I Missed Me

Mafe Anzures

To whoever this may impact... Sometimes, our lives have to be completely shaken up, changed and rearranged to relocate us where we're really meant to be. Sometimes change feels like loss, transformation is scary, and sometimes, to discover the best version of ourselves, we must let go of absolutely everything that's holding us down. Welcome to I Missed Me, your new safe space, i hope to be a part of your healing journey. With love, Mafe Go to https://beacons.ai/imissedme and checkout all of I Missed Me Checkout my personal socials below https://mafeanzures.com/

  1. 2 HR AGO

    NOBODY CARES ABOUT ANYTHING - As much as you think they do

    We spend so much time overthinking every little detail of our lives, worrying about that text we sent, how we looked in a photo, or what people thought of our latest move, but the liberating truth is that nobody is thinking about you as much as you think they are. In this episode, we’re unpacking the profound freedom that comes with realizing people just don't care as much as your anxiety tells you they do. We’re diving into digital validation, breaking down why your social media metrics do not dictate your real-world value, and tackling the internal choice we all have to face: are you going to show up as your own biggest critic, or your own biggest fan? It’s time to stop living for an imaginary audience and start building a life that actually feels good on the inside. If you’ve been letting the fear of judgment keep you small, overanalyzing your online presence, or waiting for permission from people who aren't even paying attention, this episode is exactly what you need to hear. The Breakdown: The Spotlight Effect: Why we mistakenly believe everyone is watching our every move, and how to break free from it. Separating Value from the Grid: Reclaiming your self-worth from likes, views, and digital approval. Fan vs. Critic: Learning how to change your internal dialogue and actively root for your own growth. The Freedom of Being Forgotten: How realizing people are focused on themselves gives you the ultimate pass to do whatever you want. With Love, Mafe. Go to https://beacons.ai/imissedme and check out all of I Missed Me. Check out my personal socials below https://beacons.ai/mafeanzures Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    20 min
  2. 2 HR AGO ·  BONUS

    You Might Also Like: The Oprah Podcast

    Introducing The Co-Founders of Claude AI Tell Oprah About the Impact Artificial Intelligence Has on Your Life from The Oprah Podcast. Follow the show: The Oprah Podcast The siblings and co-founders of Claude AI, the CEO, Dario Amodei, and the President, Daniela Amodei, sit down with Oprah for an in-depth discussion on Artificial Intelligence and its profound impact on all of us. Anthropic is one of the largest tech companies leading AI development including their enormously popular chatbot assistant Claude. Dario and Daniela discuss the ethical responsibility and moral questions that come with creating advanced A.I., their new model Mythos and share their thoughts around government regulation. They talk about the potential risks and benefits of A.I. in everyday lives, the impact on jobs and how it will affect children. The Amodei siblings also explain their headline-making refusal of the Pentagon’s request to remove guardrails from Claude and the behind-the-scenes discussions that helped shape their decision. 00:00:00 - Welcome Daniela and Dario Amodei, founders of Anthropic 00:01:47 - Dario on human extinction 00:04:40 - What is the AI race 00:08:00 - Athropic’s safety concerns 00:09:26 - Why they are a public benefit corporation 00:11:20 - How the siblings formed Anthropic 00:13:00 - Can AI be created responsibly 00:14:12 - Benefits and the harms 00:18:52 - People falling in love with AI 00:20:30 - Claude and underage users 00:22:18 - How Claude does not incentivize users 00:28:33 - Anthropic’s refusal to remove guardrails 00:35:10 - Hard decisions they have had to make 00;38:35 - What regulation should look like 00:40:45 - Should people view AI negatively? 00:43:00 - The AI problem to solve 00:48:20 - Men use AI more than women 00:49:30 - What is Mythos 00:53:20 - Does this keep them up at night? 00:54:15 - What keeps ego in check 00:58:20 - Will they get this right? 00:59:15 - Are there others doing this responsibly? 01:03:25 - What is the meaning of a well-lived life? Follow Oprah Winfrey on Social: https://www.instagram.com/oprahpodcast/ https://www.facebook.com/oprahwinfrey/ Listen to the full podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/0tEVrfNp92a7lbjDe6GMLI https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-oprah-podcast/id1782960381 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices DISCLAIMER: Please note, this is an independent podcast episode not affiliated with, endorsed by, or produced in conjunction with the host podcast feed or any of its media entities. The views and opinions expressed in this episode are solely those of the creators and guests. For any concerns, please reach out to team@podroll.fm.

  3. 18 MAY

    YOU'RE NOT SCARED OF POSTING - You're scared of being seen

    Let’s be honest: hiding behind the excuse of “not having enough time” or “waiting for the perfect edit” is a lot easier than admitting the real truth. You’re not actually struggling with your schedule; you’re just terrified of what happens when you finally let yourself be perceived. Putting your voice, your art, or your business out into the digital world feels like opening the front door and letting the internet look straight into your living room. In this episode, we’re untangling that heavy, paralyzing weight of creative anxiety and hometown judgment. I’m breaking down why we subconsciously choose to stay invisible and how to switch your focus from who is watching to why you started creating in the first place. Reclaiming your narrative isn't about being fearless; it’s just about caring more about your vision than someone else's opinion. If you have a folder full of unshared drafts, a business idea you’re hiding, or a constant inner critic whispering "Who cares?", consider this your gentle, direct wake-up call. The Breakdown: The Perception Paradox: Why it feels safer to stay hidden than to risk being judged for trying. Muting the Hometown Noise: How to stop letting the fear of people from your past dictate your future. Messy Action better than Perfect Inaction: Embracing the slow, unglamorous reality of building long-term consistency. Shifting the Focus: Moving your energy away from external validation and back to your actual message. With Love, Mafe. Go to https://beacons.ai/imissedme and check out all of I Missed Me. Check out my personal socials below https://beacons.ai/mafeanzures #socialmediatips #whocares #imissedme Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    17 min
  4. 11 MAY

    YOUR BODY KEEPS THE SCORE - Taking Care of Yourself Isn’t Lazy

    We often view productivity as a badge of honor, but really, the most productive thing you can do is listen to the signal that your body is finally reaching its limit In this episode, we’re getting honest about burnout, exhaustion, and the guilt that comes with needing to slow down. I’m opening up about my own recent experience with hitting a wall and why we need to stop labeling rest as "laziness." From the physical toll of ignoring your needs to the specific lessons I've learned from my own mistakes, this is a reminder that taking care of yourself is a requirement for your growth, not a distraction from it. If you’ve been feeling drained, overwhelmed, or like you’re constantly "running on empty" but feel too guilty to stop, this episode is for you. Inside the Episode: The Body’s Scorecard: Understanding how suppressed stress and exhaustion manifest physically. Redefining Lazy: Challenging the toxic mindset that equates your worth with your output. Lessons from Mistakes: A vulnerable catch-up on my own recent burnout and what I’m doing differently. The Art of Recovery: Practical ways to prioritize rest without feeling like you’re falling behind. With Love, Mafe. Go to https://beacons.ai/imissedme and check out all of I Missed Me. Check out my personal socials below https://beacons.ai/mafeanzures Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    27 min
  5. 14 APR

    THINGS SOCIAL MEDIA HAS NORMALIZED - That Aren’t Actually Normal

    We spend so much time scrolling through curated lives that we start to lose touch with what is actually real. But the most important shift we can make is learning to unlearn the "norms" social media has forced on us.  In this episode, we’re getting honest about social media's effect on self-perception and the toxic habits we’ve accidentally normalized. I’m sharing the specific self-reminders that keep me grounded as a content creator and how to protect your mental space in a digital world. From the pressure of constant comparison to the truth about what happens behind the screen—this is a reminder that your worth isn't measured in likes, and it’s okay to step back and reclaim your reality. If you’ve ever felt like you’re falling behind because of what you see online, or if you’re struggling to separate your true self from your digital self, this episode is for you. What’s Inside: The Normalization Trap: Identifying the behaviors social media says are "normal" that actually drain our peace. Perception vs. Reality: How the digital world warps how we see ourselves and others. The Creator’s Perspective: My personal grounding techniques for staying authentic in an aesthetic world. Digital Boundaries: Practical ways to be protective of your time and mental energy. With Love, Mafe. Go to https://beacons.ai/imissedme and check out all of I Missed Me. Check out my personal socials below https://beacons.ai/mafeanzures #selfgrowthjourney #boundaries #mindsetshift #imissedme  Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    29 min
  6. 6 APR

    YOU'RE NOT ASKING FOR TOO MUCH - You’re Asking The Wrong People

    It can feel incredibly isolating to have high standards in a world that tells you to "lower your expectations," but what if the problem isn't the size of your heart, it’s just the people you’re giving it to? In this episode, we’re getting honest about self-worth, healthy relationships, and the power of knowing your value. We’re breaking down the difference between being "difficult" and simply being high-maintenance for the wrong person. From identifying if you’re in the right relationship to learning how to stop apologizing for your needs—this is a reminder that you aren't asking for too much; you’re just asking the wrong people. If you’ve ever felt like your expectations are "too high," wondered why you keep feeling disappointed by those around you, or need a roadmap for how to find connections that actually align with what you deserve, this episode is for you. Inside the Episode: Expectations vs. Reality: Why it’s okay to have high standards in love and life. The "Right Person" Filter: How to know if your relationship is actually serving your growth. Redefining "Too Much": Turning self-doubt into self-assurance. Alignment over Attachment: Learning to choose people who can actually meet you where you are. With Love, Mafe. Go to https://beacons.ai/imissedme and check out all of I Missed Me. Check out my personal socials below https://beacons.ai/mafeanzures Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    21 min
  7. 30 MAR

    IF YOU FEEL LAZY TODAY LISTEN TO THIS - How to stay consistent when you don’t feel motivated

    It’s easy to feel like you’re failing when the motivation just isn't there, but the real breakthrough comes from learning to show up even when you feel "lazy." In this episode, we’re stripping away the pressure to be perfect and getting honest about what it looks like to stay consistent during a low-energy week. We’re moving past the "all or nothing" mindset and focusing on the small, non-negotiable promises that keep you moving toward your goals. From practical shifts in your routine to the 3 tips that help me stay disciplined when I’d rather stay in bed, this is a reminder that your evolution is built in the quiet, unmotivated moments, not just the high-energy ones. If you’ve been waiting for a "spark" to get started again or feel like you’re falling behind because you’re tired, this episode is for you. What’s Inside: Redefining Motivation: Why relying on a feeling is the quickest way to stay stuck. Navigating the "Lazy" Days: My personal approach to maintaining momentum when energy is low. 3 Practical Discipline Tips: Actionable steps to help you stay committed to your vision. The Power of Showing Up: How small, messy actions lead to long-term identity shifts. With Love, Mafe. Go to https://beacons.ai/imissedme and check out all of I Missed Me. Check out my personal socials below https://beacons.ai/mafeanzures Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    24 min

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To whoever this may impact... Sometimes, our lives have to be completely shaken up, changed and rearranged to relocate us where we're really meant to be. Sometimes change feels like loss, transformation is scary, and sometimes, to discover the best version of ourselves, we must let go of absolutely everything that's holding us down. Welcome to I Missed Me, your new safe space, i hope to be a part of your healing journey. With love, Mafe Go to https://beacons.ai/imissedme and checkout all of I Missed Me Checkout my personal socials below https://mafeanzures.com/

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