The Cliff Ravenscraft Show

Cliff Ravenscraft

I’m Cliff, and for over two decades I’ve helped entrepreneurs, creators, and leaders launch movements, build businesses, and design lives they’re proud of. The Cliff Ravenscraft Show is where I share how I think about building a business and a life that are fully aligned. It’s a behind-the-scenes look at the decisions, shifts in perspective, and internal work that shape how I create, serve, and grow. In each episode, I explore what it takes to do meaningful work, navigate uncertainty, and build something that reflects who you truly are. You’ll hear real-time reflections on challenges I’m facing, insights from conversations with clients and peers, and the principles that guide how I move forward. If you’re drawn to deeper thinking, personal responsibility, and building a business that aligns with how you want to live and work, you’ll feel at home here.

  1. hace 1 día

    828 - It’s Not My Wife’s Job To Make Me Happy

    This past weekend, Stephanie and I had a very unexpected encounter at the park on the Fourth of July. We had no plans for the holiday weekend, which was unusual for us. Stephanie noticed that she had a very specific Fourth of July longing in her heart: grilled hot dogs, macaroni salad, watermelon, potato chips, and a simple picnic in the park. A little later in the day, after finishing a project I had been working on, I decided to see if I could help make that happen for her. So we packed up the car with food, blankets, chairs, a folding table, supplies for Leo, and even my amateur radio gear in case I had the chance to do a Parks on the Air activation. We found a shaded spot at the park, set everything up, and began preparing our own little Fourth of July picnic. While we were there, a young man named Alex approached us. He had been sitting in his car nearby with his infant child. He told us he had been watching us and wondered if he could ask a question. He could tell that Stephanie and I had been together for a long time, and he wanted to know the secret to a lasting relationship. Stephanie and I will celebrate our 30th wedding anniversary next month, and we were both happy to share what we have learned. My answer was simple: It is not my wife’s job to make me happy. Early in our marriage, I believed that part of Stephanie’s role was to make me happy, support me, cheer me on, and help me feel the way I wanted to feel. I also believed I was responsible for making her happy. Over time, I learned how much pressure that belief placed on both of us. One of the most transformational lessons I ever learned was that no one else can make me angry, sad, hurt, or happy. My emotional state is connected to the story I am telling myself about what I am observing. When I began to take responsibility for my own emotional state, it removed an enormous amount of pressure from our marriage. Stephanie shared that one of the biggest keys for her has been communication. Not just saying the words, but doing the work to make sure the other person actually understands what you mean. We learned early in our marriage to ask questions like, “What I hear you saying is this. Is that right?” That practice has helped us move through misunderstandings, disagreements, expectations, and emotional reactions with far more clarity. In this episode, I share the full story of our Fourth of July picnic, our conversation with Alex, and the marriage lessons that have shaped nearly three decades of life together. I also talk about the difference between loving someone freely and trying to manage their emotional state. I am not responsible for Stephanie’s happiness, and she is not responsible for mine. But we are both free to love each other, serve each other, listen to each other, and create beautiful moments together. That freedom has changed everything.

    32 min
  2. 29 jun

    827 - Attention, Focus, Distraction & Subtraction

    Over the past several weeks, I have become more aware than ever of just how valuable my attention is. In this episode, I talk about the importance of consciously choosing where I focus my attention, recognizing the distractions that pull me away from what matters most, and intentionally subtracting the things that create unnecessary open loops in my life and business. I share a recent conversation with my friend Vincent that helped me see how differently I relate to phone calls, text messages, direct messages, and notifications. I explain why I have intentionally removed almost all notifications from my life, why only my immediate family can interrupt me in real time, and how even one small red badge or unread message can pull my attention away from deep, focused work. I also talk about the growing trend of online communities through platforms like Facebook Groups, Mighty Networks, Circle, Skool, and Groups.io. While I believe online communities can be valuable when they serve a clear purpose, I also believe many people are confusing community activity with real progress. One of the biggest questions I explore in this episode is this: How many hours each week are you intentionally investing in conversations with the exact type of person you most want to serve? For many entrepreneurs, the answer is zero. They may be active in online communities, posting, commenting, networking, and responding to notifications, but they are not consistently focusing their attention on the conversations that would actually move their business forward. I also share how my daily reflection practice with my Plaud Note Pro and ChatGPT has helped me identify where my attention is leaking, where I am getting distracted, and what I need to subtract in order to stay aligned with the life and business I say I want to create. This episode is about attention, focus, distraction, and subtraction. Taking things to the next level can look like subtracting the things that keep pulling your attention away from the next aligned step. Questions I Ask In This Episode Where is your attention currently being spent? Is that attention producing the life and business you say you want? What do you need to unsubscribe from, mute, leave, or stop checking? Call To Action If this episode resonates with you, and you are an entrepreneur who wants more momentum in turning your vision for the future into reality, I’d love to invite you to learn more about Next Level Mastermind: Momentum. Momentum is a weekly mastermind environment for entrepreneurs who are ready to gain clarity, identify the next aligned action, stay focused, and begin subtracting the distractions that keep them from moving forward. You can learn more at: https://cliffravenscraft.com/momentum After you’ve had a chance to look over the page, send me an email at cliff@cliffravenscraft.com and put the word “Momentum” in the subject line. If it feels like something you’d be interested in pursuing, I’d love to explore whether Momentum is the right fit for you.

    54 min
  3. 22 jun

    826 - The Right Room Is Oxygen for the Entrepreneur

    This past week, I attended Social Media Week Lima for the second year in a row. In this episode, I share a personal reflection on why I went, what I expected to experience, and what surprised me most. This is a reflection on how I think about live events, relationships, hallway conversations, front-row presence, peer connection, and the kinds of rooms that create meaningful transformation. For many years, my default conference strategy has been to spend less time in sessions and more time in the hallways, speaker rooms, dinners, and unscheduled conversations where deeper relationships are often formed. But this year, something shifted. I found myself sitting in the front row, fully present for speakers I respect, and I was reminded how meaningful that kind of presence can be. I know what it has meant to me over the years when peers like Dan Miller, Michael Hyatt, Pat Flynn, John Lee Dumas, Michael Stelzner, and others have sat in the room while I was speaking. This year, I had the opportunity to offer that same kind of presence to others. At the same time, some of the most meaningful moments of the event still happened in the unscripted conversations, in the VIP room, around the dinner table, and in the kind of peer dialogue that cannot be replicated. This episode is about the tension between those two forms of value. When is the right move to sit in the front row and fully witness someone’s craft? When is the right move to step into the hallway and have the deeper conversation? And what does all of this reveal about the importance of being in the right room with people who understand the journey you are on? I also share how this experience reminded me why I have been facilitating paid mastermind groups for entrepreneurs since October of 2010. The right rooms are oxygen for the business owner. If you do not currently have a room like that, I invite you to take a look at Next Level Mastermind: Momentum. Learn more here: https://cliffravenscraft.com/momentum I also mentioned my interview with Jessica Souter, founder of Social Media Week Lima, on my What Are You Creating podcast. That conversation is episode 26 at: https://www.cliffravenscraft.com/podcasts/what-are-you-creating/episodes/2149147212

    48 min
  4. 15 jun

    825 - I Create Rooms Where People Rise

    This is one of the most raw, authentic, and transparent episodes I’ve recorded in quite some time. I originally had an outline for this episode, but after starting the recording several times, I decided to let go of the structure and simply speak from my heart. In this episode, I share some of the clarity that has been emerging through my daily logging and reflection practice. This process has been helping me see the systems, patterns, thoughts, behaviors, and inner narratives that are creating both the results I desire and the results I do not desire. I also talk openly about my client creation process and the powerful role that the Prosperous Coach method has played in my business over the years. At the same time, I share a vulnerable realization: without proper filters and discernment, my generosity can begin to function more like a nonprofit ministry than a sustainable business. From there, I move into reflections on family, empty nest, aging parents, and my own identity as a father. I share what came up for me this weekend as I dropped Matthew off at the airport for his month-long study abroad experience in Japan, and how his words, “I love you, Dad. I’ll see you in a month,” opened up an emotional response in me that I did not expect. I also share two new soul songs I created this weekend: “The Life I Saw Inside” “I Create Rooms Where People Rise” These songs helped me reconnect with the deeper truth of the work I do in the world. I create rooms where people rise. Rooms where people can speak honestly. Rooms where they can name what they really want. Rooms where they can receive honest reflection and support. Rooms where they can find the next right move and follow through on what they choose. This episode is about clarity, fatherhood, business, family, emotion, calling, and the rooms we need in order to become who we are here to become. If you are ready for a room where you can rise, email me at Cliff@CliffRavenscraft.com and put “I’m ready for a room where I can rise” in the subject line.

    1 h 24 min
  5. 8 jun

    824 - The Pruning Principle: Cutting Back What Has Overgrown

    In this episode, I share a lesson that came to me while spending a full day working on the landscaping in front of our home. What began as a simple Saturday project of trimming bushes quickly became a powerful metaphor for life and business. Some of the shrubs in our landscaping had grown far beyond their intended place. They were healthy in one sense, but they had become invasive, disproportionate, and unmanaged. A light trim was not enough. Some of them had to be cut all the way back to the core. As I worked through that process, I realized that the same thing has been happening in areas of my life and business. Through my daily audio journaling practice, I have been paying closer attention to where my time, energy, focus, and commitments are actually going. That practice has revealed places where good things have grown beyond their proper boundaries. Some activities are valuable, but they have started to encroach on the space intended for something else. In this episode, I talk about how this has shown up in my business calendar, my invitation engine, my CRM, podcast production, commitments, spending, tools, and even identity. I also share how I am learning to distinguish between what needs a light trim, what needs radical pruning, and what may need to be removed altogether. The central idea is this: Unmanaged growth is not the same as healthy growth. Sometimes the next level does not begin by adding something new. Sometimes it begins by cutting back what has overgrown. In This Episode, I Talk About Why I decided to work on my own landscaping for the first time in twelve years. How overgrown holly and Japanese barberry bushes became a metaphor for life and business. The difference between healthy growth and unmanaged growth. Why some things need more than a light trim. How daily audio journaling has helped me identify blind spots and patterns. What I have noticed about my calendar, commitments, and business model. How CRM optimization began encroaching on my invitation engine. Why not every good idea belongs in the moment when it appears. The importance of pruning distractions even when they are valuable. Why pruning often looks ugly before it looks healthy. How I am evaluating my weekly commitments to The Cliff Ravenscraft Show and Podcast Answer Man. The question we all need to ask: “What has grown beyond its intended place?” Key Takeaway Not everything that grows is healthy simply because it is growing. Some things in life and business start out useful, beautiful, or productive, but if they are left unmanaged, they can eventually take over more space than they were ever meant to occupy. The work of pruning is the work of intentional leadership. Reflection Questions What has grown beyond its intended place in your life or business? What are you maintaining simply because it has always been there? What needs a light trim? What needs to be cut back to the core? What may need to be pulled out completely? Where have you confused activity with alignment? Where might things need to look bare for a season so they can become healthier later? Reach Out If this episode resonates with you and you would like help getting clarity on where to prune, where to simplify, and where to focus next, feel free to reach out. Email: cliff@cliffravenscraft.com Until next time, I encourage you to take everything you do in your life to the next level.

    36 min
  6. 1 jun

    823 - The Tools We Forget to Use

    Sometimes the next breakthrough does not require a new app, a new system, or a new strategy. Sometimes it comes from remembering a tool, rhythm, or practice that already worked for us in the past. In this episode, I share how rediscovering my Bose QuietComfort noise-canceling headphones and Focus@Will helped me return to a level of focus I had not experienced in quite some time. I had used this combination years ago with incredible results, then somehow drifted out of the habit. This week, I brought it back, and the difference was immediate. This episode is not really about headphones or Focus@Will. It is about noticing the tools, techniques, systems, frameworks, and environments that have already helped us accomplish meaningful work, then asking why we stopped using them. I also share how this rediscovery helped me stay focused during my Invitation Engine work, instead of drifting into CRM optimization and system tweaking during time that was meant for connecting with people, noticing signal, making invitations, and creating meaningful conversations. The question I invite you to sit with is this: What tool, technique, rhythm, or framework once worked reliably for you, but somehow fell out of your routine? If this episode helps you remember something worth bringing back, I’d love to hear from you. Email me at cliff@cliffravenscraft.com and let me know what you are returning to. The Next Level Mastermind If you are interested in a conversation about joining one of my Next Level Mastermind groups, send an email to cliff@cliffravenscraft.com with mastermind in the subject line.

    24 min
  7. 25 may

    822 - The Most Powerful Journaling Practice I’ve Ever Experienced

    In this episode, I share the newest evolution of my journaling practice and how it has become one of the most powerful tools I have experienced for pattern recognition, blind spot awareness, and personal transformation. I have been an avid journaler for many years. Journaling has always been a place where I process life, faith, emotion, business, relationships, decisions, desires, fears, and whatever else is moving through me. But recently, something has shifted. Using my Plaud Note Pro, I have been recording audio reflections throughout the day while thoughts, emotions, insights, tensions, distractions, and decisions are still fresh. Those reflections are transcribed, and then I bring them into ChatGPT, which has been trained with a great deal of context about who I am, what I value, what I am building, what I am committed to, and where I tend to drift. This has created a new level of conscious awareness throughout my day. I am seeing repeated thoughts, emotional states, moments of avoidance, distractions, aligned actions, misaligned actions, moments of peace, and the voice of my inner narrator with far greater clarity. The most meaningful part is that I am not waiting weeks, months, or years to recognize the patterns that are shaping my life. I am seeing many of them while I am still living them. In this episode, I talk about: Why this current practice feels like a new evolution of journaling for me. How recording reflections throughout the day helps me capture what I might otherwise forget. Why my life was already telling me the truth through my calendar, energy, emotions, body, attention, and repeated patterns. How ChatGPT has become a reflective mirror that helps me notice patterns and blind spots. Why this does not replace coaching, but actually reminds me why coaching and mastermind environments are so powerful. How becoming conscious of my thoughts, emotions, attention, and actions is helping me make cleaner decisions personally and professionally. Why seeing a pattern creates the possibility of making a new choice. The exact tool is not the point. The deeper invitation is to become more conscious of your life while you are living it. Notice your thoughts. Notice your emotions. Notice where your attention goes. Notice what creates peace. Notice what creates drift. Notice what you keep avoiding. Notice what your life keeps trying to show you. Once a pattern becomes visible, a new choice becomes possible. If you are in a season where you would value this kind of reflective space through coaching or a high-trust mastermind environment, I would be glad to hear from you. You can reach me at cliff@cliffravenscraft.com.

    51 min

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I’m Cliff, and for over two decades I’ve helped entrepreneurs, creators, and leaders launch movements, build businesses, and design lives they’re proud of. The Cliff Ravenscraft Show is where I share how I think about building a business and a life that are fully aligned. It’s a behind-the-scenes look at the decisions, shifts in perspective, and internal work that shape how I create, serve, and grow. In each episode, I explore what it takes to do meaningful work, navigate uncertainty, and build something that reflects who you truly are. You’ll hear real-time reflections on challenges I’m facing, insights from conversations with clients and peers, and the principles that guide how I move forward. If you’re drawn to deeper thinking, personal responsibility, and building a business that aligns with how you want to live and work, you’ll feel at home here.

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