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You didn't become a mother to become invisible. Soft x Savage is the podcast for ambitious moms building wealth, identity, and a hot life — without apology. Hosted by messaging expert and solo mom Laura Patricia Martin, this is the Hot Mom. Hot Business. movement in podcast form. We talk high ticket business, identity after motherhood, messaging, money, and rebuilding yourself on your own terms. This isn't the survival podcast. It's the thriving one. New episodes weekly. Join the movement @softxsavagepodcast.

  1. hace 2 días

    Why Your Brain Never Fully Relaxes After Having a Baby, What Matrescence Actually Does to You & How to Build Around It

    There's a word for what happened when you became a mother. It's called matrescence. And it's the neurological, hormonal and identity transformation that happens when you have a baby — as significant as adolescence. And almost nobody teaches it. Which means most moms are walking around thinking something is wrong with them. That they're lazy. That they lost their edge. That the woman they were before is gone. She's not gone. Your brain was rewired. And there's a difference. This episode is the science behind what actually happened — and how to build a business that works with your biology instead of against it. IN THIS EPISODE— Matrescence: the word you needed and why understanding it changes everything about how you see yourself as a mother and a builder— Dr. Stephen Porges' Polyvagal Theory and neuroception — why your nervous system is running a vigilance program 24 hours a day and why it never fully switches off after you have a baby— Why creative thought, complex decisions and ambition feel harder after having a baby — and why that's not weakness, it's neuroscience— The difference between burnout and safety — and why most high achieving moms mistake arrival for laziness— Why you cannot think your way out of a biological response — and how systems, simplicity and AI change everything— What building around your biology actually looks like — and why the most present version of you is also the most powerful You haven't lost your ambition. Your brain is doing exactly what it was designed to do. The women who understand that — and build around it — are the ones who make it look easy. 🖤 🎙️ PRESENT AND PAIDBuild a business that works with how you actually operate as a mother. [DM to apply] ⭐ LEAVE A REVIEW & WINLeave a review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot it, and DM it to me @itslaurapatriciamartin — and I'll send you something customized just for you. AI Tool to Make 7 Days of Content — your hot mom content plan, done for you SHOP + SUPPORT— My exact Amazon storefront (supplements, skincare, and home luxuries) SUBSCRIBE + SHARELove the episode?Subscribe, leave a review, and tag @itslaurapatriciamartin + @softxsavagepodcast on IG for a chance to win our weekly giveaway.

  2. 22 jul

    How to Crash Out, Stay Hot & Keep Building: The Real Routine That Actually Keeps You Functional in Hard Seasons

    🎙️ THE NAP TIME CHALLENGE STARTS JULY 27Get paid before your kid wakes up. Three live sessions This one's for the woman who's in it right now. Not the polished version of in it. The real version. Where something in your life is heavy, your creativity feels blocked, and you still have a business to run and a kid to raise and somehow you're supposed to show up online like everything is fine. This episode is not about pushing through. It's not about toxic positivity. It's about the actual bare minimum routine that keeps you functional, magnetic, and still building when life is restructuring behind the scenes. Because crashing out doesn't mean stopping. It means you're human. And there's a way to do it without losing yourself or your momentum. IN THIS EPISODE— Why doing one thing for yourself before you do anything for anyone else is the most important business decision you'll make in a hard season— The getting dressed rule: why showing up in an outfit you could record in changes everything about how you feel and how you create— Why moving your body when you don't want to isn't about aesthetics right now — it's about keeping the one hour that's still yours— How simplifying to one offer, one topic, one person gives you focus and steadiness when everything else feels chaotic— Why rest is not quitting — and how giving yourself permission to do less right now is what keeps you in the game long enough to win it You don't have to have it together to stay hot. You just have to stay in motion. 🖤 ⭐ LEAVE A REVIEW & WINLeave a review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot it, and DM it to me @itslaurapatriciamartin — and I'll send you something customized just for you. FREE RESOURCE:AI Tool to Make 7 Days of Content — your hot mom content plan, done for you SHOP + SUPPORT— My exact Amazon storefront (supplements, skincare, and home luxuries) SUBSCRIBE + SHARELove the episode?Subscribe, leave a review, and tag @itslaurapatriciamartin + @softxsavagepodcast on IG for a chance to win our weekly giveaway.

  3. 15 jul

    Why I Was Putting on a Show, The Veil That Lifts After Birth & What It Actually Feels Like to Build from Expression Not Performance

    After I gave birth, something shifted. Not just in my life. In the way I saw everything I had been doing online. It was like a veil lifted. And suddenly I could see it so clearly — the performing, the posturing, the constant output, the launches, the polished version of myself I had been putting out into the world. And underneath all of it was this quiet, uncomfortable truth: I wasn't building from who I actually was. I was building from who I thought I was supposed to be. This episode is that conversation. The one I've been sitting with. The one I think a lot of moms in business need to hear — especially the ones who feel like the internet is a lie after they give birth, like everything they were doing before suddenly feels hollow. Because that feeling isn't a sign that you're broken. It's a sign that you've finally woken up. IN THIS EPISODE— Why so many moms feel like the internet is a lie after giving birth — and what that veil-lifting moment is actually telling you— How I realized I was putting on a show in my business and what I was really trying to avoid by staying busy— The difference between performing your life online and actually expressing it — and why one converts and one exhausts you— Why slowing down felt terrifying and what happened to my connection with my audience and my work when I did— What surrender, self-trust, and alignment actually look like in a real business — not the spiritual bypassing version— The question worth asking if your life doesn't feel right: what if the next step isn't doing more, but becoming more honest about who you are now? My views went down. My connection went up. And that trade was worth everything. 🖤 JOIN THE MOVEMENT:Ready to go deeper? DM me on Instagram for 1:1 spaces — @itslaurapatriciamartin ⭐ LEAVE A REVIEW & WINLeave a review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot it, and DM it to me @itslaurapatriciamartin. One person this week wins access to Cash to Chaos — my AI bot that builds story slides to sell when you're overwhelmed. Only my $20K 1:1 clients have it right now. FREE RESOURCE:AI Tool to Make 7 Days of Content — your hot mom content plan, done for you SHOP + SUPPORT— My exact Amazon storefront (supplements, skincare, and home luxuries) SUBSCRIBE + SHARELove the episode?Subscribe, leave a review, and tag @itslaurapatriciamartin + @softxsavagepodcast on IG for a chance to win our weekly giveaway.

  4. 8 jul

    The Visibility Trap, Why Most Creators Never Get Paid & The 3 Bridges That Actually Make You Money as a Mom

    I don't want you to just be visible. I want you to be visible AND paid. Because a woman who shows up every day, creates content, builds an audience — and makes no money from it — is just invested in a very time consuming hobby. I'm not doing this to be popular. I'm doing this to make money. And I'm going to assume you're here for the same reason — whether you're trying to make money right now or you're figuring out how you're going to make money in the future. Most women who are posting will never make the money they're capable of making. Not because they're not talented. Not because they don't work hard. Because there's a gap between visibility and income that nobody ever shows you how to bridge. This episode is about that gap. The visibility trap. And the 3 bridges that actually get you out of it. IN THIS EPISODE— Why visibility and income are not the same thing — and the data that proves it (over 200 million creators, more than half earning under $15,000 a year)— The Thailand story: sold out events, posting three times a day, opportunities everywhere — and making absolutely no money— The relatability trap: why poetic, emotional, relatable content builds connection but doesn't build income— "Access creates participation. Structure creates income." — the Forbes line that explains everything— The 3 bridges between visibility and income: conversion content, a clear offer, and trust scaled from 1:1 to 1:many— Why the gap between the $15,000 creator and the $133,000 creator isn't talent — it's operating like a business— The model: personal brand → conversion content → one digital product. In that order. That's it. Visibility is not the goal. Income is the goal. Visibility is just the door — make sure you have something on the other side of it. 🖤 ⭐ LEAVE A REVIEW & WINIf this episode gave you something real — go leave a review on Apple Podcasts right now. Screenshot it and DM it to me @itslaurapatriciamartin. One person this week wins access to Cash to Chaos — my AI bot that builds story slides to sell when you're overwhelmed. The only people who have it right now are my $20K 1:1 clients. Go. Right now. FREE RESOURCE:AI Tool to Make 7 Days of Content — your hot mom content plan, done for you JOIN THE MOVEMENT:Ready to go deeper? DM me on Instagram for 1:1 spaces — @itslaurapatriciamartin SHOP + SUPPORT— My exact Amazon storefront (supplements, skincare, and home luxuries) SUBSCRIBE + SHARELove the episode?Subscribe, leave a review, and tag @atslaurapatriciamartin + @softxsavagepodcast on IG for a chance to win our weekly giveaway.

  5. 1 jul

    Why Most Working Moms Can't Make It to the Second Shift, Nervous System Overload & Why You're Not Lazy

    I get asked this all the time. How do you actually make it to the second shift? How do you work at night and not just collapse? And honestly? It's not that hard for me. Not because I have more energy than you. Because I stopped bleeding mine out all day. Here's what's actually happening when night hits and you're done. You've spent the whole day trying to be mom, business owner, wife, housekeeper, and gym-goer all at the same time. Nothing got your full attention. Not the business. Not your kid. Not yourself. And that's not a time problem. That's a nervous system problem. Every time you switch tasks, your nervous system takes a hit. You've been doing that on repeat since 6am. By the time the second shift comes, you're not tired from doing too much. You're tired from switching too much. This episode is about what actually regulates that — and why making it to the second shift isn't about pushing through exhaustion. It's about arriving with something left. IN THIS EPISODE— Why you're exhausted by the time the second shift starts and it has nothing to do with how much you did— The difference between physical exhaustion and nervous system depletion — and why most moms are experiencing the second one and calling it laziness— What overstimulation actually is and why it's not just noise, it's too many open loops— Why I took a nap with Luka today and what that has to do with making it through my own second shift tonight— The real structure that makes the second shift possible: containing each part of your day instead of splitting yourself across all of them— How AI protects the container so nothing bleeds into mom time — and why that's the actual reason I have something left at night You can do all of it. But not all at once. Stop splitting. Start containing. 🖤 JOIN THE MOVEMENT:Ready to go deeper? DM me on Instagram for 1:1 spaces or to inquire about The Matriarch Mastermind — @itslaurapatriciamartin FREE RESOURCE:AI Tool to Make 7 Days of Content — your hot mom content plan, done for you SHOP + SUPPORT— My exact Amazon storefront (supplements, skincare, and home luxuries) SUBSCRIBE + SHARELove the episode?Subscribe, leave a review, and tag @itslaurapatriciamartin + @softxsavagepodcast on IG for a chance to win our weekly giveaway.

  6. 24 jun

    Why Your Personal Brand Isn't Working, How AI Changed My Content Strategy & What Actually Builds Authority as a Mom

    I'm going to say something uncomfortable. The reason your personal brand isn't working probably has nothing to do with your content strategy. It has everything to do with how you're showing up. And I say that as someone who did every single thing I'm about to call out — showed up raw and rundown trying to preach something big, complained publicly about being tired, wore "I have no village" like a badge of honor, and pretended like having a baby changed nothing about my business. It did. And pretending otherwise cost me. This episode is the honest conversation about what's actually killing mom brands online — and what I changed when AI came into my second shift and forced me to stop operating from survival mode and start operating from data. IN THIS EPISODE— The 4 things moms are doing online that are quietly destroying their authority (I did all of them)— Why showing up raw and rundown while preaching something big creates a disconnect your audience can feel— The village conversation nobody wants to have — and why "I do it solo" is not the flex you think it is— Why pretending motherhood doesn't affect your business is making you less relatable AND less trustworthy— What AI actually changed for me — and it wasn't my content, it was my organization, my data, and my second shift— What the hot mom who's actually winning online does differently: structure, support, optimization, and an edited brand that knows what it is The hot mom who's winning isn't the one who has it all figured out. She's the one who stopped performing the struggle and started showing the structure. 🖤 JOIN THE MOVEMENT:Ready to go deeper? DM me on Instagram for 1:1 spaces or to inquire about The Matriarch Mastermind — @itslaurapatriciamartin FREE RESOURCE:AI Tool to Make 7 Days of Content — your hot mom content plan, done for you SHOP + SUPPORT— My exact Amazon storefront (supplements, skincare, and home luxuries) SUBSCRIBE + SHARELove the episode? Subscribe, leave a review, and tag @itslaurapatriciamartin + @softxsavagepodcast on IG

  7. 17 jun

    Coaching to Luxury Jewelry, Trusting Your Inner Nudges & The Art of the Pivot w/ Stefanie Elsperman

    You know that feeling when something inside you is nudging you toward something new — and you keep ignoring it because it doesn't make sense yet? That's what this conversation is about. Stefanie Elsperman walked away from coaching and into a luxury jewelry brand with her fiancé. And what she shares about that transition — the ego death, the fear, the identity loss, the total uncertainty — is one of the most honest conversations I've had on this show. Because pivoting isn't just a business decision. It's an identity decision. And most women stall out not because they don't know what they want — but because they're terrified of who they'll have to become to get there. If you're standing at the edge of something new and you don't know whether to jump — this episode is going to give you permission. IN THIS EPISODE— Stefanie's story: from coaching to running a luxury jewelry brand and what the transition actually looked like— The difference between tangible and energetic outcomes — and why chasing the wrong one keeps you stuck— How to recognize your inner nudges before they become screaming regrets— Ego death, perfectionism, and the identity loss that comes with every real pivot— Why a multidimensional life isn't a distraction — it's the point— How to stay curious, experimental, and playful when everything feels uncertain— The role of self-trust, patience, and communication in making big moves work It's never too late to pivot. And it's never too early to start listening. 🖤 CONNECT WITH STEFANIE ELSPERMAN— Instagram: @stefanieelsperman— Jewelry: @deepriverjewelry JOIN THE MOVEMENT:Ready to go deeper? DM me on Instagram for 1:1 spaces or to inquire about The Matriarch Mastermind — @itslaurapatriciamartin FREE RESOURCE:AI Tool to Make 7 Days of Content — your hot mom content plan, done for you SHOP + SUPPORT— My exact Amazon storefront (supplements, skincare, and home luxuries) SUBSCRIBE + SHARELove the episode?Subscribe, leave a review, and tag @itslaurapatriciamartin + @softxsavagepodcast on IG for a chance to win our weekly giveaway.

  8. 8 jun

    Jessi Jean's $1.2M Launch, The Joy Over Strategy Shift & Why I'm Done Building for the Goal

    I've been in Jessi Jean's challenge this week. And honestly? I didn't join because of the $1.2 million launch. I joined because I watched this woman show up on the internet in a way I haven't seen in a long time. No performance. No strategy face. Just her — talking about things she actually cares about, following whatever thread brings her joy, and letting that be enough. And something about watching her cracked something open in me. Because I realized — I don't actually know what brings me joy. Like. Do I? I've spent my whole career doing the things. The launches. The offers. The pivots. With my own spin, yeah. But still following someone else's blueprint for what success is supposed to look like. And a lot of it worked. And something still felt off and I couldn't name it until I watched her. This episode is me sitting with that out loud. Because I think you're in it too. IN THIS EPISODE— What I saw in Jessi Jean that had nothing to do with her launch number— Why doing everything right can still feel like something's missing— The question I hadn't been asking myself — and what happened when I finally did— What following the joy thread actually looks like when you're a mom with real bills and limited time— Why the performance is the thing disconnecting you from your audience and your income— Where I'm at right now and what I'm building toward JOIN THE MOVEMENT:Ready to go deeper? DM me on Instagram for 1:1 spaces or to inquire about The Hot Mom Summer Mastermind — @itslaurapatriciamartin High Demand Woman Training — $111 to add $10K/month with aligned systemsUnrelatably Relatable — the program to unlock your most magnetic, converting self SHOP + SUPPORT— My exact Amazon storefront (supplements, skincare, and home luxuries) SUBSCRIBE + SHARELove the episode?Subscribe, leave a review, and tag @itslaurapatriciamartin + @softxsavagepodcast on IG for a chance to win our weekly giveaway.

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You didn't become a mother to become invisible. Soft x Savage is the podcast for ambitious moms building wealth, identity, and a hot life — without apology. Hosted by messaging expert and solo mom Laura Patricia Martin, this is the Hot Mom. Hot Business. movement in podcast form. We talk high ticket business, identity after motherhood, messaging, money, and rebuilding yourself on your own terms. This isn't the survival podcast. It's the thriving one. New episodes weekly. Join the movement @softxsavagepodcast.

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