Source Sheet: Host: Yosef Lopez I. The Biblical Reference for ṬebhethEsther 2:16 וַתִּלָּקַ֨ח אֶסְתֵּ֜ר אֶל־הַמֶּ֤לֶךְ אֲחַשְׁוֵרוֹשׁ֙ אֶל־בֵּ֣ית מַלְכוּת֔וֹ בַּחֹ֥דֶשׁ הָעֲשִׂירִ֖י הוּא־חֹ֣דֶשׁ טֵבֵ֑ת בִּשְׁנַת־שֶׁ֖בַע לְמַלְכוּתֽוֹ׃ "And Esther was taken unto King Aḥashwerosh into his royal house in the tenth month, which is the month Ṭebheth, in the seventh year of his reign." II. The Historical Siege of JerusalemMelakhim Bet (2 Kings) 25:1 וַיְהִי֩ בִשְׁנַ֨ת הַתְּשִׁיעִ֜ית לְמׇלְכ֗וֹ בַּחֹ֣דֶשׁ הָעֲשִׂירִי֮ בֶּעָשׂ֣וֹר לַחֹ֒דֶשׁ֒ בָּ֠א נְבֻכַדְנֶאצַּ֨ר מֶלֶךְ־בָּבֶ֜ל הוּא וְכׇל־חֵיל֛וֹ עַל־יְרוּשָׁלַ֖͏ִם וַיִּ֣חַן עָלֶ֑יהָ וַיִּבְנ֥וּ עָלֶ֛יהָ דָּיֵ֖ק סָבִֽיב׃ "And it came to pass in the ninth year of his reign, in the tenth month, on the tenth day of the month, that Nebuchadnezzar king of Babylon came, he and all his army, against Jerusalem, and encamped against it; and they built siege-works against it round about." Eikha (Lamentations) 4:9 טוֹבִ֤ים הָיוּ֙ חַלְלֵי־חֶ֔רֶב מֵֽחַלְלֵ֖י רָעָ֑ב... "Better were the slain of the sword than the slain of hunger..." III. The Purpose and Nature of Public FastsRambam, Hilkhoth Ta'aniyyoth (Laws of Fasts) 5:1 "There are days when all Israel fasts because of the catastrophes that occurred on them, in order to stir the hearts and open the paths of teshuva... Through remembering these things, we will return to do good." Isaiah 58:6-7 הֲל֣וֹא זֶה֮ צוֹם אֶבְחָרֵ֒הוּ֒ פַּתֵּ֙חַ֙ חַרְצֻבּ֣וֹת רֶ֔שַׁע הַתֵּ֖ר אֲגֻדּ֥וֹת מוֹטָ֑ה... הֲל֨וֹא פָרֹ֤ס לָרָעֵב֙ לַחְמֶ֔ךָ וַעֲנִיִּ֥ים מְרוּדִ֖ים תָּ֣בִיא בָ֑יִת... "Is this not the fast I have chosen: to loose the chains of wickedness, to undo the bonds of oppression... Is it not to share your bread with the hungry, to bring the homeless poor into your house...?" IV. The Text of the Qaddish (Maimonidean Tradition)The text emphasizes life and redemption, rather than death: יִתְגַּדַּל וְיִתְקַדַּשׁ שְׁמֵיהּ רַבָּה. (אָמֵן) בְּעָלְמָא דִּי בְרָא כִרְעוּתֵיהּ, וְיַמְלִיךְ מַלְכוּתֵיהּ, וְיַצְמַח פֻּרְקָנֵיהּ, וִיקָרֵב מְשִׁיחֵיהּ, וְיִפְרֹק עַמֵּיהּ, בְּחַיֵּיכוֹן וּבְיוֹמֵיכוֹן וּבְחַיֵּיהוֹן דְּכָל בֵּית יִשְׂרָאֵל, בַּעֲגָלָא וּבִזְמַן קָרִיב; וְאִמְרוּ אָמֵן. "...May He establish His kingdom, cause His salvation to sprout, bring near His Messiah, and redeem His people, in your lifetime and in your days and in the lifetime of the entire House of Israel, swiftly and soon. And say, Amen." V. Individual Responsibility vs. Ritual FormulaEzekiel 18:20 הַנֶּ֥פֶשׁ הַחֹטֵ֖את הִ֣יא תָמ֑וּת בֵּ֞ן לֹא־יִשָּׂא֙ בַּעֲוֺ֣ן הָאָ֗ב וְאָב֙ לֹ֤א יִשָּׂא֙ בַּעֲוֺ֣ן הַבֵּ֔ן... "The soul that sins, it shall die; a son shall not bear the iniquity of the father, and a father shall not bear the iniquity of the son..." VI. Authentic Ways to Commemorate the DeceasedTorah Study: Based on Sanhedrin 104a—The legacy of the deceased lives through the transmission of their wisdom. Tefilla Leadership: Serving as Shelihaḥ ṣibbur (communal representative) to sanctify God's name through standard prayer. Qaddish DeRabbanan: Recited specifically after communal Torah study. Acts of Ḥesedh: Charity and kindness performed in the name of the deceased (Avoth 4:11). Episode Summary: In this episode, host Yosef Lopez explores the tenth month of the Hebrew calendar, Ṭebheth. We journey from the festive "Festival of Daughters" at the month’s start to the somber fast of the Tenth of Ṭebheth, marking the start of the Babylonian siege of Jerusalem. Beyond history, this episode challenges modern Jewish practice—questioning the nature of communal fasting and making a bold, controversial case for why the custom of "Mourner’s Qaddish" should be abolished in favor of authentic Torah study and acts of kindness. Key TakeawaysThe Etymology of Ṭebheth: Derived from the Akkadian ṭebētu ("to sink" or "immerse"), reflecting the depth of winter and the heavy rains that "immerse" the land. The Anatomy of a Siege: Understanding the Tenth of Ṭebheth not just as a date, but as "slow violence"—the methodical attrition of hope that precedes national catastrophe. The Conditional Fast: A halakhic deep-dive into why minor fasts are not unconditional obligations like Yom Kippur, but communal tools for teshuva (repentance). The Qaddish Controversy: Why the "Mourner’s Qaddish" is a medieval folk development rather than classical Judaism, and how it potentially distorts communal prayer into ancestor worship. Authentic Commemoration: Shifting from "magical formulae" to honoring the dead through Torah study, leading regular prayer, and acts of ḥesedh (charity). Timestamped Highlights[00:00] Introduction: From the "Festival of Daughters" to the depth of winter. [04:15] The Name Ṭebheth: Biblical references and Akkadian roots. [08:45] Historical Siege: Examining 2 Kings, Jeremiah, and the "slow violence" of Nebuchadnezzar. [15:30] The Halakha of Fasting: Rambam and the three conditions of Rabh Papa (persecution, peace, or "middle times"). [22:10] Isaiah’s Warning: Why fasting without justice and teshuva is merely "theatre." [28:40] Yom Qaddish Kelali: Hakham Uzziel’s modern innovation for Shoah victims. [33:15] The Case Against Mourner’s Qaddish: Exploring the text, its medieval origins, and its theological contradictions. [45:00] Better Alternatives: Five ways to truly honor a loved one's legacy through Torah and action. [52:30] Conclusion: Choosing Torah over folklore and looking forward to Shebhaṭ. Resources & Texts MentionedTanakh: Esther 2:16, 2 Kings 25:1, Lamentations 4:9-10, Ezekiel 18:20, Zechariah 8:19. Mishneh Torah: Rambam, Hilkhoth Ta'aniyyoth (Laws of Fasts) and Hilkhoth Ebhel (Laws of Mourning). Talmud: Masekhet Ta'anith 18b (Rabh Papa’s distinction); Sanhedrin 104a (Torah study for the deceased). Scholarship: Professor Theodor Gaster on the origins of Yizkor. Contemporary Figures: Hakham Benzion Meir Hai Uzziel (The Rishon LeSion). Call to ActionSupport the Podcast: If this episode challenged your perspective or deepened your understanding of Jewish time, consider supporting us on Patreon under "Horizontal Media." Your support keeps these deep-dives into classical Judaism possible. Engage: Don't let the conversation end here. Share this episode with someone you want to study with—or someone you want to argue with! Next Month: Join us as we explore Shebhaṭ, the month of rising sap and invisible growth.