According To B

Bokang Lehlokoe
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According to B is your go-to podcast for real talk with women who are ditching the rulebook and doing life their way. Hosted by Bokang Lehlokoe, it’s all about the messy middles, quiet wins, and bold moves behind the scenes. We’re not here for highlight reels - we’re here for who you’re becoming. Expect raw convos, big laughs, deep feels, and a reminder that living boldly beats living perfectly, every single time.

  1. 21 HR AGO

    Chasing Big Dreams (When You Have No Proof It’ll Work) ft. Gaisang Noge | According To B x Bernini

    This episode of According to B is brought to you in partnership with Bernini-the sparkling spritzer born from real wine.  What would the younger version of you think of your life today? In this episode, Gaisang Noge and I reflect on growth, dreams, disappointment, patience, and staying true to yourself in an industry and a world that often asks you to become someone else. This conversation is for anyone learning to trust their timing and honour their becoming. Subscribe to The B Word here: https://www.youtube.com/c/TheBWord?su...  ✰ MEET OUR CO-HOST ✰ Gaisang Gaisang Noge is a South African actress, media personality, and creative whose work reflects depth, versatility, and authenticity. Known for her powerful performances on screen, she brings emotional nuance and relatability to every role she inhabits- earning her recognition as one of her generation’s compelling talents. Beyond the spotlight, Gaisang’s journey is one of resilience, patience, and self-belief. From navigating rejection to trusting the timing of her dreams, she represents the woman who keeps going-even when the path feels uncertain. Her presence is both playful and grounded, proof that ambition and authenticity can coexist. ✰ TIMESTAMPS✰ 00:00 - Intro 02:25 - Meet Gaisang 04:03 - Game: Toast or Ghost 13:25 - Bokang surprises Gaisang with a 2016 throwback 15:34 - Gaisang on losing and finding herself again 21:03 - Gaisang on making her dream a reality 22:51 - Gaisang’s first experience on set  26:33 - What kept Gaisang going in the waiting 27:02 - The lesson God taught Gaisang before opening the doors 31:13 - Gaisang on avoiding the pressure to always perform 33:42 - The one thing that Gaisang is doing now, for future her  38:05 - Gaisang’s first half marathon  42:24 -Gaisang receives her Breathe It In box  43:22- Outro ✰ SOCIAL MEDIA ✰ Bokang ➜ Instagram: @sheisbokang-  / https://www.instagram.com/sheisbokang    ➜ Tik Tok:@sheisbokang-  https://www.tiktok.com/@sheisbokang    The B Word ➜ Instagram: @thebword_za - https://www.instagram.com/thebword_za ➜ Tik Tok: @thebwordza- https://www.tiktok.com/@thebword_za  Guest Gaisang ➜ Instagram: @ms_noge  -https://www.instagram.com/ms_noge  ➜TikTok: @ms_noge7-https://www.tiktok.com/@ms_noge7 ✰ LISTEN ON ✰  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0XnqZ7bUlKg3TQS6LWZpZE?si=ad35431e1c1a474d  Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/bw/podcast/according-to-b/id1686532135  Castbox:https://castbox.fm/vh/5426930  ✰ BUSINESS INQUIRIES ✰ E-mail: hello@thebwordmedia.com  ✰ TEAM/CREDITS ✰ Director: Bokang Lehlokoe Producer: Bokang Lehlokoe & Tshegetso Moepi  Production Assistant: Senamile Dlamini Videography: Looped Pictures   Post Production: Looped Pictures

    44 min

  2. 26 FEB

    The Lost Art of Dating Yourself with Gugulethu Nyatsumba

    Dating yourself doesn’t mean you’ve given up on love. It means you’ve decided to show up for your own life with intention. In this episode, lifestyle creator and podcaster Gugulethu Nyatsumba returns to the podcast for a grounded, honest conversation about what “dating yourself” really looks like beyond the quotes. We explore: The difference between being alone and living fully Solo dates, confidence, and emotional independence How your relationship with yourself shapes every other relationship Dating yourself while still desiring partnership If you’re learning how to enjoy your own company, build standards, and live with presence - this conversation is for you. Subscribe to The B Word here: https://www.youtube.com/c/TheBWord?su...  ✰ MEET OUR CO-HOST ✰ Gugulethu Gugulethu Nyatsumba popularly known as Sis G.U is a lifestyle content creator, podcaster, and digital storyteller known for her grounded presence and intentional approach to living. Through her platform, she shares reflections on faith, self-trust, solitude, and what it means to move through life at your own pace-without rushing to perform or impress. Her content resonates because it feels honest, Gugu embodies a quiet confidence rooted in self-awareness and emotional maturity. She represents a generation of women redefining independence- not as isolation, but as security within oneself. Through her work, she invites women to romanticise their own lives, embrace stillness, and trust that becoming is not something to rush. ✰ TIMESTAMPS✰ 00:00 - Intro 02:27 - Meet Gugu 04:22 - The differences between Gugu in 2023 vs 2026 07:04 - Game: Toast or Ghost 14:15 - What the definition of dating herself is  for Gugu 18:18 - Relationship check 20:07 - Gugu on embodying how she can experience love on her own  22:56 - Gugu's love language to herself  26:25 - Gugu's favourite solo experiences 28:53 - Gugu on solo travel 35:13 - Gugu on being content single but still desiring partnership 37:04 - The impact of self-love on how Gugu approaches dating  41:03 - Gugu on standing in her own way in relationships 41:37 - Gugu's advice for anyone who wants to choose themselves 45:48- Gugu receives her Breathe It In gift box 47:04- Outro ✰ SOCIAL MEDIA ✰ Bokang ➜ Instagram: @sheisbokang-  / https://www.instagram.com/sheisbokang    ➜ Tik Tok:@sheisbokang-  https://www.tiktok.com/@sheisbokang    The B Word ➜ Instagram: @thebword_za - https://www.instagram.com/thebword_za ➜ Tik Tok: @thebwordza- https://www.tiktok.com/@thebword_za  Guest Gugulethu ➜ Instagram: @gugulethu_nyatsumba -https://www.instagram.com/gugulethu_nyatsumba  ➜TikTok: @gugulethu_nyatsumba-https://www.tiktok.com/@gugulethu_nyatsumba  ✰ LISTEN ON ✰  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0XnqZ7bUlKg3TQS6LWZpZE?si=ad35431e1c1a474d  Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/bw/podcast/according-to-b/id1686532135  Castbox:https://castbox.fm/vh/5426930  ✰ BUSINESS INQUIRIES ✰ E-mail: hello@thebwordmedia.com  ✰ TEAM/CREDITS ✰ Director: Bokang Lehlokoe Producer: Bokang Lehlokoe & Tshegetso Moepi  Production Assistant: Senamile Dlamini Videography: Looped Pictures   Post Production: Looped Pictures

    48 min

  3. 19 FEB

    Live Like a Moodboard (In Real Life) ft Lwandile ''The Fruity Chapters'' Makhaza

    This episode of According to B is brought to you in partnership with Bernini- South Africa’s only real spritzer made from wine. The internet loves an It Girl-but what if the real flex is becoming the It Girl of your own life? In this episode, I’m joined by fashion, travel, and lifestyle creator Lwandile Makhaza popularly known as (The Fruity Chapters) to reclaim the It Girl from the algorithm and bring her back home. We unpack: Style, taste, and intentional living Health, routines, and discipline with softness Confidence, visibility, and protecting your peace Career, creativity, and defining success on your own terms This isn’t about aesthetics - it’s about authorship. Subscribe to The B Word here: https://www.youtube.com/c/TheBWord?su...  ✰ MEET OUR CO-HOST ✰ Lwandile Lwandile Makhaza, widely known as The Fruity Chapters, is a South African lifestyle and fashion content creator, storyteller, and creative entrepreneur who has cultivated a distinctive voice in digital culture. Through a refined yet deeply personal lens, she shares reflections on style, self-trust, discipline, and what it means to intentionally curate a life that feels aligned rather than performative. With an eye for aesthetics and a commitment to authenticity, Lwandile has built a community that resonates with her thoughtful approach to presence, confidence, and self-authorship. Her platform is not just about fashion or lifestyle-it’s about becoming. Becoming more grounded. More self-aware. More deliberate about the life you are building. ✰ TIMESTAMPS✰ 00:00- Intro 01:19- About the conversation 02:27- Meet Lwandile 04:51- Game: Toast or Ghost 11:00- What an IT girl is to Lwandile & Bokang 14:23- Lwandile on how she deals with self-doubt 15:44- How Lwandile overcomes the fear of doing 16:31- Where Lwandile draws her inspiration from 20:13- What Lwandile's current style says about the season she is in 22:40- Biggest difference between pre 25 Lwandile and post 25 Lwandile 24:38- What pushed Lwandile to prioritize her health 32:22- Lwandile on being big on experiences 40:42- Career growth and success for Lwandile 45:48- How Lwandile deals with boundaries with work 48:25- The one way Lwandile is committing to showing up for herself in 2026  50:53- Lwandile receives her Breathe It In gift box  51:31- Outro ✰ SOCIAL MEDIA ✰ Bokang ➜ Instagram: @sheisbokang-  / https://www.instagram.com/sheisbokang    ➜ Tik Tok:@sheisbokang-  https://www.tiktok.com/@sheisbokang    The B Word ➜ Instagram: @thebword_za - https://www.instagram.com/thebword_za ➜ Tik Tok: @thebwordza- https://www.tiktok.com/@thebword_za  Guest Lwandile ➜ Instagram: @thefruitychapters -https://www.instagram.com/thefruitychapters ➜TikTok: @thefruitychapters-https://www.tiktok.com/@thefruitychapters  ✰ LISTEN ON ✰  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0XnqZ7bUlKg3TQS6LWZpZE?si=ad35431e1c1a474d  Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/bw/podcast/according-to-b/id1686532135  Castbox:https://castbox.fm/vh/5426930  ✰ BUSINESS INQUIRIES ✰ E-mail: hello@thebwordmedia.com  ✰ TEAM/CREDITS ✰ Director: Bokang Lehlokoe Producer: Bokang Lehlokoe & Tshegetso Moepi  Production Assistant: Seanmile Dlamini Videography: Looped Pictures   Post Production: Looped Pictures

    53 min

  4. 12 FEB

    Friendship Breakups, Comparison & Choosing Each Other with Landzy Gama & ZeeXOnline

    This episode of According to B is brought to you in partnership with Bernini- the sparkling spritzer born from real wine.  We live in a world that quietly teaches women to compete - over beauty, success, relationships, and even friendships. And sometimes, without realising it, that pressure seeps into the very relationships meant to hold us. In this episode of According to B, we’re choosing something different. I’m joined by best friends and Because We Said So podcast co-hosts Landzy Gama and Zama Marubelela (ZeeXOnline) for a deeply honest conversation about female friendship as refuge, grounding, and one of adulthood’s greatest love stories. Together, we unpack: How comparison and competition show up in women’s friendships What female friendship teaches us about love and becoming Navigating friendship breakups without villains Why our friends often become the true witnesses to our lives This conversation is an invitation to slow down, soften, and savour the relationships that let us be messy, honest, and fully ourselves. Subscribe to The B Word here: https://www.youtube.com/c/TheBWord?su...  ✰ MEET OUR CO-HOSTS ✰ Zama & Landzy Landzy Gama and Zama Marubelele are best friends, Youtubers, content creators and the co-hosts of the podcast Because We Said So- a space beloved for its deeply relatable conversations about girlhood, friendship, love, and becoming. Known for their honesty, humour, and emotional openness, they’ve built a platform that feels like a safe place to land for women navigating adulthood in real time. What truly sets Landzy and Zama apart is the bond they share and the way they show up for each other- with softness, accountability, and care. Through their work, they remind women that friendship can be grounding, expansive, and life-shaping, and that choosing each other in a world that encourages comparison is a powerful act. Their journey reflects the beauty of growing together, speaking openly, and allowing friendship to be one of life’s greatest love stories. ✰ TIMESTAMPS✰ 00:00- Coming up 01:21- About the conversation 02:48- Meet Landzy & Zama 04:10- Landzy & Zama on vlogging vs podcasting 06:30- Game: Toast or Ghost 13:09- Landzy & Zama: The advice queens 13:59- Dilemma 1 23:52- Dilemma 2 27:51- What the end of a friendship has taught Landzy & Zama 31:55- What Landzy & Zama have learnt about themselves from each other 34:06- What friendship has given Landzy & Zama that romantic relationship hasn't 37:06- Advise to the girls that have experienced friendship hurt 39:54- Gifting Landzy & Zama their Breathe It In boxes 40:51- Outro ✰ SOCIAL MEDIA ✰ Bokang ➜ Instagram: @sheisbokang-  / sheisbokang    ➜ Tik Tok:@sheisbokang-  / sheisbokang      The B Word ➜ Instagram: @thebword_za - / thebword_za    ➜ Tik Tok: @thebwordza-  / thebword_za    Guest Zama ➜ Instagram: @zeexonline-https://www.instagram.com/zeexonline  ➜TikTok: @zeexonline- https://www.tiktok.com/@zeexonline  Landzy ➜ Instagram: @landzygama-https://www.instagram.com/landzygama ➜TikTok: @landzygama- https://www.tiktok.com/@landzygama  ✰ LISTEN ON ✰  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0XnqZ7b... Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Castbox: https://castbox.fm/channel/id5426930?... ✰ BUSINESS INQUIRIES ✰ E-mail: hello@thebwordmedia.com  ✰ TEAM/CREDITS ✰ Director: Bokang Lehlokoe Producer: Bokang Lehlokoe & Tshegetso Moepi  Production Assistant: Seanmile Dlamini Videography: Looped Pictures   Post Production: Looped Pictures

    42 min

  5. 5 FEB

    Live Your Life on Your Own Terms with Amahle "Jaxx" Jaxa

    This episode of According to B is brought to you in partnership with Bernini - the sparkling spritzer born from real wine. A drink made for the women who choose to celebrate with each other. ✨ So many women aren’t unhappy - they’re just on autopilot.Living lives they inherited, not ones they consciously chose. In this episode of According to B, I sit down with Amahle “Jaxx” Jaxa to talk about what it really looks like to move from survival mode into intentional authorship: shaping your work, relationships, and identity around what you actually want. Jaxx’s journey reminds us that choosing your life doesn’t always mean burning it all down. Sometimes it’s about editing with honesty, courage, and self-trust and giving yourself permission to become again and again. This episode forms part of the According to B x Bernini “Breathe It In” series - conversations centred on presence, reflection, and choosing life on your own terms. Watch, reflect, and join the conversation in the comments. Subscribe to The B Word here: https://www.youtube.com/c/TheBWord?su...  ✰ MEET OUR CO-HOST ✰ Amahle Jaxa Amahle “Jaxx” Jaxa is a media personality, cultural commentator, and creative entrepreneur who has become one of South Africa’s most compelling voices in digital media. Known for her sharp insight, wit, and ability to make complex social and political conversations feel accessible, Jaxx has built a platform rooted in honesty, relevance, and cultural awareness. From shaping influential spaces in nightlife and events to stepping into her own as a trusted commentator and host, Jaxx’s journey reflects courage, reinvention, and intentional authorship. She is committed to encouraging women to think critically, trust themselves, and take up space boldly-proving that clarity, curiosity, and conviction can coexist with authenticity and warmth. ✰ TIMESTAMPS✰ 00:00 - Coming Up 01:00 - Introducing the Breathe It In series 02:33: - Meet Jaxx 05:33 - Game: Toast or Ghost 19:12 - Jaxx on authorship & autonomy 22:54 - The year  Jaxx chose to change her life  29:36 - Jaxx’s truth on dealing with imposte syndrome 31:45: - Jaxx’s advice for someone feeling stuck or stagnant 36:06: - Bokang and Jaxx talk navigating the 30’s 42:52 - Life categories: Jaxx’s picks 50:42 - Gifting Jaxx her Breathe It In basket 52:02- Outro ✰ SOCIAL MEDIA ✰ Bokang ➜ Instagram: @sheisbokang-  / sheisbokang    ➜ Tik Tok:@sheisbokang-  / sheisbokang      The B Word ➜ Instagram: @thebword_za - / thebword_za    ➜ Tik Tok: @thebwordza-  / thebword_za    Guest Jaxx ➜ Instagram: @jaxxofalltrades_sa-https://www.instagram.com/jaxxofalltrades_sa ➜TikTok: @jaxxofalltrades_sa- https://www.tiktok.com/@jaxxofalltrades_sa ✰ LISTEN ON ✰  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0XnqZ7b... Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Castbox: https://castbox.fm/channel/id5426930?... ✰ BUSINESS INQUIRIES ✰ E-mail: hello@thebwordmedia.com  ✰ TEAM/CREDITS ✰ Director: Bokang Lehlokoe Producer: Bokang Lehlokoe & Tshegetso Moepi  Production Assistant: Seanmile Dlamini Videography: Looped Pictures   Post Production: Looped Pictures

    53 min

  6. 22/10/2025

    When Did Friendships become so Hard & Expensive?! | According to B

    ➜ Subscribe to The B Word here: https://www.youtube.com/c/TheBWord?su... ✰ ABOUT ✰ This one is close to my heart. In this episode, I sit down with two of my closest friends, Maliaka and Tshegetso, for a real and honest conversation about what friendship looks like in adulthood- the beautiful, the hard, and the in-between.  We grew up watching rom-coms where the “best friend” character always had it all figured out, but real life doesn’t look like that. Between work, money, growing responsibilities, and trying to show up for ourselves, friendship can start to feel… complicated. So, we decided to talk about it–the distance that sometimes creeps in, the moments we’ve drifted, and the ways we’re learning to hold space for each other now that life isn’t as simple as it used to be. We also dive into: Why friendship feels harder as we get older.  The difference between drifting apart and simply growing up.  How money can shift the dynamic between friends. What showing up looks like in this season of our lives. Why sisterhood still matters-maybe now more than ever. ✰ TIMESTAMPS✰ 00:00 - Coming Up 00:43 - The best friend character in rom coms 03:36 - Introducing Maliaka & Tshegetso 05:27 - The girls meet cute stories  10:47 - Dilemma 1: Why is friendship so hard? 12:38 -The challenges’s of friendship now vs in the early 20’s 20:28 - Maliaka & Tshegetso’s response to the dilemma 27:34 - What the girls miss about friendship then vs what they value now 32:29 - Dilemma 2: When money changes friendship. 33:38 - Maliaka and Tshegetso’s response to the dilemma 41:30 - How necessary is it to be transparent about finances with friends? 49:21 -The title and genre of the movie that Maliaka & Tshegetso are casting Bokang in 52:23 - The post credit scene  55:22 - Afterthoughts ✰ SOCIAL MEDIA ✰ Bokang ➜ Instagram: @sheisbokang-https://www.instagram.com/sheisbokang  ➜ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sheisbokang    The B Word ➜ Instagram: @thebword_za -https://www.instagram.com/thebword_za  ➜ Tik Tok: @thebwordza https://www.tiktok.com/@thebword_za  ✰ LISTEN ON ✰  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0XnqZ7b... Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Castbox: https://castbox.fm/channel/id5426930?... ✰ BUSINESS INQUIRIES ✰ E-mail: hello@thebwordmedia.com  ✰ TEAM/CREDITS ✰ Director: Bokang Lehlokoe Producer: Bokang Lehlokoe & Tshegetso Moepi  Production Assistant: Denga Madzivhandila Editor: Palesa Radebe

    58 min

  7. 13/10/2025

    From Dropout To Digital Empire: Mpoomy Ledwaba’s Unconventional Road To Success | According To B

    ➜ Subscribe to The B Word here: https://www.youtube.com/c/TheBWord?su... ✰ ABOUT ✰ In this powerful episode of According to B, Bokang sits down with Mpoomy Ledwaba to unpack what it really means to step into your main character energy in career, love, and life. From career pivots to redefining what “having it all” means, Mpoomy’s story is heartfelt and deeply relatable. Together, Bokang and Mpoomy dive into the lessons, leaps, and mindset shifts that come with choosing yourself boldly, even when life doesn’t follow a straight script. What you’ll hear in this episode: Embracing career pivots and nonlinear pathsBalancing ambition with love, family, and wellbeingBreaking out of “supporting role” expectations placed on womenRedefining success on your own termsListener dilemmas on career, starting over, and relationshipsHow to give yourself permission to rewrite your story This conversation will leave you inspired to trust your own journey, embrace your boldness, and script your next chapter with intention. ✰ MEET OUR CO-HOST ✰ Mpoomy Ledwaba is a creative entrepreneur, podcaster, speaker, wife, and mom who has become one of South Africa’s most influential voices on faith, purpose, and intentional living. Known for her honesty and warmth, she has built a career rooted in redefining success on her own terms  balancing ambition with love, family, and wellbeing. From boldly pursuing her passions, to growing her platform as a storyteller and businesswoman, Mpoomy’s journey reflects the beauty of nonlinear paths and bold pivots. She is committed to showing women that they don’t have to fit into traditional molds or “supporting roles”-they can lead, create, and thrive while still embracing softness and balance. ✰ TIMESTAMPS✰ 00:00 - Coming Up 00:58 - The Rom Com montage 04:16 - Introducing Mpommy Ledwaba the main character 05:35 - Mpoomy's career as a movie 12:19 - Listeners dispatch:Career change uncertainty  16:19 - Mpoomy’s career pivots  20:34 - A lesson that Mpoomy learnt in the past that she applies today 23:08 - Listeners Dispatch 2: Starting over without disappointing anyone 30:17 - Giving yourself permission to outgrow a dream 35:53 - Listeners Dispatch 3:Can I have it all? 41:25 - How Mpoomy and her husband navigate their roles in their marriage 46:13 - Closing credits  48:22 - The title of Mpoomy’s next chapter ✰ SOCIAL MEDIA ✰ Bokang ➜ Instagram: @sheisbokang-https://www.instagram.com/sheisbokang  ➜ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sheisbokang    The B Word ➜ Instagram: @thebword_za -https://www.instagram.com/thebword_za  ➜ Tik Tok: @thebwordza https://www.tiktok.com/@thebword_za  Guest Mpoomy ➜ Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/mpoomy_ledwaba  ➜TikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@mpoomyledwaba  ✰ LISTEN ON ✰  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0XnqZ7b... Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Castbox: https://castbox.fm/channel/id5426930?... ✰ BUSINESS INQUIRIES ✰ E-mail: hello@thebwordmedia.com  ✰ TEAM/CREDITS ✰ Director: Bokang Lehlokoe Producer: Bokang Lehlokoe & Tshegetso Moepi  Production Assistant: Moe Sonny Videographer & Editor: Palesa Radebe

    49 min

  8. 29/09/2025

    Stop waiting for permission and believe for more with Candice Modiselle

    ➜ Subscribe to The B Word here: https://www.youtube.com/c/TheBWord?su... ✰ ABOUT ✰ How do you give yourself permission to dream again? How do you stop playing small when it feels safer to shrink? And what does it look like to step into visibility not just in your career, but also in love? In this powerful episode, Tumelo Candice Sello (Formerly Candice Modiselle) returns to the podcast to unpack the mindset shifts, fears, and breakthroughs that come with embracing your main character energy and the accompanying mindset shift. Since her last appearance, Candice has stepped into a new chapter of life; she got married, deepened her walk in faith, and adopted a renewed mindset anchored in purpose. She shares what it looks like to release old versions of yourself, confront the fear of visibility, and boldly claim the life you know you’re meant to live.  We dive into:  The danger of waiting for permission vs. choosing yourself  Playing small, self-sabotage & unlearning “it’s not possible for me”  Moving from survival mode to possibility mode Redefining love as agency from waiting to be chosen to choosing yourself The turning points that help you step into your soft, bold, authentic life This conversation is about reinvention, courage, and becoming the main character in your own story not tomorrow, not when everything is perfect, but right now. ✰ MEET OUR CO-HOST ✰ Tumelo Candice Sello (formerly known as Candice Modiselle) is a creative entrepreneur, storyteller, and speaker whose journey embodies reinvention and bold authenticity. With a background spanning stage, screen, and business, Tumelo has become a trusted voice for women navigating visibility, purpose, and faith. Beyond her career, she is deeply passionate about conversations that empower others to shed fear, embrace growth, and step fully into who they are meant to be. ✰ TIMESTAMPS✰ 00:00 - Coming Up 01:11 - Rom com maincharacter breakdown 03:36 - She’s bacckkkkkk 04:26 - Check in 05:42 - Genre check 06:59 -The title of this season of Candice’s life 08:06 - Candices top 3 characters in her life right now 09:55 - The fatal flaw  13:19 - The difference between 20’s Candice and 30’s Candice 19:30 - Listeners dispatch 1: The creative that shrinks herself/plays small 21:08 - The ways in which Candice has played small 23:23 - Candices response to the dilemma 33:39 - Candices advice to someone who is afraid to start over  37:07 - How Candice is handling Tumelo Selo vs Candice Modiselle 38:40 - Listeners Dispatch 2: Waiting to be chosen 39:36 - Candices response to the dilemma 47:54 - Candices past experience shrinking herself in romantic relationships 51:25 - Healthy compromise vs settling  56:35 - Closing credits  57:59 - Post credits  ✰ SOCIAL MEDIA ✰ Bokang ➜ Instagram: @sheisbokang-https://www.instagram.com/sheisbokang  ➜ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sheisbokang    The B Word ➜ Instagram: @thebword_za -https://www.instagram.com/thebword_za  ➜ Tik Tok: @thebwordza https://www.tiktok.com/@thebword_za  Guest Candice ➜ Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/candicemodiselle  ➜TikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@candicemodiselle  ✰ LISTEN ON ✰  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0XnqZ7b... Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Castbox: https://castbox.fm/channel/id5426930?... ✰ BUSINESS INQUIRIES ✰ E-mail: hello@thebwordmedia.com  ✰ TEAM/CREDITS ✰ Director: Bokang Lehlokoe Producer: Bokang Lehlokoe & Tshegetso Moepi  Videographer & Editor: Palesa Radebe

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According to B is your go-to podcast for real talk with women who are ditching the rulebook and doing life their way. Hosted by Bokang Lehlokoe, it’s all about the messy middles, quiet wins, and bold moves behind the scenes. We’re not here for highlight reels - we’re here for who you’re becoming. Expect raw convos, big laughs, deep feels, and a reminder that living boldly beats living perfectly, every single time.

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  • Creator
    Bokang Lehlokoe
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    24
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Bokang Lehlokoe
  • Show Website
    According To B

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