Dear Son,

Derek Johns
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This is a safe space to build upon and reinforce the values of fatherhood. We'll explore the gaps between the current generation of fathers and fathers of generations past, and mature the dialogue that will close those gaps for the generations to come. Whether your passion is to be a great father or peel back the layers of why your father wasn't present in your life (physically and/or emotionally), this is for you. Let's grow through it.

  1. Are You Tough Enough to Be a Dad? | Ep 181 | The Dear Son, Show

    1 DAY AGO

    Are You Tough Enough to Be a Dad? | Ep 181 | The Dear Son, Show

    Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood. Breaking the Cycle: Fatherhood, Rejection, Lust, and Healing (ft. Trey Tucker | Rugged Counseling) In this episode of The Dear Son Show, host Derek talks with therapist Trey Tucker from the Chattanooga, Tennessee area about fatherhood, the impact of absent or limited fathering, and how “gaps” in guidance shape men. Trey shares his path from the corporate world to education and counseling, his struggles with rejection and a decade-long hookup cycle, and how those experiences affect attachment, identity, and healing. Derek connects these themes to his own story—leaving home young, self-medicating through sex and alcohol, and creating the podcast as accountability to have meaningful conversations with his sons. They discuss grief, losing parents, why environment matters for young men, and Trey’s book Tough Enough aimed at men in their 20s. Subscribe and comment your biggest takeaway. 00:00 Show Welcome 00:31 Tennessee Connection 01:34 Therapist Journey 02:49 Leaving Corporate Life 05:45 Podcast Origin Story 07:42 Roots and Relocation 08:59 Fatherhood Gaps 14:56 Rejection and Validation 19:02 Book for Twenties 21:51 Hookup Cycle Fallout 24:17 Environment Shapes Choices 25:24 Talking Teens and Alcohol 28:15 School Years That Matter 30:30 Marriage and Fatherhood Hopes 32:27 Mentoring With Accountability 34:00 Training Toughness With Care 35:33 Losing Dad and Learning Grief 39:54 Grief Ritual and Healing 44:18 Parents Marriage Model 45:19 Platform Dating and Time 47:21 What I Wish Dad Said 49:32 Measuring Tough Enough Impact 52:13 Closing Reflections and Outro #fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Channel Focus Areas: “What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons” “How to Be a Better Father” “Father Son Relationship Advice” “Mistakes Fathers Make” “Lessons Every Man Should Learn” Follow Trey: https://instagram.com/ruggedcounseling Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    54 min
  2. Life Comes At You Fast | Ep 180 | The Dear Son, Show

    1 APR

    Life Comes At You Fast | Ep 180 | The Dear Son, Show

    Dear Son: Life Comes at You Fast (Problem-Solving, Responsibility & Real-World Lessons) In this episode of The Dear Son Show, D Johns and Jey Blac reflect on how quickly real-life tests can arrive before sons feel prepared, using stories like a late-night tire blowout that revealed gaps in communication, problem-solving, and a father’s tone even when saying the right words. They discuss using unexpected moments as coaching opportunities, balancing protection with letting kids experience consequences, and the danger of “skipping steps,” including buying a teen a new Challenger too soon, allowing passengers, and a wreck that followed—plus lessons from a stolen scooter and earning replacements. The hosts also connect “life comes at you fast” to readiness planning, global events as teachable moments, and personal examples like sudden loss, joining the military, and financial growth outpacing habits, ending with a push to “talk less and do more work.” 00:00 Tire Blowout Cold Open 00:45 Welcome to Dear Son 01:44 Network Updates 03:18 Life Comes Fast 04:58 Late Night Blowout 08:36 Problem Solving Lessons 12:31 Repair Talk and Trust 16:11 Letting Sons Lead 17:30 Car Crash Boundaries 18:34 Scooter Stolen Twice 22:31 Scooter Lesson Learned 23:03 Teen Car Rules 25:03 Crash After Greenlight 27:10 Rewards And Entitlement 29:51 Teach Through Doing 36:58 World Events As Lessons 42:54 Life Came Fast Stories 44:48 Planning And Money Prep 47:34 Closing Lets Talk Work #fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Channel Focus Areas: “What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons” “How to Be a Better Father” “Father Son Relationship Advice” “Mistakes Fathers Make” “Lessons Every Man Should Learn” Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    48 min
  3. Learning to Love Me Again | Stronger After the Hurt | Ep 179 | The Dear Son, Show

    29 MAR

    Learning to Love Me Again | Stronger After the Hurt | Ep 179 | The Dear Son, Show

    Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood. Sara Connor on Fatherhood, Trauma, Faith, and Encouraging Today’s Sons | Dear Son Show On the Dear Son Show during Women’s History Month, host Derek welcomes Sara Connor, a Jamaican-born minister and advisor, who shares her upbringing in a prominent Rastafarian and entrepreneurial family, the trauma of an absent musician father and a crack-addicted mother who was later murdered, and years of sexual abuse that shaped her identity and relationships. Sara describes finding Christian faith after running away at 13, learning self-worth through unconditional love, experiencing miracles, and later using therapy and practical tools to manage grief and triggers. She credits her father’s generosity and respect for creating unity across a blended family and discusses how conditioning led her to overextend for men’s dreams and struggle with boundaries. She explains how she parents her son to preserve kindness, ask for what he wants, and stand up for himself, and closes with encouragement to men facing embarrassment, pressure, and purpose. 00:00 Message to Men 00:45 Show Intro Guest Welcome 01:38 Jamaica Roots Family 03:04 Trauma and Loss 04:49 Blended Family Harmony 07:33 Father Character Generosity 09:38 Abuse and Conditioning 13:53 Faith and Self Worth 19:29 Rastafari and Education 25:04 Healing Support Systems 29:39 Managing Trauma Triggers 33:36 Talking with Dad 35:19 Why No Blame 37:10 Absent Parents Survival 38:12 Trauma Triggers Today 40:40 Seeking Approval In Men 42:46 Faith Culture And Boundaries 47:19 Divorce And Self Rediscovery 50:45 Parenting Kindness And Dreams 58:09 Father’s Pivotal Advice 01:04:52 Healing Family Rifts 01:08:05 Men’s Shame And Purpose 01:17:11 Closing Encouragement #fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk  Channel Focus Areas: “What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons” “How to Be a Better Father” “Father Son Relationship Advice” “Mistakes Fathers Make” “Lessons Every Man Should Learn” Follow Sara: https://instagram.com/iamsaraco Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel,  2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video,  4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com  Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors:  Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show   Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com   My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially:  https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast   https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast   The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma  2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    1hr 18min
  4. Why Men Should Address Disrespect Early | Pick Your Purpose or Your Pain | The Dear Son, Show | 178

    23 MAR

    Why Men Should Address Disrespect Early | Pick Your Purpose or Your Pain | The Dear Son, Show | 178

    Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood. Forrest Laurent on Healing, Purpose vs Pain, and Building a Platform Under Pressure | Dear Son Show On the Dear Son Show, the host speaks with Forrest Laurent about a “grind season” of rebuilding his life through changing his circle, improving discipline, and executing with intention. Forrest describes a public livestream conflict where a woman from a coaching relationship attacked his character, forcing him to confront how often he allowed disrespect and how vulnerable he was emotionally. He explains how creating content to hold men accountable unexpectedly drew women to his platform, and how God used coaching to reveal his resentment toward women and his own role in relational harm, leading him to apologize by listening to people he hurt and growing empathy. They discuss relationships and marriage, learning that “a good opportunity doesn’t mean it’s God,” the weight of stewardship and potential cancellation as a platform grows, and redefining success as peace and alignment with God. 00:00 Public Breaking Point 00:32 Welcome to Dear Son 01:37 Catching Up With Forrest 03:04 Grind Season Reset 03:50 Livestream Disrespect Lesson 06:09 Character Attack Fallout 08:27 Who Am I Now 09:26 Coaching Origin Story 14:33 Healing Views on Women 16:02 Making Amends and Apologies 20:54 Good Opportunity vs God 22:33 Marriage and Intentional Prayer 24:36 Back to Entrepreneurship 25:01 God Pushes You Out 25:35 Betting On Yourself 26:18 Fear of Discipline 28:02 Environment Shapes You 30:05 Peace and Real Success 33:20 God and Accountability 34:47 Platform Vision and Space 38:47 Stewarding Attention 42:53 Rest Versus Quitting 47:08 Whats Next Season 49:29 Living in the Now 54:09 Patterns and Real Love 56:31 Closing Reflections #fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk  Channel Focus Areas: “What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons” “How to Be a Better Father” “Father Son Relationship Advice” “Mistakes Fathers Make” “Lessons Every Man Should Learn” Follow Forrest: https://instagram.com/forrestlaurent Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel,  2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video,  4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com  Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors:  Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show   Candles & Scents - House of Love Kisha J: https://lovekishaj.com   My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially:  https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast   https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast   The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma  2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    58 min
  5. Success Shouldn't Cost You Your Family | Fame and Sacrifice | Ep 177 | The Dear Son, Show

    20 MAR

    Success Shouldn't Cost You Your Family | Fame and Sacrifice | Ep 177 | The Dear Son, Show

    David Mann Jr. on Fatherhood, Legacy, and Redefining Success On The Dear Son Show, the host welcomes David Mann Jr. for a candid conversation about fatherhood, marriage, faith, and legacy. They discuss being hands-on dads during spring break, how parenting choices (sheltering a sickly child vs. letting another take risks) shape kids differently, and how work ambition can create absence at home—driving guilt, marriage strain, and family conflict. David shares growing up in a highly visible gospel/entertainment family, resenting expectations, and later choosing to flow with his path while pursuing DJing, production, and a meaningful business. Both reflect on repairing father-son relationships, defining success beyond money, making time the real currency, and wanting children to feel loved and proud at the end. Follow the channel and leave a review to support more honest conversations like this. 00:00 Show Intro and Welcome 01:01 Catching Up as Dads 01:53 Kids Driving and Sheltering 04:34 Sick Child and Marriage Strain 06:46 Work Guilt and Forgiveness 09:45 Redefining Success and Time 11:56 Sharing Parents With the World 15:25 Repairing Father Son Bond 18:09 Lessons on Work and Teamwork 20:18 Growing Up Around Fame 23:07 Family Business and Identity 24:02 Finding His Own Lane 24:57 Tour With Parents 25:15 Marriage Time Flies 26:56 Lessons From Marriage 27:54 Dad Identity And Pride 28:47 Raising Daughters Today 34:03 Hands On Parenting Shift 35:12 Finding Your Own Dream 38:34 Faith And Expectations 42:01 Legacy Impact Goals 44:37 Fatherhood Reflections 46:25 Family And Sisters 47:22 Where To Find Him 48:07 Closing And Thanks #fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk  Channel Focus Areas: “What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons” “How to Be a Better Father” “Father Son Relationship Advice” “Mistakes Fathers Make” “Lessons Every Man Should Learn” Follow David: https://instagram.com/davidmannjr Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel,  2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video,  4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com  Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors:  Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show   Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com  My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially:  https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast   https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast  The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma  2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    49 min
  6. Fathers Must Stay Emotionally Connected to Their Daughters | The Life of an Ada | Ep 176

    19 MAR

    Fathers Must Stay Emotionally Connected to Their Daughters | The Life of an Ada | Ep 176

    Chika Onunkwo on Fatherhood’s Legacy, Nigerian Upbringing, and Raising Emotionally Safe Kids In this Women’s Series episode of the Dear Son Show, host speaks with Chika Onunkwo, a Nigerian-born mom in New Jersey who moved to the U.S. at 16 and reflects on growing up in Port Harcourt where “black excellence” was normal, then experiencing bias and jokes about Africa after immigrating. Chika shares how her father—an accomplished civil engineer and community giver—modeled provision, emotional availability, high standards, and repair after discipline, shaping her confidence, marriage expectations, and how she parents. She discusses marrying a Nigerian man she met in college, her father’s cultural criteria and emphasis on marrying for love, and how Emotional Moms began from her own struggles balancing corporate work and emotional connection with her sons. She urges parents—especially fathers—to be emotionally present, connect before correcting, and talk openly about taboo topics. Follow the channel and leave a review. 00:00 Show Intro and Guest 01:09 From Nigeria to Jersey 04:24 Black Excellence and Culture Shock 09:01 American Ignorance Abroad 10:37 Her Father’s Legacy 18:13 Oldest Daughter Pressure 20:23 Discipline and Repair 25:51 Sex Talks and Silence 29:57 Marriage and Family Today 33:45 Dad’s Marriage Criteria 37:04 Honoring Dad in Church 37:47 No Matchmaking Allowed 38:21 Marry for Love 39:22 Dad Vetting the Suitor 40:44 Choosing a Husband Like Dad 43:24 Parenting Styles and Teens 46:13 Fathers Must Be Present 52:19 Why Emotional Moms Started 56:04 Behind the Perfect Family 58:27 Work Life and New Calling 59:55 Lessons on Connection 01:04:20 Modeling Values at Home 01:06:10 Talking Porn and Vices 01:08:32 What I Wish Dad Said 01:09:35 Plugging Resources and Farewell #fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Channel Focus Areas: “What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons” “How to Be a Better Father” “Father Son Relationship Advice” “Mistakes Fathers Make” “Lessons Every Man Should Learn” Follow Chika: https://instagram.com/emotionalmoms Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    1hr 12min
  7. Putting Away Foolish Things | Ep 5 | Better Together

    18 MAR

    Putting Away Foolish Things | Ep 5 | Better Together

    Better Together Ep. 5: Putting Away Foolish Things In this Better Together conversation, D Johns, Joe T, Reggie G, and Jey Blac unpack what it means to “put away foolish things,” framing it as an ongoing, seasonal process tied to maturity, self-awareness, and obedience to God. They discuss how distractions, instant gratification, pride, learned behaviors, and unexamined expectations can derail relationships, work, finances, and spiritual growth—especially when people confuse what they expect with what they actually deserve. The group debates marriage, divorce, discernment, premarital counseling, and the pressure of timelines, sharing personal examples about staying too long in jobs or relationships, lacking wise counsel, and mistaking grace for wisdom. They close by challenging listeners to identify their current “foolish thing,” release what’s harming them “at what cost,” and stop celebrating being “the coolest fool in the room.” Follow the channel, watch the long-form episode on YouTube, and leave a review. 00:00 Welcome Back Intro 00:35 Weather And AC Bills 01:41 Show Updates And Subscribe 02:16 Putting Away Foolishness 05:30 Instant Gratification Trap 06:32 Wordsmithing And Avoidance 07:08 Jobs Marriage And Covenant 12:17 God Says Stop Go Time 17:42 Maturity Obedience And Self 23:37 Chasing the Honeymoon 24:04 Grace Without Excuses 25:15 Imperfect Models of Marriage 26:26 Abraham and Ishmael Lessons 28:45 Premarital Counseling Reality Check 31:04 Pride and Entitlement Traps 39:21 Expectations Versus Deserving 42:57 Self Assessment and Hard Talks 46:39 Know When to Let Go 48:18 Final Challenges and Farewell #fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Channel Focus Areas: “What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons” “How to Be a Better Father” “Father Son Relationship Advice” “Mistakes Fathers Make” “Lessons Every Man Should Learn” Shop DSN Merch: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital Shop Father Figure: https://www.f2apparel.store/ Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Follow Joe T: https://instagram.com/bakeriii Follow Reggie: https://instagram.com/fatherfigureapparel Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    51 min
  8. Fatherhood Is NOT a Joke | B Lew | Ep 175 | The Dear Son, Show

    16 MAR

    Fatherhood Is NOT a Joke | B Lew | Ep 175 | The Dear Son, Show

    Brandon Lewis on Fatherlessness, Forgiveness, and Building a Life in Comedy On the Dear Son Show, host Nate welcomes comedian and content creator Brandon Lewis for a wide-ranging conversation on life through fatherhood. Brandon shares growing up in Cobb County, Georgia with a hardworking mother, a brother who became a father figure through tough discipline, and an absent “phone call” dad he didn’t truly know until moving to Los Angeles at 24 to pursue standup. He describes the shock of seeing his father’s vices, the anger and perspective that followed, and how hustling open mics on buses and on foot strengthened his resolve. Now a dad of two daughters, Brandon talks co-parenting, choosing not to repeat his father’s absence, and balancing touring with being present. He defines success as having options, reflects on entrepreneurship vs corporate stability, and closes with what he wishes he’d learned—financial literacy—and what he teaches his kids: “If you listen the first time, your feelings won’t get hurt the second.” 00:00 Welcome to Dear Son 00:17 Meet Brandon Lewis 01:14 From Georgia to LA 02:14 Growing Up Without Dad 04:20 Loss and Family Roots 06:32 Meeting Dad at 24 09:34 Chasing Standup Dreams 11:32 Mother’s View of Dad 13:45 Choosing Active Fatherhood 17:14 Co-Parenting and Happiness 19:57 Entrepreneur vs Corporate Life 22:00 Creative Grind vs Clocking In 23:18 Fatherhood and Tour Sacrifices 26:54 Choosing Comedy in 2010 28:00 Social Media Doubts and Discouragement 31:04 Pushing Through with Teamwork 37:44 Defining Success as Options 42:02 Hosting Energy and Show Control 45:01 Dear Son Lessons and Farewell #fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk  Channel Focus Areas: “What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons” “How to Be a Better Father” “Father Son Relationship Advice” “Mistakes Fathers Make” “Lessons Every Man Should Learn” Follow Brandon: https://instagram.com/whoisbrandonlewis Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel,  2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video,  4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com  Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors:  Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show   Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com   My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially:  https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast   https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast   The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma  2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    50 min
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This is a safe space to build upon and reinforce the values of fatherhood. We'll explore the gaps between the current generation of fathers and fathers of generations past, and mature the dialogue that will close those gaps for the generations to come. Whether your passion is to be a great father or peel back the layers of why your father wasn't present in your life (physically and/or emotionally), this is for you. Let's grow through it.

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  • Creator
    Derek Johns
  • Years Active
    2020 - 2026
  • Episodes
    184
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Derek Johns
  • Show Website
    Dear Son,

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