Saved & Single

Jasmine Mays
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Saved & Single is a podcast for men and women navigating singleness through faith, whether never married, divorced, or widowed. Hosted by Jasmine Mays, this show creates space for honest conversations about dating apps, sex and celibacy, loneliness and disappointment, healing, situationships, stewardship, and purpose. Through solo episodes, guest stories, and pastoral wisdom, Saved & Single reminds you that singleness isn’t a waiting room, it’s a season meant to be lived fully and faithfully.

  1. 2 days ago

    "I Married Him 3 Times"... Trauma, Divorce, Soul Ties & Church Hurt: Sealeta's Story

    In this episode of the Saved & Single Podcast, Jasmine sits down with Sealeta Brinkley for a powerful conversation about childhood trauma, divorce, remarriage, soul ties, church hurt, abuse, and learning how unhealed pain can repeat in relationships. If you’ve ever ignored red flags, gone back to someone who hurt you, confused familiarity with love, or wondered why you keep attracting the same patterns, this episode will speak to you. Sealeta shares how father wounds, childhood trauma, and a lack of healthy relationship examples shaped the way she viewed men, marriage, faith, and her own worth. Her story includes multiple marriages, betrayal, spiritual confusion, church hurt, and the painful journey of realizing that loving God does not mean you do not still need healing. This episode is for Christian singles who are divorced, widowed, never married, or dating after heartbreak while still believing God for love, marriage, healing, and a relationship that honors Him. You’ll be encouraged to examine your patterns, stop mistaking chaos for love, trust God’s healing process, and believe that wholeness is still possible after divorce, abuse, and disappointment. 🎙️ Interested in being a guest on the Saved & Single Podcast? Apply here: https://www.savedandsinglepod.com 📩 Contact / guest inquiries: dates@savedandsinglepod.com 📱 Follow us on Instagram: https://instagram.com/savedandsinglepod

    57 min

  2. 17 Jun

    Why Didn’t They Choose Me? Christian Dating Rejection After 40 | Ep. 19

    In this solo episode of the Saved & Single Podcast, Jasmine has an honest conversation about Christian dating rejection, disappointment, heartbreak, and learning how to keep your eyes on God when dating does not go the way you hoped. If you’ve ever met someone you thought was “the one,” prayed about them, imagined a future, and then felt crushed when they did not choose you, this episode will speak to you. Jasmine shares personal stories about rejection, hope deferred, heartbreak, comparison, and the emotional toll of dating after 40 as a Christian single. This episode is for Christian singles who are divorced, widowed, never married, or dating after disappointment while still believing God for love, marriage, healing, and a relationship that honors Him. You’ll be encouraged to process rejection without shame, stop romanticizing people who were not meant for you, trust God through closed doors, and keep pursuing purpose while waiting. 🎙️ Interested in being a guest on the Saved & Single Podcast?Apply here: https://www.savedandsinglepod.com 📩 Contact / guest inquiries:dates@savedandsinglepod.com 📱 Follow us on Instagram:https://instagram.com/savedandsinglepod

    53 min

  3. 14 Jun

    Why We Ignore Red Flags When We’re Lonely | Ep. 18

    In this solo episode of the Saved & Single Podcast, Jasmine has an honest conversation about why Christian singles sometimes ignore red flags when they are lonely, tired of starting over, or deeply desiring marriage. Jasmine shares a personal dating story and unpacks how loneliness, attachment, fear, physical chemistry, and the desire to be chosen can cause us to overlook spiritual incompatibility, emotional unavailability, inconsistency, and other warning signs. This episode is for Christian singles over 40 who are dating after divorce, widowhood, heartbreak, or a long dry season and want to make wise, God-honoring relationship decisions. If you’ve ever stayed too long, ignored your discernment, or tried to convince yourself someone was “good enough,” this conversation is for you. 🎙️ Interested in being a guest on the Saved & Single Podcast? Apply here: https://www.savedandsinglepod.com 📱 Follow us on Instagram: https://instagram.com/savedandsinglepod

    40 min

  4. 27 May

    Is Waiting Until Marriage Still Realistic? | Christian Singles & Sex | Ep. 17

    In this solo episode of the Saved & Single Podcast, Jasmine has an honest conversation about Christian dating, celibacy, temptation, intimacy, soul ties, and why waiting until marriage can feel so difficult in modern dating culture. Is waiting until marriage still realistic for Christian singles over 40? What happens when physical intimacy creates emotional attachment before real security exists? And how do you maintain boundaries while dating someone you’re genuinely attracted to? Jasmine discusses: • Christian dating and sex • Celibacy and temptation • Emotional attachment and soul ties • Dating after divorce or widowhood • Boundaries in Christian relationships • Loneliness, intimacy, and uncertainty in dating • How to talk about physical boundaries early • Honoring God while navigating real attraction This episode is raw, practical, compassionate, and created for Christian singles trying to honor God while navigating dating in the real world. This episode is raw, practical, compassionate, and created for Christian singles trying to honor God while navigating dating in the real world. 🎙️ Interested in being a guest on the Saved & Single Podcast? Apply here: https://www.savedandsinglepod.com 📱 Follow us on Instagram: https://instagram.com/savedandsinglepod

    53 min

  5. 20 May

    “I Want Marriage”… Why Christian Singles Still Can’t Find Love: Jason’s Story | Ep. 16

    Why does dating feel so difficult for Christian singles over 40 — even for people who genuinely want marriage? In this episode of the Saved & Single Podcast, Jasmine sits down with Jason Perry for an honest conversation about Christian dating, divorce, emotional maturity, loneliness, church culture, online dating, long-distance relationships, and why so many good men and women are still single. Jason opens up about what he’s truly looking for in a wife, the disconnect between expectations and reality in modern dating, and what many churches misunderstand about serving single adults. This episode discusses:• Christian dating over 40• Dating after divorce• Why good people still struggle to find love• Church culture and singles ministries• Emotional availability and compatibility• Long-distance relationships• Red flags and dating expectations• Marriage-minded dating• Faith, loneliness, and hope If you’re divorced, widowed, never married, or trying to navigate Christian dating in today’s world, this conversation will hit home. 🎙️ Interested in being a guest on the podcast?https://www.savedandsinglepod.com 📩 Interested in connecting with Jason? 📱 Follow Saved & Single:https://instagram.com/savedandsinglepod

    1hr 4min

  6. 14 May

    “He Was My Assignment… Not My Forever” | Widowhood & Finding Love Again: Trina's Story | Ep. 15

    What happens when the person you thought was your forever becomes part of your testimony instead? In this emotional episode of the Saved & Single Podcast, Jasmine sits down with Trina Knight to discuss divorce, remarriage, caregiving, widowhood, grief, faith, surrendering to God, and unexpectedly finding love again after loss. This conversation covers Christian widowhood, healing after heartbreak, blended families, trusting God through tragedy, dating after loss, and navigating relationships over 40 with faith. If you are divorced, widowed, healing, or wondering whether God still has love for you, this episode will encourage you. 🎙️ Interested in sharing your story on the Saved & Single Podcast? Apply here: BE A GUEST ON THE SHOW

    1hr 16min

  7. 7 May

    “He Was Fine… Then Gone” | Losing My Husband & Rebuilding My Life: Bridget's Story | Ep. 14

    What happens when the love of your life is suddenly gone? In this deeply emotional episode of the Saved & Single Podcast, Jasmine sits down with Bridget to talk about the heartbreaking loss of her husband to suicide, the grief that followed, and what it looks like to rebuild your life after unimaginable pain. Bridget shares their love story, the moment everything changed, the questions she wrestled with, and how her faith, identity, and view of love were transformed through loss. This conversation is raw, honest, faith-filled, and filled with hope for anyone navigating grief, widowhood, heartbreak, or learning how to keep living after loss. Topics include: Losing a spouse to suicideWidowhood & griefFaith after tragedyRebuilding life after lossHealing emotionally & spirituallyLove, dating & marriage after griefMental health & unanswered questionsIf this episode touched you, share it with someone who may need it.

    1hr 4min

  8. 29 Apr

    Dating After Divorce: Relationship Expert Debra Fileta | Ep. 13

    If you’re a Christian single over 40 who has been divorced and wondering if you’re truly ready to date again… this episode is for you. In this episode of the Saved & Single Podcast, I sit down with licensed counselor and relationship expert Debra Fileta to talk about healing after divorce, why so many people repeat unhealthy relationship patterns, and how to know if you’re actually ready to start dating again. We break down the truth about shame in the church, how trauma impacts who you’re attracted to, and why you may be choosing what’s familiar instead of what’s healthy. Debra also explains why dating should be a season of investigation, not intimacy, and what it really looks like to prepare for a healthy, God-centered relationship. We also talk about navigating dating with children, when to introduce your kids to someone new, red flags to watch for, and how to approach dating with wisdom instead of fear. If you’ve ever asked yourself: Am I really healed… or just ready for companionship? Why do I keep ending up in the same kind of relationship? How do I date again without repeating my past? This conversation will challenge you, equip you, and help you move forward with clarity.

    1hr 5min
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Saved & Single is a podcast for men and women navigating singleness through faith, whether never married, divorced, or widowed. Hosted by Jasmine Mays, this show creates space for honest conversations about dating apps, sex and celibacy, loneliness and disappointment, healing, situationships, stewardship, and purpose. Through solo episodes, guest stories, and pastoral wisdom, Saved & Single reminds you that singleness isn’t a waiting room, it’s a season meant to be lived fully and faithfully.

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  • Creator
    Jasmine Mays
  • Years Active
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  • Episodes
    20
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