I Missed Me

Mafe Anzures
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To whoever this may impact... Sometimes, our lives have to be completely shaken up, changed and rearranged to relocate us where we're really meant to be. Sometimes change feels like loss, transformation is scary, and sometimes, to discover the best version of ourselves, we must let go of absolutely everything that's holding us down. Welcome to I Missed Me, your new safe space, i hope to be a part of your healing journey. With love, Mafe Go to https://beacons.ai/imissedme and checkout all of I Missed Me Checkout my personal socials below https://mafeanzures.com/

  1. 6 HR AGO

    IF YOU FEEL LAZY TODAY LISTEN TO THIS - How to stay consistent when you don’t feel motivated

    It’s easy to feel like you’re failing when the motivation just isn't there, but the real breakthrough comes from learning to show up even when you feel "lazy." In this episode, we’re stripping away the pressure to be perfect and getting honest about what it looks like to stay consistent during a low-energy week. We’re moving past the "all or nothing" mindset and focusing on the small, non-negotiable promises that keep you moving toward your goals. From practical shifts in your routine to the 3 tips that help me stay disciplined when I’d rather stay in bed, this is a reminder that your evolution is built in the quiet, unmotivated moments, not just the high-energy ones. If you’ve been waiting for a "spark" to get started again or feel like you’re falling behind because you’re tired, this episode is for you. What’s Inside: Redefining Motivation: Why relying on a feeling is the quickest way to stay stuck. Navigating the "Lazy" Days: My personal approach to maintaining momentum when energy is low. 3 Practical Discipline Tips: Actionable steps to help you stay committed to your vision. The Power of Showing Up: How small, messy actions lead to long-term identity shifts. With Love, Mafe. Go to https://beacons.ai/imissedme and check out all of I Missed Me. Check out my personal socials below https://beacons.ai/mafeanzures Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    24 min
  2. You Might Also Like: On Purpose with Jay Shetty

    6 HR AGO ·  BONUS

    You Might Also Like: On Purpose with Jay Shetty

    Introducing Logan Ury: #1 Dating Mistake That Leads to the Wrong Relationship (Use THIS Compatibility Test Before You Get Attached) from On Purpose with Jay Shetty. Follow the show: On Purpose with Jay Shetty Many of us have been on countless dead-end dates, excited by the wrong people, overlooking the right ones, and left wondering why finding a healthy relationship still feels so complicated. Jay sits down with behavioral scientist and dating coach Logan Ury to explore why modern dating feels harder than ever and what we can actually do to build meaningful relationships in a world full of options. Together, they unpack the hidden psychology behind attraction, the myths we believe about “the spark,” and how dating apps have changed the way we evaluate potential partners. Logan shares how many people unknowingly sabotage their chances at love by chasing instant chemistry instead of long-term compatibility, reminding us that the strongest relationships are often built through curiosity, emotional safety, and shared values rather than immediate intensity. Jay and Logan also dive into the patterns that keep people stuck in cycles of disappointing relationships. From the pressure to find the “perfect” partner to the fear of vulnerability, they discuss how modern dating culture can create unrealistic expectations. Logan explains the difference between people who date intentionally and those who drift through relationships without clarity, and why small mindset shifts, like asking better questions, focusing on growth potential, and recognizing emotional availability, can dramatically change our outcomes. The conversation highlights how understanding our own habits, attachment styles, and communication patterns can help us show up more authentically in love. In this episode you'll learn: How to Stop Chasing the Wrong People How to Look Beyond the First Date Spark How to Choose Compatibility Over Chemistry How to Date with Clear Intentions How to Avoid the “Maximizer” Dating Trap How to Ask Better Questions on Dates How to Build Attraction That Grows Over Time How to Date in a World of Endless Options If dating has ever made you feel discouraged, confused, or like you’re falling behind, you’re not alone. Building a meaningful relationship in today’s world can feel overwhelming, but the truth is that love isn’t about finding someone perfect, it’s about finding someone willing to grow with you. What are your dating blind spots? Take the quiz to find out! www.loganury.com/quiz   If you’re ready to understand your patterns in love and build healthier relationships, check out How to Not Die Alone. Click here to order: https://www.amazon.com/How-Not-Die-Alone-Surprising/dp/1982120622  With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty JAY’S DAILY WISDOM DELIVERED STRAIGHT TO YOUR INBOX Join 900,000+ readers discovering how small daily shifts create big life change with my free newsletter. Subscribe here.  Check out our Apple subscription to unlock bonus content of On Purpose! https://lnk.to/JayShettyPodcast  What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 01:11 The Problem with Modern Dating Expectations 04:16 The Three Types of Daters 06:30 Do You Believe In a Soulmate? 08:20 Why Dating Burnout Is So Common 10:23 Why Does Dating Feel So Difficult Today? 14:04 Why Hustle Culture Fails in Dating 15:46 Two Ways to Approach Dating Intentionally 18:52 What Is “Chalant” Dating? 21:35 When Rejection Becomes Content 24:12 The Rise of a Hesitant Generation 26:01 Why We’re Afraid to Make a Move 27:14 The Challenge of Male Vulnerability 29:23 Why Rejection Feels So Personal 32:21 The Fear of Choosing the Wrong Person 38:01 What Actually Predicts Long-Term Relationship Success? 44:36 The Biggest Lie We’re Told About Love 47:13 The Myth of the Movie-Moment First Meeting 49:22 Are Dating Apps Making Us Replaceable? 50:19 Start by Fixing Your Dating Profile 53:58 How to Optimize Your Dating Profile 01:08:07 Make It Easy for People to Engage with You 01:10:01 What Is Friction-Maxing? 01:12:11 “Rose Jail” on Hinge  01:15:58 Choosing a Partner Takes Real Effort 01:17:13 Do You Believe in  “Right Person, Wrong Time?” 01:18:22 Are People Giving Up Too Quickly on Love? 01:19:57 Post Date Eight  01:23:35 How Do You Define Love? 01:25:15 Is Love Alone Enough? 01:26:24 Falling in Love vs. Being in Love 01:27:50 What Truly Makes a Great Partner? 01:29:18 Are Your Standards Too High? 01:31:19 Understanding the “Ick” 01:35:23 This or That: Love Edition 01:40:36 Logan on Final Five Episode Resources: Website | https://www.loganury.com/  Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/loganury  LinkedIn | linkedin.com/in/loganury/  The Later Daters: https://www.netflix.com/ph-en/title/81665880 See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. DISCLAIMER: Please note, this is an independent podcast episode not affiliated with, endorsed by, or produced in conjunction with the host podcast feed or any of its media entities. The views and opinions expressed in this episode are solely those of the creators and guests. For any concerns, please reach out to team@podroll.fm.

  3. 23 MAR

    OUTGROWING FRIENDSHIPS WITHOUT FEELING LIKE THE VILLAIN - Let Go of People Without Feeling Guilty

    We talk a lot about wanting to keep every connection forever... but what if the real shift happens when we stop treating "moving on" like a crime and start seeing it as a requirement for our own evolution? In this episode, we’re getting honest about the heavy, often silent transition of outgrowing friendships and navigating the constant identity shifts of your 20s. From the guilt that eats at you when you realize you no longer "click" with certain people to the bittersweet truth that some relationships are meant to be a season, not the whole story—this is a reminder that choosing your growth doesn't make you a bad person. If you’ve ever felt like you’re "the villain" for needing more than your current circle can give, or if you’re struggling to let go of a version of yourself that no longer exists, this episode is for you. With Love, Mafe. Go to https://beacons.ai/imissedme and check out all of I Missed Me. Check out my personal socials below https://beacons.ai/mafeanzures Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    26 min

  4. 16 MAR

    HAVING A BOYFRIEND IS NOT EMBARRASSING - Is Having a Boyfriend Embarrassing or Are You?

    This episode is inspired by the viral Vogue article "Is Having a Boyfriend Embarrassing Now?" Because I kind of agree, not because love is embarrassing, but because, like the article says, making your boyfriend the center of your life is not healthy.  We’re getting honest about identity, codependency, and the "cringe" of making a relationship your whole personality. From the ways we abandon our own passions to the subtle habit of disappearing into someone else’s life—this is a reminder that healthy love should amplify who you are, not replace it. If you’ve ever felt like you lost your "cool" the moment you got into a relationship, or you’re struggling to find the balance between being a partner and being your own person, this episode is for you. With Love, Mafe. Go to https://beacons.ai/imissedme and check out all of I Missed Me. Check out my personal socials below https://beacons.ai/mafeanzures Link to article: https://www.vogue.com/article/is-having-a-boyfriend-embarrassing-now #Vogue #RelationshipAdvice #IMissedMe #SelfGrowth #IdentityCrisis Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    34 min

  5. 9 MAR

    5 FRIENDSHIP RED FLAGS - Watch Out For This Type of "Friends”

    We spend so much energy making excuses for people that we stop listening to what our gut is actually telling us. It’s not about being quick to judge or cutting people off at the first sign of friction; it’s about learning to distinguish between a bad day and a pattern of behavior that doesn't respect your worth. In this episode, we’re getting honest about self-awareness, discernment, and the messy reality of outgrowing people. It’s not about being judgmental; it’s about learning how to fairly assess if a connection is healthy or just heavy. From identifying one-sided energy and subtle competition to knowing when to set a boundary versus when to walk away—this is a reminder that the quality of your life is often a reflection of the people you allow to stay in it. If you’ve ever felt drained by a "best friend," struggled with the friend who only reaches out for favors, or wondered how to actually act on the red flags you’re seeing without feeling like the "bad guy," this episode is for you. With Love, Mafe. Go to https://beacons.ai/imissedme and check out all of I Missed Me. Check out my personal socials below https://beacons.ai/mafeanzures Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    20 min

  6. 2 MAR

    YOU ARE NOT BEHIND - How to Stop Comparing Yourself and Start Trusting Your Timeline

    We often talk about wanting to achieve more or reach that next milestone… but what if the real shift happens when we finally stop looking at everyone else’s clock and start trusting our own? In this episode, we’re getting honest about comparison, the pressure of "feeling behind," and how to reclaim your peace. From the toxic cycle of social media scrolling to the deep-seated fear that we aren't doing enough - this is a reminder that your journey isn't a race, and your timeline is exactly where it needs to be. If you’ve ever felt like you’re falling short, wondered why everyone else seems to have it figured out, or felt that heavy weight of "comparison is the thief of joy," this episode is for you. With Love, Mafe. Go to https://beacons.ai/imissedme and check out all of I Missed Me. Check out my personal socials below https://beacons.ai/mafeanzures #selfhelp #healing #feelingbehind Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    19 min

  7. 23 FEB

    THIS VERSION OF YOU HAS TO DIE - Why Growth Requires the End of Your Old Self

    We often talk about wanting to change our lives… but what if the real shift happens when we finally let go of the person we used to be? In this episode, we’re getting honest about the grieving process of personal growth and why growth requires the end of your old self. From the discomfort of "losing yourself" to the beauty of rediscovery — this is a reminder that you aren't alone in feeling lost during your evolution. If you’ve ever felt like you’re in a transition period where you no longer fit into your old life but don't quite know who the "new you" is yet, this episode is for you. With Love, Mafe. Go to https://beacons.ai/imissedme and check out all of I Missed Me. Check out my personal socials below https://beacons.ai/mafeanzures Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    21 min

  8. 16 FEB

    THE “RIGHT TIME” DOESN’T EXIST - Stop waiting for the “perfect time” to start

    Let’s be real for a second: the "perfect time" is a myth we tell ourselves so we don't have to start. If you’ve been sitting on an idea, a goal, or a version of yourself that you’re dying to meet, but you’re waiting for the stars to align... this episode is your sign to be honest with yourself. Today, we’re breaking down why we procrastinate, how perfectionism is actually just fear, and how taking messy action completely changed my life. I’m sharing the raw truth about how I stopped waiting and started doing. No more "I'll start Monday." We’re starting now. With Love, Mafe. Go to https://beacons.ai/imissedme and check out all of I Missed Me. Check out my personal socials below https://beacons.ai/mafeanzure. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    17 min
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To whoever this may impact... Sometimes, our lives have to be completely shaken up, changed and rearranged to relocate us where we're really meant to be. Sometimes change feels like loss, transformation is scary, and sometimes, to discover the best version of ourselves, we must let go of absolutely everything that's holding us down. Welcome to I Missed Me, your new safe space, i hope to be a part of your healing journey. With love, Mafe Go to https://beacons.ai/imissedme and checkout all of I Missed Me Checkout my personal socials below https://mafeanzures.com/

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  • Creator
    Mafe Anzures
  • Years Active
    2022 - 2026
  • Episodes
    202
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Mafe Anzures
  • Show Website
    I Missed Me

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