190 episodes

Gay Men Going Deeper is a weekly podcast that showcases raw and real conversations about personal development, mental health, and sexuality - from an unapologetically gay perspective.

Hosted by Matt Landsiedel and Michael DiIorio, and featuring a wide range of special guests, you can expect to be inspired, entertained, and even a little triggered from time to time.

This provocative podcast is for anyone who craves deeper conversations on topics ranging from spirituality to sexuality - and everything in between.

Visit us at www.GayMenGoingDeeper.com

Support the show: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=LT55M79CMH5FN

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Gay Men Going Deeper is a weekly podcast that showcases raw and real conversations about personal development, mental health, and sexuality - from an unapologetically gay perspective.

Hosted by Matt Landsiedel and Michael DiIorio, and featuring a wide range of special guests, you can expect to be inspired, entertained, and even a little triggered from time to time.

This provocative podcast is for anyone who craves deeper conversations on topics ranging from spirituality to sexuality - and everything in between.

Visit us at www.GayMenGoingDeeper.com

Support the show: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=LT55M79CMH5FN

Listen on Apple Podcasts
Requires subscription and macOS 11.4 or higher

    Healing With Plant Medicine (Psychedelics)

    Healing With Plant Medicine (Psychedelics)

    In this episode, Matt speaks with Reunion Founder Brad Wells, and Psychotherapist/ Ayahuasquero Alex Therberge about healing with plant medicine (psychedelics).

    We unpack the benefits of psychedelics and how the plants can be used to heal many common issues where traditional psychotherapy might not be as effective. Psychedelics are becoming more mainstream and their powerful healing benefits are becoming more known. Come on this journey with us and see if psychedelics may benefit your healing journey.

    The concepts and questions we explore in this episode are:

    - What is Ayahuasca?
    - What are other types of plant medicines or psychedelics?
    - How does Ayahuasca heal? What can it heal?
    - Our personal experiences using plants to heal
    - Is plant medicine for everyone? Contraindications?
    - Healing in community with psychedelics
    - Learn about a special opportunity to explore Ayahuasca

    Authenticity and Social Media

    Authenticity and Social Media

    In this episode of Gay Men Going Deeper, we delve into the complexities of authenticity in the digital age. From Instagram to OnlyFans, we are living in an increasingly performative world were authenticity seems harder to discern.

    Today we are going deeper behind the blurred lines between being fake and putting your best self forward. We’ll be discussing the nuances of genuine self-expression versus performative behaviour with personal examples and anecdotes to illustrate.

    Some of the topics we’ll be discussing are:

    - Why insincerity thrives in social media
    - How do you define authenticity?
    - The pressures to “keep up” with other gay men
    - The tendency to compete and compare
    - Is curating your social media still considered authentic?
    - The fine line between being authentic and performative
    - Ascertaining authenticity in the age of filters and algorithms

    Tune in to gain valuable perspectives on social media, insincerity, and the pursuit of authenticity in the digital age.

    Gay and Asian: Panel Discussion

    Gay and Asian: Panel Discussion

    Join us for a compelling panel discussion as we spotlight the experiences of Asian gay men with our diverse panel of guests. Against the backdrop of intersectionality, our panelists share their personal journeys, confronting stereotypes, and navigating the complexities of race, sexuality, and culture.




    The sacrifices we make to feel included 



    Discrimination in dating



    Common stereotypes and microaggressions  



    Fetishization 



    Challenges of visibility



    Media representation: then and now 



    Code-switching 



    The diversity within the Asian community



    Having a sense of pride in one’s cultural heritage



    Hierarchies that exist within minority communities 



    Allyship within the LGBTQ+ community




    Through personal anecdotes and thought-provoking dialogue, we are looking at celebrating intersecting identities and the quest for acceptance and belonging. 



    Join us for this much-needed discussion that advocates for understanding, empathy, and solidarity among all members of the LGBTQ+ community.



    Today's Panelists:




    JP Fernandes



    Aldwin Era



    Jarrod Bruce Lee




    Today's Host:




    Michael DiIorio






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    Building Better Relationships online course: Learn how to nurture more meaningful and authentic connections with yourself and others.



    Healing Your Shame online course: Begin the journey toward greater confidence and self-worth by learning how to recognize and deal with toxic shame.



    Gay Men Going Deeper Coaching Collection: Lifetime access to BOTH courses + 45 coaching videos and 2 workshop series.



    Take the Attachment Style Quiz to determine your attachment style and get a free report.

    • 57 min
    Self-Disclosure

    Self-Disclosure

    In this episode, we are discussing the intriguing topic of self-disclosure and its role in fostering genuine connections. Self-disclosure, the art of revealing personal information about yourself to others,  shapes our relationships on various levels. 



    Join us as we explore the psychology behind self-disclosure, its benefits, risks, and the delicate balance required for meaningful communication. 



    Some of the topics we’re covering in today’s episode:




    Knowing what to share and what not to share



    The fear of being seen



    Vulnerability hangovers



    Building trust and intimacy 



    How we practice self-disclosure 



    How to maintain boundaries 



    Coming out as an act of self-disclosure




    If you’re wanting to enjoy richer, more fulfilling connections in both personal and professional spheres, this episode is for you!



    Today's Hosts:




    Michael DiIorio



    Matt Landsiedel



    Reno Johnston






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    Building Better Relationships online course: Learn how to nurture more meaningful and authentic connections with yourself and others.



    Healing Your Shame online course: Begin the journey toward greater confidence and self-worth by learning how to recognize and deal with toxic shame.



    Gay Men Going Deeper Coaching Collection: Lifetime access to BOTH courses + 45 coaching videos and 2 workshop series.



    Take the Attachment Style Quiz to determine your attachment style and get a free report.

    • 1 hr 2 min
    Finding and Releasing Your Voice (Self-Expression)

    Finding and Releasing Your Voice (Self-Expression)

    In this episode, Matt speaks with vocal coach, producer, and artist Javier Wallis about finding and releasing the voice to foster a deeper capacity for self-expression. They unpack ways to unlock the voice through facing the fears and blockages many of us have about expressing ourselves. 



    Come spend an hour with Matt and Javier and learn some of the powerful benefits of vocal expression and how it can lead to profound transformation, healing and empowerment. 



    The concepts and questions we explore in this episode are:




    How vocal expression supports self expression



    How to find and release your voice



    The blocks to self expression



    The benefits of vocal expression



    The benefits of vocal coaching 




    Today’s Guest: Javier Wallis




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    TikTok






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    Watch podcast episodes on YouTube



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    - LEARN WITH US -




    Building Better Relationships online course: Learn how to nurture more meaningful and authentic connections with yourself and others.



    Healing Your Shame online course: Begin the journey toward greater confidence and self-worth by learning how to recognize and deal with toxic shame.



    Gay Men Going Deeper Coaching Collection: Lifetime access to BOTH courses + 45 coaching videos and 2 workshop series.



    Take the Attachment Style Quiz to determine your attachment style and get a free report.

    • 1 hr 2 min
    Dealing with Guilt and Regret

    Dealing with Guilt and Regret

    In this emotionally stirring episode, we dive into the heavy and complex topic of dealing with guilt and regret.



    Sometimes we must face the uncomfortable consequences of our actions and learn how to not remain paralyzed in the shadows of guilt and regret. 



    Join us as we explore the universal experience of making mistakes, forgiveness, self-forgiveness, and the power of moving forward with resilience



    Some of the topics we’re covering today are:




    What’s the difference between guilt and regret



    How to handle making mistakes in your life and relationships



    Dwelling on past mistakes vs. healthy self-reflection



    Step-by-step process to help you move on



    Letting yourself down



    Mistakes as learning opportunities



    Acceptance and forgiveness 




    With personal anecdotes and expert insights, this episode delves into the intricate layers of shame, remorse, and self-reflection.



    Today's Hosts:




    Michael DiIorio



    Matt Landsiedel



    Reno Johnston






    Support the Show - viewer and listener support helps us to continue making episodes



    - CONNECT WITH US -




    Watch podcast episodes on YouTube



    Join the Gay Men's Brotherhood Facebook community



    Get on our email list to get access to our monthly Zoom calls



    Follow us on Instagram | TikTok



    Learn more about our community at GayMenGoingDeeper.com




    - LEARN WITH US -




    Building Better Relationships online course: Learn how to nurture more meaningful and authentic connections with yourself and others.



    Healing Your Shame online course: Begin the journey toward greater confidence and self-worth by learning how to recognize and deal with toxic shame.



    Gay Men Going Deeper Coaching Collection: Lifetime access to BOTH courses + 45 coaching videos and 2 workshop series.



    Take the Attachment Style Quiz to determine your attachment style and get a free report.

    • 44 min

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