Parenting Untapped

Parenting Untapped

Parenting Untapped: Parenting advice from a teens perspective. Aly & her Dad discusses what worked and what didn't from their family perspective. Real Talk. Real Experiences. Real Solutions.

  1. 3 FEB

    EP 16 - Kindness

    Welcome back to another powerful episode of Parenting Untapped. In this deeply honest conversation, Aly and her dad Tony explore a question many parents and teens quietly struggle with: How do you stay kind and compassionate without becoming a pushover? This episode dives into the uncomfortable gray area between kindness and boundaries. From real-life school situations and subtle bullying to the fear of confrontation, Aly opens up about what it feels like to let things slide—even when they don’t feel right. Together, they unpack how being raised with strong values of empathy can sometimes make it harder to speak up, set boundaries, and protect your own emotional space. Through raw stories, thoughtful reflection, and moments that feel more like a therapy session than a podcast, this episode challenges parents to rethink how they teach kindness—and what might be missing from the conversation. In this episode, we talk about: The difference between being kind and being passiveWhy not setting boundaries can lead to repeated mistreatmentHow small moments in childhood shape how teens respond to conflictWhen to “pick the battle” and when to let things goWhy standing up for yourself doesn’t mean being aggressive or meanPreparing teens for a competitive, real-world environment while staying true to their values This episode is for parents who want to raise compassionate kids without sacrificing their confidence, and for teens who are learning how to protect their emotions while still being true to who they are. 🎧 Tune in to Parenting Untapped for real conversations, honest struggles, and practical insights that help parents and teens grow—together.

    38 min
  2. 27 JAN

    EP 15 - GenZ slang

    Welcome back to another fun and eye-opening episode of Parenting Untapped! In this episode, Aly and her dad Tony dive headfirst into the wild world of Gen Z slang—the words, phrases, and internet trends that leave many parents completely confused (and maybe a little concerned). From “6–7” and “brain rot” to “bro,” “riz,” “mid,” “no cap,” and the infamous “skibidi,” this conversation breaks down what these terms actually mean, why teens use them, and how social media and TikTok culture fuel these trends. Along the way, you’ll hear plenty of laughs, real reactions, and honest generational differences that make this episode both entertaining and relatable. In this episode, we cover: What popular Gen Z slang really means (and when it has no meaning at all)Why teens use words that seem random or confusing to adultsThe role of TikTok, memes, and internet culture in shaping teen languageHow “brain rot” humor became a thingWhether parents should be worried—or just laugh it off Whether you’re a parent trying to decode your teen’s language, a teen laughing along because your parents “just don’t get it,” or someone curious about modern youth culture, this episode offers a lighthearted look at how language evolves—and why understanding it can help bridge the gap between parents and teens. 🎧 Tune in to Parenting Untapped for laughs, insight, and real conversations that bring parents and teens closer—one confusing slang word at a time.

    20 min
  3. 20 JAN

    EP 14 - Urgency

    Welcome to another episode of Parenting Untapped! In this honest and relatable conversation, Aly and Tony tackle one of the most common frustrations in parent–teen relationships — why teens seem to move so slow. From getting out of bed to leaving the house on time, this episode breaks down the clash between parental urgency and a teen’s sense of time. Through real-life examples, playful banter, and thoughtful reflection, Aly explains how teens often believe they have more time than they actually do, while Tony shares why urgency and punctuality matter so much in adulthood, work, and life. Together, they explore how comfort, habits, and parental “backup” can unintentionally slow teens down — and what both sides can do to meet in the middle. This episode sheds light on the difference between being slow and being unmotivated, and why teens can be extremely responsible when something truly matters to them. In this episode: Why teens struggle with urgency and time awarenessThe disconnect between parental expectations and teen realityHow comfort and routine impact independenceWhy nagging doesn’t work — and often makes things worseThe role parents play in unintentionally slowing teens downHow schedules can help teens manage time betterWhy urgency is tied to motivation and prioritiesPreparing teens for college, work, and real-world responsibility Whether you’re a parent tired of waiting by the door, a teen who feels rushed and misunderstood, or a family trying to improve daily routines, this episode offers humor, empathy, and practical insight you can actually use. 🎧 Tune in to Parenting Untapped — where real conversations help parents and teens understand each other better.

    28 min
  4. 13 JAN

    EP 13 - Guest Episode with Meiqi

    Welcome to another episode of Parenting Untapped! In this deeply honest and reflective conversation, Aly sits down with her longtime best friend Meiqi to explore what it’s really like growing up under a strict-but-loving parenting style — and how that dynamic evolves over time. From “tiger mom” expectations to quiet acts of love, this episode offers a rare, thoughtful look into teen emotions, cultural parenting norms, and the long-term impact of pressure, independence, and trust. Together, they unpack how control can turn into tension, how freedom can build confidence, and how love is often shown in ways parents don’t always say out loud. Meiqi opens up about mental health, perfectionism, independence, and the internal drive that forms when expectations are set early — even when they’re difficult. This episode blends vulnerability, humor, and deep insight as they discuss generational gaps, cultural differences, emotional communication, and the balance between guidance and control. In this episode: Growing up with a “tiger mom” and how that shaped identityHow strict parenting impacted mental health and independenceWhy teens crave understanding more than adviceCultural differences in showing love and apologizingThe pressure of perfection and internal motivationLearning independence through trust and responsibilityHow parent-child relationships change over timeWhy curiosity, balance, and unconditional love matterFinding harmony between structure and emotional support Whether you’re a parent trying to understand your teen’s inner world, a teen navigating expectations and pressure, or someone reflecting on how childhood shapes adulthood, this episode offers clarity, empathy, and meaningful perspective. 🎧 Tune in to Parenting Untapped — where honest conversations help families understand, heal, and grow together.

    39 min
  5. 6 JAN

    EP 12 - Discussing Financial Struggles in front of Kids

    Welcome to another episode of Parenting Untapped! In this thoughtful and emotionally honest conversation, Aly and Tony explore a topic many families quietly struggle with — should parents talk about financial stress with their children? Through real stories, personal reflections, and open dialogue, this episode uncovers how conversations about money can shape a teen’s mindset, motivation, and emotional well-being. Together, they dive into the fine line between teaching kids the value of money and unintentionally placing pressure, guilt, or stress on them. Aly shares how hearing about financial struggles can affect teens at school and at home, while Tony reflects on parenting intentions versus how those messages are actually received. This episode offers a rare teen-parent perspective on money, responsibility, and communication — highlighting when financial transparency helps, and when it may do more harm than good. In this episode: Whether parents should share financial struggles with their kidsHow money conversations can create pressure and guilt for teensThe difference between teaching financial responsibility and adding stressWhy repeated reminders about spending can feel overwhelmingHow overheard conversations impact teens emotionallySetting healthy boundaries around money without fear or shameTeaching the value of money while protecting a child’s mental well-beingPractical insights for parents navigating financial conversations at home Whether you’re a parent trying to raise financially aware kids, a teen feeling pressure to “do better,” or a family navigating money conversations together, this episode brings clarity, empathy, and balance to a sensitive topic. 🎧 Tune in to Parenting Untapped — where honest conversations help families grow stronger, together.

    26 min
  6. 30/12/2025

    EP 11 - Clutter Control

    In this episode of Parenting Untapped, Aly and her father Tony dive into the challenges of clutter, messiness, and teaching teens responsibility at home. From the everyday struggles of scattered socks, leftover dishes, and cluttered tables to building lifelong habits, they discuss practical strategies for parents to encourage teens to clean up and respect shared spaces. Aly opens up about her mindset as a teenager and why clutter sometimes feels “normal,” while Tony shares his experience in setting routines and instilling discipline without creating resentment. Together, they explore the psychology of messiness, the importance of small wins, and how fostering accountability can transform both your home and your teen’s life skills. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Why teens leave their belongings around the houseHow comfort and habits at home affect organizationThe importance of establishing clear routines and responsibilitiesHow clutter impacts mental clarity, productivity, and respect for shared spacesPractical tips for parents to build good cleaning habits in teens This episode is perfect for parents looking for actionable advice and teens who want to understand the “why” behind keeping their space organized. Resources & Links: Follow us on social media for more parenting insights and discussions. Subscribe & Stay Connected: Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe to Parenting Untapped for more conversations that help you connect with your teen and create a happier, organized home.

    29 min
  7. 16/12/2025

    EP 10 - Connect with Teens in Social Media Era

    Welcome to another episode of Parenting Untapped! In this honest and eye-opening conversation, Aly and Tony dive into one of the biggest challenges modern parents face — connecting with teens in a world dominated by social media. From Snapchat streaks and TikTok algorithms to screen-time battles and generational disconnects, this episode pulls back the curtain on how social platforms shape teen identity, relationships, and daily life. Through candid back-and-forth between a teen and her parent, this episode explores why social media feels essential to teens, why it frustrates parents, and how both sides often feel misunderstood. With humor, vulnerability, and real-life examples, Aly explains the pressure, habits, and emotional pull of apps like Snapchat and TikTok, while Tony shares the parental instinct to protect, guide, and sometimes control. Together, they unpack how algorithms influence behavior, how “streaks” create invisible pressure, and why social media is more than just entertainment — it’s a space where teens escape, learn, connect, and form identity. In this episode: How Snapchat streaks work — and why teens feel pressured to keep themWhy parents struggle to understand teen social media habitsTikTok’s algorithm and how it shapes emotions, identity, and behaviorThe fine line between protecting teens and controlling themHow screen-time limits impact trust and communicationWhy teens use social media to escape stress and emotionsHow parents can connect without judgment or dismissalTurning social media from a battleground into a bridge Whether you’re a parent trying to understand your teen’s digital world, a teen who feels unheard, or someone navigating family dynamics in the social media era, this episode offers clarity, empathy, and practical insight. 🎧 Tune in to Parenting Untapped — where real conversations help parents and teens connect in a digital world.

    35 min

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Parenting Untapped: Parenting advice from a teens perspective. Aly & her Dad discusses what worked and what didn't from their family perspective. Real Talk. Real Experiences. Real Solutions.