When You Don’t Know

Joy and Mathieu Rossignol
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When You Don’t Know is the faith-based podcast for Christians navigating dating while having relationship anxiety. Hosted by Joy & Mathieu, a married couple and therapist duo, we get real about the doubts, fears, and questions that often come with love. Through honest conversations, biblical wisdom, and powerful guest interviews, we’ll help you date with confidence, overcome anxiety, and build a marriage that lasts. Whether you’re single, dating, engaged, or married, this podcast is your safe space to discover what it means to love well—even "when you dont know".

  1. 9 SEPT

    126. When You Don’t Know if God Has Something Better for You

    “Does God really take away something you love because He has something better?” This idea has shaped so much of modern Christian dating culture — but it often creates more fear than freedom. In this episode of When You Don’t Know, we explore the roots of this message, how it fuels relationship anxiety, and what it really means to trust God in love and commitment. Work with us: https://lnk.bio/joyrossignol

    33 min

  2. 1 JUL

    125. Did I Make a Mistake? Anxiety After Marriage

    You got married and thought the anxiety would go away—but the doubts are still here. “What if I made a mistake?” “What if this wasn’t God’s will?” In this episode, we talk about why anxiety can show up after marriage, how ROCD and spiritual fears play a role, and why it doesn’t mean you’re in the wrong relationship. We also share what to do if you’re stuck in anxious spirals—and how to avoid falling into the relationship anxiety trap. You’re not broken. You’re not alone. And you didn’t ruin your life. Hope you enjoy! 👉 If you’re ready to work through your relationship anxiety with personalized support, apply for 1:1 coaching here: [https://gz43pjtl2nc.typeform.com/to/nRp3NRTy?typeform-source=lnk.bio]

    34 min

  3. 17 JUN

    124. Life Update: It’s Been a Difficult Month

    In this episode, we’re opening up about some of the heavy things we’ve walked through over the past month. Honestly, we almost didn’t share this—but it didn’t feel right to move forward without acknowledging what’s been going on behind the scenes. Trigger Warning: We talk about loss in this episode. If that feels too tender for you right now, please feel free to skip this one and take care of your heart.

    23 min

  4. 3 JUN

    123. Debunking the “Counterfeit Spouse” Myth

    Have you ever heard someone say the person you’re dating might be a counterfeit — someone sent by the enemy to distract you from “God’s best”? 😳 Whether it’s:     •    A non-Christian labeled a trap 🎯     •    A “fake Christian” in disguise 😈     •    Or even a good person who just isn’t your “divine match” 💔… This teaching has caused so many people to second-guess themselves, spiral in fear, and walk away from good relationships out of anxiety. In this episode, we’re breaking down where the counterfeit spouse idea comes from, why it’s so harmful, and what a more freeing, peace-filled perspective looks like. If you’ve ever felt stuck in fear that you’ll choose wrong — this one’s for you. 💬 Let’s stop spiritualizing fear and start trusting the God who walks with us in every choice. 🎧 Listen now and tag a friend who needs to hear this truth. 👇 Ready to work with me to find peace and clarity in your relationship journey? [https://lnk.bio/joyrossignol]

    39 min

  5. 20 MAY

    122. How your Expectations are Ruining Your Dating Life

    In this episode, we explore how idealized expectations around love, faith, and life can lead to anxiety and doubt in your relationship. If your current relationship feels “off” because it doesn’t match what you always imagined, you’re not alone. We talk about: • The origin of unrealistic expectations • How unmet hopes can fuel anxiety and confusion • Spiritual pressure around “the one” and leadership • What to do when your dream and your reality don’t align Unmet expectations don’t always mean something’s wrong—they might just be pointing you toward a more grounded, authentic love. Join Relationship Anxiety Academy here: [https://joy-dima.mykajabi.com/offers/55SFX2at/checkout]

    31 min

  6. 6 MAY

    121. Red Flag or Just a Difference?

    Do you ever wonder if the differences between you and your partner are red flags—or just normal, human differences? In this episode, I’m breaking down the difference between true red flags (the kind you shouldn’t ignore) and preferences (the kind you can work through with the right tools). We’ll walk through real-life examples—from faith and fitness to humor and ambition—and talk about how to tell when a difference is a dealbreaker or just something you need to talk about. Whether you’re dating, engaged, or already deep in a relationship, this episode will help you breathe a little easier and trust yourself more when making relationship decisions. Let’s take the pressure off and get honest about what really matters. Join Relationship Anxiety Academy here: [https://joy-dima.mykajabi.com/offers/55SFX2at/checkout]

    34 min

  7. 22 APR

    120. Our Real Walk With God as a Married Couple

    In this episode, we’re getting real about what our walk with God looks like as a married couple—and how it doesn’t match the polished image a lot of Christian influencers put out. We talk about letting go of spiritual performance, not praying together every day, and learning to embrace a relationship with God that’s raw, honest, and personal. If you want to work with us, follow this link: https://lnk.bio/joyrossignol

    44 min

  8. 1 APR

    119. Imperfect Love Stories: My Anxiety Left After We Got Married

    In this episode, we interview one of the many people who has worked with us. Like us, she used to struggle with relationship anxiety but her healing journey got her to where she is now; married and happy. We hope you enjoy this episode! 1:1 coaching with Joy: https://gz43pjtl2nc.typeform.com/to/nRp3NRTy?typeform-source=stan.store Online community: https://joy-dima.mykajabi.com/offers/55SFX2at

    53 min
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When You Don’t Know is the faith-based podcast for Christians navigating dating while having relationship anxiety. Hosted by Joy & Mathieu, a married couple and therapist duo, we get real about the doubts, fears, and questions that often come with love. Through honest conversations, biblical wisdom, and powerful guest interviews, we’ll help you date with confidence, overcome anxiety, and build a marriage that lasts. Whether you’re single, dating, engaged, or married, this podcast is your safe space to discover what it means to love well—even "when you dont know".

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  • Creator
    Joy and Mathieu Rossignol
  • Years Active
    2022 - 2025
  • Episodes
    128
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Joy and Mathieu Rossignol
  • Show Website
    When You Don’t Know

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