Welcome to February, the famous month of love. As we step into this season, our focus this month is Butterflies. In today’s teaching, PD led us into a powerful conversation on The Right Identity, helping us understand self-esteem and how to maximise and enjoy the season of singleness from God’s perspective. Self-esteem is the importance, dignity, and respect you accord yourself, and it is rooted in identity. As believers, our identity is not circumstantial, and it is not defined by people or situations. The only one with the authority to define who we are is God. This raises important questions: Who are you? Who gave you your identity? Is your identity fixed or shaped by circumstances? God’s Word reveals who we are in Him. We are sons, children, and heirs of His kingdom. We are deeply loved, chosen, forgiven, and reconciled through Christ. God lives in us by His Spirit, meaning we are never alone, and in Christ, we are complete and fully equipped for life and godliness. Because of this truth, we are warned not to accept the identities of others, forget who we are, or tie our worth to our circumstances. Singleness was also presented as a dignified and purposeful season. It is a time of consecration, you self-discovery, and preparation—not a curse or a waiting room. This season can be maximised by growing in faith, investing in self-improvement, serving, building healthy financial habits, learning social etiquette, and gaining wisdom about relationships. It can also be enjoyed through hobbies, quality friendships, solo dates, strong family bonds, and intentional communication. Singleness offers room for growth, clarity, and joy when we stay rooted in our identity in Christ. If you’re navigating self-worth, relationships, or singleness, this message is for you. Press play, listen now, and let God’s truth redefine your identity and reshape how you view this season.