Your Money, Your Rules | Money Mindset, Money Management, Abundance Mindset, Budgeting, Spirituality

Erin Gray | Wealth Coach, Former CFP and CFO
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Ready to stop avoiding your money? You might look financially successful on the outside, but inside you feel anxious about money, unsure of what’s “enough,” or exhausted from trying to get it right. Even with wealth on paper, your nervous system can still feel scarcity. You’re not the only one, and you’re in the right place. Hi, I’m Erin, Spiritual Wealth Coach, former Certified Financial Planner, and CFO.  I created this podcast to help you build true financial confidence, not just more financial knowledge. For years, I chased numbers in the bank account, outsourced decisions to financial advisors, and still felt guilt, pressure, and never “enoughness.” I didn’t realize I was stuck in a scarcity mindset. What changed everything was realizing that money isn’t just about strategy, it’s about relationship. To feel safe and empowered with money, I needed nervous system regulation, emotional safety, and an abundance mindset. On this podcast, we go beyond budgeting and financial planning.  We talk about money mindset, wealth embodiment, nervous system safety, and creating money systems that feel good to use, so you can stop spiraling in shame, ground into your worth, and experience real financial freedom. If you’re ready to trust yourself with money and create wealth on your terms, this podcast is for you. I’m so glad you’re here.  Let’s dive in.

  1. 3 HR AGO

    151 | What If Your Best Wealth Management Plan Starts Inside Of You?

    Work with Me: (https://tidycal.com/eringray/45-min-call-with-erin) When we talk about wealth, the conversation often centers on external investments.  I believe the most important investment is the one no market can measure. In this episode, I share my belief on the #1 investment we can ever make, it's within ourselves.   In this episode, we discuss:  • Investing in inner assets first over external instruments  • How self-concept shapes your financial choices  • Compounding awareness as the ultimate dividend  • Reclaiming your intuition and building evidence for it Resources mentioned in this episode: The Illusion of Money by Kyle Cease Want to learn more or connect with me? Step 1: Join my Facebook Community. Connect, share, and learn how to relate to your money with other women just like you. ➡️ Join here Step 2: Grab your free Human Design chart Curious what your Human Design chart reveals about how you're uniquely designed to make aligned financial decisions? ➡️ Get your chart here Step 3: Work with Me Learn how to trust your choices, honor your worth, and feel financial freedom that lives in your body, not just on paper. ➡️ Schedule your free clarity call here From my soul to yours, Erin

    18 min

  2. 3 DAYS AGO

    150 | Can Your Thoughts Really Manifest Money? Understanding the Law of Perpetual Transmutation

    Work with Me: (https://tidycal.com/eringray/45-min-call-with-erin)  Why do some people attract success with ease while others struggle despite working twice as hard? The difference often comes down to one of the most powerful universal principles, the Law of Perpetual Transmutation of Energy. This law teaches us that energy never disappears; it only changes form. Your thoughts and feelings are constantly being transmuted into your physical reality. When you learn to harness this, success stops being about forcing and overworking, and becomes about aligning with the energetic state of the life you truly want. In this episode, I explore how your dominant feelings, shape what manifests in your life, and how you can consciously choose empowering thoughts to create different results.  What you’ll learn in this episode: How thoughts held consistently in the mind must manifest into formThe role of dominant feelings vs. temporary emotions in shaping resultsHow to spot and shift unhelpful thought patternsThe power of celebrating milestones along your journeySimple perspective-shifting questions like: “What would I think if I already knew success was mine?” Resources mentioned in this episode: The Power of Awareness by Neville Goddard Want to learn more or connect with me? Step 1: Join my Facebook Community. Connect, share, and learn how to relate to your money with other women just like you. ➡️ Join here Step 2: Grab your free Human Design chart Curious what your Human Design chart reveals about how you're uniquely designed to make aligned financial decisions? ➡️ Get your chart here Step 3: Work with Me Learn how to trust your choices, honor your worth, and feel financial freedom that lives in your body, not just on paper. ➡️ Schedule your free clarity call here From my soul to yours, Erin

    14 min

  3. 2 OCT

    149 | Why Emotional Freedom Technique (Tapping) Creates Real Money Shifts

    Work With Me: (https://tidycal.com/eringray/45-min-call-with-erin) Your body can’t believe what your nervous system won’t allow and that’s why tapping can change everything. In this episode, we explore Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) as a practical way to calm money anxiety, loosen the grip of rumination, and give your inner voice permission to finally speak the truth you’ve been avoiding. By the end of this episode, you’ll have an understanding and a framework for when to tap, what to say, and how to notice your body’s signs of release, like yawns or tears.  What you’ll learn in this episode: Why fight/flight blocks money mindset shiftsHow EFT bypasses the mind and settles the bodyWhy starting with “negative” statements matters for releaseHow tapping validates the inner child and restores safetyBuilding a consistent somatic toolkit for faster recovery Resources mentioned in this episode:   YouTube Video: How to use EFT to bypass the mind and get into the body Want to learn more or connect with me? Step 1: Join my Facebook Community. Connect, share, and learn how to relate to your money with other women just like you. ➡️ Join here Step 2: Grab your free Human Design chart Curious what your Human Design chart reveals about how you're uniquely designed to make aligned financial decisions? ➡️ Get your chart here Step 3: Work with Me Learn how to trust your choices, honor your worth, and feel financial freedom that lives in your body, not just on paper. ➡️ Schedule your free clarity call here From my soul to yours, Erin

    15 min

  4. 29 SEPT

    148 | 6 Money Mindset Shifts to Finally Feel at Peace with Your Wealth

    Work with Me: (https://tidycal.com/eringray/45-min-call-with-erin) Your relationship with money says a lot about your relationship with yourself. In this episode, I’m sharing 6 powerful shifts and practices that you can use to create lasting financial peace and abundance. What you’ll learn in this episode: How the words and stories you use about money shape your realityWhy clarity on what you don’t want is just as valuable as knowing what you doThe importance of giving yourself permission to dream bigger with moneyHow to move from just “thinking abundance” to actually feeling it in your bodyPractical ways to embody abundance through tools like EFT, breathwork, and energy workHow to handle financial setbacks without getting stuck in themWhy your spiritual connection is the foundation for money peace and freedomThese shifts aren’t linear steps, they’re skills that you practice and embody.   Want to learn more or connect with me? Step 1: Join my Facebook Community. Connect, share, and learn how to relate to your money with other women just like you. ➡️ Join here Step 2: Grab your free Human Design chart Curious what your Human Design chart reveals about how you're uniquely designed to make aligned financial decisions? ➡️ Get your chart here Step 3: Work with Me Learn how to trust your choices, honor your worth, and feel financial freedom that lives in your body, not just on paper. ➡️ Schedule your free clarity call here From my soul to yours, Erin

    15 min

  5. 25 SEPT

    147 | Are You Manifesting Money from Love or Fear?

    Work with Me: (https://tidycal.com/eringray/45-min-call-with-erin) Have you ever stopped to calculate how much money you’ve manifested in your lifetime? If you had me guess, it’s in the millions. The real question isn’t if you can manifest money, it's whether you’re manifesting from love or fear. In this episode, I dive into the difference between manifesting money from a fear-based place and love-based place.  Fear creates pressure, scarcity, and overworking which keeps you in survival mode. Love, feels like trust, gratitude, and connection, opening you to abundance in every area of life. In this episode we discuss: Why fear-based manifestation creates attachment, urgency, and the belief that money equals safetyHow survival mode keeps you operating from lower energy centers rather than your creative heart centerThe difference between fear’s contracted energy and love’s open, spacious energy in the bodyWhy money itself is a divine idea designed to improve humanityHow to pause before financial decisions and ask: Am I operating from love or fear right now?Somatic cues your body gives to show whether you’re creating from scarcity or abundance Resources mentioned in this episode:  The Power of Awareness by Neville Goddard Dr Joe Dispenza Want to learn more or connect with me? Step 1: Join my Facebook Community. Connect, share, and learn how to relate to your money with other women just like you. ➡️ Join here Step 2: Grab your free Human Design chart Curious what your Human Design chart reveals about how you're uniquely designed to make aligned financial decisions? ➡️ Get your chart here Step 3: Work with Me Learn how to trust your choices, honor your worth, and feel financial freedom that lives in your body, not just on paper. ➡️ Schedule your free clarity call here From my soul to yours, Erin

    15 min

  6. 22 SEPT

    146 | When Having Fun Feels Unsafe: Releasing the Scarcity Patterns in Your Nervous System

    Work with Me: (https://tidycal.com/eringray/45-min-call-with-erin) Have you ever been celebrating, enjoying a beautiful moment or spending money only to have your brain suddenly interrupt with scarcity thoughts like, “You shouldn’t be spending this money,” or “You're having too much fun"? That quick shift from joy to panic isn’t random, I believe it’s your nervous system revealing its limits around how much abundance it feels safe to hold. In this episode, I share the hidden connection between your window of tolerance, your nervous system, and why scarcity thoughts often show up in moments of joy. You’ll learn how childhood conditioning may have wired your body to associate safety with restriction instead of expansion, and what you can do to change that. Together we’ll explore: Why your nervous system may equate safety with saving, hoarding, or limiting pleasureHow stored emotions in the body can trigger recurring scarcity thought loopsThe role of your Default Mode Network vs. Task Positive Network Somatic practices like emotion code, tapping, breathwork, more play, and grounding to expand your capacity for joyWriting exercises to uncover limiting beliefs about money, safety, and fun Want to learn more or connect with me? Step 1: Join my Facebook Community. Connect, share, and learn how to relate to your money with other women just like you. ➡️ Join here Step 2: Grab your free Human Design chart Curious what your Human Design chart reveals about how you're uniquely designed to make aligned financial decisions? ➡️ Get your chart here Step 3: Work with Me Learn how to trust your choices, honor your worth, and feel financial freedom that lives in your body, not just on paper. ➡️ Schedule your free clarity call here From my soul to yours, Erin

    18 min

  7. 18 SEPT

    145 | Inflation, Debt, and the Federal Reserve: What You’re Not Being Told

    Work with Me: (https://tidycal.com/eringray/45-min-call-with-erin) Have you ever wondered how the banking system actually works? In this episode, I'm sharing the hidden history of money and how our banking system was deliberately designed to benefit a few at the expense of the many. I debated on creating this episode because I feel like it can feel so heavy AND I wanted to share from the lens of empowerment. The old fear-based systems of scarcity and control are beginning to crumble, and we’re at a pivotal moment in history. I believe when conscious people create wealth from a place of love and integrity, they circulate it differently and invest it in ways that uplift humanity rather than exploiting it. What you’ll learn in this episode: Why the Federal Reserve was secretly created The impact of removing the gold standard in the 1970sHow inflation and debt were deliberately built into our systemWhy these structures were created from a lower-consciousness paradigmHow understanding the banking system can help you feel more empoweredWhy I believe that wealth created from higher consciousness can transform the world Resources mentioned in this episode: The Creature from Jekyll Island by G. Edward Griffin Want to learn more or connect with me? Step 1: Join my Facebook Community. Connect, share, and learn how to relate to your money with other women just like you. ➡️ Join here Step 2: Grab your free Human Design chart Curious what your Human Design chart reveals about how you're uniquely designed to make aligned financial decisions? ➡️ Get your chart here Step 3: Work with Me Learn how to trust your choices, honor your worth, and feel financial freedom that lives in your body, not just on paper. ➡️ Schedule your free clarity call here From my soul to yours, Erin

    13 min

  8. 15 SEPT

    144 | What’s Your Definition of a Wealth Mindset? Here’s Mine

    Work with Me: (https://tidycal.com/eringray/45-min-call-with-erin) In this episode, I share what it means to move beyond the conventional definition of a “wealth mindset.” Instead of focusing only on strategies or numbers, I explore how your feelings, nervous system, and self-trust are the real foundations of abundance. We’ll also explore why nervous system regulation is essential for wealth creation. When you’re living in fight-or-flight, it makes it more difficult to access intuition or feel safe making financial decisions. By calming your body and seeing money as a neutral tool that serves your values, you reclaim financial sovereignty. What you’ll learn in this episode: How to stop outsourcing your financial decisions and build self-trustWhy nervous system regulation is the hidden key to financial intuitionHow to prioritize your values and let money serve youWhy money is neutral—and what that means for your sense of abundanceHow to see yourself as already wealthy, no matter your bank balancePractical reflection prompts to deepen your relationship with moneyWant to learn more or connect with me? Step 1: Join my Facebook Community. Connect, share, and learn how to relate to your money with other women just like you. ➡️ Join here Step 2: Grab your free Human Design chart Curious what your Human Design chart reveals about how you're uniquely designed to make aligned financial decisions? ➡️ Get your chart here Step 3: Work with Me Learn how to trust your choices, honor your worth, and feel financial freedom that lives in your body, not just on paper. ➡️ Schedule your free clarity call here From my soul to yours, Erin

    13 min
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Ready to stop avoiding your money? You might look financially successful on the outside, but inside you feel anxious about money, unsure of what’s “enough,” or exhausted from trying to get it right. Even with wealth on paper, your nervous system can still feel scarcity. You’re not the only one, and you’re in the right place. Hi, I’m Erin, Spiritual Wealth Coach, former Certified Financial Planner, and CFO.  I created this podcast to help you build true financial confidence, not just more financial knowledge. For years, I chased numbers in the bank account, outsourced decisions to financial advisors, and still felt guilt, pressure, and never “enoughness.” I didn’t realize I was stuck in a scarcity mindset. What changed everything was realizing that money isn’t just about strategy, it’s about relationship. To feel safe and empowered with money, I needed nervous system regulation, emotional safety, and an abundance mindset. On this podcast, we go beyond budgeting and financial planning.  We talk about money mindset, wealth embodiment, nervous system safety, and creating money systems that feel good to use, so you can stop spiraling in shame, ground into your worth, and experience real financial freedom. If you’re ready to trust yourself with money and create wealth on your terms, this podcast is for you. I’m so glad you’re here.  Let’s dive in.

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