Raising Hell (To Heaven)

Chelsko & Kate

Just two girls sharing our transformative journey towards wholeness and empowered living. Here to guide you through the intricate paths of self-discovery, growth, and fulfillment. Cultivating resilience, shattering limiting beliefs, empowering others toward a radiant, b

  1. Life After Divorce with Geoffrey Pirnie

    20 FEB

    Life After Divorce with Geoffrey Pirnie

    Most people are stuck in a cycle of avoidance, self-sabotage, and unconscious patterns—especially after heartbreak or divorce. But what if healing isn’t about fixing surface-level problems, but rewiring your nervous system and embracing pain as the catalyst for transformation? Jeff shares deeply personal insights on how to truly heal from trauma, understand your subconscious, and become the man (or woman) you’re meant to be. This episode is a raw, eye-opening conversation about how self-awareness, faith, and radical honesty can break you free from destructive cycles. Jeff breaks down practical tools like journaling, sitting with pain, and asking the tough questions that reveal your true self. You'll discover how to identify red flags early, manage emotional triggers, and cultivate resilience during life’s toughest seasons—whether heartbreak, divorce, or spiritual doubt. We dive into the importance of integrity, the role of faith in healing, and how daily routines anchor your nervous system in peace. Jeff shares how he transformed from a logical skeptic to someone who embraces divine guidance—and how that shift can radically change your life. If you’re tired of repeating patterns, overwhelmed by emotional pain, or questioning your purpose and worth, this episode is essential listening. Learn why true healing requires vulnerability, patience, and a commitment to becoming your highest self. Whether you’re single, in a relationship, or processing past trauma, this conversation will challenge your assumptions and inspire you to do the deep work that leads to lasting change. You’ll walk away with hope, practical strategies, and a renewed trust in the journey of inner transformation. Perfect for anyone seeking emotional freedom, authentic connection, and spiritual alignment—this is the kind of conversation that changes lives. Geoff, a man who transitioned from atheism to faith, combines personal experience with deep biblical insight, offering a grounded perspective on healing, purpose, and spiritual growth.

    1hr 3min
  2. The Hardest Fight Wasn't In The Ring

    19 FEB

    The Hardest Fight Wasn't In The Ring

    In this pod, Cameron Delano shares his journey from being a promising football player to a professional bull rider and bare-knuckle boxer. He discusses the challenges he faced due to injuries and the thrill of adrenaline sports. The conversation delves into the impact of his parents' divorce on his relationships and the importance of stability and communication in love. Cameron emphasizes the significance of loyalty, boundaries, and recognizing red flags in relationships, while also reflecting on the emotional burdens men carry in today's world. In this conversation, Cameron Delano and Live Viva explore the complexities of relationships, focusing on loyalty, emotional needs, and the importance of self-work. They discuss how appreciation and support play crucial roles in love, the balance between traditional and modern relationship roles, and the readiness for marriage. The dialogue also touches on the impact of first love, physical attraction, and the dynamics of trust and infidelity, emphasizing the need for emotional communication to foster connection. HOT MOMENTS: Introduction to Cameron Delano 01:25 Cameron's Journey Through Sports and Faith 08:21 The Thrill of Adrenaline and Its Impact on Relationships 17:56 Navigating Relationships and the Quest for Stability 26:05 Establishing Boundaries and Respect 27:38 Navigating Relationships and Trust Issues 29:46 Defining Loyalty in Relationships 32:42 The Importance of Communication and Trust 36:30 Self-Improvement and Relationship Dynamics 40:08 The Role of Appreciation in Relationships 45:26 Balancing Individual Needs and Relationship Health 51:21 Redefining Roles in Relationships 54:28 Preparing for Marriage: What Men Need 54:54 The Emotional Landscape of Men 01:01:49 Chasing the First Love 01:10:20 Navigating Relationships in Modern Times

    1hr 27min
  3. It’s Not Who You Attract — It’s Who You Keep with Coach Chris Davids

    31 JAN

    It’s Not Who You Attract — It’s Who You Keep with Coach Chris Davids

    Why do some people pull away the moment things get real—while others hold on tighter and tighter? And is it possible for avoidant and anxious partners to build something secure… or are they doomed from the start? In this episode, the hosts sit down with relationship coach Chris to break down the real-world dynamics of attachment styles—without jargon, blame, or pop-psych fluff. They unpack avoidant and anxious behavior in dating and relationships, why chemistry alone isn’t enough, and what it actually takes to build a secure, healthy connection. From boundaries and emotional regulation to love languages and communication, this conversation gets honest about what works, what doesn’t, and why repeating the same relationship patterns isn’t bad luck—it’s unexamined attachment. Chris shares grounded insights from his coaching experience, including why secure partners matter, how red flags should be addressed (not ignored), and why dating with intention saves years of confusion and emotional burnout. This episode isn’t about diagnosing yourself or your partner. It’s about learning how love works—and how to choose differently. “Can an avoidant be in a relationship?” “Working through the discomfort is the path.” “It’s not who you attract—it’s who you keep.” 🔑 What You’ll Learn How anxious and avoidant attachment styles actually show up in dating Why secure relationships are built, not found The role of boundaries in emotional safety and attraction How emotional regulation changes everything—for both partners Why communication breaks down (and how to fix it) How love languages can either connect or confuse couples When to address red flags—and when to walk away Why teaching your partner how to love you is not “too much” ⏱️ Episode Chapters 00:00 — Introduction to Attachment Styles 03:04 — Navigating Avoidant Tendencies 05:56 — Childhood Wounds & Adult Relationships 09:00 — Gender Differences in Avoidance 11:58 — The Avoidant Fallacy 15:09 — Dating With Intention & Integrity 17:56 — Recognizing Red Flags 20:56 — Why Multiple Dating Experiences Matter 23:52 — Ethics, Attraction & Modern Dating 30:01 — Red Flags vs. Reality 32:01 — Boundaries That Protect Love 34:22 — Emotional Regulation Explained 39:12 — Communication That Actually Works 49:50 — Love Languages & Emotional Needs 01:02:02 — Building Secure, Healthy Relationships

    57 min
  4. Faith, Forgiveness & Becoming a High-Value Man w/ Jay Carvalho

    26/11/2025

    Faith, Forgiveness & Becoming a High-Value Man w/ Jay Carvalho

    In today’s episode, I sit down with Jay Carvalho for a raw, honest conversation about faith, personal growth, relationships, forgiveness, and what it truly means to lead with purpose. Jay opens up about how content creation started for him after a difficult breakup — and how that pain transformed into a mission rooted in Christian values, self-improvement, and authenticity. We dive deep into: ✨ How faith can anchor you during life’s hardest seasons ✨ The truth about relationships, attraction, and choosing partners aligned with your values ✨ Why forgiveness is essential for healing ✨ Media’s impact on how men and women view each other ✨ The importance of discipline, self-control, and leading by example ✨ Why people are starving for real, positive, healing-centered messages ✨ Grace — and the reminder that we’re all imperfect humans trying to do better If you’re someone who is working on becoming a better man, growing spiritually, or building healthier relationships… this episode will speak to your soul. KEY TAKEAWAYS: Jay began content creation as a way to heal from heartbreak. Personal growth creates better relationships — not the other way around. Living a life aligned with faith attracts the right partner. Forgiveness is a non-negotiable for true healing. Media often amplifies negativity, distorting how we see ourselves and each other. Authentic content is powerful because people want truth, not noise. Purpose requires discipline, self-control, and integrity. Grace matters — we’re all learning. Leadership begins with your daily choices. Faith gives clarity for life’s biggest challenges. Timestamps : 00:00 Intro 01:35 Jay’s story 07:20 Faith + heartbreak 15:10 Media’s influence 23:45 Forgiveness 31:00 Becoming a high-value man 41:50 Leadership in relationships 52:30 Final thoughts If you’re a man who’s tired of over-giving and ready to become the leader God designed you to be, join my free webinar: DM “FREEDOM” on IG @chelskonelliemusic

    50 min

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Just two girls sharing our transformative journey towards wholeness and empowered living. Here to guide you through the intricate paths of self-discovery, growth, and fulfillment. Cultivating resilience, shattering limiting beliefs, empowering others toward a radiant, b