Bark Dialogue

Lae Monier, dog behaviourist
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Dog trainer & behaviourist. New, exciting, fun, and effective ways to be, view, and play with our dogs and animals through outdoor enrichment activities. To help our dogs we have to make sure that all their needs, instincts, mental, and physical, are satisfied.  Chill Paws, behaviourist offers the skills and techniques to do just that because "training" is a one way communication. To help our dogs, we need to learn and maintain a conversation with our dogs. A conversation involves listening to and observing our dogs understanding what they're saying.  Education will help reduce animal-human incidents.  Specialises in anxiety, reactivity, and aggression. 

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  1. 6 dgn geleden

    Think Before Following the Herd

    Send us Fan Mail This week's podcast urges dog handlers to think for themselves. This is due to research on flea treatments like fipronil, which many vets avoid due to environmental harm and doubts about their effectiveness. Lae Monier challenges the reader/listener to stop following the crowd and start asking tough questions. This mindset isn’t just for flea control—it’s crucial for every aspect of caring for our dogs, from walks in the heat to training and feeding. By staying curious and informed, we protect our animals, wildlife, and the environment. The key takeaway? Use your brain, question the norm, and make choices that truly benefit your dog and the world around them. More canine advice/info/learning tips on the following media: • TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chill.paws.dog.tr?_t=ZN-8zpycjozz4I&_r=1 • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/laedogtrainer?igsh=MXR4MGN3ODhwaW1jcw== • FB: https://www.facebook.com/share/1D2mTUCx7E/ • YouTube: www.youtube.com/@chillpawsdogtraineruk1024 • website: http://laemonie8.wixsite.com/mysite • website: https://chillpaws-zfzxmfzz.manus.space

  2. 28 jun

    Summer Dogs: Heat, Exercise, and Smarter Management

    Send us Fan Mail Hello, fellow dog lovers and fitness enthusiasts! I’m Lae Monier, behaviourist, and today we’re diving into how to keep our canine companions safe and happy during those long, warm summer days. Summer is a fantastic time for fun and activities with our dogs, but heat demands extra awareness, smart planning, and good management. Let’s explore how to enjoy the season without risking over-exercising or overheating. (Transition) Exercising in the Heat: Keep It Smart When it comes to summer exercise, location matters just as much as temperature. Look for areas with three things: water, grass, and shade. Water is important, but water alone won’t prevent heatstroke. Shade allows the body to regulate away from direct sunlight, and grass offers a cooler, softer surface than tarmac for paws. In warm weather, the goal isn’t always to do less. It’s to do it smarter. (Transition) Beware of Hot Pavements Dog paws are resilient, but hot pavements can cause serious burns and discomfort. If you’re walking on a warm day, use grassy edges or shaded paths wherever possible. If you need to travel to a better location, even a short drive can be safer than a long walk on burning tarmac. Sometimes changing the environment is the smartest choice you can make. (Transition) The Power of Swimming Swimming is one of the best summer exercises for dogs. It’s a demanding full-body workout that builds strength, confidence, body awareness, and coordination without the impact of repetitive ground work. It also supports joint mobility, muscle development, and overall physical conditioning. But beyond the physical, swimming teaches adaptation. Water changes how a dog moves, thinks, and solves problems. That makes it powerful not just for fitness, but for confidence and behavioural development too. (Transition) Smart Car Travel Tips Travelling in warm weather needs proper management. Ventilation is essential. Fresh airflow, access to water, and sensible journey planning make a huge difference. Always carry: fresh drinking water, a water bowl, and a spray bottle. Spraying the underbelly, chest, and paws with cool water can help regulate body temperature and improve comfort for shorter journeys. If traffic stops and you’re stationary in direct heat, keep monitoring. Watch the ears, breathing, and overall energy. Heat stress can escalate quickly. (Transition) Reading the Signs Dogs still need exercise in summer. Physical movement and mental stimulation remain important. But we have to adapt how we provide it. Watch for: excessive panting, slowing down, glazed eyes, heavy fatigue, or loss of focus. If you see those signs, stop. Sit down. Use shade. Use water. Let the dog recover. Sometimes the best training decision is simply knowing when enough is enough. With awareness and preparation, summer can still be full of safe, rewarding adventures. (Transition) Until Next Time Thanks for joining me on this episode of Bark Dialogue. Keep learning, watching, and building those beautiful conversations with the animals sharing your life. More canine advice/info/learning tips on the following media: • TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chill.paws.dog.tr?_t=ZN-8zpycjozz4I&_r=1 • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/laedogtrainer?igsh=MXR4MGN3ODhwaW1jcw== • FB: https://www.facebook.com/share/1D2mTUCx7E/ • YouTube: www.youtube.com/@chillpawsdogtraineruk1024 • website: http://laemonie8.wixsite.com/mysite • website: https://chillpaws-zfzxmfzz.manus.space

  3. 21 jun

    Paws Before Penalties: Rethinking How We Care for Dogs

    Send us Fan Mail Hello, fellow dog lovers and fitness enthusiasts. I'm Lae Monier, behaviourist. Paws Before Penalties: Rethinking How We Care for DogsAs the UK prepares for new laws coming into effect on 29 June 2026, which will empower local councils to increase penalties for dog walkers, the debate around responsible dog guardianship is gaining momentum. It might seem straightforward that harsher fines would encourage better behaviour, but are they really the solution? Or are we risking punishing dogs for mistakes made by their humans? On the surface, stricter penalties appear justified—rules exist to be followed, and when they’re broken, consequences naturally follow. However, simply imposing fines on dog guardians misses the core problem: a widespread lack of education and understanding about what responsible dog care truly entails. The Limits of Punishment Dogs don’t make the laws; people do. When those laws don’t address the real needs of dogs, it is the dogs who bear the burden. If a dog’s behaviour is challenging because their guardian doesn’t understand canine communication or has unrealistic expectations, fining the guardian is like treating the symptom rather than curing the cause. While fines may generate revenue for councils or give the appearance of action, they rarely lead to meaningful change. Instead, they can alienate conscientious guardians and do little to guide those who most need support. The Real Cost: Ignorance Animal welfare professionals witness the consequences daily—dogs being surrendered due to behaviours that are normal but misunderstood, families overwhelmed by challenges they weren’t prepared for, and behavioural issues escalating because early warning signs were ignored. Many of these heartbreaks could be prevented through better education. Consider this: In nearly every other area of responsibility, education is compulsory. We train for careers, prepare for professions, and pass tests to drive cars. Yet anyone can bring a dog home without learning the basics of animal welfare. This knowledge gap contributes to overcrowded rescue centres, community conflicts, and worst of all, animals suffering needlessly. Education: The Key to Prevention To genuinely improve the lives of dogs and the communities they share, we need to shift focus from punishment to prevention. Instead of waiting for problems and imposing fines, let’s equip future dog guardians with essential knowledge upfront. Imagine schools teaching children to read canine body language and respect animal boundaries. Picture every adult who wants a dog completing a standardized course covering dog communication, welfare needs, positive training methods, and legal responsibilities. This kind of education doesn’t just prepare families—it empowers them to make informed choices, reducing future problems and giving dogs a better chance at happy, healthy lives. Accountability Without Blame Of course, education alone isn’t enough without accountability. But accountability can focus on human readiness rather than blaming the dog. For example, refusing mandatory education could mean not being allowed to get a dog. Passing an assessment could prove a prospective guardian truly understands the commitment involved. This approach isn’t about creating obstacles—it’s about ensuring those who choose to bring a dog into their lives are equipped to provide safe, compassionate care. Responsibility must rest where it belongs: with the person making that choice. Looking Ahead When knowledge replaces fines as the priority, everyone wins. Communities become safer, rescue centres see fewer preventable surrenders, professionals can focus on more complex behavioural challenges, and councils save resources on enforcement. Most importantly, dogs receive the loving, informed care they deserve. So before we ask how much to fine people, let’s ask how better to prepare them. Protecting dogs requires more than reactive laws; it demands proactive education and thoughtful support. Here’s to a future where paws are protected through knowledge, not penalties. Until next time, keep learning, watching and building those beautiful conversations with the animals sharing your life... More canine advice/info/learning tips on the following media: • TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chill.paws.dog.tr?_t=ZN-8zpycjozz4I&_r=1 • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/laedogtrainer?igsh=MXR4MGN3ODhwaW1jcw== • FB: https://www.facebook.com/share/1D2mTUCx7E/ • YouTube: www.youtube.com/@chillpawsdogtraineruk1024 • website: http://laemonie8.wixsite.com/mysite • website: https://chillpaws-zfzxmfzz.manus.space

  4. 14 jun

    Facing the Perfect Storm in UK Animal Welfare

    Send us Fan Mail Welcome to this week’s reflection inspired by the latest episode of Bark Dialogue hosted by behaviorist Lae Monier. If you’ve ever wondered what’s really going on behind the scenes of animal rescue centers in the UK, this conversation is a must-hear. I unpack the troubling “perfect storm” gripping these centers—a mix of post-lockdown dog surges and a harsh cost-of-living crisis that’s stretching resources and hearts to their limits. It’s a story that goes beyond economics and numbers. It’s about the complex behavioral challenges of the pandemic dogs, the emotional toll on rescue workers, and a call to rethink how we relate to dogs altogether. Let’s dive in. The Perfect Storm: More Than Just Space Owen Sharp, CEO of Dogs Trust, recently sounded a distress call about rescue centers overwhelmed with dogs and inquiries skyrocketing to 50,000 a year. But here’s the twist: it’s not just about having too many dogs. The “lockdown dogs” brought home during pandemic isolation are now showing difficult behaviors that many owners, squeezed financially and emotionally, struggle to manage. Rescue centers are forced to make heartbreaking decisions—turning away healthy dogs simply because there’s no room. And behind these decisions are staff facing a mental health crisis, witnessing daily heartbreak. This isn’t just an emergency to be managed; it’s a failure in education and understanding of dog behavior. From Owners to Guardians: Changing the Conversation I call for the shift from calling people “owners” to “guardians” of dogs. The word “owner” can imply a transactional relationship—as if dogs are commodities to be bought, used, and discarded when times get tough. “Guardian,” on the other hand, suggests a deep responsibility for a living, feeling being. This shift also challenges unethical breeding practices that emphasize looks over health. Many dogs end up in rescues due to inherited spinal, skin, and eye conditions caused by prioritizing “cuteness” over quality of life. I advocate for industry standards that focus on innate health assessments to ensure dogs are bred for wellbeing, not trends. Education: The Most Powerful Vaccine The ultimate solution lies in education. Imagine a future where animal welfare and dog communication are part of the UK national curriculum—where children learn to “speak dog” before bringing one home. This foundational knowledge could prevent many behavioral issues before they start. For rescue centers, I argue that simple checks like verifying a fenced yard aren’t enough. Potential adopters need to be evaluated on their personality, behavioral literacy, and willingness to seek professional help when needed. Early intervention and normalizing asking for help could stop many surrenders before they happen. A Heartfelt Call to Action Owen Sharp’s warning is a heartbreaking one, but it’s also a rallying cry for change. This crisis can be prevented if we stop looking for quick fixes and start building a foundation of education, respect, and true communication between humans and dogs. Thank you for joining this conversation at Bark Dialogue. Let’s turn the page from rescue crises to a future where understanding and care lead the way. Until next time, keep listening, learning, and loving our four-legged friends. More canine advice/info/learning tips on the following media: • TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chill.paws.dog.tr?_t=ZN-8zpycjozz4I&_r=1 • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/laedogtrainer?igsh=MXR4MGN3ODhwaW1jcw== • FB: https://www.facebook.com/share/1D2mTUCx7E/ • YouTube: www.youtube.com/@chillpawsdogtraineruk1024 • website: http://laemonie8.wixsite.com/mysite • website: https://chillpaws-zfzxmfzz.manus.space

  5. 6 jun

    The Dangerous Gap In UK Dog Breeding Enforcement

    Send us Fan Mail Today, we’re talking about something deeply important for anyone who truly cares about dogs — not just loving them emotionally, but protecting their long-term health, welfare, and quality of life. A major new report, jointly released by the University of Exeter and the Naturewatch Foundation, has uncovered SERIOUS FAILURES in how local councils enforce dog breeding welfare laws across the UK. And honestly… the findings are alarming. Because while the law technically exists to prevent the breeding of dogs with severe genetic disorders or extreme physical deformities, the reality is that enforcement appears to be inconsistent, fragmented, and in many cases, practically invisible. More canine advice/info/learning tips on the following media: • TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chill.paws.dog.tr?_t=ZN-8zpycjozz4I&_r=1 • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/laedogtrainer?igsh=MXR4MGN3ODhwaW1jcw== • FB: https://www.facebook.com/share/1D2mTUCx7E/ • YouTube: www.youtube.com/@chillpawsdogtraineruk1024 • website: http://laemonie8.wixsite.com/mysite • website: https://chillpaws-zfzxmfzz.manus.space

  6. 26 mei

    The Reality of Rescue Centres

    Send us Fan Mail There is a common implication that these centres are havens for dogs. It’s an idea that gets glorified on social media, but I want everyone who thinks rescue centres are the answer to the dog crisis to actually THINK. If these organisations were truly the answer, the number of animals in need would have decreased to almost zero by now. Instead, even with major groups like the RSPCA, Blue Cross, and Dogs Trust operating for decades, the plight of dogs is actually getting worse. The Behaviourist’s Perspective: The reality is that for many of these organisations, the main concern is money and revenue. They use dogs to bring in funding. They make you feel sorry for an animal by highlighting the most desperate cases, while doing as little research as possible on the background of potential adopters. They assign dogs to almost anyone who wants one, which is not the conduct of an organisation truly on the side of the animal. The Proposal for Reform: The first thing a rescue centre should do to help is provide education. I believe that the moment someone looks at a dog, they should be given an extensive questionnaire. This shouldn't just be a formality; it needs to be a deep dive into their experience and knowledge of dog behaviour in various situations. Centres avoid this because they say it "stifles" adoption—but I say, good! It should be a lengthy process because, right now, rescue dogs are being assigned to handlers who should be 100 miles away from a dog. The Role of the Behaviourist: Furthermore, if an adopter passes that questionnaire, the next step must involve spending significant time—days, weeks, or even months—with the centre’s behaviourist. I should note that while many centres claim to have a behaviourist, in reality, none of them actually do. A real professional would help the adopter and the dog experience different situations together. This is vital for reactive or aggressive dogs, where the behaviourist can provide careful training on how to manage and overcome challenging situations. Breaking the Cycle of Anxiety: We also have to talk about temperament vetting. Many adopters are unsuitable because they have an anxious or neurotic disposition. When you assign an anxious dog to an anxious handler, you create a cycle where the dog remains "forever anxious," unable to walk or meet others calmly. This is the reality for dogs in these centres right now. They have turned from good intentions into money-making enterprises run by unscrupulous individuals. A Call for Systematic Change: To fix this at the root, we need to look toward the future. I want to remind everyone of the petition to implement animal and environmental education in all UK schools. We must educate people on animal-human communication and environmental responsibility from a young age to ensure they understand the gravity of these roles. Before you support a rescue centre, I am asking you to THINK.  Hi, would you like to sign a petition to IMPLEMENT ANIMAL AND ENVIRONMENTAL WELFARE EDUCATION IN UK SCHOOLS?  I, Lae Monier, a dedicated behaviourist from Chill Paws, who has launched a petition calling for animal and environmental welfare education to be included in UK school curriculums. It’s an issue that touches on compassion, safety, and the future of our planet. Working as a behaviourist, I have witnessed firsthand troubling signs of apathy toward animals. This isn’t just about hurt feelings; it’s about a worrying increase in human-dog incidents across the UK, often fueled by a simple lack of understanding. Too many of us don’t know how to read animal behaviour or interact with them respectfully, which can lead to dangerous situations. The solution? Education. I propose a dedicated school curriculum that teaches children not just about animal welfare but also environmental stewardship. It’s about planting the seeds of empathy and responsibility early on. When children learn to appreciate animals and the environment as interconnected parts of life, they grow into adults who treat these precious resources with care and respect. Data from countries with established animal welfare education programs show promising results—less animal abuse, safer interactions between humans and animals, and a more informed public. Imagine how transformative it would be for UK schools to offer children practical lessons on kindness to animals alongside environmental education. This would empower young people to make safer, more compassionate choices every day. Moreover, combining animal welfare with environmental education highlights how everything in nature is linked. Understanding these connections is crucial as we face global challenges like climate change and biodiversity loss. Educating children about these topics is an investment in a future where humans and the natural world can thrive together. My petition is a call to action for educational authorities to embrace this change and make animal and environmental welfare a cornerstone of learning. By signing, you’re not just supporting a curriculum change—you’re joining a movement to create a kinder, safer, and more sustainable world for generations to come. If this resonates with you, please take a moment to sign and share the petition. Together, we can help shape a future where compassion and knowledge go hand in hand. Sign here: https://c.org/pvS8tVJGcP Share here: https://c.org/TwxqZRYNPy Thanks for reading and caring.  More canine advice/info/learning tips on the following media: • TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chill.paws.dog.tr?_t=ZN-8zpycjozz4I&_r=1 • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/laedogtrainer?igsh=MXR4MGN3ODhwaW1jcw== • FB: https://www.facebook.com/share/1D2mTUCx7E/ • YouTube: www.youtube.com/@chillpawsdogtraineruk1024 • website: http://laemonie8.wixsite.com/mysite • website: https://chillpaws-zfzxmfzz.manus.space

  7. 17 mei

    The Truth Behind The Dog Breed Ban Rumours

    Send us Fan Mail Despite recent viral reports, the UK government is not banning 67 dog breeds but rather introducing a voluntary health assessment to improve animal welfare. This new Innate Health Assessment evaluates dogs based on physical traits to ensure that extreme breeding for cosmetic features does not lead to lifelong suffering. The initiative focuses on regulating commercial breeders to prevent the breeding of dogs with harmful traits, such as flat faces or spinal issues. Popular pets such as Dachshunds and French Bulldogs are included in media lists because they often possess these exaggerated traits, yet existing family pets remain entirely unaffected. The primary objective is to reform breeding standards so that future generations are born healthier, rather than eliminating these breeds. Currently, legal restrictions only apply to specific breeds under the Dangerous Dogs Act, and this new tool does not change that legislation. IMPLEMENT ANIMAL & ENVIRONMENTAL WELFARE EDUCATION IN UK SCHOOLS I am a behaviourist, and in my work, I witness alarming levels of uncaring behaviour towards animals. This trend is deeply concerning, particularly as we face a rise in human-dog attacks across the UK. The root cause of these incidents often boils down to ignorance about how to appropriately understand and interact with animals. To address this critical issue, I propose the integration of a dedicated curriculum focused on animal and environmental welfare in all UK schools. Education is the most potent tool we have; by instilling knowledge and compassion for animals and the environment in our children, we can nurture a more empathetic and responsible society. Statistics show that countries with comprehensive animal welfare education programs see a decrease in animal abuse and improved relationships between humans and animals. Introducing such a curriculum in UK schools would not only educate children about the importance of kindness and empathy towards animals but also provide them with practical skills to interact safely and respectfully with different species. Moreover, coupling animal welfare with environmental education highlights the interconnectedness of living organisms and our planet, empowering future generations to make informed, sustainable choices. In a world facing climate change and biodiversity loss, cultivating respect for nature is vital. Let's urge educational authorities to prioritize this proposal, placing animal and environmental welfare education at the heart of the curriculum. By signing this petition, you join a movement towards creating a more harmonious coexistence between humans and animals, ensuring our planet's health for years to come. Your support can help pave the way for a more compassionate and knowledgeable future generation. Let's make this change happen—please sign and share this petition to make a difference. https://c.org/pvS8tVJGcP https://c.org/TwxqZRYNPy More canine advice/info/learning tips on the following media: • TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chill.paws.dog.tr?_t=ZN-8zpycjozz4I&_r=1 • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/laedogtrainer?igsh=MXR4MGN3ODhwaW1jcw== • FB: https://www.facebook.com/share/1D2mTUCx7E/ • YouTube: www.youtube.com/@chillpawsdogtraineruk1024 • website: http://laemonie8.wixsite.com/mysite • website: https://chillpaws-zfzxmfzz.manus.space

  8. 10 mei

    Why Animal and Environmental Welfare Education Is Crucial for Our Schools

    Send us Fan Mail Welcome to this week’s spotlight on a cause that’s close to my heart—and hopefully soon, to yours too. Today, we dive into a vital initiative led by me, Lae Monier, a dedicated behaviourist from Chill Paws, who has launched a petition calling for animal and environmental welfare education to be included in UK school curriculums. It’s an issue that touches on compassion, safety, and the future of our planet. Working as a behaviourist, I have witnessed firsthand troubling signs of apathy toward animals. This isn’t just about hurt feelings; it’s about a worrying increase in human-dog incidents across the UK, often fueled by a simple lack of understanding. Too many of us don’t know how to read animal behaviour or interact with them respectfully, which can lead to dangerous situations. The solution? Education. I propose a dedicated school curriculum that teaches children not just about animal welfare but also environmental stewardship. It’s about planting the seeds of empathy and responsibility early on. When children learn to appreciate animals and the environment as interconnected parts of life, they grow into adults who treat these precious resources with care and respect. Data from countries with established animal welfare education programs show promising results—less animal abuse, safer interactions between humans and animals, and a more informed public. Imagine how transformative it would be for UK schools to offer children practical lessons on kindness to animals alongside environmental education. This would empower young people to make safer, more compassionate choices every day. Moreover, combining animal welfare with environmental education highlights how everything in nature is linked. Understanding these connections is crucial as we face global challenges like climate change and biodiversity loss. Educating children about these topics is an investment in a future where humans and the natural world can thrive together. My petition is a call to action for educational authorities to embrace this change and make animal and environmental welfare a cornerstone of learning. By signing, you’re not just supporting a curriculum change—you’re joining a movement to create a kinder, safer, and more sustainable world for generations to come. If this resonates with you, please take a moment to sign and share the petition. Together, we can help shape a future where compassion and knowledge go hand in hand. Sign here: https://c.org/pvS8tVJGcP Share here: https://c.org/TwxqZRYNPy Thanks for reading and caring. Stay tuned for more insights and stories that matter next week—we’re all in this together. More canine advice/info/learning tips on the following media: • TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chill.paws.dog.tr?_t=ZN-8zpycjozz4I&_r=1 • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/laedogtrainer?igsh=MXR4MGN3ODhwaW1jcw== • FB: https://www.facebook.com/share/1D2mTUCx7E/ • YouTube: www.youtube.com/@chillpawsdogtraineruk1024 • website: http://laemonie8.wixsite.com/mysite • website: https://chillpaws-zfzxmfzz.manus.space

  9. 3 mei

    Are You Walking Your Dog All Wrong?

    Send us Fan Mail Behaviorist Lae Monier suggests walking your dog alone for deeper bonding and better training. While socializing with other handlers is enjoyable for humans, it can distract from focusing on your dog. Solo outings allow for richer communication, increased attentiveness, and a stronger connection, highlighting the importance of treating dogs as valued companions rather than accessories. More canine advice/info/learning tips on the following media: • TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chill.paws.dog.tr?_t=ZN-8zpycjozz4I&_r=1 • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/laedogtrainer?igsh=MXR4MGN3ODhwaW1jcw== • FB: https://www.facebook.com/share/1D2mTUCx7E/ • YouTube: www.youtube.com/@chillpawsdogtraineruk1024 • website: http://laemonie8.wixsite.com/mysite • website: https://chillpaws-zfzxmfzz.manus.space

  10. 26 apr

    Start Strong: Why Early Communication with Your Dog Matters

    Send us Fan Mail Welcome back to the blog, fellow dog lovers! If you’ve ever found yourself scratching your head over your dog’s puzzling behavior or wondering why training feels like an uphill battle, this week’s post is just for you. We’re diving into some insightful advice from renowned behaviourist Lae Monier, who highlights the crucial importance of establishing clear communication with your dog right from the very first meeting. It’s tempting to think that training can wait until your pup is a bit older, or that some behaviors will fade over time. But Monier warns us against this common trap. Waiting until a dog’s behavior becomes unmanageable often means dealing with deep-rooted habits that are much tougher to change later on. Think of it like trying to rewrite a story after the ink has dried—much harder than drafting it fresh. The magic window? Puppyhood. This early stage is when dogs are naturally more open and adaptable, making it the perfect time for us guardians to lay down the foundations of structured communication. When you start training young, you’re not just teaching communication—you’re building a language that your dog understands and trusts. This foundation fosters a smoother, more harmonious relationship as they grow. Lae Monier doesn’t just advocate for early training; she champions a proactive approach rooted in consistency and patience. It’s about showing up every minute, hour, and day, speaking in a way your dog can follow, and nurturing their learning process with kindness. Skipping this step isn’t just a missed opportunity—it’s often the root of future behavioral challenges that could have been avoided. So, whether you’re welcoming a new puppy or reflecting on your current training routine, remember that early, steady communication is the key to long-term success. It’s not just about putting the onus on the dog; it’s about connection. Thanks for joining me this week! Next time, we’ll explore some fun, creative training exercises that strengthen the bond between you and your dog while keeping things enjoyable for both of you. Until then, keep those tails wagging and those conversations clear! More canine advice/info/learning tips on the following media: • TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chill.paws.dog.tr?_t=ZN-8zpycjozz4I&_r=1 • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/laedogtrainer?igsh=MXR4MGN3ODhwaW1jcw== • FB: https://www.facebook.com/share/1D2mTUCx7E/ • YouTube: www.youtube.com/@chillpawsdogtraineruk1024 • website: http://laemonie8.wixsite.com/mysite • website: https://chillpaws-zfzxmfzz.manus.space

  11. 20 apr

    Transforming Playtime into Powerful Impulse Control: A Behaviourist’s Take

    Send us Fan Mail Welcome back to another insightful week with Chill Paws! If you’ve ever watched your eager dog bolt after a thrown ball, full of boundless enthusiasm and zero hesitation, you’re not alone. But what if I told you that this simple game could actually become a subtle, effective training tool to help your dog master impulse control? Today, we’re diving into an intriguing exercise championed by Lae Monier, a seasoned behaviourist from Chill Paws. This technique takes the classic fetch game and turns it into a stepping stone for teaching dogs how to pause, think, and make more deliberate choices—a valuable life skill handy both at the park and in everyday life. Impulse Management: More Than Just Waiting At its core, impulse control is about helping dogs resist their instinctive urges in favour of more mindful behaviour. Lae’s approach centres on a straightforward, repeatable exercise: asking your dog to delay chasing a thrown object. Picture this—your dog sees the ball flying, but instead of immediately rushing after it, they are trained to hold back just for a moment, practising patience. This pause might seem tiny, but it’s a powerful signal to your dog’s brain. Instead of acting purely on impulse, your dog starts to engage in what you could call “cognitive self-regulation.” They learn to weigh the decision before pouncing, strengthening their mental discipline with every throw-and-wait cycle. How to Make It Work in Your Backyard Implementing this is less complicated than it sounds. Begin by tossing the ball a short distance and giving your dog a clear cue to wait—this could be a simple “stay” or “wait” command. As your dog holds back, make and hold eye contact to make the request more pressing, gradually increase the delay time and distance, keeping the exercise fun and engaging. The magic lies in consistency. With regular practice, your dog’s impulse control becomes sharper, turning a spontaneous burst of energy into a deliberate action. Plus, since it’s built into playtime, it doesn’t feel like a chore—just a fun challenge for your dog to conquer. Why This Matters Beyond the obvious benefit of a more controlled fetch session, this exercise can ripple into other areas of your dog’s behaviour. A dog that’s practised impulse control is better equipped to handle distractions, stay calm in busy environments, and respond thoughtfully rather than reactively. In short, it’s a building block for a well-balanced canine companion. Lae Monier’s insight reminds us how everyday activities, even something as simple as throwing a ball, hold untapped potential for behavioural growth. It’s a beautiful reminder that training doesn’t have to be stiff or boring—it can be integrated seamlessly into joyful moments of connection. So next time you grab that ball or frisbee, think about weaving in a little patience practice. Your dog’s brain—and your peace of mind—will thank you. Thanks for joining us this week! Stay tuned for our next post, where we’ll explore the canine conversation - a guide to dog-human communication—because every chill paw deserves a listening ear. Until then, happy playing and even happier training! More canine advice/info/learning tips on the following media: • TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chill.paws.dog.tr?_t=ZN-8zpycjozz4I&_r=1 • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/laedogtrainer?igsh=MXR4MGN3ODhwaW1jcw== • FB: https://www.facebook.com/share/1D2mTUCx7E/ • YouTube: www.youtube.com/@chillpawsdogtraineruk1024 • website: http://laemonie8.wixsite.com/mysite • website: https://chillpaws-zfzxmfzz.manus.space

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Dog trainer & behaviourist. New, exciting, fun, and effective ways to be, view, and play with our dogs and animals through outdoor enrichment activities. To help our dogs we have to make sure that all their needs, instincts, mental, and physical, are satisfied.  Chill Paws, behaviourist offers the skills and techniques to do just that because "training" is a one way communication. To help our dogs, we need to learn and maintain a conversation with our dogs. A conversation involves listening to and observing our dogs understanding what they're saying.  Education will help reduce animal-human incidents.  Specialises in anxiety, reactivity, and aggression. 

Informatie

  • Maker
    Lae Monier, dog behaviourist
  • Jaren actief
    2026
  • Afleveringen
    11
  • Beoordeling
    Veilig
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Bark Dialogue
  • Website van aflevering
    Bark Dialogue
  • Provider