The Untanglement

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The Untanglement is a podcast about relationships that aims to create a community where people come together to share their experiences in past and present relationships. These include but are not limited to romantic, platonic, and family related experiences. Hosted by Fernannd'O and MIss Franco

  1. 5 DAYS AGO

    #49 Is Honesty Always Necessary in Relationships? White Lies vs Protective Lies Explained

    Is honestyalways necessary for a healthy relationship, or can some lies actually protect the people we love? This week on The Untanglement, we unpack the complex role honesty plays in romantic, platonic, and even family relationships. From white lies to intentional omissions, we explore whether full transparency builds trust — or sometimes damages it. Our listeners sent in voice notes sharing personal stories about betrayal, protection, boundaries, and emotional safety. Their perspectives reveal how complicated “telling the truth” can be in real life. In this episode, we explore: •      The psychology behind lying in relationships •      White lies vs destructive lies •      Emotional intelligence and communication •      Trust, vulnerability, and boundaries If you've ever struggled with whether to tell the full truth or protect someone’s feelings, this conversation is for you. Follow The Untanglement and subscribe to stay updated with weekly relationship conversations designed to help you grow, reflect, and connect.   About Miss Franco: IG: @missfranco_official About Fernannd’O: IG: @justfernanndo   For any questions or comments, you’d like read on the show, drop us an email on: theuntanglement@neonbloom.co.za  WhatsApp Group: https://chat.whatsapp.com/IS3WZu4NRbrJETzow4TYMF?mode=gi_t Instagram: @theuntanglement https://www.instagram.com/p/CEFOXOZpYte/?igshid=81vh3v1slc47 YouTube: Neon Studio @neonpodcasts https://www.youtube.com/@neonpodcasts Spotify: The Untanglement https://open.spotify.com/show/1GLXHJnpleo8CA6AVAzO07?si=8782870081594eb8 TikTok: @the_untanglement https://www.tiktok.com/@the.untanglement?_r=1&_t=ZS-93hHfBx7Gev For business contact: Info@neonbloom.co.za www.neonbloom.co.za IG: @neonbloom_productions Produced by: Neon Studio   More Podcasts: Grow’d Up w/ Fernannd’O https://open.spotify.com/show/7eM0iqiC8ZAKq8u2DvVBZz?si=BloPTnSYRQ6F0zwB8_Z_2g   Black Women Business w/ Thuli Mgwebile https://open.spotify.com/show/6JZa115f6Fc2J683QWPOvb   The Untanglement w/ Miss Franco & Fernannd’O https://open.spotify.com/show/1GLXHJnpleo8CA6AVAzO07?si=dFcFgChDQQ2MEs6ntS_Ceg Music And The Mind w/ Melancolik https://open.spotify.com/show/4dq6abivzZQdsqn4eJgzGx?si=PPNBCbg9STeh_O16mAMdDA

    2h 36m

  2. 23 FEB

    #48 Should married or long-term couples combine their finances?

    Should married or long-term couples combine their finances — or keep their money separate? 💍💳   In this episode of The Untanglement Podcast, hosts Fernannd’O and Miss Franco unpack one of the biggest relationship debates: joint accounts vs separate accounts in marriage.  Money is one of the leading causes of conflict in relationships — so what actually works?   We discuss:  The pros and cons of combining finances  Why some couples prefer separate bank accounts  Financial independence vs financial unity  Power dynamics and control in relationships  How money affects trust, respect, and long-term stability  Cultural expectations around marriage and finances Whether you're married, engaged, dating seriously, or simply thinking ahead — this conversation will challenge how you think about love and money.    🎙 Hosted byFernannd’O & Miss Franco 👉 Subscribe forweekly conversations on relationships, culture, and emotional honesty. 👉 Like & comment: Would you combine finances or keep things separate — and why?   About Miss Franco: IG: @missfranco_official About Fernannd’O: IG: @justfernanndo   For any questions or comments you’d like read on the show, drop us an email on: theuntanglement@neonbloom.co.za  Instagram: @theuntanglement https://www.instagram.com/p/CEFOXOZpYte/?igshid=81vh3v1slc47 YouTube: Neon Studio @neonpodcasts https://www.youtube.com/@neonpodcasts Spotify: The Untanglement https://open.spotify.com/show/1GLXHJnpleo8CA6AVAzO07?si=8782870081594eb8 TikTok: @the_untanglement https://www.tiktok.com/@the.untanglement?_r=1&_t=ZS-93hHfBx7Gev For business contact: Info@neonbloom.co.za www.neonbloom.co.za IG: @neonbloom_productions Produced by: Neon Studio   More Podcasts: Grow’d Up w/ Fernannd’O https://open.spotify.com/show/7eM0iqiC8ZAKq8u2DvVBZz?si=BloPTnSYRQ6F0zwB8_Z_2g   Black Women Business w/ Thuli Mgwebile https://open.spotify.com/show/6JZa115f6Fc2J683QWPOvb   The Untanglement w/ Miss Franco & Fernannd’O https://open.spotify.com/show/1GLXHJnpleo8CA6AVAzO07?si=dFcFgChDQQ2MEs6ntS_Ceg Music And The Mind w/ Melancolikhttps://open.spotify.com/show/4dq6abivzZQdsqn4eJgzGx?si=PPNBCbg9STeh_O16mAMdDA

    2h 35m

  3. 23 FEB

    #47 Love or Stability? What Do People REALLY Choose?

    Is it better to choose love or stability in a relationship? 💔💰 In this thought-provoking episode of The Untanglement Podcast, hosted by Fernannd’O and Miss Franco, we unpack the real question people don’t always answer honestly: 👉 When it comes down to it… do people choose love, or do they choose security? This week’s conversation gets real as listeners send in their voicenotes, sharing raw and honest opinions about relationships, financial stability, emotional connection, and long-term commitment. We also explore: ·       The psychology behind relationship choices ·       Feminine power vs masculine power dynamics ·       Emotional fulfillment vs financial security ·       Why modern dating feels transactional ·       How personal values shape who we choose   Plus, enjoy fresh “June Music” from our featured artist Merely C, bringing smooth vibes to a deep conversation. This episode is perfect for anyone navigating dating, relationships, marriage decisions, or questioning what truly matters in partnership.   👉 Subscribe for weekly conversations on relationships, culture, and emotional honesty. 👉 Like & comment   About Miss Franco: IG: @missfranco_official About Fernannd’O: IG: @justfernanndo   For any questions or comments you’d like read on the show, drop us an email on: theuntanglement@neonbloom.co.za  Instagram: @theuntanglement https://www.instagram.com/p/CEFOXOZpYte/?igshid=81vh3v1slc47 YouTube: Neon Studio @neonpodcasts https://www.youtube.com/@neonpodcasts Spotify: The Untanglement https://open.spotify.com/show/1GLXHJnpleo8CA6AVAzO07?si=8782870081594eb8 TikTok: @the_untanglement https://www.tiktok.com/@the.untanglement?_r=1&_t=ZS-93hHfBx7Gev For business contact: Info@neonbloom.co.za www.neonbloom.co.za IG: @neonbloom_productions Produced by: Neon Studio   More Podcasts: Grow’d Up w/ Fernannd’O https://open.spotify.com/show/7eM0iqiC8ZAKq8u2DvVBZz?si=BloPTnSYRQ6F0zwB8_Z_2g   Black Women Business w/ Thuli Mgwebile https://open.spotify.com/show/6JZa115f6Fc2J683QWPOvb   The Untanglement w/ Miss Franco & Fernannd’O https://open.spotify.com/show/1GLXHJnpleo8CA6AVAzO07?si=dFcFgChDQQ2MEs6ntS_Ceg Music And The Mind w/ Melancolik https://open.spotify.com/show/4dq6abivzZQdsqn4eJgzGx?si=PPNBCbg9STeh_O16mAMdDA

    2h 4m

  4. 23 FEB

    #46 Valentine’s Day: Overrated or Special?

    In this episode of The Untanglement, hosts Fernannd“O and Miss Franco break down one of the most debated holidays of the year: Is Valentine’s Day overrated or truly special? 💘 We talk modern dating, relationship expectations, love languages, single vs. partneredperspectives, and the pressure Valentine’s Day puts on romance. From social media hype to real emotional connection, this episode untangles what Valentine’s Day actually means in today’s dating culture. Whether you’re single, in a relationship, or questioning the whole idea of romantic holidays, this conversation is for you.   👉 Subscribe forweekly conversations on relationships, culture, and emotional honesty. 👉 Like &comment: Is Valentine’s Day overrated—or special to you?   About Miss Franco: IG: @missfranco_official About Fernannd’O: IG: @justfernanndo   For any questions or comments you’d like read on the show, drop us an email on: theuntanglement@neonbloom.co.za  Instagram: @theuntanglement https://www.instagram.com/p/CEFOXOZpYte/?igshid=81vh3v1slc47 YouTube: Neon Studio @neonpodcasts https://www.youtube.com/@neonpodcasts Spotify: The Untanglement https://open.spotify.com/show/1GLXHJnpleo8CA6AVAzO07?si=8782870081594eb8 TikTok: @the_untanglement https://www.tiktok.com/@the.untanglement?_r=1&_t=ZS-93hHfBx7Gev For business contact: Info@neonbloom.co.za www.neonbloom.co.za IG: @neonbloom_productions Produced by: Neon Podcast Network   More Podcasts: Grow’d Up w/ Fernannd’O https://open.spotify.com/show/7eM0iqiC8ZAKq8u2DvVBZz?si=BloPTnSYRQ6F0zwB8_Z_2g   Black Women Business w/ Thuli Mgwebile https://open.spotify.com/show/6JZa115f6Fc2J683QWPOvb   The Untanglement w/ Miss Franco & Fernannd’O https://open.spotify.com/show/1GLXHJnpleo8CA6AVAzO07?si=dFcFgChDQQ2MEs6ntS_Ceg Music And The Mind w/ Melancolik https://open.spotify.com/show/4dq6abivzZQdsqn4eJgzGx?si=PPNBCbg9STeh_O16mAMdDA Mommys in the Dark w/ Miss Unique & Fernannd’O https://open.spotify.com/episode/6Thf77zTmVYm9loZ2qG0lm?si=fpvIMbGbSJiZ5crfssiSSw

    1h 46m
  5. #45 Backsliding and Farewell?

    23/02/2023

    #45 Backsliding and Farewell?

    Hey family. This is our final recording for 2022. We reflect on the year 2022, we discuss our highs and lows and we also talk about our hope for 2023. We discuss the law student and mother or 5 who is losing sight for tattoing her eyes. We also discuss the concept of women choosing to be single mothers. This week we have no topic, we decided to to do some backsliking. Hope you enjoy. Topic of the day this week: Backsliding Bananza? Links mentioned in the episode: Mom loses sight after eyeball tattoo: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-11507029/Mother-tattooe I chose to be a single mom: https://www.goodhousekeeping.com/life/parenting/a39692831/single-mother-by-choice/ Neon Bloom Productions WhatsApp Group https://chat.whatsapp.com/IS3WZu4NRbrJETzow4TYMF About Miss Franco: IG: @missfranco_official About Fernannd’O: IG: @justfernanndo For any questions or comments, you’d like read on the show, drop us an email on: theuntanglement@neonbloom.co.za Instagram: @theuntanglement https://www.instagram.com/p/CEFOXOZpYte/?igshid=81vh3v1slc47 YouTube: The Untanglement https://youtu.be/ebZ7Ng1okCg For business contact: Info@neonbloom.co.za www.neonbloom.co.za IG: @neonbloom_productions Produced by: Neon Bloom Productions Podcast Network More Podcasts: Growed Up w/ Fernannd’O https://open.spotify.com/show/7eM0iqiC8ZAKq8u2DvVBZz?si=BloPTnSYRQ6F0zwB8_Z_2g Black Women Business w/ Thuli Mgwebile https://open.spotify.com/show/6JZa115f6Fc2J683QWPOvb The Untanglement w/ Miss Franco & Fernannd’O https://open.spotify.com/show/1GLXHJnpleo8CA6AVAzO07?si=dFcFgChDQQ2MEs6ntS_Ceg Music And The Mind w/ Melancolik https://open.spotify.com/show/4dq6abivzZQdsqn4eJgzGx?si=PPNBCbg9STeh_O16mAMdDA Mommys in the Dark w/ Miss Unique & Fernannd’O https://open.spotify.com/episode/6Thf77zTmVYm9loZ2qG0lm?si=fpvIMbGbSJiZ5crfssiSSw

    1h 26m
  6. #44 Should You Be Arguing With Your Partner?

    20/02/2023

    #44 Should You Be Arguing With Your Partner?

    Hey family. This week we talk about how we hate pretty girl previllage. We also talk about expirior attaction bs interior attraction. We discussion into the biology or human sexual interactions as well as the power dynamic between Topic of the day this week: Is arguing really that important in a relationship? Neon Bloom Productions WhatsApp Group https://chat.whatsapp.com/IS3WZu4NRbrJETzow4TYMF About Miss Franco: IG: @missfranco_official About Fernannd’O: IG: @justfernanndo For any questions or comments you’d like read on the show, drop us an email on: theuntanglement@neonbloom.co.za Instagram: @theuntanglement https://www.instagram.com/p/CEFOXOZpYte/?igshid=81vh3v1slc47 YouTube: The Untanglement https://youtu.be/ebZ7Ng1okCg For business contact: Info@neonbloom.co.za www.neonbloom.co.za IG: @neonbloom_productions Produced by: Neon Bloom Productions Podcast Network More Podcasts: Growed Up w/ Fernannd’O https://open.spotify.com/show/7eM0iqiC8ZAKq8u2DvVBZz?si=BloPTnSYRQ6F0zwB8_Z_2g Black Women Business w/ Thuli Mgwebile https://open.spotify.com/show/6JZa115f6Fc2J683QWPOvb The Untanglement w/ Miss Franco & Fernannd’O https://open.spotify.com/show/1GLXHJnpleo8CA6AVAzO07?si=dFcFgChDQQ2MEs6ntS_Ceg Music And The Mind w/ Melancolik https://open.spotify.com/show/4dq6abivzZQdsqn4eJgzGx?si=PPNBCbg9STeh_O16mAMdDA Mommys in the Dark w/ Miss Unique & Fernannd’O https://open.spotify.com/episode/6Thf77zTmVYm9loZ2qG0lm?si=fpvIMbGbSJiZ5crfssiSSw

    1h 8m
  7. #43 Do Opposites Attract or Repel?

    16/02/2023

    #43 Do Opposites Attract or Repel?

    Hey family. This week we talk Christmas gifts for our kids. We also talk a bit about our thought on the world cup developments. We also talk about the Netflix show, love is blind and discuss how shallow people really are. We also share our favourite sitcoms like My Wife and Kids, Big Bank Theory, Girlfriends and Two and a Half Men. Topic of the day this week: is it better to date someone of a similar or an opposite character to yours? Neon Bloom Productions WhatsApp Group https://chat.whatsapp.com/IS3WZu4NRbrJETzow4TYMF About Miss Franco: IG: @missfranco_official About Fernannd’O: IG: @justfernanndo For any questions or comments you’d like read on the show, drop us an email on: theuntanglement@neonbloom.co.za Instagram: @theuntanglement https://www.instagram.com/p/CEFOXOZpYte/?igshid=81vh3v1slc47 YouTube: The Untanglement https://youtu.be/ebZ7Ng1okCg For business contact: Info@neonbloom.co.za www.neonbloom.co.za IG: @neonbloom_productions Produced by: Neon Bloom Productions Podcast Network More Podcasts: Growed Up w/ Fernannd’O https://open.spotify.com/show/7eM0iqiC8ZAKq8u2DvVBZz?si=BloPTnSYRQ6F0zwB8_Z_2g Black Women Business w/ Thuli Mgwebile https://open.spotify.com/show/6JZa115f6Fc2J683QWPOvb The Untanglement w/ Miss Franco & Fernannd’O https://open.spotify.com/show/1GLXHJnpleo8CA6AVAzO07?si=dFcFgChDQQ2MEs6ntS_Ceg Music And The Mind w/ Melancolik https://open.spotify.com/show/4dq6abivzZQdsqn4eJgzGx?si=PPNBCbg9STeh_O16mAMdDA Mommys in the Dark w/ Miss Unique & Fernannd’O https://open.spotify.com/episode/6Thf77zTmVYm9loZ2qG0lm?si=fpvIMbGbSJiZ5crfssiSSw

    1h 9m
  8. #42 Girlfriend Allowance, Yay or Nay?

    09/02/2023

    #42 Girlfriend Allowance, Yay or Nay?

    Hey family. We talk about new years resolutions or goals that we tend to set for ourselves. Fernanndo learns that miss franco Is yet to learn how to drive. Miss Franco share her goals for 2022. We also talk about Nikita Drogon and hwo documatation can affect the way the law treats you. We talk a little bit more about the world cup and how the Africans break our hearts. Topic of the day this week: is girlfriend allowance a good thing or not? Neon Bloom Productions WhatsApp Group https://chat.whatsapp.com/IS3WZu4NRbrJETzow4TYMF About Miss Franco: IG: @missfranco_official About Fernannd’O: IG: @justfernanndo For any questions or comments you’d like read on the show, drop us an email on: theuntanglement@neonbloom.co.za Instagram: @theuntanglement https://www.instagram.com/p/CEFOXOZpYte/?igshid=81vh3v1slc47 YouTube: The Untanglement https://youtu.be/ebZ7Ng1okCg For business contact: Info@neonbloom.co.za www.neonbloom.co.za IG: @neonbloom_productions Produced by: Neon Bloom Productions Podcast Network More Podcasts: Growed Up w/ Fernannd’O https://open.spotify.com/show/7eM0iqiC8ZAKq8u2DvVBZz?si=BloPTnSYRQ6F0zwB8_Z_2g Black Women Business w/ Thuli Mgwebile https://open.spotify.com/show/6JZa115f6Fc2J683QWPOvb The Untanglement w/ Miss Franco & Fernannd’O https://open.spotify.com/show/1GLXHJnpleo8CA6AVAzO07?si=dFcFgChDQQ2MEs6ntS_Ceg Music And The Mind w/ Melancolik https://open.spotify.com/show/4dq6abivzZQdsqn4eJgzGx?si=PPNBCbg9STeh_O16mAMdDA Mommys in the Dark w/ Miss Unique & Fernannd’O https://open.spotify.com/episode/6Thf77zTmVYm9loZ2qG0lm?si=fpvIMbGbSJiZ5crfssiSSw

    1h 17m
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The Untanglement is a podcast about relationships that aims to create a community where people come together to share their experiences in past and present relationships. These include but are not limited to romantic, platonic, and family related experiences. Hosted by Fernannd'O and MIss Franco

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  • Creator
    The Untanglement
  • Years Active
    2020 - 2026
  • Episodes
    50
  • Rating
    Explicit
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