In this episode of The Wine and Dine Me Podcast, Reagan sits down with her Italy-based partner, Laura Somma, to talk about what “high-touch” really looks like when the guest list includes celebrities, royals, and families who do not tolerate chaos. They start with the practical magic of a cross-time-zone partnership, then trace Laura’s path from studying German literature to building a career defined by precision, discretion, and calm execution. Laura shares the behind-the-scenes stories that shaped her standards, including producing a paparazzi-proof private island birthday for Naomi Campbell in Positano and how a chance conversation in Doha led to working inside the orbit of the royal family of Qatar. Along the way, she makes a point planners need to hear: the most powerful thing you can bring into a room full of “yes people” is a steady voice that tells the truth. They also dig into what sophisticated clients actually crave when they can already access everything: authenticity, simplicity, and experiences rooted in place. Laura explains why she builds a “bridge” in design across cultures, why a local performance is often the most unforgettable anchor of a destination celebration, and how The Wedding Prive was created to solve the real complexity of multi-destination weddings with senior planners leading each chapter. In this episode, we cover: Why a US + Italy planning partnership eliminates lag, follow-ups, and lost daysHow German literature (and German work habits) shaped Laura’s planning brainThe first wedding she ever produced, and why she asked two questions firstWhat discretion looks like when paparazzi are actively trying to get inThe real reason top-tier clients choose “simple” food and simple momentsHow to read a culture fast (and why you should stop relying on other people’s opinions)Laura’s non-negotiable for guest experience: a performance that belongs to the placeWhat The Wedding Prive is, and why multi-destination weddings are the next frontierLaura’s closing advice to planners: trust your gut and lead the conversation Key moments (timestamps) 00:52 Laura’s background and why Reagan trusts her as an Italy partner04:24 German literature, Goethe, and the pivot into events10:35 Her first wedding came from a corporate guest, and she never “sold” planning14:55 The private island birthday story and what discretion actually requires20:07 The Doha connection that opened the door to royal work29:36 How Laura learns a new culture: sit, watch, listen, decide for yourself33:58 Her guest-experience non-negotiable: local performance over predictable extras36:24 The Wedding Prive and the operational reality of multi-destination weddings48:52 Final advice: trust your gut, stop people-pleasing, lead the roomConnect with Laura: Instagram: @theweddingprive, @ellesseventsEmail: info@lsevents.netWebsite: The Wedding PriveListen & Follow Subscribe to our newsletter for inspiration, updates, and expert advice.Follow us on Instagram and TikTok for behind-the-scenes moments, trending ideas, and so much more.Tune in to our Wine and Dine Me Podcast on Apple Podcasts and Spotify, where we explore all things weddings, life, and business.