Your Relationshift

Relationshift
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Welcome to Your Relationshift, hosted by Hindi Kalmenson and Chayale Tzukernik. Together, they bring their wealth of experience and passion for relationships, self-development, and Chassidic teachings to provide listeners with practical wisdom and inspiration about a healthy Jewish marriage. Hindi, a marriage and relationship coach from LA, and Chayale, a celebrated high school teacher and speaker from Crown Heights, delve into the principles of Relationshift, sharing stories and insights that have transformed the lives of many women. In each episode, you'll hear heartfelt discussions and personal anecdotes that illuminate the core concepts of Relationshift, offering a blend of deep Chassidic teachings and practical advice. Whether you're looking to strengthen your marriage, enhance personal growth, or simply enjoy thought-provoking conversations, Your Relationshift is your go-to source for profound, relatable, and uplifting content. Join Hindi and Chayale as they guide you on a journey toward greater clarity, connection, and empowerment in your relationships and beyond.

  1. قبل ٦ أيام

    Hard Pass: "Men Are Like Puppies... They Need Training"

    In this refreshingly honest Hard Pass episode, co-hosts Hindi Kalmenson and Chayale Tzukernik take aim at a cringeworthy but all-too-common piece of advice: “Men are like puppies—they need training.” With humor and heart, they unpack the hidden implications behind this mindset, challenging the notion that a woman’s role is to manage, correct, or “train” her husband into becoming who she wants him to be. While acknowledging the desire many women have to feel seen for the ways they influence their homes, they caution against taking full credit—or control—for their husband’s growth. Instead, they advocate for mutual respect and authentic partnership, not a dynamic that turns the husband into a project and the wife into his handler. Hindi and Chayale go deeper, exploring how subtle forms of control—even when framed positively—can leave women feeling burdened, lonely, and resentful. From the “he's my fourth child” mentality to the idea that a wife must always lead, the hosts show how these beliefs erode intimacy and partnership. Ultimately, they encourage listeners to drop the leash, let go of the pressure to parent their spouses, and start recognizing their husbands as capable adults. If you’ve ever felt stuck in the exhausting role of the “default leader,” this empowering conversation offers clarity, validation, and a much-needed shift in perspective.

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  2. قبل ٦ أيام

    Hard Pass: "Date Night is a Must"

    In this Hard Pass mini-episode of Your Relationshift, co-hosts Hindi Kalmenson and Chayale Tzukernik tackle the often-repeated relationship advice: “Date Night is a Must.” While acknowledging the potential beauty behind the idea—dedicated time together, lightness, and space outside of the daily grind—they unpack the heavy expectations and pressure that can make date nights more stressful than connecting. From logistical and financial challenges to emotional landmines around who plans the evening and how it unfolds, Hindi and Chayale highlight how rigidly holding to this standard can actually create more tension, not less. Instead, they encourage a more nuanced and empowering view of connection. Rather than clinging to a formulaic fix, they advocate for authenticity, creativity, and mutual intention in nurturing a relationship. A healthy marriage isn’t defined by scheduled outings, but by the consistent effort to make space for each other in a way that feels natural and loving. With warmth and honesty, the hosts invite listeners to rethink what connection looks like—and to take a hard pass on advice that oversimplifies the complex beauty of real relationships.

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  3. قبل ٦ أيام

    Hard Pass: "I" Statements

    In this Hard Pass mini-episode of Your Relationshift, co-hosts Hindi Kalmenson and Chayale Tzukernik take a critical look at the popular communication tool known as the “I statement.” While commonly recommended as a way to express emotions without blame, they explore how—even with the best intentions—I statements can often still carry an undercurrent of criticism and create a subtle dynamic of victimhood. Through relatable examples, they show how what may appear as honest sharing can actually be a more sophisticated way of placing blame on others for our internal experiences. Chayale and Hindi challenge listeners to consider deeper personal ownership in communication, encouraging self-inquiry over self-victimization. Instead of relying on formulaic language, they suggest shifting the focus toward uncovering one's true desires and approaching conversations from a place of inspiration and clarity. With their signature blend of insight, warmth, and Torah-based wisdom, the hosts offer a fresh and empowering perspective on what genuine connection really requires—making this a must-listen for anyone seeking more authentic relationships.

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  4. ٢٧ يناير

    Interview with Hadasa Rosenblum

    In this rich and insightful episode of Your Relationshift, Chayale Tzukernik sits down with coach Hadasa Rosenblum for a powerful conversation about the core mindset shifts that transform marriage, motherhood, and selfhood. Hadasa shares the foundational truths she wishes every woman knew before marriage—how to understand the essential differences between men and women, how to catch the stories we subconsciously tell ourselves, and how to view our relationship challenges not as mistakes, but as Divinely orchestrated growth opportunities. Through vivid examples from both marriage and parenting, she illustrates how shifting our perspective allows us to receive the love and support that's already present—and to respond to challenges with confidence instead of fear. As the conversation deepens, Hadasa explores the importance of nurturing our identity beyond the roles we fill—reminding listeners that we are also individuals with a mind, heart, body, and soul that need care and attention. Whether it’s through learning, meaningful friendships, or soul-nourishing rituals, she encourages women to reclaim their wholeness not in spite of their responsibilities, but as a vital part of them. With warmth, clarity, and humility, this episode offers empowering guidance for women at every stage of life who want to live and love with more joy, purpose, and inner alignment.

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  5. ١٣ يناير

    The Outlaws

    In this powerful episode of Your Relationshift, Hindi Kalmenson and Chayale Tzukernik tackle a deeply relatable challenge sent in by a listener: what happens when your husband seems more emotionally connected to his mother and sisters than to you? With compassion, honesty, and wisdom drawn from Torah and Chassidic teachings, they explore the emotional undercurrents of feeling sidelined in marriage, the pain it can trigger, and how this dynamic can shake a woman’s sense of value and connection. They reflect on the symbolic meaning of breaking the glass under the chuppah, highlighting the transition a man undergoes from being a receiver in his family of origin to becoming a mashpia (giver) in his new home. Rather than offering blame or simple fixes, Hindi and Chayale empower listeners to view these situations through the lens of growth, abundance, and self-awareness. They discuss how perception—how we choose to receive and interpret a mother-in-law’s presence—can shift an entire dynamic. They introduce practical tools like trusting the connection, reinforcing your essential value, and cultivating respect for the mitzvah of kibud av v’eim (honoring parents). This episode is a heartfelt invitation to look inward, embrace personal agency, and transform a place of pain into an opportunity for deepening both marriage and self.

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    Hard Pass: "Marriage is 50-50"

    In this Hard Pass episode, Hindi and Chayale take on the well-intentioned but ultimately misleading idea that marriage should be 50/50. While the concept of equal partnership sounds fair and modern, they unpack why this mindset often leads to disappointment, resentment, and even control. From keeping score to unrealistic expectations of sameness, the hosts explain how striving for a strict 50/50 split in roles, responsibilities, or emotional investment can erode the very connection couples are trying to build. Instead, they offer a healthier, Torah-rooted alternative: each partner should bring 100% of themselves to the marriage—not just meet halfway. Hindi and Chayale explore how differences in masculine and feminine energy, parenting styles, and strengths are meant to create a flow, not a checklist. They remind us that true partnership isn’t about perfect balance—it’s about presence, appreciation, and the willingness to show up fully, even when things aren’t “even.”

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    Hard Pass: "Feed That Man"

    In this episode of Hard Pass, Hindi and Chayale dig into the outdated and oversimplified advice: “The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach.” From the pressure to always have food cooking to the belief that feeding your husband is the key to a successful marriage, they explore how this message reduces men to basic impulses and leaves women feeling undervalued, overwhelmed, or inadequate—especially if cooking isn't their strength or passion. With their usual warmth and clarity, the hosts reframe the role of food in a relationship: nourishing your family is beautiful, but it’s not the foundation of emotional intimacy or connection. Hindi and Chayale unpack how this kind of advice can be subtly controlling, condescending, and ultimately harmful to both partners. Instead, they advocate for a more balanced, respectful view—where love isn’t earned through meals, but built through mutual understanding, communication, and genuine care.

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    Hard Pass: "Attention! Salute!"

    In this compelling Hard Pass episode, Hindi and Chayale unpack the common piece of advice given to many women: “Always be ready for your husband.” Whether it’s about emotional availability, physical appearance, or stopping everything to prioritize his needs, the hosts explore how this mindset—though often rooted in traditional ideals—can lead to imbalance, burnout, and resentment. They challenge the assumption that devotion means self-erasure, and instead advocate for a model of marriage that honors both partners’ experiences and boundaries. With clarity and compassion, Hindi and Chayale explore the deeper dynamics at play, including the misconception that constantly serving your husband fosters peace. They share how orienting your entire life around your spouse can disrupt the natural flow of a healthy mashpia–mekabel relationship, and offer a powerful reframe: your marriage should be the priority—not one individual within it. Listeners will walk away with practical language, emotional permission, and a refreshing perspective on how mutual respect, presence, and balance can truly strengthen a relationship.

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Welcome to Your Relationshift, hosted by Hindi Kalmenson and Chayale Tzukernik. Together, they bring their wealth of experience and passion for relationships, self-development, and Chassidic teachings to provide listeners with practical wisdom and inspiration about a healthy Jewish marriage. Hindi, a marriage and relationship coach from LA, and Chayale, a celebrated high school teacher and speaker from Crown Heights, delve into the principles of Relationshift, sharing stories and insights that have transformed the lives of many women. In each episode, you'll hear heartfelt discussions and personal anecdotes that illuminate the core concepts of Relationshift, offering a blend of deep Chassidic teachings and practical advice. Whether you're looking to strengthen your marriage, enhance personal growth, or simply enjoy thought-provoking conversations, Your Relationshift is your go-to source for profound, relatable, and uplifting content. Join Hindi and Chayale as they guide you on a journey toward greater clarity, connection, and empowerment in your relationships and beyond.

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