Dear Shandy

Sharleen Joynt & Andy Levine
Dear Shandy

Dear Shandy is a dating advice podcast where Sharleen Joynt and her husband Andy Levine answer your burning relationship questions from the perspective of a happily married couple. Sharleen and Andy are two fiercely independent people who are skeptical of love stories and don’t believe in fate, soulmates, or The One. So how did they wind up so happily married? They learned the dating lessons by living them. Get no-holds-barred, honest advice from two people who actually have what you want: a fun, blissful partnership. But there's more! As an iconic former Bachelor contestant, Sharleen invites Bachelor Nation couples on for intimate double dates called Love Fests. Last, but certainly not least, Sharleen brings her insider knowledge and Andy delivers hilarious comic relief to combine for what are hands down the best Bachelor recaps in the business. New episodes drop every Thursday, and during Bachelor seasons, recaps drop on Tuesdays!

  1. 3 DAYS AGO

    Bachelor Recap: Ep 4 | The Ladies Take Bull From Grant & Co In Madrid - Ep 367

    Shandy is back with their world-famous Bachelor recaps! Today they're breaking down episode 4 of Grant Ellis' season! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY or enter code SHANDY at sign up to skip the waitlist! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your first order! - Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE $76 gift with your first subscription! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors... - Go to https://www.furanostudio.com and use code SHANDY30 for 30% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 4:57 - Episode 4 Kick Off 9:08 - Dina’s 1-On-1 15:09 - Back At The Hotel 16:41 - Group Date 42:37 - Serafiena’s 1-On-1 48:52 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party 1:06:19 - Rose Ceremony 1:07:14 - Andy’s A-Game 1:07:39 - Fashion 1:08:49 - Shandy Word Watch 1:10:30 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    1h 23m
  2. 6 DAYS AGO

    Love Is Blind Recap: Eps 1-6 | The Pods; Love Triangles Galore - Ep 366

    Ask and you shall receive! By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind! Today we're breaking down the first batch of season 8, episodes 1-6! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY to get 15% off! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY to save up to 40%! - Go to https://www.quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://www.mudwtr.com and use code SHANDY to get up to 43% off your entire order, free shipping + a rechargeable frother! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today! Time Stamps: 1:41 - Joey & Monica 9:02 - Ben & Sara 18:55 - Devin & Brittany 24:23 - Devin & Virginia 31:07 - Mason & Meg 40:09 - Mason & Madison 57:37 - Mason & Meg Final Scene 1:05:28 - Alex 1:05:46 - Alex & Madison 1:18:16 - Dave 1:19:04 - Dave & Molly 1:26:06 - Dave & Lauren 1:33:27 - Daniel & Taylor 1:38:56 - 24 Hours Later 1:42:07 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    1h 52m
  3. 11 FEB

    Bachelor Recap: Ep 3 | Grant's Mansion Of Tears - Ep 365

    Shandy is back with their world-famous Bachelor recaps! Today they're breaking down episode 3 of Grant Ellis' season! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.skims.com to shop SKIMS best intimates including the Fits Everybody Collection! - Go to https://www.jolieskinco.com/SHANDY for free shipping on all orders! - Go to https://fatty15.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for 15% of your 90 day subscription starter kit! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY to save up to 40%! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors... - Go to https://www.furanostudio.com and use code SHANDY30 for 30% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 8:24 - Episode 3 Kick Off 9:22 - Group Date #1 27:06 - The Next Day 30:13 - Carolina’s 1-On-1 34:37 - The Next Day/Beverly 39:23 - Group Date #2 43:59 - Evening/Litia’s Dinner 45:37 - Back At The Mansion 47:25 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party/Prom 55:14 - Rose Ceremony 55:39 - Andy’s A-Game 56:02 - Fashion 57:43 - Shandy Word Watch 59:27 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    1h 8m
  4. 6 FEB

    Keeping The Spark In Long Term Relationships With Emily Nagoski - Ep 364

    One of the most common questions Shandy has received over the years has been around keeping the *SPARK* alive in a long term relationship. Who better to help us answer that age old question than legendary writer and sex educator Emily Nagoski, PhD! You know Emily for "Come As You Are", the mega bestseller that—no biggie—REDEFINED WOMEN'S SEXUALITY. Her latest book, "Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections", could not be more on topic for today's conversation! Today Emily teaches how to navigate mismatched libidos, expert tips for orgasming, the 4 big questions couples need to ask themselves, and how to find time for sexy time in a schedule full of to-do lists! Do not miss this one! Thank you to our sponsor! - Go to https://huel.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 15% off your order! More Emily Nagoski: - Emily's latest book, Come Together: https://amzn.to/4hMmlMU - Website: https://www.emilynagoski.com - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/enagoski - TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@emilynagoski Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Emily Nagoski! 3:29 - Long Term Relationship Sex Myths 7:34 - Mismatched Libidos 12:57 - Creating Context/The 4 Questions 15:59 - When You Wish You Wanted It More 17:43 - Sense Of Obligation 26:38 - Orgasm 41:12 - Control 43:51 - Long Term Relationships 48:10 - Body Confidence 50:36 - Emily’s Vibrator Picks 52:58 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    1h 2m
  5. 4 FEB

    Bachelor Recap: Ep 2 | Bachelor Recap: Ep 2 - Carolina & Zoe Shoot Their Villain Shot - Ep 363

    Shandy is back with their world-famous Bachelor recaps! Today they're breaking down episode 2 of Grant Ellis' season! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.rula.com/SHANDY and take the first step towards better mental health today! - Go to https://www.thuma.com/SHANDY to receive $100 off your first bed purchase! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE $76 gift with your first subscription! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors... - Go to https://www.furanostudio.com and use code SHANDY30 for 30% off! - Go to https://www.branchbasics.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your order! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:38 - Episode 2 Kick Off 4:06 - Group Date #1 21:13 - The Next Day 21:48 - Alexe’s 1-On-1 27:53 - Group Date #2 38:20 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party 40:47 - Rose Ceremony 42:58 - Andy’s A-Game 44:33 - Fashion 46:10 - Shandy Word Watch 48:40 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    58 min
  6. 30 JAN

    LOVE FEST! Joan Vassos & Chock Chapple Talk NYC Apartment Hunting And Throw Pillows - Ep 362

    It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today Shandy is joined by The Golden Bachelorette herself, the one and only Joan Vassos, and her fiancé, Chock Chapple! Today Joan and Chock chat apartment hunting in NYC, their early relationship hurdle, and of course, how they fight! Plus, Andy gets to ask Chock about his name! Finally, a delightfully juvenile Newlyweds Game that will have you laughing! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! - Go to https://helixsleep.com/DEARSHANDY to get 20% off Sitewide + 2 FREE Dream Pillows with any mattress purchase! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off your first box plus free shipping! - Go to https://mudwtr.com and use code SHANDY to get up to 43% off your entire order, Free Shipping and a Free Rechargeable Frother! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! More Joan: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/joan_vassos TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@joanvassos More Chock: https://www.instagram.com/chockchapple TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@cchapple Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Joan & Chock! 2:08 - The Name Chock 4:47 - Was It Love At First Sight? 8:34 - Three Adjectives 10:38 - New York & Decorating 13:28 - How They Complement Each Other 18:33 - How They’re Different Than They Imagined For Themselves 24:15 - Early Hurdle 30:16 - How They Fight 34:41 - Beliefs That Have Changed 42:02 - The Newlyweds Game 52:17 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    1h 5m
  7. 28 JAN

    Bachelor Recap: Ep 1 | Lone Wolf Grant Ellis Seeks His Mate - Ep 361

    Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 28 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 1, aka the big premiere! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.jolieskinco.com/SHANDY for free shipping on all orders! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your first order! - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY to get 15% off! - Go to https://www.thrivemarket.com/SHANDY to get 30% off your first order plus a free $60 gift! - Go to https://graza.co/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY for 10% off your first order! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsor... - Go to https://www.branchbasics.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your order! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:48 - Episode 1 Kick Off 12:07 - Limo Exit Wins/Fails 18:57 - Grant’s Toast 19:59 - Notable 1-On-1 Time 44:11 - First Impression Rose 44:26 - Rose Ceremony 44:36 - Previews 45:28 - Andy’s A-Game 47:01 - Fashion Police 49:36 - Shandy Word Watch 53:06 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    1h 6m
  8. 23 JAN

    Confessions With 'The Ultimatum''s Nicholas Tramontin - Ep 360

    It's a BIG day, Shandies! We've been wanting to pick Nick Tramontin's brain since we recapped his season of The Ultimatum, and that day is officially here. Plus, it's been awhile since we've had a Confessions episode and we're thrilled everyone's favorite Tortured Artist agreed to join us! Today Nick shares the most common misconceptions about him, whether or not he thinks Netflix plied him with alcohol on purpose, his HONEST thoughts on Sandy, Mariah and Vanessa. We also find out whether or not it's possible to make great art without being a little bit "tortured". Bonus: We get the dirt on Bob Ross and Nick judges Andy's own "La Banane" painting! 🍌 We enjoyed this conversation and think you will, too! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://fatty15.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for 15% of your 90 day subscription starter kit! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE $76 gift with your first subscription! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today! More Nicholas: - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nicholas.tramontin/ - Art: https://nmtcollection.com/ Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Nicholas Tramontin! 1:50 - Why He Went On The Ultimatum 5:30 - Did He Really Want To Marry Sandy? 7:15 - Have He And Sandy Ever Been To A Swingers Party? 8:12 - What Did He Learn About Himself? 9:26 - Does He Feel Like The Show Preyed On Him Regarding Alcohol? 10:45 - What Response Has Surprised Him? 11:07 - Vanessa 15:25 - What Did He Expect To Happen? 16:05 - His Homeschooling 16:57 - Does He Wish He’d Left The Show 18:21 - Mariah 20:20 - What Has He Learned About Human Nature? 22:28 - Most Common Misconception 27:54 - His Art 32:25 - Is To Be An Artist To Be Tortured? 34:48 - Does He Feel His Paintings From The Show Were Some His Better Work? 35:50 - Is It Ever Hard Letting His Art Go? 38:08 - Who Is His Favorite Artist? 41:00 - “Dating An Artist Is Hard” & The Creation Of Art 43:45 - Is To Be An Artist To Be Sensitive? 44:30 - Dogs 45:39 - His Girlfriend 46:39 - Does He Feel Gratitude To Sandy? 47:47 - Rapid Fire 49:49 - Does He Believe In Ultimatums? 51:05 - Is He A Cuckold? 51:45 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    1h 9m

About

Dear Shandy is a dating advice podcast where Sharleen Joynt and her husband Andy Levine answer your burning relationship questions from the perspective of a happily married couple. Sharleen and Andy are two fiercely independent people who are skeptical of love stories and don’t believe in fate, soulmates, or The One. So how did they wind up so happily married? They learned the dating lessons by living them. Get no-holds-barred, honest advice from two people who actually have what you want: a fun, blissful partnership. But there's more! As an iconic former Bachelor contestant, Sharleen invites Bachelor Nation couples on for intimate double dates called Love Fests. Last, but certainly not least, Sharleen brings her insider knowledge and Andy delivers hilarious comic relief to combine for what are hands down the best Bachelor recaps in the business. New episodes drop every Thursday, and during Bachelor seasons, recaps drop on Tuesdays!

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