The Erotic Realm

Emma | Psychology of Desire
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The Erotic Realm is a top 10 podcast that explores eroticism in all its forms including the darker desires of BDSM and kinky sexuality- one erotic realm at a time. Hosted by Emma, Sexologist and founder of Psychology of Desire, each episode blends psychology, science, and real stories to explore sexuality in all its forms — from desire, pleasure, and relationships to BDSM, kink, healing, and transformation. Join Emma and discover what your desires might be trying to teach you. www.psychologyofdesire.com

  1. 1 DAY AGO

    #93 The Neurodivergent Sadist: Autism, Power & Kink Evolution with Umbra

    What happens when autism meets BDSM and kink becomes a language of structure, sensation, and connection? In this episode I’m joined by Umbra — a Dominant, sadist, and long-time kink practitioner to explore the psychology of neurodivergent desire and the evolution of kink across decades. We explore: Autism, neurodivergence & erotic identity.BDSM as structure, communication & sensory regulation.Sadism, bastinado & the psychology of impact play.Finding your tribe in kink communities.How kink has evolved from underground scenes to global networks.VOTE for The Erotic Realm to win best podcast here. Thanks for voting! Research article: Stimulation and Stimming: S&M on the Spectrum. Interested in Kinky Speed Dating? ⁠⁠⁠Register Here.⁠⁠⁠ The Erotic Realm now has it’s own merchandise! If you love the show and want to support it check it out ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠psychologyofdesire.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to apply to be on the podcast. I'd love to chat to you. Thanks for listening! Stay perverted, Emma See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    55 min

  2. 4 DAYS AGO

    #92 Decolonizing Sex: Sacred BDSM, Black Love & Erotic Power with King Noire

    What does it mean to decolonize sex and who gets to define desire? In this episode I’m joined by King Noire — award-winning performer, educator, and founder of Royal Fetish Films — to explore the intersection of BDSM, culture, and identity. We unpack how sexuality is shaped by history, race, and power — and what it looks like to reclaim erotic expression in a way that is intentional, ethical, and culturally aware. VOTE for The Erotic Realm to win best podcast here. Thanks for voting! We explore: Decolonizing sex and reclaiming erotic identity.BDSM as connection, not just power or pain.Black love, representation, and cultural narratives.Sacred sex and erotic storytelling.Creativity, music, and dominance.Research article: Hormonal Changes and Couple Bonding in Consensual Sadomasochistic Activity. Interested in Kinky Speed Dating? ⁠⁠⁠Register Here.⁠⁠⁠ The Erotic Realm now has it’s own merchandise! If you love the show and want to support it check it out ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠psychologyofdesire.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to apply to be on the podcast. I'd love to chat to you. Thanks for listening! Stay perverted, Emma See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    1hr 14min

  3. 17 APR

    #91 The Intimacy Paradox: Vulnerability, Safety & Desire with Rachel Dorneanu

    VOTE for The Erotic Realm to win best podcast here. Thanks for voting! What if the reason intimacy feels hard isn’t lack of attraction — but lack of safety? In this episode I’m joined by Rachel Dorneanu — relationship and sex therapist — to explore the psychology of intimacy, vulnerability, and emotional connection. We explore: Vulnerability and emotional safety in relationships.Conservative upbringing and sexual shame.Communication and what makes a “safe partner”.Arranged marriages and cultural dynamics.Highly Sensitive People and intimacy.Research Article: Sensory-Processing Sensitivity and Its Relation to Introversion and Emotionality. Interested in Kinky Speed Dating? ⁠⁠⁠Register Here.⁠⁠⁠ The Erotic Realm now has it’s own merchandise! If you love the show and want to support it check it out ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠psychologyofdesire.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to apply to be on the podcast. I'd love to chat to you. Thanks for listening! Stay perverted, Emma See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    53 min

  4. 14 APR

    #90 The Banned Sex Educator: Film, Shame & Sexual Freedom with Dr. Mark Schoen

    What happens when sex education is left to shame, silence, and the internet? In this episode, I’m joined by Dr. Mark Schoen — sex educator, filmmaker, and founder of SexSmartFilms — to explore what decades of teaching human sexuality have revealed about shame, censorship, and sexual freedom. We explore: What decades of sex education have taught Mark about desire. Banned books, censorship, and why sexual honesty still scares people. How film can teach what classrooms often miss. Cultural differences in sexual messaging. Mark’s work with William Masters, Betty Dodson, and his transgender film project.Research Article: X-Rated: Sexual Attitudes and Behaviors Associated With U.S. Adolescents’ Exposure to Sexually Explicit Media. Interested in Kinky Speed Dating? ⁠⁠⁠Register Here.⁠⁠⁠ The Erotic Realm now has it’s own merchandise! If you love the show and want to support it check it out ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠psychologyofdesire.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to apply to be on the podcast. I'd love to chat to you. Thanks for listening! Stay perverted, Emma See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    55 min

  5. 10 APR

    #89 The Asexual Dominant: Female Dominance, Power & Desire with GoddessMey

    What happens when someone experiences little to no sexual attraction — but still has a deeply erotic life? In this episode I’m joined by GoddessMey — a dominant, sadomasochist, and asexual-spectrum kinkster — to explore the intersection of asexuality and BDSM. We explore: Asexuality and erotic identity.Female dominance and power exchange.Sadism, masochism, and sensation.Ethical findom and consent.Redefining desire beyond attraction.Research Article: Asexuality: prevalence and associated factors in a national probability sample. Love Erotica? Don't forget to go to callmephoenix.com and use the promo code IOBEYEMMA for $5 off any audio! use as many times as you like. Interested in Kinky Speed Dating? ⁠⁠⁠Register Here.⁠⁠⁠ The Erotic Realm now has it’s own merchandise! If you love the show and want to support it check it out ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠psychologyofdesire.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to apply to be on the podcast. I'd love to chat to you. Thanks for listening! Stay perverted, Emma See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    48 min

  6. 7 APR

    #88 The Dominant CEO: Ethical Power & Erotic Leadership with Leadfromfront

    What if leadership isn’t about control but responsibility? In this episode I’m joined by Leadfromfront — a 75-year-old retired CEO and Dominant — to explore the psychology of power, leadership, and ethical authority. We explore: Leadership vs domination in BDSM.Consent as the foundation of power.The difference between hurt and harm.Ethical sadism and attunement.Aging, desire, and erotic longevity.Research book: The Power Paradox: How We Gain and Lose Influence. Love Erotica? Don't forget to go to callmephoenix.com and use the promo code IOBEYEMMA for $5 off any audio! use as many times as you like. Interested in Kinky Speed Dating? ⁠⁠⁠Register Here.⁠⁠⁠ The Erotic Realm now has it’s own merchandise! If you love the show and want to support it check it out ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠psychologyofdesire.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to apply to be on the podcast. I'd love to chat to you. Thanks for listening! Stay perverted, Emma See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    51 min

  7. 3 APR

    #87 No Children, No Shame: Sterilisation, Sex Work & Erotic Freedom with Katija Cortez

    What happens when a woman chooses her body, her career, and her desire — outside of expectation? In this episode I’m joined by Katija Cortez — a submissive, content creator, and professional girlfriend — to explore female autonomy, sterilisation, and the psychology of erotic agency. We explore: Sterilisation and voluntary childlessness.Stigma, autonomy, and cultural expectations.Sex work, desire, and emotional connection.The paradox of being both sovereign and submissive.How choice reshapes erotic identity.Research article: Stigma Management Among the Voluntarily Childless. Love Erotica? Don't forget to go to callmephoenix.com and use the promo code IOBEYEMMA for $5 off any audio! use as many times as you like. Interested in Kinky Speed Dating? ⁠⁠⁠Register Here.⁠⁠⁠ The Erotic Realm now has it’s own merchandise! If you love the show and want to support it check it out ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠psychologyofdesire.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to apply to be on the podcast. I'd love to chat to you. Thanks for listening! Stay perverted, Emma See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    55 min

  8. 31 MAR

    #86 The Sexual Mastery Coach: Masculinity, Stamina & Erotic Presence with Kevin Anthony

    What happens when sexual mastery becomes about presence, not performance? In this episode I’m joined by Kevin Anthony — sexologist, tantra counsellor, and men’s sexual mastery coach — to explore the psychology of masculinity, ejaculation, and erotic presence. We explore: Ejaculation, stamina, and sexual control.Masculinity and performance anxiety.Tantra as a lived erotic practice.Polyamory and emotional intelligence.Grief, loss, and erotic continuity.Research article: Men's gender role conflict: Psychological costs, consequences, and an agenda for change. Love Erotica? Don't forget to go to callmephoenix.com and use the promo code IOBEYEMMA for $5 off any audio! use as many times as you like. Interested in Kinky Speed Dating? ⁠⁠⁠Register Here.⁠⁠⁠ The Erotic Realm now has it’s own merchandise! If you love the show and want to support it check it out ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠psychologyofdesire.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to apply to be on the podcast. I'd love to chat to you. Thanks for listening! Stay perverted, Emma See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    59 min
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The Erotic Realm is a top 10 podcast that explores eroticism in all its forms including the darker desires of BDSM and kinky sexuality- one erotic realm at a time. Hosted by Emma, Sexologist and founder of Psychology of Desire, each episode blends psychology, science, and real stories to explore sexuality in all its forms — from desire, pleasure, and relationships to BDSM, kink, healing, and transformation. Join Emma and discover what your desires might be trying to teach you. www.psychologyofdesire.com

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  • Creator
    Emma | Psychology of Desire
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    95
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Emma | Psychology of Desire
  • Show Website
    The Erotic Realm

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