Divorce Differently

Chloe Oudiz

I am an Alternative Dispute Resolution specialist and Certified divorce coach. I specialise in working with people at every step of the divorce process to help them manage the overwhelm and focus on strategic outcomes, so they are prepared to make the best decisions for themselves and their children. There is no doubt that less angst means less conflict, which results in less legal costs and better outcomes from everyone. Join me for regular Q&A conversations with various divorce and separation professionals across a range of relevant themes. We will tackle a range of issues across all topics, from finances to children matters and legal aspects. These podcasts will be of particular interest to those thinking of, experiencing or having lived through divorce or separation. Website: ⁠www.thedivorceandseparationcoach.com⁠ Contact: ⁠chloe@thedivorceandseparationcoach.com⁠ ⁠Book a Free Discovery Call on my website

  1. 01/05/2024

    Who gets the money? Understanding pension sharing during divorce (E&W)

    Find out more about The Divorce and Separation Coach at ⁠⁠www.thedivorceandseparationcoach.com⁠⁠ Book a FREE Discovery call by emailing ⁠⁠chloe@thedivorceandseparationcoach.com⁠ ✨Can your ex get some of your pension as part of the divorce financial settlement? ✨How is the pension pot evaluated? ✨How and when does this get paid out? Lauren, a Partner at ⁠Stowe Family Law⁠, is an experienced family lawyer with expertise in divorce, financial settlement, arrangements for children and cohabitation matters. Lauren joined me to explain how pension funds are treated in divorce proceedings in England and Wales. We discussed how it gets divided, evaluated and shared. #divorce ⁠#separation⁠ ⁠#divorcehelp⁠ ⁠#divorcesupport⁠ ⁠#divorcecoaching⁠ ⁠#divorcecoach⁠ ⁠#money⁠ ⁠#finances⁠ ⁠#divorceadviceformen⁠ ⁠#divorceadviceforwomen⁠ ⁠#divorceadvice⁠ ⁠#financial⁠ ⁠#children⁠ ⁠#help⁠ ⁠#guidance⁠ ⁠#advice⁠ ⁠#tips⁠ ⁠#information⁠ ⁠#divorcedwoman⁠ ⁠#expats⁠ ⁠#international⁠ ⁠#internationalfamily⁠ ⁠#internationalmarriage⁠ ⁠#abroad⁠ ⁠#overseas⁠ ⁠#expatriatelife⁠ ⁠#expatriate⁠ ⁠#women⁠ ⁠#women_issues⁠ ⁠#parents⁠ ⁠#parenting⁠ ⁠#parentingtips⁠ ⁠#coparentingwithanarcissist⁠ ⁠#coparentingwithanarcissist⁠ ⁠#coparent⁠ ⁠#coparentingstruggles⁠ ⁠#familylaw⁠ ⁠#lawyer⁠ ⁠#familylawyer⁠ ⁠#divorcelawyer⁠ ⁠#divorcetips⁠ ⁠#financialadvisor⁠ ⁠#mediation⁠ ⁠#mediator⁠ ⁠#collaborative⁠ ⁠#goals⁠ ⁠#goalsetting⁠ ⁠#decisionmaking⁠ ⁠#decisions⁠ ⁠#objectives⁠ ⁠#outcomes⁠ ⁠#outcome⁠ ⁠#coaching⁠ ⁠#coach⁠ ⁠#agree2disagree⁠ ⁠#agreetodisagree⁠ ⁠#agreements⁠ ⁠#agreement⁠ ⁠#economy⁠

    Who gets the money? Understanding pension sharing during divorce (E&W)
  2. 16/04/2024

    Choosing the right jurisdiction for your divorce

    When do couples have a choice with regards to the jurisdiction they get divorced in? What are the implications of this decision? What should they consider when choosing a jurisdiction? For this conversation, I hosted Lucy Greenwood, Partner at The International Family Law Group LLP (iFLG). Lucy specialises exclusively in family law and advises on all legal aspects of family/relationship breakdown. Her work often comprises advising international families in England or abroad who have connections to England through residence or birth. She deals with amongst other things, divorce, recognition of marriages and divorces, pre-and post-nuptial agreements, financial cases, and jurisdiction issues where urgent action is often needed. www.thedivorceandseparationcoach.com Book a FREE Discovery call by emailing: chloe@thedivorceandseparationcoach.com #divorce #separation #divorcehelp #divorcesupport #divorcecoaching #divorcecoach #money #finances #divorceadviceformen #divorceadviceforwomen #divorceadvice #financial #children #help #guidance #advice #tips #information #divorcedwoman #expats #international #internationalfamily #internationalmarriage #abroad #overseas #expatriatelife #expatriate #women #women_issues #parents #parenting #parentingtips #coparentingwithanarcissist #coparentingwithanarcissist #coparent #coparentingstruggles #familylaw #lawyer #familylawyer #divorcelawyer #divorcetips #financialadvisor #mediation #mediator #collaborative #goals #goalsetting #decisionmaking #decisions #objectives #outcomes #outcome #coaching #coach #agree2disagree #agreetodisagree #agreements #agreement #economy

    Choosing the right jurisdiction for your divorce
  3. 09/04/2024

    The voice of the child in UK divorce cases

    • What orders can the court make in relation to children and when to children cases come to court? • What is CAFCASS and what is its role? • How are children’s voices heard in Family Court proceedings? To discuss this topic, I have invited Olivia Piercy. Olivia is a Partner at Hunters Law. She specialises in Family law, helping divorcing couples through both financial and children matters. Olivia has a particular focus on cross-border cases and her practice includes cases relating to child abduction, child protection and relocation. Olivia has specialist expertise in cases involving allegations of domestic abuse including coercive and controlling behaviour and economic abuse. www.thedivorceandseparationcoach.com Book a FREE Discovery call by emailing: chloe@thedivorceandseparationcoach.com #divorce #separation #divorcehelp #divorcesupport #divorcecoaching #divorcecoach #money #finances #divorceadviceformen #divorceadviceforwomen #divorceadvice #financial #children #help #guidance #advice #tips #information #divorcedwoman #expats #international #internationalfamily #internationalmarriage #abroad #overseas #expatriatelife #expatriate #women #women_issues #parents #parenting #parentingtips #coparentingwithanarcissist #coparentingwithanarcissist #coparent #coparentingstruggles #familylaw #lawyer #familylawyer #divorcelawyer #divorcetips #financialadvisor #mediation #mediator #collaborative #goals #goalsetting #decisionmaking #decisions #objectives #outcomes #outcome #coaching #coach #agree2disagree #agreetodisagree #agreements #agreement #economy

    The voice of the child in UK divorce cases
  4. 30/03/2024

    Family mediation: how it works, what to expect and how to prepare

    Who can use Family Mediation? How does it work? How much does it cost? What happens afterwards? I was joined by Katy Harris, qualified Family Law and Civil Mediator. Katy is the owner of Mediation Matters in London. Katy promotes mediation as an alternative dispute resolution and brings considerable energy, knowledge and compassion to her practice. She wholly believes in the opportunities that mediation offers, allowing clients to remain in control of their decisions, resolve conflict, move forward with their lives and importantly, avoid unnecessary, stressful, and expensive court proceedings. www.thedivorceandseparationcoach.com Book a FREE Discovery call by emailing: chloe@thedivorceandseparationcoach.com #divorce #separation #divorcehelp #divorcesupport #divorcecoaching #divorcecoach #money #finances #divorceadviceformen #divorceadviceforwomen #divorceadvice #financial #children #help #guidance #advice #tips #information #divorcedwoman #expats #international #internationalfamily #internationalmarriage #abroad #overseas #expatriatelife #expatriate #women #women_issues #parents #parenting #parentingtips #coparentingwithanarcissist #coparentingwithanarcissist #coparent #coparentingstruggles #familylaw #lawyer #familylawyer #divorcelawyer #divorcetips #financialadvisor #mediation #mediator #collaborative #goals #goalsetting #decisionmaking #decisions #objectives #outcomes #outcome #coaching #coach #agree2disagree #agreetodisagree #agreements #agreement #economy

    Family mediation: how it works, what to expect and how to prepare
  5. 28/03/2024

    Contrat de mariage français vs prenup anglais: que valent-ils et comment choisir?

    Quelle valeur a mon prenup ou mon contrat de marriage au moment du divorce ? Comment se protéger en cas de séparation? Ce podcast sera particulièrement intéressant pour les ressortissants français vivant en Angleterre, car les deux pays ne traitent pas ces contrats de la même manière. Quelles sont les différences entre un contrat de mariage français et un prenup anglais ? Comment sont-il traités par les juges de chaque côté de la Manche? Victoria Plisson est avocat au barreau de Paris. Elle exerce au sein de l'équipe de droit de la famille du cabinet Osbornes Law à Londres. Elle s’occupe de tous les aspects du droit privé de la famille : procédures de divorce et financières, accords prénuptiaux et procédures relatives aux enfants. Le travail de Victoria se concentre principalement sur les affaires anglo-françaises. www.thedivorceandseparationcoach.com Réserver un premier appel gratuit en contactant: chloe@thedivorceandseparationcoach.com #divorce #separation #divorcehelp #divorcesupport #divorcecoaching #divorcecoach #money #finances #divorceadviceformen #divorceadviceforwomen #divorceadvice #financial #children #help #guidance #advice #tips #information #divorcedwoman #expats #international #internationalfamily #internationalmarriage #abroad #overseas #expatriatelife #expatriate #women #women_issues #parents #parenting #parentingtips #coparentingwithanarcissist #coparentingwithanarcissist #coparent #coparentingstruggles #familylaw #lawyer #familylawyer #divorcelawyer #divorcetips #financialadvisor #mediation #mediator #collaborative #goals #goalsetting #decisionmaking #decisions #objectives #outcomes #outcome #coaching #coach #agree2disagree #agreetodisagree #agreements #agreement #economy

    Contrat de mariage français vs prenup anglais: que valent-ils et comment choisir?
  6. 04/03/2024

    Tips for financing your divorce

    As many of you know, divorce can be expensive, especially when it is being resolved through litigation. I regularly see couples in my practice who find themselves under significant financial strain during their divorce, either because they are trying to keep up with their spouse’s legal representation or because they have gotten themselves in a vicious circle of legal expenses required to complete their divorce. On average, the cost of a divorce in the UK is £14,000. The obvious best way of avoiding an escalation of legal costs during your divorce is to try to achieve an arrangement out of court. For the fortunate ones who manage to find an agreement on their own, the divorce can end up costing less than £1000. But even those who need support will find that Family Mediation, for example, is on average 97% less costly than a litigated family law case. So what are the options for those who need extra cash during their divorce? For this episode, I was joined today by Avni Vaghela from Rhea Family Finance. Rhea specialise in providing loans for legal fees, associated costs and a wide range of expenses for people going through the family litigation process. For additional information or to contact someone at Rhea Family Finance, visit their website: https://www.rheafamily.co.uk/welcome Avni has kindly agreed to speak to us and talk us through how litigation funding works and how it can be leveraged. ⁠⁠www.thedivorceandseparationcoach.com⁠⁠ Book a free Discovery call by emailing ⁠⁠chloe@thedivorceandseparationcoach.com⁠⁠ #divorce #separation #divorcehelp #divorcesupport #divorcecoaching #divorcecoach #money #finances #divorceadviceformen #divorceadviceforwomen #divorceadvice #financial #children #help #guidance #advice #tips #information #divorcedwoman #expats #international #internationalfamily #internationalmarriage #abroad #overseas #expatriatelife #expatriate #women #women_issues #parents #parenting #parentingtips #coparentingwithanarcissist #coparentingwithanarcissist #coparent #coparentingstruggles #familylaw #lawyer #familylawyer #divorcelawyer #divorcetips #financialadvisor #mediation #mediator #collaborative #goals #goalsetting #decisionmaking #decisions #objectives #outcomes #outcome #coaching #coach #agree2disagree #agreetodisagree #agreements #agreement #economy

    Tips for financing your divorce

About

I am an Alternative Dispute Resolution specialist and Certified divorce coach. I specialise in working with people at every step of the divorce process to help them manage the overwhelm and focus on strategic outcomes, so they are prepared to make the best decisions for themselves and their children. There is no doubt that less angst means less conflict, which results in less legal costs and better outcomes from everyone. Join me for regular Q&A conversations with various divorce and separation professionals across a range of relevant themes. We will tackle a range of issues across all topics, from finances to children matters and legal aspects. These podcasts will be of particular interest to those thinking of, experiencing or having lived through divorce or separation. Website: ⁠www.thedivorceandseparationcoach.com⁠ Contact: ⁠chloe@thedivorceandseparationcoach.com⁠ ⁠Book a Free Discovery Call on my website