Are You Being Present?

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This podcast exists to bring awareness to what it means to be present, and to offer encouragement for choosing it, again and again. Presence is not something that happens to you. It is a choice you make, moment by moment, over and over, away from the pull of the ego and back into what is actually here. Each episode looks at a different piece of that work: the habits, the programs, the tools of the ego that pull you out of the present moment, and what it takes to come back to it. You have a choice. Choose to be present.

  1. 4 jul

    Episode 107 - The Most Important Relationship You'll Ever Have Is Between You and You

    The most important relationship you will ever have is the one between you and you. Until you do your ego work, you are your ego. It uses your voice in your head to make you believe it is you, but it is a component of your personality, not the authentic version of you underneath it. This episode looks at why that relationship gets overlooked. We are raised to focus on relationships with family, teachers, and peers, and rarely encouraged to focus on how we treat ourselves, how we talk to ourselves, how we see ourselves. Would you ever let anyone talk to you the way you talk to yourself? Many people are in self-abusive relationships with themselves, and that has everything to do with an ego running amok. Before self-love, there is self-acceptance. That is step one, and it requires introspection, taking ownership of what has led up to this present moment without projecting onto or blaming others. You cannot change the past. It must be accepted. The only thing that is real is this present moment, and the relationship that matters most is the one within you. This is not about fighting the ego. It is about seeing it, watching it, letting it be, and then talking to yourself the way you deserve. The relationship between you and you is tier one. Get that right, and everything else and everyone else benefits. Remember, you have a choice. Choose to be Present!

    Episode 107 - The Most Important Relationship You'll Ever Have Is Between You and You

  2. 1 jul

    Episode 106 - Anticipation Is a Tool of the Ego

    Anticipation is such a common tool, such a common motivator, such a common behavior. We anticipate things we perceive as good, bad, and indifferent, sometimes all three together. But what is anticipation actually doing to us, and how is it affecting the present moment itself? This episode makes the case that anticipation is a tool of the ego, one that becomes a presence roadblock. It brings something into the present moment so we can prepare for an eventuality we think is coming, but rarely does anticipation lead to exactly what happens when that moment arrives. It overlays and shadows the present with a version of the future built from the past, and it runs on the promise that preparing for an outcome will protect you from it. In reality, all you have is the present moment itself. This is not about judging yourself for anticipating. It is such a frequently used ego program that it becomes a knee jerk reaction, used in more scenarios than you could list. The work is simply to see it for what it is, to recognize when you are doing it, and to ask whether it is really helping you or just detracting from your ability to be present now. The message is simple. Stop anticipating. Be present. When that present moment comes in the future, you will deal with it then. You do not need to prepare for a present moment that is not happening now. Stay focused on what is in front of your face. Don't be hard on yourself, but stop anticipating. Be present, stay focused, and all will be well.

    Episode 106 - Anticipation Is a Tool of the Ego

  3. 28 feb

    Episode 105 - Seeking External Validation Is a Tool of the Ego

    External validation feels good. But what happens when it runs out? This episode explores one of the ego's most powerful and pervasive traps: the endless pursuit of external validation. From the praise of parents and teachers in childhood to the approval of employers, spouses, and peers in adulthood, most of us have been deeply conditioned to measure our worth through the eyes of others. And the ego knows exactly how to exploit that. External validation can never be a sustainable source of confidence, because by its very nature, it isn't limitless. When the praise stops, the anxiety begins. When the confirmation disappears, the ego moves in with doubt, fear, and internal chaos. This episode takes an honest look at how this ego program shows up in everyday life, from professional settings and personal relationships to the extreme highs and lows of fame. It also examines why even well-intentioned advice-seeking can become a subtle form of outsourcing your own agency. The antidote? Internal validation, the practice of affirming, assuring, and praising yourself from within, especially when the ego is loudest. In this episode you'll explore: Why the ego creates doubt to manufacture a need for external approval How the "vacuum effect" of external validation fuels anxiety and depression What internal validation actually looks and feels like in practice How to endure difficult present moments with objectivity and grace Why self-affirmation has a lasting power that external praise never will You already know more than you think you do. This episode is an invitation to trust it. Remember, you have a choice. Choose to be Present!

    Episode 105 - Seeking External Validation Is a Tool of the Ego

  4. 22 feb

    Episode 104 - Identifying Ego Programs in the Present Moment

    Ego programs run like computer viruses in the background of your mind, silently sabotaging your present moment and creating self-inflicted suffering. Drawing from 15 years of clinical observation across 103 podcast episodes, this deep dive reveals what ego programs are, how to identify them in real time, and why they keep you trapped in patterns that have nothing to do with reality as it actually is. "I am sick." "I'm not enough." "I don't have enough." These aren't truths - they're programs installed during trauma and hardship that your ego weaponizes against you relentlessly. Learn to recognize the difference between what's actually happening in front of you and the distorted lens your ego forces you to see through. Discover why being the objective observer - watching thoughts without judgment, criticism, or attachment - is your primary defense against these insidious patterns. Explore practical presence tools including meditation, journaling, affirmations, and binaural beats to create the crucial gap between you and your ego programs. This isn't about fighting your ego or winning battles - it's about building a different relationship with the programs that dominate your inner reality and mirror themselves in your outer world. Start with one or two dominant programs. Be patient. Be graceful with yourself. The effort matters more than the results, and presence gives you the clarity to finally see what's been running you your entire life. Remember, you have a choice. Choose to be Present!

    Episode 104 - Identifying Ego Programs in the Present Moment

  5. 19 feb

    Episode 103 - "I Am Sick" Is a Program of the Ego

    "I am sick" isn't a statement of fact - it's an ego program that makes you become the very illness you claim. This episode examines how the powerful declaration "I am" followed by "sick" creates ownership of disease rather than acknowledging temporary imbalance. Drawing from 15 years of clinical observation and personal experience, we explore how this pervasive ego tool keeps you trapped in fear, stress, and perpetual scanning for problems. Your mind obsesses over every ache, convincing you something is fundamentally wrong when you're simply having a human experience in a body that naturally fluctuates. Learn to distinguish between not feeling well and declaring yourself sick, between experiencing symptoms and becoming identified with disease. This isn't about denying legitimate health challenges or trivializing suffering - it's about uprooting the mental virus that amplifies discomfort into identity and spreads to everyone around you.  Discover how to reframe your language, reclaim your health, and remove this deeply ingrained program from your vocabulary. The present moment offers you clarity to see this ego tool for what it truly is: a presence obstruction keeping you from living freely. Remember, you have a choice. Choose to be Present!

    Episode 103 - "I Am Sick" Is a Program of the Ego

  6. 19 feb

    Episode 102 - Stop Catastrophizing, Be Present!

    What if most of your suffering is self-inflicted? Catastrophizing robs you of the present moment by spinning worst-case scenarios that never materialize. Your mind creates entire disasters from nothing, projecting distorted memories onto an imagined future while reality unfolds peacefully right in front of you. This episode cuts through the madness. Drawing from thousands of clinical observations and hard-won personal insight, we expose catastrophizing as a relentless ego program designed solely to eject you from presence. You've done this countless times, yet how often has the catastrophe actually happened? Learn why your mind insists on this protective behavior despite its complete ineffectiveness, and discover practical presence tools to create distance between you and your spiraling thoughts. The work requires dedication, but through consistent practice you can reclaim your present moments and end unnecessary suffering. This is your opportunity to stop the madness and see clearly: all is well, and all is unfolding exactly as it should, right here, right now. Remember, you have a choice. Choose to be Present!

    Episode 102 - Stop Catastrophizing, Be Present!

  7. 16 feb

    Episode 101 - Embracing Change in the Present Moment

    Change is inevitable, but our resistance to it creates suffering. In this episode, we explore why we struggle with change, how safety and comfort keep us trapped in familiar patterns, and what it means to embrace change with presence instead of fear. Drawing from personal experiences with injury, observations from clinic work with aging patients and career transitions, and practical presence tools, this conversation offers a path toward seeing change not as something happening TO you, but FOR you. Whether you're navigating a career shift, physical limitations, or unexpected life transitions, this episode provides grounded wisdom on moving through change with less resistance and more clarity. Remember, you have a choice. Choose to be Present!

    Episode 101 - Embracing Change in the Present Moment

  8. 13 feb

    Episode 100 -Experiencing the Life Reset Button With Presence

    What happens when everything you've built disappears overnight? This episode explores the profound experience of having your life reset button pushed - when natural disasters, loss, business failure, or sudden upheaval rips the floor out from under you. Speaking from direct experience of total loss and what I call "super survival mode," we examine how presence becomes both the most important and most difficult practice during extreme crisis. This isn't spiritual bypassing or toxic positivity... it's an honest look at grief, resistance, endurance, and the slow work of accepting what you never wanted. For anyone navigating their own reset right now, this episode offers empathy, practical tools, and the reminder that though it feels endless, this moment will not last forever.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​ Remember, you have a choice... Choose to be present!

    Episode 100 -Experiencing the Life Reset Button With Presence
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This podcast exists to bring awareness to what it means to be present, and to offer encouragement for choosing it, again and again. Presence is not something that happens to you. It is a choice you make, moment by moment, over and over, away from the pull of the ego and back into what is actually here. Each episode looks at a different piece of that work: the habits, the programs, the tools of the ego that pull you out of the present moment, and what it takes to come back to it. You have a choice. Choose to be present.

Informatie

  • Maker
    The Presence Projects
  • Jaren actief
    2016 - 2026
  • Afleveringen
    107
  • Beoordeling
    Veilig
  • Website van aflevering
    Are You Being Present?

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