Order of Man

Ryan Michler

We are reclaiming what it means to be a man. Each week we interview the world's most successful men on the planet - elite athletes, warriors, New York Times Bestselling Authors, and world-class entrepreneurs – extract their hard-fought lessons and experiences and deliver them straight to you. Past guests include Jocko Willink, Tim Kennedy, Andy Frisella, Lewis Howes, Grant Cardone, Ryan Holiday, Ben Greenfield, Rich Roll, and so many more. If you're ready to level up your life as a man, this is the show for you.

  1. Date with Intention, Choose Your Wife Over Your Mom, and Get Into Your Kids' World | ASK ME ANYTHING

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    Date with Intention, Choose Your Wife Over Your Mom, and Get Into Your Kids' World | ASK ME ANYTHING

    In this AMA episode, Ryan and Kipp tackle powerful listener questions on masculinity, relationships, and personal integrity. They explore how father wounds shape spiritual beliefs, how to set boundaries with family without guilt, and what it really means to lead in difficult moments. The conversation dives into building deep trust with other men, overcoming the need for validation, and modeling strength for your children. They also address modern dating challenges and how to approach relationships with intentionality. This episode is packed with practical wisdom on leadership, self-respect, and becoming the man others can rely on. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00  - Episode Introduction 01:29  - Episode begins + hunting story 06:07  - Father wounds & relationship with God 13:16  - Boundaries with parents vs. your own family 23:06  - Building your inner circle of men 36:47  - Supporting your wife while working away 45:02  - Overcoming validation-seeking behavior 50:08  - Making yourself and God proud (key moment) 52:06  - Handling public disrespect in front of your kids 01:02:25  - Dating, discipline, and commitment Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

    1 h 11 min
  2. TONY BOVA | The Standard You Set Is The Life You Get

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    TONY BOVA | The Standard You Set Is The Life You Get

    Most men sense something is off long before they can name it. They've played by the rules, been agreeable, helpful, conflict-avoidant, and still find themselves feeling invisible, disrespected, or hollow. Today's guest calls it exactly what it is: the nice-guy trap. And he didn't just study it from the outside; he lived it, lost a marriage over it, battled addiction through it, and came out the other side with a clear-eyed framework for what it actually means to step into your manhood. My guest is Tony Bova and, today, we talk about the internal work that nobody talks about. It's about rewriting the stories you tell yourself, honoring your word in the small moments, having the hard conversations you've been avoiding, and building something far more durable than the honeymoon phase. If you're done outsourcing your standards and ready to become the loudest voice in your own life, this one's for you. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 Introduction & Masculinity Conversation Setup 01:02 Episode Begins – Tony Bova Introduction 02:05 Red Pill Movement: Truth vs Damage 03:25 What Does "Stepping Into Masculinity" Mean? 04:44 Internal Fulfillment vs External Validation 06:49 Discipline Through Small Daily Choices 09:13 Difficult Conversations & Relationship Growth 10:29 Fear of Confrontation in Modern Men 11:17 Why Avoidance Creates Bigger Problems 13:27 Generational Patterns & Breaking Cycles 14:18 Alcohol, Avoidance & Personal Responsibility 16:30 Talking to Kids About Hard Topics 17:47 Importance of Fathers in Daughters' Lives 19:31 Masculinity & Leadership in Relationships 22:17 Why Men Feel Lost and Confused 22:56 Fear of Being Seen as a Fraud 25:29 Emotional Maturity vs "Boy Psychology" 29:51 Rebuilding Trust & Emotional Safety 33:25 Responsibility vs Fairness in Relationships 34:47 Masculine Standards & Leadership 38:10 Honoring Feminine Energy vs Competing 41:33 Truth vs People-Pleasing in Relationships 46:45 Setting Boundaries & Training Others 49:54 Victim Mentality vs Ownership 52:54 Raising Standards to Regain Control 55:13 Overcoming Fear & Self-Reinvention 57:31 True Meaning of Vulnerability 59:42 Leadership Analogy: The King & The Wall 01:03:01 Where to Find Tony Bova 01:06:27 Closing Thoughts & Final Message Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

    1 h 10 min
  3. The 'Quiet Quit' is Destroying Your Family | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

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    The 'Quiet Quit' is Destroying Your Family | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

    In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler breaks down what it really means to "quiet quit" your family - being physically present but mentally and emotionally checked out. He explains why this is one of the most dangerous and overlooked problems facing men today, how it happens, and what you can do to fix it before it costs you your marriage and your relationship with your kids. If you've ever found yourself distracted, disengaged, or just going through the motions at home, this episode is a wake-up call. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - The Quiet Quit at Home 00:40 - Why This Is So Dangerous 01:35 - The Shocking Stats on Fatherlessness 04:05 - Presence vs Engagement 06:20 - Why Men Don't See the Problem 08:05 - How Relationships Quietly Break Down 10:10 - What Quiet Quitting Looks Like 11:50 - The Root Causes (Exhaustion, Avoidance, Identity) 14:15 - Why Men Default to What They Can Measure 15:20 - Step 1: Define a Home Standard 17:00 - Step 2: Create a Threshold Ritual 18:20 - Step 3: Audit Your Attention 20:30 - Step 4: Schedule Hard Conversations 21:30 - Step 5: Build Accountability 22:30 - Final Warning: The Invisible Damage 23:30 - Be the Man Your Family Needs 24:20 - YouTube + Iron Council CTA Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

    26 min
  4. Salvaging Sinking Marriages, Career Check-Ups, and Overcoming Isolation | ASK ME ANYTHING

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    Salvaging Sinking Marriages, Career Check-Ups, and Overcoming Isolation | ASK ME ANYTHING

    In this AMA episode, Ryan and Kipp dive into what's really keeping men up at night - from purpose and finances to marriage struggles and fatherhood. They tackle listener questions on career growth, preparing for marriage, navigating separation, and knowing when to walk away from a failing relationship. The conversation also explores loneliness, emotional resilience, and how men can build stronger connections through action and brotherhood. With practical advice and honest insights, this episode challenges men to take ownership, lead with intention, and stop waiting for life to change. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 Intro & pre-show banter 05:30 Montana Knife Company & reflections 17:00 Career checkups & mentorship 26:30 Preparing for marriage & finances 36:30 Learning to be alone 42:20 Can you save a marriage? 50:20 When to leave a relationship 01:01:30 Staying calm under pressure Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

    1 h 18 min
  5. SIDNEY ANDERSON | Make Yourself Antifragile

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    SIDNEY ANDERSON | Make Yourself Antifragile

    Most men today are being quietly conditioned to break. They're raised in environments that reward niceness over strength, validation over resilience, and comfort over growth. This show exists to push back. We believe masculinity isn't a problem to be solved; it's a force to be developed. Every week we sit down with the men and thinkers who are doing the hard work of building themselves (physically, emotionally, and mentally) so they can stand between their families and destruction and not flinch. Today's conversation cuts straight to the core of what it means to be a man who doesn't just endure hardship but actually gets stronger because of it. We're talking about antifragility - the idea that the right stressors don't weaken you, they forge you. If you've been told your whole life to be softer, more agreeable, and easier to be around, this episode is going to challenge everything you think you know about strength. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction & anti-fragility discussion begins 01:11 - Fragility vs respect in modern masculinity 02:11 - Impact of single-parent households & upbringing 03:26 - Male role models missing in education 05:07 - Women shaping male identity 06:05 - Dating dynamics & "the ick" 07:12 - Strength as a core masculine trait 08:24 - Misunderstanding between men and women 10:37 - Why we shouldn't fully "understand" the opposite sex 11:58 - What men want in relationships 13:05 - Complementary roles of men and women 15:14 - Stay-at-home dynamics & gender roles 16:40 - Personal story: role reversal realization 18:04 - Cultural narratives about masculinity 19:01 - What male caregiving actually looks like 20:34 - Tough love vs emotional softness in parenting 23:30 - Bike analogy: masculine vs feminine parenting 25:03 - Teaching resilience through experience 27:54 - Conflicting expectations of modern men 28:25 - Masculine vs feminine virtues hierarchy 29:55 - Red pill vs feminism comparison 32:23 - Nice vs kind distinction 33:32 - Capability vs harmlessness 35:21 - Who's more dangerous: men or women? 37:02 - Masculinity's role in building society 39:24 - Women adapting due to weak men 41:14 - Real-world example: security vs "nice guy" 42:38 - Dangerous men who are calm and controlled 44:34 - Why men shouldn't share everything 47:13 - A man's role as protector/filter of chaos 48:16 - Definition of an anti-fragile man 49:42 - Anti-fragility explained (Taleb concept) 52:11 - Core definition of masculinity (teaser clip) 52:54 - Time under tension analogy 53:50 - Tactical application of stress 57:22 - Proper use of anger 59:54 - Where to find Sidney & his books Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

    1 h 9 min
  6. 7 Forms of Masculine Provision | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

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    7 Forms of Masculine Provision | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES

    In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler breaks down the 7 forms of masculine provision - a complete framework for showing up as a capable, present, and effective man in your family and community. If you've ever thought that working hard and paying the bills was enough, this conversation will challenge that assumption and give you a more complete standard to live by. You'll learn why provision goes far beyond finances - and how neglecting the other areas can leave your family lacking, even if the bills are paid. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 Intro 00:48 The Problem with "Providing = Money" 02:27 The 7 Forms of Masculine Provision 03:10 #1 Financial Provision (The Floor, Not the Ceiling) 04:52 Are You Hiding Behind Work? 05:30 #2 Physical Provision (Protection + Capability) 08:10 Health, Awareness, and Responsibility 10:23 #3 Emotional Provision (The Hard One) 10:50 Emotionally Checked Out 12:25 Dealing With Your Own Issues 14:45 #4 Intellectual Provision (A Mind Worth Following) 17:01 Leading Through Curiosity and Thinking 19:25 #5 Spiritual Provision (Be the Anchor) 21:41 Creating Meaning for Your Family 23:48 #6 Time Provision (You Only Have So Much) 24:14 You Only Have 10 Summers 26:28 #7 Self Provision (The Foundation) 28:36 The Full Framework Recap 30:40 Iron Council + Forge Event 31:05 Subscribe + Closing Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

    31 min
  7. Struggling with Feeling Weak, Recover From Betrayal, and Avoiding the Obvious | ASK ME ANYTHING

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    Struggling with Feeling Weak, Recover From Betrayal, and Avoiding the Obvious | ASK ME ANYTHING

    In this AMA episode, Ryan and Shawn tackle some of the most common struggles men face today - from disconnect with teenage sons to breaking destructive habits and overcoming betrayal. They explore why men avoid doing what they know they should, how ego gets in the way of growth, and why asking for help is actually a sign of strength - not weakness. The conversation dives deep into mindset shifts, discipline, and emotional resilience, offering practical frameworks for rebuilding trust, improving relationships, and taking ownership of your life. If you've ever felt stuck, isolated, or unsure of your next move, this episode delivers clarity and direction. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Episode intro & Shawn joins 01:08 - Reconnecting with a distant teenage son 13:27 - Why men avoid doing what they know they should 25:52 - Admitting struggle without feeling weak 43:42 - Recovering from betrayal 57:30 - Iron Council & closing thoughts Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

    57 min
  8. NICK FREITAS | Why Modern Men Are Deflated, and What to Do About It

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    NICK FREITAS | Why Modern Men Are Deflated, and What to Do About It

    In a world that profits from your confusion, real clarity is an act of rebellion. Today we're sitting down with a man who has spent his life in the arena (as a soldier, a statesman, and a straight-talker) to cut through the noise on masculinity, truth, and what it actually means to be free, Nick Freitas. We're talking logical fallacies, the Marxist oppressor/oppressed framework, and why so many men today are disgusted, deflated, and dangerously close to giving up. But this episode isn't a pity party, it's a plan of attack. We're going to talk about why masculinity is under assault, how to stop painting yourself as a victim, and why there is no virtue in suffering, only in overcoming it. If you're ready to trade your grievances for a mission and your excuses for a legacy, this one's for you. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Reconnecting and General Reflections on Culture 00:54 - Post-Modernism and the Rejection of Objective Truth 01:50 - The Marxist Framework of Oppressor and Oppressed 03:43 - The Concerted Effort to Target Masculinity 04:45 - Debating Traditional Gender Roles and Credentials 06:41 - The Hijacking of Academia and Institutions 09:38 - Understanding the Appeal to Authority Fallacy 12:05 - Christianity and the Epistemological Question 13:57 - Miracles as Evidence for the Truth of Christ 16:21 - Historical Scrutiny and the Verification of Scripture 19:10 - The Relationship Between Love, Freedom, and Justice 21:27 - Logical and Philosophical Arguments for the Cross 22:28 - Responsibility as the True Path to Freedom 24:45 - Self-Actualization Within a Correct Worldview 26:01 - Integrity of Belief and the Misuse of Moral Words 28:34 - Gender Conversion and Affirming Biological Reality 31:52 - Intellectual Manipulation and the Victim Dynamic 34:39 - Critical Theory and the Expansion of State Power 36:54 - The Shift Toward Labeling Speech as Violence 38:56 - State-Run Healthcare and the Devaluation of Life 41:16 - Addressing the Denigration of Modern Men 45:18 - Reclaiming Leadership and Building Godly Families 49:35 - Overcoming Victimhood vs. Identifying as a Victim 51:40 - Overcoming Unjust Circumstances Through Resilience 53:56 - Finding True Identity Through Service to God 56:44 - The Radical Power of Forgiveness and Grace 59:45 - Humility, Maturity, and Leading as a Father 01:01:33 - "The Man Book": A Practical and Philosophical Guide 01:04:37 - Closing Encouragement for the Modern Man Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

    1 h 11 min
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We are reclaiming what it means to be a man. Each week we interview the world's most successful men on the planet - elite athletes, warriors, New York Times Bestselling Authors, and world-class entrepreneurs – extract their hard-fought lessons and experiences and deliver them straight to you. Past guests include Jocko Willink, Tim Kennedy, Andy Frisella, Lewis Howes, Grant Cardone, Ryan Holiday, Ben Greenfield, Rich Roll, and so many more. If you're ready to level up your life as a man, this is the show for you.

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  • Creador
    Ryan Michler
  • Años de actividad
    2015 - 2026
  • Episodios
    1.5 k
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