Dear Shandy

Sharleen Joynt & Andy Levine
Dear Shandy

Dear Shandy is a dating advice podcast where Sharleen Joynt and her husband Andy Levine answer your burning relationship questions from the perspective of a happily married couple. Sharleen and Andy are two fiercely independent people who are skeptical of love stories and don’t believe in fate, soulmates, or The One. So how did they wind up so happily married? They learned the dating lessons by living them. Get no-holds-barred, honest advice from two people who actually have what you want: a fun, blissful partnership. But there's more! As an iconic former Bachelor contestant, Sharleen invites Bachelor Nation couples on for intimate double dates called Love Fests. Last, but certainly not least, Sharleen brings her insider knowledge and Andy delivers hilarious comic relief to combine for what are hands down the best Bachelor recaps in the business. New episodes drop every Thursday, and during Bachelor seasons, recaps drop on Tuesdays!

  1. 3 DAYS AGO

    Caller 📞 Sessions! "Did He Break The Bro Code By Telling Me About Another Guy's Cheating?" - Ep 349

    Callers are back in session! Today we're joined by not one, but TWO lovely callers: Sally and Cat! Sally's situation is from several years ago but she still wonders if she was the A-hole for sharing what her husband told her about their mutual acquaintance. Where is the line when it comes to "breaking" the Bro Code, and are you the A-hole if you're the one to then share that information? Cat, meanwhile, is at a crossroads with two platonic friendships. She has felt disappointed by both friends, and being a direct person, she's willing to air her grievances head on. But with the passing of time and different priorities, are some friendships simply meant to fade? Listen on for the Shandy take! Are you interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy's new Off The Record sessions! Thanks to our sponsor! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Caller Sally! 21:21 - Shandy Debrief 26:22 - Welcome To Caller Cat! 56:49 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    1h 7m
  2. 5 DAYS AGO

    Love Is Blind Recap: Eps 1-6 | The Pods To Mexico - Ep 348

    Ask and you shall receive! By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind! Today we're breaking down the first batch of season 7, episodes 1-6! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.branchbasics.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY to get 15% off plus free shipping! - Go to https://www.storyworth.com/DEARSHANDY to save $10 on your first purchase! - Go to https://www.lolavie.com and use code SHANDY15 to get 15% off your order! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today! - Go to https://www.sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your first order! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:46 - Garrett & Taylor 16:12 - Ashley A & Tyler 25:13 - Monica & Stephen 40:06 - Marissa & Ramses 48:41 - Alex & Tim 1:01:40 - Leo & Brittany 1:12:09 - Hannah & Nick 1:34:23 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    1h 43m
  3. 15 NOV

    Golden Bachelorette Recap: Finale | Joan, Guy & The Big Chock Block - Ep 347

    Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down the grand Finale of the first ever Golden Bachelorette season! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save 40%! - Go to https://farmacybeauty.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off your order! - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your first order! - Go to https://helixsleep.com/DEARSHANDY to get 27% off Sitewide + 2 FREE Dream Pillows with any mattress purchase! - Go to https://fromourplace.com/SHANDY to get up to 40% off your order! Our Word Watch sponsors! - Go to https://www.fromourplace.com and enter code SHANDY at checkout to receive 10% off sitewide! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:34 - Finale Kick Off 10:25 - Bora Bora 43:55 - After The Final Rose 50:08 - Grant If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    1h 9m
  4. 13 NOV

    Q&A! Being Direct, Burying Dreams And Playing Paparazzi - Ep 346

    It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you find out your therapist used to be your mother's therapist, should you "break up" with them, and if so, how? If your friend keeps asking bothersome requests of you, is there a way to get them to stop? If your partner is against marriage, is that a dream you should let go? And if you tend to play photographer to your friend group but are saddened when they never seem to reciprocate, is this a fixable friendship dynamic? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://jennikayne.com and use code DEARSHANDY to get 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save 40%! - Go to https://fatty15.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for 15% of your 90 day subscription starter kit! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today! Time Stamps: 0:00 - A Very Random Introduction 3:15 - Q1: How Do I Break Up With My Therapist? 11:15 - Q2: How Do I Get My Friend To Stop Asking Me This Question? 21:04 - Q3: I Love My Partner But She Never Wants Marriage Or Kids—How Do I Bury These Dreams? 32:38 - Q4: I’m The “Paparazzi” In My Friend Group But It’s Never Reciprocated—Help! 52:18 - Q5: How Do I Befriend My Online Match-Turned-Coworker? If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    1h 10m
  5. 7 NOV

    Golden Bachelorette Recap: Men Tell All | True Bromance + Charles Is Back In Black - Ep 345

    Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down Men Tell All for the first ever Golden Bachelorette season! Thanks to our sponsors! - Shop Skims Bras at https://www.skims.com/SHANDY - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off your first box plus 20% off your next month! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a free gift + a 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first subscription! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! - Go to http://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use the promo code SHANDY to get $50 off your Lomi! - Go to https://www.jennikayne.com and use code DEARSHANDY to get 15% off your first order! Our Word Watch sponsors! - Go to https://www.fromourplace.com and enter code SHANDY at checkout to receive 10% off sitewide! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:18 - Men Tell All 36:50 - Bloopers 41:30 - Preview 44:02 - Andy’s A-Game 46:52 - Shandy Word Watch 48:34 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    1 hr
  6. 31 OCT

    Golden Bachelorette Ep 7 Recap: Standing Room Only In The Fantasy Suite - Ep 344

    Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 7 of the first ever Golden Bachelorette season! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to http://www.goodamerican.com/shandy and use code SHANDY to get $50 off your first pair! - Go to https://joinbilt.com/SHANDY to earn points by paying rent right now! - Go to https://hexclad.com/SHANDY for 10% off your order! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE! - If you’re 21+, go to https://bit.ly/viiashandy and use code SHANDY to receive 15% off! - Go to https://jennikayne.com and use code DEARSHANDY to get 15% off your first order! Our Word Watch sponsors! - Get 30% off with code SHANDY30 at https://www.furanostudio.com! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 5:36 - Episode 7 Kick Off 11:58 - Guy’s Overnight 39:45 - Pascal 42:04 - Pascal’s Overnight 51:51 - Andy’s A-Game If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    1h 5m
  7. 29 OCT

    Q&A! Becoming The Mistress & Does "Pretty" Mean More Friends? - Ep 343

    It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you find yourself in a flirty dynamic with your (married) boss, is this pre-mistress territory? If your sister is interested in your brother-in-law but you question their compatibility, how honest should you be? If your friend sleeps with the ex of another friend of yours, is this friendship-ending messy behavior? And how do you make friends if you're not "pretty"? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE! - Go to https://huel.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 15% off your order! - Go to https://HelloFresh.com/FREESHANDY for 10 free meals! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 4:49 - Q1: Am I About To Become The Mistress? 18:39 - Q2: My Sister Is Interested In My Brother-In-Law—What Should I Do? 29:37 - Q3: My Friend’s Recent Behavior Disgusts Me—Is She Too Messy? 45:39 - Q4: Can I Avoid Visiting My In-Laws? 1:01:40 - Q5: I Wish I Had More Friends & Think It’s Because I’m Not “Pretty”—Shandy’s Advice? If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    1h 25m
  8. 24 OCT

    Golden Bachelorette Ep 6 Recap: Joan's Hometowns, A Tale Of 3 Cities - Ep 342

    Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 6 of the first ever Golden Bachelorette season! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to http://lomi.com/SHANDY and use the promo code SHANDY for $50 off your Lomi - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! Our Word Watch sponsors! - Get 30% off with code SHANDY30 at https://www.furanostudio.com! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:27 - Guy’s Hometown 13:14 - Pascal’s Hometown 28:50 - Jordan’s Hometown 37:09 - Chock’s Hometown 49:00 - Rose Ceremony 1:00:14 - Andy’s A-Game 1:00:38 - Shandy Word Watch 1:02:11 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    1h 10m

About

Dear Shandy is a dating advice podcast where Sharleen Joynt and her husband Andy Levine answer your burning relationship questions from the perspective of a happily married couple. Sharleen and Andy are two fiercely independent people who are skeptical of love stories and don’t believe in fate, soulmates, or The One. So how did they wind up so happily married? They learned the dating lessons by living them. Get no-holds-barred, honest advice from two people who actually have what you want: a fun, blissful partnership. But there's more! As an iconic former Bachelor contestant, Sharleen invites Bachelor Nation couples on for intimate double dates called Love Fests. Last, but certainly not least, Sharleen brings her insider knowledge and Andy delivers hilarious comic relief to combine for what are hands down the best Bachelor recaps in the business. New episodes drop every Thursday, and during Bachelor seasons, recaps drop on Tuesdays!

You Might Also Like

To listen to explicit episodes, sign in.

Stay up to date with this show

Sign in or sign up to follow shows, save episodes and get the latest updates.

Select a country or region

Africa, Middle East, and India

Asia Pacific

Europe

Latin America and the Caribbean

The United States and Canada