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An Orthodox Christian couple talk marriage, parenting, faith and everything in between. Silouan (Myles) is a Subdeacon in the Orthodox Church and his wife Barbara is a former Marriage and Family Therapist who is getting out of the office and into coaching. Join in on their regular conversations around Finding Home in Christ.

Episodes

  1. 28/08/2025

    Abba Poemen and the Battle of Thoughts

    In this episode Barbara and Subdeacon Silouan explore the wisdom of Abba Poemen, one of the Desert Fathers, focusing on how to face invasive thoughts through silence, patience, confession, and spiritual companionship. Unpacking what Abba Poemen suggests, they cover some practical steps—don’t feed temptations, reveal thoughts to elders, distinguish shame from despair, and run toward the inner struggle rather than away—offering hope, humility, and concrete spiritual practices for everyday life. Facebook Orthodoxfindinghome@gmail.com Instagram

    1hr 8min

  2. 19/07/2025

    The Heart of Asceticism and When We Miss the Point

    Asceticism in the Orthodox Church, like fasting, prescribed prayers, and even attending the liturgical services have a beautiful point to them, and are meant to be beneficial to our spiritual growth towards theosis. However, sometimes it can become more of a burden, hindrance, and even begin to replace the point itself if we're not careful. In this episode, we continue our Summer in the Desert series, where we discuss a story from The Sayings of the Desert Fathers, and how it can be applied to our own lives in a way that is helping us align our hearts closer to the heart of the Orthodox Faith. This week we're focusing on sayings from Abba Poemen and Abba Anthony.

    1hr 7min

  3. 09/07/2025

    Abba Sisoes on Respect in Relationships

    Welcome back to the Finding Home Podcast with Silouan and Barbara, where this week, we dive into the world of the Desert Fathers, focusing on the life and teachings of Abba Sisoes. Join us as we explore the feast of this influential monastic figure in continuation of our "Summer in the Desert" series. Abba Sisoes stands as a prominent figure among the second-generation Desert Fathers, living in the shadow of the great St. Anthony of the Desert. Through his sayings, we uncover the essence of monastic obedience, the value of spiritual mentorship, and the delicate balance between guidance and autonomy within the Christian life. We further reflect on how these ancient teachings translate into modern relationships, including the dynamics of leadership and humility in marriage. Discover the timeless wisdom in respecting and supporting each other without dominance or coercion, fostering a cooperative path to salvation. Whether you're interested in Christian monastic traditions or seeking insights into personal spiritual growth and relationships, this episode offers profound reflections from the heart of the desert.

    55 min

  4. 27/06/2025

    A Love Which Covers a Multitude of Sins

    We’re back! This episode begins a new pattern for this podcast, where we share a story from The Desert Fathers and reflect on how we can apply it to our lives. This story of a stolen Bible shows us the pattern of loving the person behind the sin, even when it’s difficult.

    1hr 8min

  5. 01/10/2024

    Wisdom, the Will, and the Child

    What is the will? Do we really have one? Do children have one? Is it something to be fought against? Or are we born with some form of intrinsic wisdom that just needs space to grow? In this episode, Sbdcn Silouan and Barbara talk about gentle and not so gentle parenting, vices, virtues, and so much more!

    1hr 30min

  6. 14/08/2024

    Love is Magic

    Howl’s Moving Castle is a marvelous story about a rough relationship that ends up being just what they both needed to break each other’s curses. In this episode, Sbdn Silouan and Barbara use this movie (and the book) to illustrate the humility, courage, and selflessness that’s necessary for a loving, faithful, Christian marriage.

    1hr 21min

  7. 16/07/2024

    The Relationships That Make Us

    Does it matter if we are close to our children and spouses? Isn’t it better to be our independent selves? What is the pattern we see in Genesis and throughout scripture? Pull up a chair on our porch, enjoy the cool night air, and join the conversation with Barbara and Subdeacon Silouan. Sprinkler, motorcycle, and cricket interruptions included!

    59 min

  8. 26/06/2024

    Episode 1 - Introducing Us!

    Meet Silouan and Barbara! Hear us talk about our journey in marriage, Orthodoxy, professions, hobbies, parenting, the works! And a bit about our goals for this podcast. Glad to have you with us!

    48 min
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An Orthodox Christian couple talk marriage, parenting, faith and everything in between. Silouan (Myles) is a Subdeacon in the Orthodox Church and his wife Barbara is a former Marriage and Family Therapist who is getting out of the office and into coaching. Join in on their regular conversations around Finding Home in Christ.

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  • Creator
    orthodoxfindinghome
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2025
  • Episodes
    8
  • Rating
    Clean
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