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Marjorie Broce - Christian Mindset Mentor, Confidence Coach & Inner Healing Guide
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Do you ever feel like you're not enough? Do you find yourself second-guessing your decisions, worrying about what other people think, or trying to earn your worth through performance? What if those struggles aren't the real problem? What if they're simply surface struggles pointing to deeper beliefs about who you are? I'm Marji—a teacher and passionate follower of Jesus who loves helping women uncover lies and replace them with God's truth. For years I lived trapped by insecurity, people-pleasing, and the fear of what others thought of me. I lived with a deep fear of rejection, and it was paralyzing.  Everything began to change when God showed me that I wasn't just struggling with insecurity and rejection—I was believing lies about my identity. As I began replacing those lies with God's truth, I discovered something life-changing: My identity isn't something I have to earn. It's something I already have in Christ. Together each week on Break Free From Insecurity, we'll uncover the lies that keep us stuck, discover what God says is already true about us, and learn to live from our true identity in Christ. We'll explore topics like: • Discovering false identity and true identity • Overcoming insecurity, rejection, and people pleasing • Renewing your mind with God's truth • Hearing God's voice and growing in wisdom • Setting healthy boundaries • Replacing fear, shame, and comparison with confidence rooted in Christ Many of our surface struggles point to deeper core beliefs. Together we'll uncover those beliefs and replace them with God's truth. If you're ready to stop striving, start believing what God says about you, and experience the freedom that comes from living in your true identity, you're in the right place. ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Ranked in the Top 3% of Podcasts Worldwide So grab your coffee, open your heart, and let's discover together who you already are in Christ. I'd love to have you join me. Join our Facebook community: Break Free From Insecurity (Christian Women)   Break Free From Insecurity (Christian Women) Become an Insider and receive my weekly encouraging email and a freebie to help you practice listening to God: https://www.breakfreefrominsecurity.com/insider

  1. 6 days ago

    20. Why You Never Quite Feel Like You Belong: How God Heals the Fear of Feeling Alone

    If you've ever felt like you don't belong, struggled with abandonment, or feared being left, discover how the Father's love gives you the security of knowing you belong in God's family. If you've ever struggled with abandonment issues, the fear of being left, or feeling like you don't belong, this episode is for you. Sometimes the deepest wound isn't that someone left. It's what their leaving taught you to believe. Maybe you've spent years trying to earn love, prove your worth, or keep people from leaving—without realizing those fears have shaped the way you relate to both people and God. In this episode, we look at one of Jesus' most familiar parables through a fresh lens: The Prodigal Son. You'll discover that there weren't just one, but two lost sons. One left home. The other never felt at home. Both needed to experience the Father's heart. We'll explore how the fear of abandonment can quietly become an orphan mindset—and how God's love invites us to stop striving and start living as beloved daughters who already belong. In this episode, you'll discover: Why abandonment wounds often lead to performance and striving What the older brother reveals about living like an orphan The difference between earning acceptance and living from acceptance How the Spirit of adoption replaces the fear of being left Why belonging—not performance—is the foundation of your identity in Christ Scriptures Luke 15:11–32 Romans 8:15–17 Hebrews 13:5 Activation Ask the Father: "Where am I still living like I have to earn a place in Your family?" Then ask Jesus: "What do You want me to know about belonging to You?" Listen. Write. Receive His love. Find all the episodes:  Apple podcast all episodes https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/break-free-from-insecurity-intrusive-thoughts-self/id1892876547    Spotify all episodes https://open.spotify.com/show/7gRbKvsBHoFF7klxul4w6B?si=1c3565ae1eca466c ✨ Take the Next Step Become an Insider and receive my free 3-Day Listening Prayer Journal, plus a short weekly email with podcast highlights and a simple activation: https://www.breakfreefrominsecurity.com/insider Join our Facebook community for Christian women: Break Free From Insecurity https://www.facebook.com/groups/2093986057839244

  2. 10 Aug

    19. Why Does Being Left Hurt So Much? What It May Be Teaching You About Yourself

    If you've ever struggled with abandonment, fear of rejection, or feeling like you don't belong, discover what those experiences may have taught you about yourself—and how God's truth can begin setting you free. Why does being left hurt so much? Why do some people become people pleasers while others build walls? Why do some pull away from relationships while others constantly need reassurance? In this episode, we explore why the pain of being left often goes much deeper than the event itself. Together, we'll uncover how experiences of abandonment—whether real or perceived—can quietly shape the beliefs you carry about yourself, your relationships, and even your view of God. You'll discover: Why people respond so differently to abandonment How painful experiences can create hidden "core belief saboteurs" Why your feelings are clues instead of your identity How to begin uncovering the lies beneath insecurity and fear of rejection Why the question, "What did being left teach me to believe about myself?" can be the beginning of freedom Scriptures Romans 8:15–17 Hebrews 13:5 Activation Ask the Father: "Would You show me one memory where I first began believing I was alone... or not worth staying for?" Then ask Jesus: "Where were You in that moment?" Listen. Write. Let Him meet you there.   ✨ Take the Next Step Become an Insider and receive my free 3-Day Listening Prayer Journal, plus a short weekly email with podcast highlights and a simple activation: https://www.breakfreefrominsecurity.com/insider Join our Facebook community for Christian women: Break Free From Insecurity https://www.facebook.com/groups/2093986057839244 ____________________________ Find all the episodes:  Apple podcast all episodes https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/break-free-from-insecurity-intrusive-thoughts-self/id1892876547    Spotify all episodes https://open.spotify.com/show/7gRbKvsBHoFF7klxul4w6B?si=1c3565ae1eca466c

  3. 3 Aug

    18. Think God's Peace Depends on Your Circumstances? What if it Doesn't? | Jehovah Shalom

    If your peace disappears whenever life falls apart, discover how Jehovah Shalom—The Lord Is Peace—offers a peace that isn't determined by your circumstances. Do you struggle with anxiety, worry, or feeling overwhelmed by life's circumstances? Do you find yourself thinking, "I'll have peace when this situation is over." "When my marriage gets better..." "When the finances improve..." "When my health changes..." What if your peace was never meant to depend on your circumstances? In this episode of Break Free From Insecurity, you'll discover the meaning of Jehovah Shalom—The Lord Is Peace and learn how to experience God's peace even in the middle of stress, uncertainty, difficult circumstances, and anxiety. Through the stories of Gideon, Jesus calming the storm, and Paul's words from prison, you'll discover that biblical peace isn't something you receive after your problems are solved—it's something God offers you right now. In this episode you'll discover: ✨ Why your circumstances don't have to determine your peace ✨ What the name Jehovah Shalom really means—and why God revealed it to Gideon before the battle was won ✨ How Jesus demonstrated that peace isn't the absence of a storm but the presence of God ✨ Why Paul could write about peace while sitting in prison ✨ How to recognize the lie that says, "I can't have peace until my circumstances change." ✨ Practical steps to receive the peace that already belongs to you because Jehovah Shalom lives in you No matter what you're facing today, God's peace isn't waiting on your circumstances to change. When circumstances change, Jehovah Shalom doesn't. Scripture Mentioned Judges 6 John 14:27 Philippians 4:6–7 Isaiah 26:3   ✨ Take the Next Step Become an Insider and receive my free 3-Day Listening Prayer Journal, plus a short weekly email with podcast highlights and a simple activation: https://www.breakfreefrominsecurity.com/insider Join our Facebook community for Christian women: Break Free From Insecurity https://www.facebook.com/groups/2093986057839244 _____________________________ Find all the episodes:  Apple podcast all episodes https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/break-free-from-insecurity-intrusive-thoughts-self/id1892876547    Spotify all episodes https://open.spotify.com/show/7gRbKvsBHoFF7klxul4w6B?si=1c3565ae1eca466c

  4. 27 Jul

    17. Think God is Waiting for You to Get it Together? What if He Already Made You Righteous? | Jehovah Tsidkenu

    If you've ever struggled with insecurity, comparison, or feeling like you're unworthy, discover why Jesus became your righteousness—and how your true identity in Christ sets you free from striving. Do you constantly feel like you're not enough? Do you compare yourself to other people, worry about what they think, or feel like you have to prove your worth? What if the problem isn't that you're not enough... What if you're believing the wrong thing about yourself? In this episode of Break Free From Insecurity, we're continuing our Lies We Believe About God series by exploring one of God's beautiful names: Jehovah Tsidkenu—The Lord Our Righteousness. You'll discover why righteousness isn't something you earn—it's a gift you receive through Jesus Christ. When you understand what it means that Jesus is your righteousness, you'll begin to break free from insecurity, comparison, people pleasing, perfectionism, and the constant pressure to prove yourself. You’ll begin stepping into this new identity in Christ. In this episode you'll discover: ✨ Why the lie "I'm not good enough" fuels insecurity and fear of rejection ✨ How comparison and people pleasing often reveal a deeper core belief ✨ What Jehovah Tsidkenu really means—and why Jesus became your righteousness ✨ Why your acceptance with God isn't based on your performance but on Christ's ✨ How understanding your identity in Christ changes the way you see yourself ✨ Practical steps to stop striving and begin living from the truth of who God says you are If you've ever wondered whether you'll ever feel "good enough," this episode will remind you that Jesus already met God's standard for you. You'll never become enough by trying harder. You're enough because Jesus already was. ✨ Take the Next Step Become an Insider and receive my free 3-Day Listening Prayer Journal, plus a short weekly email with podcast highlights and a simple activation: https://www.breakfreefrominsecurity.com/insider Join our Facebook community for Christian women: Break Free From Insecurity https://www.facebook.com/groups/2093986057839244 __________________________ Find all the episodes:  Apple podcast all episodes https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/break-free-from-insecurity-intrusive-thoughts-self/id1892876547    Spotify all episodes https://open.spotify.com/show/7gRbKvsBHoFF7klxul4w6B?si=1c3565ae1eca466c

  5. 20 Jul

    16. Think God Is Far Away? What If He Is Closer Than You Think? | Immanuel

    Feel like God is far away? Discover why Immanuel means God has never left you, how His presence frees you from insecurity, and why you can grow in confidence hearing His voice. Do you ever feel like God is far away? Have you ever wondered why you can't seem to feel His presence, while other Christians talk about hearing Him so easily? What if God isn't the one who's distant? In this third episode of the Lies We Believe About God series, we'll uncover one of the most common lies Christians quietly believe—that God comes and goes depending on how we're doing spiritually.  Through the beautiful name Immanuel—God With Us, you'll discover that God's presence isn't based on your feelings. It's based on His promise. In this episode, you'll learn: ✨ Why feeling spiritually dry doesn't mean God has left you ✨ How surface struggles reveal deeper core beliefs ✨ What Immanuel really means—and why God's plan is even greater than "God with us" ✨ The difference between God's presence and your awareness of His presence ✨ Why feelings reveal your experience, but God's Word reveals reality ✨ How believing the truth about God's nearness brings freedom from insecurity If you've ever felt alone, abandoned, spiritually disconnected, or wondered if God is closer to everyone else than He is to you, this episode will encourage you to stop chasing God's presence and begin living from the promise that He is with you—and in you. His presence didn't change. Your awareness did.   Lies we believe about God series: Ep. 11 Think You’re Fighting Alone? Discover the God Who Fights For You | Jehovah Nissi Ep. 15  Think God Is Disappointed in You? What If He Isn't? | Abba Father Apple podcast all episodes https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/break-free-from-insecurity-intrusive-thoughts-self/id1892876547   Spotify all episodes https://open.spotify.com/show/7gRbKvsBHoFF7klxul4w6B?si=1c3565ae1eca466c  Podbean all episodes https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/break-free-from-insecurity-intrusive-thoughts-self/id1892876547  ✨ Take the Next Step If you'd like to practice listening to God, receive my free 3-Day Listening Prayer Journal and become an Insider: https://www.breakfreefrominsecurity.com/insider Join our private Facebook community: Break Free From Insecurity (Christian Women) https://www.facebook.com/groups/2093986057839244 _____________________________ Find all the episodes:  Apple podcast all episodes https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/break-free-from-insecurity-intrusive-thoughts-self/id1892876547    Spotify all episodes https://open.spotify.com/show/7gRbKvsBHoFF7klxul4w6B?si=1c3565ae1eca466c

  6. 13 Jul

    15. Think God Is Disappointed in You? What If He Isn't? | Abba Father

    If you've ever wondered, "Does God love me?" or questioned whether He's disappointed in you, this episode will help you discover the Father's heart and the truth about His love for you. Maybe you know He loves you...but deep down, you wonder if He's frustrated that you're still struggling, still making mistakes, or still haven't "grown enough." What if that's one of the biggest lies you've ever believed? In this episode of Break Free From Insecurity, we'll uncover the false belief that God is disappointed in you and discover what Scripture actually reveals about the Father's heart. We'll explore how believing the wrong thing about God shapes the way we see ourselves—and why experiencing His love changes everything. In this episode you'll discover: ✨ Why many sincere Christians quietly believe God is disappointed in them ✨ How this lie fuels insecurity, performance, and striving ✨ What Jesus reveals about the Father's true heart ✨ Why the story of the prodigal son is really a story about identity ✨ How your view of God shapes your view of yourself ✨ A simple activation to help you replace this lie with God's truth If you've ever felt like you have to earn God's approval, prove your worth, or perform to stay close to Him, this episode will remind you of a beautiful truth: God isn't waiting for you to become someone better. He's inviting you to discover who you already are as His beloved child.   ✨ Take the Next Step Download my FREE 3-Day Listening Prayer Journal and join The Insider Weekly, where you'll receive practical encouragement and activations to help you hear God's voice and grow in your true identity in Christ. https://breakfreefrominsecurity.com/insider    Join my private facebook page for women: Break Free From Insecurity https://www.facebook.com/groups/2093986057839244    Find my Show (all the episodes) Apple podcast: https://shorturl.at/LkeY0 Spotify:  https://shorturl.at/htTPr

  7. 6 Jul

    14. Who Does God Say You Are? Discover Your True Identity in Christ

    Discover your true identity in Christ and learn what God says is already true about you so you can live with confidence, freedom, and purpose. Who does God say you are? What if you already are who you've been trying to become? How would your life change if you actually believed what God says is already true about you? Last week we uncovered the false beliefs that often lie beneath insecurity. In this episode, we're taking the next step by discovering your true identity in Christ. You'll learn what God says is already true about you, why your identity isn't something you earn, and how understanding your identity changes the way you think, feel, and live. In this episode, you'll discover: • Why your identity comes from Christ—not your performance, appearance, or other people's opinions. • What God says is already true about you as His child. • Why knowing your true identity is the key to overcoming insecurity and living with confidence. If you've ever wondered, "Who am I in Christ?" this episode will help you begin replacing old lies with God's truth so you can walk in the freedom He intended for you. Mentions:  Spirit, Soul and Body https://shorturl.at/INUTR _____________________________________________________ ✨ Take the Next Step If you want to practice listening to God Get my free 3-Day Listening Prayer Journal:  https://www.breakfreefrominsecurity.com/insider ____________________________________________________ Join my private facebook page for women: Break Free From Insecurity https://www.facebook.com/groups/2093986057839244 __________________________________________________ Find my Show (all the episodes) Apple podcast: https://shorturl.at/LkeY0 Spotify:  https://shorturl.at/htTPr

  8. 29 Jun

    13. Why You Believe Lies About Yourself: The False Identity Keeping You Insecure

    Your surface struggles often point to deeper core beliefs. Learn how to uncover the lies beneath your insecurity and begin replacing them with God's truth. Have you ever wondered why you keep struggling with the same fear, insecurity, jealousy, people-pleasing, comparison, or perfectionism? In this episode, we're going beneath the surface. You'll learn how your thoughts and emotions often reveal deeper core beliefs that may be shaping your life without you even realizing it. We'll explore the difference between surface struggles, thoughts, and core beliefs—and why recognizing these false beliefs is the first step toward living from your true identity in Christ. By the end of this episode, you'll have practical questions to help you uncover the lies that may be keeping you stuck and prepare your heart for discovering who God says you really are.   ✨ Take the Next Step If you want to practice listening to God Get my free 3-Day Listening Prayer Journal:  https://www.breakfreefrominsecurity.com/insider Join my private facebook page for women: Break Free From Insecurity https://www.facebook.com/groups/2093986057839244 Find my Show (all the episodes) Apple podcast: https://shorturl.at/LkeY0 Spotify:  https://shorturl.at/htTPr

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Do you ever feel like you're not enough? Do you find yourself second-guessing your decisions, worrying about what other people think, or trying to earn your worth through performance? What if those struggles aren't the real problem? What if they're simply surface struggles pointing to deeper beliefs about who you are? I'm Marji—a teacher and passionate follower of Jesus who loves helping women uncover lies and replace them with God's truth. For years I lived trapped by insecurity, people-pleasing, and the fear of what others thought of me. I lived with a deep fear of rejection, and it was paralyzing.  Everything began to change when God showed me that I wasn't just struggling with insecurity and rejection—I was believing lies about my identity. As I began replacing those lies with God's truth, I discovered something life-changing: My identity isn't something I have to earn. It's something I already have in Christ. Together each week on Break Free From Insecurity, we'll uncover the lies that keep us stuck, discover what God says is already true about us, and learn to live from our true identity in Christ. We'll explore topics like: • Discovering false identity and true identity • Overcoming insecurity, rejection, and people pleasing • Renewing your mind with God's truth • Hearing God's voice and growing in wisdom • Setting healthy boundaries • Replacing fear, shame, and comparison with confidence rooted in Christ Many of our surface struggles point to deeper core beliefs. Together we'll uncover those beliefs and replace them with God's truth. If you're ready to stop striving, start believing what God says about you, and experience the freedom that comes from living in your true identity, you're in the right place. ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Ranked in the Top 3% of Podcasts Worldwide So grab your coffee, open your heart, and let's discover together who you already are in Christ. I'd love to have you join me. Join our Facebook community: Break Free From Insecurity (Christian Women)   Break Free From Insecurity (Christian Women) Become an Insider and receive my weekly encouraging email and a freebie to help you practice listening to God: https://www.breakfreefrominsecurity.com/insider

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