This episode of According to B is brought to you in partnership with Bernini- the sparkling spritzer born from real wine. We live in a world that quietly teaches women to compete - over beauty, success, relationships, and even friendships. And sometimes, without realising it, that pressure seeps into the very relationships meant to hold us. In this episode of According to B, we’re choosing something different. I’m joined by best friends and Because We Said So podcast co-hosts Landzy Gama and Zama Marubelela (ZeeXOnline) for a deeply honest conversation about female friendship as refuge, grounding, and one of adulthood’s greatest love stories. Together, we unpack: How comparison and competition show up in women’s friendships What female friendship teaches us about love and becoming Navigating friendship breakups without villains Why our friends often become the true witnesses to our lives This conversation is an invitation to slow down, soften, and savour the relationships that let us be messy, honest, and fully ourselves. Subscribe to The B Word here: https://www.youtube.com/c/TheBWord?su... ✰ MEET OUR CO-HOSTS ✰ Zama & Landzy Landzy Gama and Zama Marubelele are best friends, Youtubers, content creators and the co-hosts of the podcast Because We Said So- a space beloved for its deeply relatable conversations about girlhood, friendship, love, and becoming. Known for their honesty, humour, and emotional openness, they’ve built a platform that feels like a safe place to land for women navigating adulthood in real time. What truly sets Landzy and Zama apart is the bond they share and the way they show up for each other- with softness, accountability, and care. Through their work, they remind women that friendship can be grounding, expansive, and life-shaping, and that choosing each other in a world that encourages comparison is a powerful act. Their journey reflects the beauty of growing together, speaking openly, and allowing friendship to be one of life’s greatest love stories. ✰ TIMESTAMPS✰ 00:00- Coming up 01:21- About the conversation 02:48- Meet Landzy & Zama 04:10- Landzy & Zama on vlogging vs podcasting 06:30- Game: Toast or Ghost 13:09- Landzy & Zama: The advice queens 13:59- Dilemma 1 23:52- Dilemma 2 27:51- What the end of a friendship has taught Landzy & Zama 31:55- What Landzy & Zama have learnt about themselves from each other 34:06- What friendship has given Landzy & Zama that romantic relationship hasn't 37:06- Advise to the girls that have experienced friendship hurt 39:54- Gifting Landzy & Zama their Breathe It In boxes 40:51- Outro ✰ SOCIAL MEDIA ✰ Bokang ➜ Instagram: @sheisbokang- / sheisbokang ➜ Tik Tok:@sheisbokang- / sheisbokang The B Word ➜ Instagram: @thebword_za - / thebword_za ➜ Tik Tok: @thebwordza- / thebword_za Guest Zama ➜ Instagram: @zeexonline-https://www.instagram.com/zeexonline ➜TikTok: @zeexonline- https://www.tiktok.com/@zeexonline Landzy ➜ Instagram: @landzygama-https://www.instagram.com/landzygama ➜TikTok: @landzygama- https://www.tiktok.com/@landzygama ✰ LISTEN ON ✰ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0XnqZ7b... Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Castbox: https://castbox.fm/channel/id5426930?... ✰ BUSINESS INQUIRIES ✰ E-mail: hello@thebwordmedia.com ✰ TEAM/CREDITS ✰ Director: Bokang Lehlokoe Producer: Bokang Lehlokoe & Tshegetso Moepi Production Assistant: Seanmile Dlamini Videography: Looped Pictures Post Production: Looped Pictures
