Not Well

Bobby, Jim & Friends
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 Bobby and Jim have been doing this for seven years and they're only getting worse. Gay life, American dysfunction, travel chaos, unhinged takes on the news, and conversations that start at foreskin philosophy and end at the collapse of civilization. May cause uncontrolled laughter, sarcasm, and existential dread. You've been warned. 

  1. I just want to lay there and have someone else be like, 'I'm having fun.'"

    4 days ago

    I just want to lay there and have someone else be like, 'I'm having fun.'"

    Send us Fan Mail Are we officially getting too old for this? In this wonderfully chaotic episode of Not Well, Bobby and Jim dive headfirst into the sheer exhaustion of aging out of the nightlife scene. Grab a Coke Zero and buckle up as the guys roast the absolute state of modern Pride month—lamenting how grassroots community celebrations have been tragically replaced by corporate banks tossing cheap beads from parade floats. From dissecting Gen Z's "grungy" aesthetic to surviving the physical toll of midnight clubbing, the boys are unapologetically embracing their limits and leaning into a life of avoiding discomfort at all costs. It’s a messy, fast-paced, and wildly unhinged conversation that goes off the rails in the best way possible. What we're getting into this week: Submarines in the Sky: Why flying is terrifying and why you have a nerve to fall asleep on a plane.Corporate Pride: We don't need to march with a banner for a bank. We're over it.The AI Trump Love Song: A terrifyingly catchy AI-generated track that we can't unhear.The Gen Z Grudge: Dissecting the grungy, mullet-and-jorts aesthetic of the youth.MAJOR ANNOUNCEMENT: A massive update on the future of the show—by episode 400, Not Well is packing up and broadcasting from an entirely different continent!Buckle in, it’s a wild ride. Let’s get loose! Support the show As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week  Instagram Twitter Bobby's Only Fans Help us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe #gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts  #podcasting #gaylife  #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

    51 min
  2. Your Pastor Loves You So Much, He Needs a Private Jet

    12 Jun

    Your Pastor Loves You So Much, He Needs a Private Jet

    Send us Fan Mail This week the boys open with a "loving" influencer explaining why we're all going to hell — and it only gets holier from there. Social media Christians who gay-bait on Snapchat, megachurch pastors who need a second jet, and why nobody is getting into Heaven Plus. Then Bobby reports live from Charlotte: a city full of 23-year-olds, an open bar (RIP), and a gay bar near the airport that sparked the most honest conversation about race we've ever had on this show. Plus a gas station encounter that proves travel actually changes you. And the main event: a full dramatic reading from the Book of Faggot — a Grindr message from a hookup 13 years ago with a suspiciously perfect memory, a top-three ranking (out of three), and the coldest "Got it." in recorded history. Also inside: the president is a farter, Pillion is unrealistic (Alexander Skarsgård is a 95, sorry), doctor's office anxiety is just hookup anxiety, why the gays bully the gays, and the moment we realized the days are already getting shorter. 🗳️ VOTE: Chicago, Seattle, or New York for the August trip? Tell us or be quiet forever. Mentally Not Well. Physically Hot.  🛍️ Merch + everything: notwellpodcast.com Support the show As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week  Instagram Twitter Bobby's Only Fans Help us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe #gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts  #podcasting #gaylife  #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

    1hr 1min
  3. Grandma's Watching. Get F****d?!

    1 Jun

    Grandma's Watching. Get F****d?!

    Send us Fan Mail To celebrate their milestone 300th episode, Bobby and Jim return to recap their recent separate vacations to two very different places named Naples. Bobby shares wild, chaotic stories from his trip to Italy—including navigating bullet trains, dealing with aggressive tour guides, visiting a gay nudist beach in Palermo, and surviving a sudden police raid at an underwear club in Rome. Meanwhile, Jim contrasts that with his ultra-conservative, deeply relaxing family trip to Naples, Florida, where a restaurant waiter hilariously mistakes him and his husband for brothers. The duo wraps up the milestone episode by ranting about international airport baggage customs, discussing their partners' intense road rage habits, and exposing the "fake facades" of dating app profile pictures. Support the show As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week  Instagram Twitter Bobby's Only Fans Help us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe #gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts  #podcasting #gaylife  #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

    1hr 13min
  4. Most Pretty Dicks Are On Ugly Faces

    30 Apr

    Most Pretty Dicks Are On Ugly Faces

    Send us Fan Mail Episode 299 of Not Well Podcast is complete disorder. This week Bobby and Jim discuss drinking out of the sink, gay nightlife chaos, furry encounters, hookup apps, Italy travel plans, weird kinks, hot people problems, armpit attraction science, toxic cookware paranoia, seat-switching airplane drama, and why some people stir coffee for far too long. Comedy, zero filter, questionable logic, and premium nonsense. Subscribe, rate, review, and send in your own “Not Well” stories. Support the show As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week  Instagram Twitter Bobby's Only Fans Help us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe #gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts  #podcasting #gaylife  #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

    57 min
  5. Wait… You Can’t Botox Your Knees?

    23 Apr

    Wait… You Can’t Botox Your Knees?

    Send us Fan Mail Episode 298 of Not Well Podcast is chaos in its purest form. This week Bobby and Jim spiral through aging panic, weird beauty standards, Botox limits, golf bros, gay bar behavior, bald head hotness, awkward encounters, body image, nightlife nonsense, and the random observations nobody else is brave enough to say out loud. Sharp humor, zero filter, and two hosts trying to stay semi-functional. Subscribe, leave a review, and send in your own “Not Well” stories. Support the show As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week  Instagram Twitter Bobby's Only Fans Help us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe #gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts  #podcasting #gaylife  #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

    55 min
  6. Wait, You Don't Trim an Abandoned Lawn?

    17 Apr

    Wait, You Don't Trim an Abandoned Lawn?

    Send us Fan Mail This week on Not Well, Bobby and Jim spiral beautifully through a night out that started with cheap margaritas and ended somewhere between gay bar chaos, moon conspiracies, death talk, body shame trauma, and the collapse of modern society. We cover:  A wild night at Lupitas and Columbus bars  Meeting a hot casket salesman  Why American car culture is broken  Weird truths about body odor and shame  Going around the moon… again?  Trump, distractions, and the state of the world  Kink culture, sensory deprivation, and Claw weekend  Why gay men drinking wine at dive bars feels suspicious  Friendship, loneliness, attention-seeking, and social media weirdness  The usual emotionally unstable nonsense If you like sharp humor, gay chaos, conspiracy tangents, social commentary, and two friends saying what everyone else is thinking… welcome home. 🎧 New episodes weekly.  📍Based in Columbus, Ohio.  💚 Follow, rate, review, and tell one unstable friend. Support the show As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week  Instagram Twitter Bobby's Only Fans Help us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe #gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts  #podcasting #gaylife  #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

    1hr 6min
  7. I Just Realized That I'm Not Even Really Taking the Medication the Way I Should Be

    3 Apr

    I Just Realized That I'm Not Even Really Taking the Medication the Way I Should Be

    Send us Fan Mail  We finally made it to Dallas, and let’s just say the Big D stood for more than just the city name. In this episode, we’re peeling back the foil on our own incompetence—specifically how we’ve been winging our medical prescriptions while trying to maintain a 10/10 aesthetic. We’re diving into the "Modern Grime" of our travel habits, from the "Cornhole Lesbians" of Texas to the absolute panic of a self-driving car that almost ended it all before we even reached the hotel. It’s honest, it’s messy, and it’s the definitive proof that we are "Not Well."  The Top 10 Chaotic Takeaways The Dosage Disaster: Realizing you’ve been taking a fraction of the intended dose for months while wondering why you hit a weight loss plateau.Dallas vs. The World: Surviving a trip to Texas that included questionable navigation and even more questionable life choices.The Self-Driving Death Trap: A harrowing encounter with a Tesla that decided a 90-degree horizontal turn in construction was "the vibe."Cornhole Lesbians: Being validated by the most unexpected demographic in a Dallas bar and immediately feeling "pretty."The "Hotspot" Shower: Redefining hygiene as a tactical strike on specific body parts when time (and energy) is running low.Medical Non-Compliance as Art: Treating prescription instructions like the "Terms and Conditions" page—just scrolling to the bottom and clicking "agree."The 3 AM Alfredo Pipeline: The inevitable journey from a night out to a bowl of pasta that you definitely didn't need but absolutely deserved.Lanyard Loathing: A deep-seated hatred for conference lanyards and the "dorky" energy they bring to an otherwise high-fashion aesthetic.The Korean Spa Revelation: Navigating the vulnerability of a spa day while trying to maintain the "Hot but Chaotic" hierarchy.Rebranding the Mess: Launching a new, professional logo while simultaneously admitting your life is currently a beautiful, grainy, indie-film disaster.Support the show As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week  Instagram Twitter Bobby's Only Fans Help us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe #gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts  #podcasting #gaylife  #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

    1hr 8min
  8. The Gooner Algorithm: Squeezing the Sac and Thick Bands

    6 Mar

    The Gooner Algorithm: Squeezing the Sac and Thick Bands

    Send us Fan Mail In this unfiltered catch-up, Bobby and Jim dive into a chaotic month of travel, awkward social encounters, and the strangest corners of the internet. From the "scenes" in Puerto Vallarta and Cleveland to the frustrations of being blocked on dating apps in Columbus, no topic is off-limits. We explore the "profound" world of energy work and chakras after a life-altering massage, share our anxieties about aging and health, and somehow end up deep in the rabbit hole of Reborn Dolls and Gooning subcultures. Plus, we discuss why "prices are down" at Costco and critique the latest in A24-style cinema. [00:00] Travel Recaps: New York, Atlanta, and Puerto Vallarta[12:15] Dating App Disasters: Why am I getting blocked?[24:30] Cinema & Pop Culture: Taylor Swift, Charli XCX, and "The Moment"[38:45] Wellness & Energy: The Chakra-Opening Massage[52:20] Aging Anxieties: Physical health and the fear of the unknown[1:05:10] Internet Subcultures: Exploring the world of Reborn Dolls[1:18:40] The Gooner Algorithm & "Bating" CultureSupport the show As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week  Instagram Twitter Bobby's Only Fans Help us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe #gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts  #podcasting #gaylife  #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

    54 min
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 Bobby and Jim have been doing this for seven years and they're only getting worse. Gay life, American dysfunction, travel chaos, unhinged takes on the news, and conversations that start at foreskin philosophy and end at the collapse of civilization. May cause uncontrolled laughter, sarcasm, and existential dread. You've been warned. 

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  • Creator
    Bobby, Jim & Friends
  • Years Active
    2019 - 2026
  • Episodes
    306
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 BlueMouth Media LLC
  • Show Website
    Not Well
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