Proverbs 15:32 “If you reject discipline, you only harm yourself; but if you listen to correction, you grow in understanding.” Everybody looks dangerous in a house of mirrors. In Enter the Dragon, Bruce Lee enters a room where his enemy seems to be everywhere. He turns one way—enemy. Turns another—enemy. But most of what he sees isn’t his opponent. It’s a reflection. Correction feels like that. Somebody points out something uncomfortable and, before examining it, we get mad at the mirror! My wife and I almost got into an argument the other day over exercise equipment: “Baby, did you throw that thingy away?” “What thingy, Love?” “You know that exercise thingy I like to use.” “Oh...No, sweetheart.” “You sure, Precious? You know you be throwing my stuff away.” “Darling, if I threw away something you actually used, I’d remember.” “Well, Sugar, I still don’t see—oh...there it is, “Lover.” And we both stopped and laughed out loud! It seemed like the sweeter the pet names got, the hotter the argument got. But let me show you the mirror: we both collect what we promise to use and hardly use it and unapologetically toss what looks useless in our own opinion—and we were both irritated by our own reflections! Mirrors are just disrespectful. They’ll show you lint, food in your teeth—even a little nose treasure—without softening the report. But the mirror didn’t put it there. Proverbs 15:32 in the NLT says: “If you reject discipline, you only harm yourself; but if you listen to correction, you grow in understanding.” That verse turns correction into an act of self-respect. If I refuse every reflection, I may be protecting my ego, and leaving my life ‘unexamined’. Understanding grows when I’m secure enough to ask, “Is there anything here I need to see?” That’s part of what it means to have an ‘examined life’. Now, not every person is an accurate mirror. Some folks are projecting. Some criticism is manipulative, uninformed or flat-out wrong. Wisdom doesn’t swallow every accusation as truth. But it doesn’t immediately smash the mirror either. Wisdom gets curious. Why did that hit me so hard? Is this revealing a wound? A habit? Something I keep confronting in others because I haven’t confronted it in myself? Sometimes what we attack in another person reflects something we haven’t examined within ourselves. A mirror helps us clean our face. Breaking it doesn’t remove what it revealed. So before you fight the reflection, pause. Look again. Let wisdom show you what’s real, what’s distorted and what may need cleaning. 🔥 REMEMBER Don’t break the mirror. Let it show you what needs cleaning. 🙏🏽 PRAYER God, give me courage to receive correction without losing myself. 🎯 TODAY’S CHALLENGE Think of one criticism that irritated you recently. Don’t accept or reject it immediately. Ask, “Is any part of this showing me something I need to clean?” Write down one honest answer. About the Author Fred Lynch is a creative communicator, author, and Christian Hip Hop pioneer. To learn more about Fred and what he’s up to now…click here or you can find him in all the socials by searching the handle: heyfredlynch 📱 Experience Proverbs Daily by Subscribing! Ready to receive daily wisdom directly on your phone? Go to proverbsdaily.org for the app or just click that Subscribe button right now! Get full access to Hey Fred Lynch! at heyfredlynch.substack.com/subscribe