You Will Be OK

Sabrina Bendory
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Join dating and self-worth coach Sabrina Bendory as she dives deep into the journey of personal transformation and finding healthy, lasting love. This podcast is your guide to building self-worth, breaking free from self-sabotaging patterns, and creating the love life you deserve. With insightful advice, real-world strategies, and heart-centered guidance, Sabrina empowers you to overcome limiting beliefs, heal from the past, and attract fulfilling relationships. Whether you’re navigating dating, relationships, or your personal growth journey, this podcast will inspire and equip you to thrive in love and life. Tune in and start your transformation today!

  1. Why We Self-Sabotage When Things Are Going Well (The Upper Limit Problem)

    1 DAY AGO

    Why We Self-Sabotage When Things Are Going Well (The Upper Limit Problem)

    In this episode, we explore the psychology of self-sabotage and why we ruin things when they are finally going well. Have you ever wondered why you feel anxiety after success or why you self-sabotage relationships just as they get serious? You aren't "broken"—you’re likely hitting your Upper Limit Problem. This is a psychological ceiling that limits how much happiness, love, and success you allow yourself to experience. Your nervous system is wired for familiarity and safety, not necessarily for growth. When your life improves faster than your subconscious mind is ready for, it triggers a fear of success that leads to self-sabotaging behaviors like procrastination, picking fights, or losing motivation. In this episode, I break down: - What is the Upper Limit Problem? Defining the "happiness ceiling." - Nervous System Regulation: Why your body reacts negatively to positive change. - Signs of Self-Sabotage: How we subconsciously ruin love, career wins, and joy. - Expanding Your Capacity: Practical ways to feel safe while thriving. Recognizing this pattern is the first step to breaking the cycle of self-sabotage. The goal isn’t just achieving the life you want—it’s learning how to regulate your nervous system so you can actually enjoy it. Work with me: https://www.sabrinabendory.com Book: Detached: How to Let Go, Heal, & Become Irresistible Follow me! Instagram: @sabrinabendory @youwillbeokpodcast Tik Tok: @sabrinabendory - #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #self-sabotage #UpperLimitProblem #psychology #anxiety #success #relationships #fearofsuccess #nervoussystem #happinessceiling #personalgrowth See show notes: Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

    20 min
  2. Why Modern Dating Feels So Hard (And How to Do It Better) Feat. Talia Koren

    6 MAR

    Why Modern Dating Feels So Hard (And How to Do It Better) Feat. Talia Koren

    Modern dating can feel confusing, exhausting, and sometimes even hopeless — but does it actually have to be that way? In this episode, I sit down with Talia Koren from @Dating.Intentionally to talk about the reality of dating today. Talia started her podcast after realizing she was actually enjoying dating while so many people around her were miserable — and she wanted to understand why. We talk about the idea of a “dating recession,” how the pandemic shifted relationship expectations, and why women today are prioritizing emotional intelligence and connection more than ever before. We also dive into the difference between passive dating and intentional dating, how to spot emotional availability early, and why consistency is one of the most important green flags to look for. If dating has been feeling frustrating or discouraging, this episode will help you approach it with more clarity, self-awareness, and confidence. Get my book Detached: How to Let Go, Heal, & Become Irresistible Follow Talia - @datingintentionally Follow me: Instagram: @sabrinabendory Substack- https://sabrinabendory.substack.com/ #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #ModernDating #DatingRecession #EmotionalIntelligence #IntentionalDating #PassiveDating #EmotionalAvailability #Consistency #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice See show notes: Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

    51 min
  3. Why The Guys You Want Don't Want You

    26 FEB

    Why The Guys You Want Don't Want You

    Why do the guys you really want never seem to want you back? And why do the ones who are consistent and kind sometimes feel… boring? In this episode, Sabrina Bendory breaks down the hidden psychology behind your dating patterns and why so many women find themselves attracted to emotionally unavailable men. She shares personal stories, real client examples, and powerful psychological insights into how childhood love models, subconscious beliefs, and attachment styles shape who you’re drawn to. You’ll learn why dopamine is the anticipation chemical — and how the thrill of the chase can trick your brain into confusing anxiety with chemistry. Sabrina explains how fantasy fills in the blanks when someone is inconsistent, why “potential” is often an illusion, and how your inner monologue may be ignoring red flags before your conscious mind catches up. Most importantly, this episode is about reclaiming your power. You’ll learn how to: • Recognize unhealthy attraction patterns • Rewire subconscious beliefs through neuroplasticity • Shift from chaos to calm in love • Build self-worth from the inside • Cultivate confidence that changes who you attract Get the Book- Detached: How to Let Go, Heal, and Become Irresistible - https://shopc.at/detached Join my Inner Circle- https://sabrinabendory.com/membership-info Follow me! Instagram: @sabrinabendory - https://www.instagram.com/sabrinabendory/ @youwilbeokpodcast https://www.instagram.com/youwillbeokpodcast/ #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #emotionallyunavailablemen #datingpatterns #attachmentstyles #dopamine #fantasy #neuroplasticity See show notes: https://inlet.fm/you-will-be-ok/episodes/69a08a52c2f08b0d86d58f31 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

    41 min
  4. How to Date Without Desperation

    19 FEB

    How to Date Without Desperation

    In this episode of the You Will Be OK Podcast, I talk about how to date without desperation — and why self-worth is the real key to attracting healthy love. I break down the difference between wanting a relationship and needing one, how comparison and envy sabotage your confidence, and why high standards should be rooted in values — not fear or avoidance. We also talk about pacing in early dating, emotional safety, ghosting, disappointment, and how to stop overinvesting too quickly. If you struggle with anxious attachment, overthinking, or feeling behind in your love life, this episode will help you shift from chasing validation to building a life that feels full — so love becomes an addition, not a rescue. Join my inner circle - Sabrina's Inner Circle Book: Detached: How to Let Go, Heal, & Become Irresistible Learn more here: https://www.sabrinabendory.com Follow me: Instagram: @sabrinabendory @youwillbeokpodcast Tik Tok: @sabrinabendory #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #self-worth #healthylove #anxiousattachment #confidence #emotionalsafety See show notes: Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

    31 min

  5. 5 FEB

    Why Love Isn't Enough In Relationships With Casey Caston

    In this episode, I sit down with relationship coach Casey Caston to break down what actually makes relationships work — and why love alone is rarely enough. We talk about the biggest misconceptions around dating and long-term relationships, why trust (not chemistry) is the real foundation, and how personal growth, accountability, and repair determine whether a relationship thrives or falls apart. Casey also shares insights from his own relationship journey and the tools he teaches clients to build healthier, more secure connections. Key takeaways: -If you want a better relationship, you have to become a better you -Conflict is healthy and necessary when done well -Trust matters more than love -Unsolicited apologies change everything -Most relationships can be repaired with intention and effort Follow Marriage 365 @marriage365 Get the book: The Marriage Habit Follow me! Instagram: @sabrinabendory - @youwillbeokpodcast #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #relationships #trust #personalgrowth #conflictresolution #CaseyCaston See show notes: Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

    1h 3m

  6. 22 JAN

    The Dark Night Of The Soul (How to Get Through It)

    In this episode, I talk about something many of us go through but rarely have language for: the Dark Night of the Soul. It’s that period where everything feels like it’s falling apart—emotionally, spiritually, identity-wise—and you don’t recognize yourself or your life anymore. I break down where this concept comes from, what it actually feels like when you’re in it, and why it’s not a sign that you’re broken or doing life wrong. I share how the Dark Night is often a necessary collapse—an ending of old identities, coping mechanisms, and survival strategies that once protected you but no longer fit. We talk about grief, surrender, and the discomfort of sitting in the unknown instead of trying to fix or bypass it. I also explain why trying to “positive-think” your way out of this phase usually backfires, and why feeling the pain is often the doorway to real healing. Most importantly, I offer reassurance and perspective for anyone in the middle of it right now. This isn’t the end of your story—it’s a turning point. With self-care, support, and a willingness to let the process unfold, something new and more aligned is being born on the other side. The darkness has a purpose, and the dawn really does come. Work with me: sabrinabendory.com Get the book: "Detached: How to Let Go, Heal, and Become Irresistible." Follow me! Instagram: @sabrinabendory - @youwillbeokpodcast #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #DarkNightoftheSoul #emotionalcollapse #spiritualtransformation #self-care #healingprocess #identitychange #copingmechanisms #grief #surrender #unknown #realhealing #personalgrowth See show notes: Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

    22 min

  7. 15 JAN

    Breakups, No Contact, and Rebuilding Self-Worth With Cole Zesiger

    In this episode, I sit down with Cole Zesiger, a breakup coach whose work was born from his own deeply painful heartbreak. Cole shares how that experience reshaped his understanding of love, loss, and healing—and ultimately led him to help others navigate the aftermath of breakups with more clarity and self-respect. We explore the emotional complexity of breakups, why so many people become consumed with the idea of getting their ex back, and how much of the online breakup advice focuses on strategy over actual healing. Cole breaks down the most common mistakes people make after a breakup, why staying in contact often keeps wounds open, and how rebuilding self-worth—not manipulation or timing—is what truly allows people to move forward. This conversation goes beyond surface-level advice and dives into emotional patterns, forgiveness, and the inner work required to trust again and build healthier relationships in the future. Follow Cole- @coachcolezesiger Get the book: Ex's and No's: The Breakup Advice You Don't Want to Hear Work with me: https://www.sabrinabendory.com Follow me Instagram: @sabrinabendory @youwillbeokpodcast #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #Breakups #NoContact #Self-Worth #ColeZesiger #Heartbreak #Healing #Love #Relationships #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice See show notes: Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

    1 hr

  8. 8 JAN

    How I Overcame My Disorganized Attachment Style (And How to Heal Yours)

    In this episode, I share my personal journey of healing a disorganized attachment style—the push-pull dynamic that kept showing up in my relationships for years. I talk about how my upbringing shaped the way I learned to attach, the coping mechanisms I developed to survive, and the moment I realized attachment styles aren’t fixed. I walk through what actually helped me heal: building self-awareness, creating emotional safety, confronting shame, and learning how to be vulnerable without abandoning myself. I also share practical tools that helped me reconnect with my emotions and rebuild my sense of self-worth. This episode is a reminder that healing is a process and with patience, commitment, and the right support, it’s possible to move toward secure, healthy love. Join my inner circle: Book: "Detached: How to Let Go, Heal, and Become Irresistible" Work with me: sabrinabendory.com Follow me: Instagram: @sabrinabendory @youwillbeokpodcast #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #disorganizedattachment #healingjourney #emotionalsafety #self-awareness #securerelationships See show notes: Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

    27 min
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Join dating and self-worth coach Sabrina Bendory as she dives deep into the journey of personal transformation and finding healthy, lasting love. This podcast is your guide to building self-worth, breaking free from self-sabotaging patterns, and creating the love life you deserve. With insightful advice, real-world strategies, and heart-centered guidance, Sabrina empowers you to overcome limiting beliefs, heal from the past, and attract fulfilling relationships. Whether you’re navigating dating, relationships, or your personal growth journey, this podcast will inspire and equip you to thrive in love and life. Tune in and start your transformation today!

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  • Creator
    Sabrina Bendory
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    54
  • Show Website
    You Will Be OK

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