dad by choice who said something that completely stopped me: “It was easier having a baby on my own than with my ex-partner.” And I thought… wait, what? We go deep into his surrogacy journey, what it’s really like to become a parent on your own, and why every path to parenthood has its own version of hard. This is such an honest conversation about: ✨the emotional reality of surrogacy✨miscarriage and resilience✨solo parenting vs co-parenting✨and why your why matters more than anything If you’re on this path, or even just questioning what’s possible for you, this episode will open your perspective and ground you at the same time. There is more than one way to create a family, and you get to choose yours. Andy helps guide others through the surrogacy journey and also runs several creative and business projects: Surrogacy info: https://www.surroguide.com Virtual Assistant agency: https://www.jimbaru.com Storytelling events: https://www.thisistotallyfucked.com Acting and voice over: https://www.andyleonard.com.au Gin distillery: https://www.moonshiner.com.au If this episode resonates, share it with someone who needs to hear that their dream is still possible 💛 If you’re navigating solo motherhood or a big life decision, this work is about coming home to your body, regulating your nervous system, and leading from the heart instead of fear.Because real confidence doesn’t come from pushing through.It comes from feeling safe inside yourself. If you’d like support on your own journey, I offer 1:1 confidence coaching for women navigating the identity shift of solo motherhood and big life transitions. You’re welcome to reach out or simply stay connected for future episodes and reflections. Connect with me: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/betty.fotofili 🎥 Watch this episode on YouTube (Magnetic Mama):https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCozlsyVMAvr_D-lK9crRDOQ #SoloMotherhood #surrogacyaustralia #soloparenting#SoloMumByChoice #solodadbychoice #YesICan #FertilityJourney #InfertilityAwareness #IVFJourney #DonorConception #WomensStories #PodcastForWomen. #NervousSystemRegulation #SafetyInTheBody #EmbodiedConfidence #SlowDownToHeal #MindBodyConnection #EFT #RegulateYourNervousSystem #nervoussystemregulation

    1시간 9분
  2. She Said YES to Carrying Their Baby| Surrogacy Story + Solo Motherhood Options

    3월 20일

    She Said YES to Carrying Their Baby| Surrogacy Story + Solo Motherhood Options

    In this powerful episode of Yes I Can, Betty speaks with Laura Simmons a surrogate, board member of Surrogacy Australia, and mum of two who shares her deeply emotional journey of carrying a baby for close friends. This conversation is a reminder that there is more than one way to have your baby. If you’re a woman exploring solo motherhood, fertility options, or feeling uncertain about your path to becoming a mum, this episode will open your heart to what’s truly possible. Inside this episode, we explore: What surrogacy in Australia really looks like How Laura went from saying “no” to saying “yes” to carrying a baby The emotional and physical realities of pregnancy as a surrogate Nervous system regulation during pregnancy and why your body’s state matters How stress in the mother can impact the baby (including cortisol and nervous system imprinting) The grieving process after birth, and how to safely process it Why there is no “one right way” to become a parent Whether you’re considering IVF, donor conception, surrogacy, or becoming a solo mum by choice, this episode will help you feel more grounded, informed, and supported in your journey. ✨ Your baby can arrive in many different ways. ✨ Your body deserves to feel safe along the way. If this episode resonates, share it with someone who needs to hear that their dream is still possible 💛 If you’re navigating solo motherhood, or any big life decision, this conversation is about coming home to your body, regulating your nervous system, and leading from the heart instead of fear. Because real confidence doesn’t come from pushing through. It comes from feeling safe inside yourself. If this episode resonated and you’d like support on your own journey, whether that’s confidence, decision-making, or feeling more regulated in your body, I offer 1:1 confidence coaching for women navigating the identity shift of solo motherhood and big life transitions. You’re welcome to reach out, connect, or simply follow along for future episodes and reflections. Connect with me, Betty: https://www.instagram.com/betty.fotofili X Betty 📌 Subscribe to Yes I Can on YouTube @ Magnetic Mama for future conversations that support embodied confidence, self-trust, and aligned motherhood choices. 🎥 You can also watch this full episode on YouTube subscribe to Magnetic Mama here: YouTube link: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCozlsyVMAvr_D-lK9crRDOQ If you would like to connect with Laura direct she is more than happy to help with any questions of Surrogacy or with introducing more balance and calm in your life with water wellness ✨ Laura’s instagram below. @ https://www.instagram.com/laurasymmo?igsh=anhtdDljMnQ0NWQz. Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lausymmonds Here is a link to Surracy Australia for more information https://www.surrogacyaustralia.org/

    52분
  3. Abundance Starts Within: The Energy of Already Having It

    3월 11일

    Abundance Starts Within: The Energy of Already Having It

    What if the thing you desire isn’t created by chasing it… but by becoming the version of you who already has it? In this episode, I talk about the subtle but powerful shift between focusing on the outcome and embodying the energy of already having it. When we fixate on the outcome, we often create pressure, urgency, and a feeling that something is missing. But when we shift into the energy of abundance -the feeling of “it’s already happening for me,” our nervous system relaxes, our decisions change, and we begin to move through life from a completely different place. This episode explores how your internal state shapes your external reality, and how learning to feel safe in the energy of having what you want can change the way you create, receive, and move forward. If you've ever felt like you're pushing, forcing, or trying to control outcomes… this conversation will help you soften into trust and alignment instead. If this episode resonated and you’d like support on your own journey, whether that’s confidence, decision-making, or feeling more regulated in your body, I offer 1:1 confidence coaching for women navigating the identity shift of solo motherhood and big life transitions. You’re welcome to reach out, connect, or simply follow along for future episodes and reflections. Here is the worksheet: ⁠https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vhNZHVxzHAzDalLdMWNltzjzfYJ-kMo5i7BPXCXkLDk/copy⁠ Connect with me, Betty: https://www.instagram.com/betty.fotofili X Betty 📌 Subscribe to Yes I Can on YouTube @ Magnetic Mama for future conversations that support embodied confidence, self-trust, and aligned motherhood choices. 🎥 You can also watch this full episode on YouTube, subscribe to Magnetic Mama here: YouTube link: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCozlsyVMAvr_D-lK9crRDOQ #SoloMotherhood #SoloMumByChoice #YesICan #FertilityJourney #InfertilityAwareness #IVFJourney #DonorConception #WomensStories #PodcastForWomen. #NervousSystemRegulation #SafetyInTheBody #EmbodiedConfidence #SlowDownToHeal #MindBodyConnection #EFT #RegulateYourNervousSystem #nervoussystemregulation

    14분
  4. From Mindset to Nervous System Safety: My Solo Motherhood Story

    3월 3일

    From Mindset to Nervous System Safety: My Solo Motherhood Story

    In this episode, I’m on the other side of the microphone. We talk about my journey to becoming a solo mum by choice, but more importantly, we talk about what was happening underneath the surface. From looking confident… to realising I was actually dissociating. From “mindset, mindset, mindset” to understanding that confidence is really about nervous system safety. We dive into: ✨ Why mindset alone isn’t enough ✨How childhood patterns show up in motherhood ✨What triggers are really teaching us ✨Why affirmations don’t work without embodiment ✨The power of asking for help ✨And how something as simple as finishing your cup of tea can rewire your brain If you’re navigating solo motherhood, or any big life decision, this conversation is about coming home to your body, regulating your nervous system, and leading from the heart instead of fear. Because real confidence doesn’t come from pushing through. It comes from feeling safe inside yourself. If this episode resonated and you’d like support on your own journey, whether that’s confidence, decision-making, or feeling more regulated in your body, I offer 1:1 confidence coaching for women navigating the identity shift of solo motherhood and big life transitions. You’re welcome to reach out, connect, or simply follow along for future episodes and reflections. X Betty Connect with me, Betty: https://www.instagram.com/betty.fotofili 📌 Subscribe to Yes I Can on YouTube @ Magnetic Mama for future conversations that support embodied confidence, self-trust, and aligned motherhood choices. Also, Lorena's the interviewee has a book that is officially launching on May 16th, 2026. See her links below to get yourself a copy 🎥 You can also watch this full episode on YouTube, subscribe to Magnetic Mama here: YouTube link: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCozlsyVMAvr_D-lK9crRDOQ 🔗 Find Lorena + her book here: Lorena’s website / book links: https://www.lorenaotes.com.au/ Lorena on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lorenaotes?igsh=MXFwcWw3bmM3Z2JhZA== ✨ Lorena’s instagram below. @lorenaoates #SoloMotherhood #SoloMumByChoice #YesICan #FertilityJourney #InfertilityAwareness #IVFJourney #DonorConception #WomensStories #PodcastForWomen. #NervousSystemRegulation #SafetyInTheBody #EmbodiedConfidence #SlowDownToHeal #MindBodyConnection #EFT#RegulateYourNervousSystem #nervoussystemregulation

    1시간 19분
  5. Author of “Solo Mum by Choice” Anything is possible even as a Solo Mum

    2월 17일

    Author of “Solo Mum by Choice” Anything is possible even as a Solo Mum

    So many people dream of writing a book… and very few actually do it. In this episode, I’m sitting down with Lorena Oates, a Solo Mum by Choice and soon-to-be published author of her memoir “Solo Mum by Choice” (releasing May 16, 2026). We talk about the real story behind the book - writing it while living it, the long road to motherhood, and the inner strength it takes to keep going when the outcome is unknown. In this conversation, we cover: ✨Why Lorena started writing during the early stages of IVF (and why it was cathartic) ✨The emotional reality of multiple rounds and taking breaks when it became too much ✨Independence, asking for help, and the unique pressure solo mums can feel ✨Regulation tools that actually help in the hard moments (movement, tears, creativity, rest) ✨Reframing the “Plan B” narrative, and why Solo Motherhood is not a second-best story ✨Publishing hurdles, imposter syndrome, and what determination can really create. Lorena's book is officially launching on May 16th, 2026. See her links below to get yourself a copy. 🎥 You can also watch this full episode on YouTube Subscribe to Magnetic Mama. YouTube link: https://www.youtube.com/@bettyfotofili333 🔗 Find Lorena + her book here: Lorena’s website / book links: https://www.lorenaotes.com.au/ Lorena on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lorenaotes?igsh=MXFwcWw3bmM3Z2JhZA== Watch on You Tube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCozlsyVMAvr_D-lK9crRDOQ ✨ Lorena’s instagram below: @lorenaoates If this episode resonated and you’d like support on your own journey, whether that’s confidence, decision-making, or feeling more regulated in your body, I offer 1:1 confidence coaching for women navigating the identity shift of solo motherhood and big life transitions. You’re welcome to reach out, connect, or simply follow along for future episodes and reflections. Connect with me, Betty: https://www.instagram.com/betty.fotofili X Betty 📌 Subscribe to Yes I Can on YouTube @ Magnetic Mama for future conversations that support embodied confidence, self-trust, and aligned motherhood choices. #SoloMotherhood #SoloMumByChoice #YesICan #FertilityJourney #InfertilityAwareness #IVFJourney #DonorConception #WomensStories #PodcastForWomen #NervousSystemRegulation #SafetyInTheBody #EmbodiedConfidence #SlowDownToHeal #MindBodyConnection #EFT #RegulateYourNervousSystem #nervoussystemregulation

    1시간 2분
  6. Choosing Solo Motherhood Over Dating + Nervous System Tools for Grounded

    2월 12일

    Choosing Solo Motherhood Over Dating + Nervous System Tools for Grounded

    This conversation honestly felt like I was just sitting at a café with Nicky, having a proper yarn about life, dating, babies… and choosing yourself. Nicky Zachariou is a solo mum by choice to two beautiful boys and a semi-retired pole dance teacher who brings so much grounded wisdom into this chat. We talk about how she consciously chose solo motherhood, and how, even after giving “Mr. Right” one last try, she realised something very clear. When she went on dates, she noticed it. Finding a partner wasn’t her priority. Becoming a mother was. And that clarity shifted everything. But empowerment doesn’t mean it was easy. We speak honestly about the tough moments, the unresourceful thoughts, the “what will people think?” narratives, and the internal stories that can creep in, even when you’re deeply aligned in your choice. What I loved most about this conversation is how aligned we are in our approach to life and motherhood. Nervous system regulation. Grounding. Resourcing yourself instead of outsourcing your worth. Learning how to insource safety. We also talk about something that doesn’t get enough airtime tapping into joy on purpose and the power of pausing. Sometimes the most regulating thing you can do for your nervous system isn’t pushing harder… it’s stopping. Breathing. Letting your body catch up. Allowing moments of joy to recalibrate you. Because when we normalise regulating ourselves when we practise Emotional Freedom Tapping (EFT), pattern interrupting, reframing, embodied grounding, and conscious pauses it doesn’t just change us. Our kids see it. They don’t do what we say. They do what we do. When regulation becomes our baseline, it becomes theirs too. Inside this episode, we explore: ✨Choosing solo motherhood over waiting for the “perfect” partner ✨ Dating while knowing motherhood is your true priority ✨ EFT tapping for anxiety and fear ✨ Nervous system regulation tools for grounding during doubt ✨ The power of pausing instead of pushing ✨ Reframing limiting narratives ✨ Tapping into joy as a nervous system reset ✨ Embodying the example you want your children to inherit This episode is for any woman considering solo motherhood, navigating dating while wanting a baby, or sitting in that in-between space wondering what to choose. It’s real. It’s grounded. It’s empowering. And it’s a beautiful reminder that when we resource ourselves first, everything flows from there. Watch on You Tube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCozlsyVMAvr_D-lK9crRDOQ ✨ Nikki’s instagram below. @iamnikkizac ✨ Connect with me, Betty: https://www.instagram.com/betty.fotofili If this episode resonated and you’d like support on your own journey, whether that’s confidence, decision-making, or feeling more regulated in your body, I offer 1:1 confidence coaching for women navigating the identity shift of solo motherhood and big life transitions. You’re welcome to reach out, connect, or simply follow along for future episodes and reflections. X Betty 📌 Subscribe to Yes I Can on YouTube for future conversations that support embodied confidence, self-trust, and aligned motherhood choices. #SoloMotherhood #SoloMumByChoice #YesICan #FertilityJourney #InfertilityAwareness #IVFJourney #DonorConception #WomensStories #PodcastForWomen. #NervousSystemRegulation#SafetyInTheBody #EmbodiedConfidence #SlowDownToHeal #MindBodyConnection #EFT #RegulateYourNervousSystem #nervoussystemregulation

    52분
  7. The Time Is Now: Endometriosis, Solo Motherhood & Building a Life That Fits

    2월 2일

    The Time Is Now: Endometriosis, Solo Motherhood & Building a Life That Fits

    In this powerful episode of Yes I Can, I’m joined by Sasha Ebern, a solo mum by choice and global business coach, to talk about decisive action, identity shifts, and building a life that truly fits. After being diagnosed with endometriosis at 30, Sasha knew deep in her body that the time to become a mother was now. Following the end of a relationship, she chose to go all-in on solo motherhood without waiting for perfect conditions or external validation. We explore how becoming a mother amplified her clarity especially while she was working in a job she hated, dropping her daughter at daycare, and feeling the deep ache of “there has to be more than this.” When COVID slowed everything down, it became the circuit-breaker she needed to reassess her life, her work, and what she truly wanted. What started as a side business quickly revealed a whole new world of possibility. Within two years, Sasha had built a multi-six-figure business creating freedom, flexibility, and presence for herself and her daughter. We also talk about: • Solo motherhood as a catalyst for growth and clarity • Making bold decisions before fear takes over • Motherhood identity shifts for high-achieving women • Nervous system regulation, flexibility, and self-care (yes, mani-pedis included ✨) • Why solo motherhood can expand your life, not limit it This conversation is a beautiful reminder that when a woman gets honest about her pain, her desires, and her values everything can change. Watch on You Tube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCozlsyVMAvr_D-lK9crRDOQ ✨ Sasha’s links and contact details are below. hello@sashaeburne.com @sashaeburne__ www.sashaeburne.com Connect with me, Betty: https://www.instagram.com/betty.fotofili If this episode resonated and you’d like support on your own journey, whether that’s confidence, decision-making, or feeling more regulated in your body, I offer 1:1 confidence coaching for women navigating the identity shift of solo motherhood and big life transitions. You’re welcome to reach out, connect, or simply follow along for future episodes and reflections. X Betty 📌 Subscribe to Yes I Can on YouTube for future conversations that support embodied confidence, self-trust, and aligned motherhood choices.

    37분
  8. Solo Motherhood from Wholeness | Choosing Motherhood Without a Partner

    1월 22일

    Solo Motherhood from Wholeness | Choosing Motherhood Without a Partner

    Emily is an entrepreneur, property developer, yoga retreat owner in Gili Air, Indonesia, and a solo mum by choice whose journey into motherhood came from empowerment, self-trust, and deep self-honesty. In this episode of Yes I Can, Emily shares how expressing her creative and feminine energy through business and yoga meant she felt fulfilled and whole in her life. At the same time, she recognised that she didn’t have the emotional or energetic capacity to invest in a romantic partnership during that stage and how honouring that truth brought clarity rather than conflict. From that grounded place, solo motherhood felt aligned. Emily also speaks candidly about the emotional reality of the journey. Even when the decision felt right, fear and mental noise still arose. She shares how she learned to meet those moments, when thoughts crowded her mind and consciously move through them with awareness rather than suppression. During COVID, when business slowed and life paused, Emily accepted support from a known donor friend and leaned into the strong community she has built in Gili Air. She reflects on how being held by this network allowed her to step into motherhood feeling supported rather than alone. ✨ In this episode, we explore: Solo motherhood from empowerment and self-trust Processing fear and doubt without bypassing Accepting support from a known donor friend during COVID The role of community and chosen support in motherhood Creative energy, embodiment, and intuitive timing This conversation is for women who want permission to honour their capacity, trust their timing, and choose motherhood from alignment not pressure. #SoloMotherhood #SoloMumByChoice #YesICan #FertilityJourney #InfertilityAwareness #IVFJourney #DonorConception #WomensStories #PodcastForWomen #NervousSystemRegulation #SafetyInTheBody #EmbodiedConfidence #SlowDownToHeal #MindBodyConnection #RegulateYourNervousSystem

    55분
  9. No Period at 34, Told Infertile. How She Became a Solo Mum Anyway

    1월 20일

    No Period at 34, Told Infertile. How She Became a Solo Mum Anyway

    What happens when a woman stops pushing… and creates safety in her body instead? “I was flogging a dead horse flogging my own eggs.” That’s how Gina describes the moment she knew this journey wouldn’t be the easy way and it would still be her way. In this episode of the Yes I Can Podcast, I sit down with Gina, a solo mum by choice, to share her extraordinary journey to motherhood after being told she was infertile at 34, with no periods and hormone levels at zero. Gina knew early on that if she was going to have a baby, it wasn’t going to happen the conventional or comfortable way but she also knew she wasn’t done listening to her inner knowing. Gina learned how medical science could step in where her body no longer cycled naturally. Through hormones and medication, her body was supported to mimic a menstrual cycle, building and shedding a uterine lining, creating the conditions needed for pregnancy even without a natural period. Despite this, repeated attempts in Australia were unsuccessful. Gina made the courageous decision to pause her life, step away from work, and fully commit to her fertility journey overseas. What grounded her during this time wasn’t force or relentless striving it was choosing to slow down and live from a place of internal safety. Gina shares that she did everything she could from a place of presence.She nourished her body deeply, created as much calm as possible, and most importantly (in my opinion) acted as if motherhood was already natural to her. She inhabited the state. In this conversation, Gina shares:✨Being told she was infertile at 34 and what that truly meant✨How science made pregnancy possible without a natural period✨The moment she realised she was “flogging a dead horse” and what shifted✨Why she allowed herself to pause instead of pushing harder✨Choosing donor conception overseas and trusting her inner knowing✨How slowing down created clarity, steadiness, and internal safety Gina reflects that once she stopped pushing and started trusting, the path became clearer not easier, but steadier. Decisions felt more aligned, and her body was finally given the space to respond. #SoloMotherhood #SoloMumByChoice #YesICan #FertilityJourney #InfertilityAwareness #IVFJourney #DonorConception #WomensStories #PodcastForWomen. #NervousSystemRegulation #SafetyInTheBody #EmbodiedConfidence #SlowDownToHeal #MindBodyConnection #RegulateYourNervousSystem

    45분
  10. From Single Shame to Proud Solo

    1월 9일

    From Single Shame to Proud Solo

    In this episode, I share my personal journey from feeling the weight of single shame to embracing proud solo motherhood. I talk honestly about the challenges I faced, the self-doubt, the judgments from others, and the fears of going it alone, and how I found the courage to reclaim my confidence and joy. I open up about the pivotal moments that helped me turn shame into strength and uncertainty into empowerment. From the emotional highs and lows to the lessons learned along the way, I share how I discovered purpose, self-worth, and the power of choosing my own path. Whether you’re thinking about solo motherhood, already navigating it, or simply looking for inspiration to honor your own journey, this episode is here to encourage you, offer guidance, and remind you that you can define your story on your own terms. Tune in and hear how I transformed a journey once weighed down by shame into one of courage, confidence, and empowerment.💛 Betty x

    20분
  11. Rejected for high BMI and age then she proved them wrong

    1월 8일

    Rejected for high BMI and age then she proved them wrong

    In this powerful first episode of Yes, I Can: Betty sits down with Loretta, a registered nurse who became a solo mum by choice at 40, after being rejected due to her age and BMI,  and ultimately proving what is possible. Like many women navigating modern motherhood, Loretta was balancing a demanding nursing career, a full life, and dating, all while quietly holding onto her dream of becoming a mother. For years, she believed that if it didn’t happen by 40, that chapter would be closed forever. Then COVID slowed everything down. That unexpected pause became a turning point, creating space for reflection, truth, and courage. Loretta realised her desire for motherhood hadn’t disappeared. Instead of letting time or statistics decide her future, she chose solo motherhood and began her fertility journey on her own terms. In this episode, Loretta shares: ✨What it’s really like dating and working as a registered nurse while holding a secret baby dream. ✨The devastating first fertility appointment that ended in tears after being told she was only in the 5% chance and that they couldn’t help her. ✨Being rejected because of age and BMI,  and how that moment nearly stopped her. ✨The fears, doubts, and emotional hurdles before choosing solo IVF ✨How slowing down during COVID changed everything ✨The unexpected joy, strength, and fulfilment of becoming a mum at 40 This episode is for any woman asking: ✨Is it too late to become a mother? ✨Can I really do this on my own? ✨Am I still allowed to want this? If you’re navigating fertility challenges, considering solo motherhood, or feeling dismissed by medical systems,  this story will meet you with truth, compassion, and hope. You are not alone. And it may not be too late. 🎧 Listen now and let this episode build belief in your next step. x Betty

    49분
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Yes, I Can is a podcast for conscious women who want to feel safer, calmer, and more confident in themselves. Hosted by Betty Fotofili, confidence coach, solo mum by choice, and somatic guide. The show is about transforming your “I can’t” into a Yes, I Can that’s fully felt in your body. Through real conversations with solo parents, therapists, and inspiring voices, you'll hear stories, tools, and insights to trust yourself, create safety in your body, and create a life that supports you, and feel steady in every choice.

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    Betty Fotofili
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    2026년
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