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OCD therapists talk intrusive thoughts, scary themes, and why your brain can be a dick. If you are looking for reputable information that comes from some good friends then come and join us; Laura Mole and Jessica Hayes. Get involved by emailing ocdcollectiveuk@gmail.com and following us on Instagram @justcheckingpod to contribute towards features and to request that we cover what you want to hear. Disclaimer: This podcast provides educational information only and is not a substitute for professional mental health support.

  1. 11 uur geleden

    Does Trauma Cause OCD? EMDR, PTSD & Treatment Explained

    Does trauma cause OCD? We're answering the question everyone's been asking. This week Laura compares OCD to herpes (you'll have to listen to find out why), and we dig into the real relationship between trauma and OCD- including why OCD and PTSD get mixed up, what complex PTSD looks like alongside OCD, and how EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing) fits into treatment. We also tackle whether therapy itself can traumatise people, what recovery timelines actually look like, and answer your listener questions. Podcast by: Laura Mole, Adv. Dip, MBACP OCD specialist therapist and Jessica Hayes, Msc PGDip, BABCP Accred OCD and perinatal specialist therapist Edited by Christian Nickson Time Stamps: 00:40 Episode overview 01:30 Introduction and hello 03:00 EMDR therapy (Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing) Therapy 04:15 Brain Spam 07:40 What is trauma? 11:19 Trauma and OCD links 17:00 Does trauma cause OCD? 19:20 Why OCD and PTSD get mixed up sometimes 23:50 Complex PTSD and OCD 28:20 How treatment looks for OCD and trauma combined 35:42 Why we might use the trauma to understand the OCD 39:45 Can you do EMDR online? 44:00 Can we traumatise people in therapy? 48:30 Treatment length and recovery expectations  50:25 Question from the Listeners 57:00 Weekly Wins 57:46 Exposure Lab 59:30 Goodbyes Get in Touch: Got intrusive thoughts to share or questions for us: Email us at ocdcollectiveuk@gmail.com Follow us on Instagram and Tiktok: @justcheckingpod For our individual OCD pages, you can find Laura on Tiktok and Instagram as @ocdtherapylaura and Jess as @jess_helps_your_ocd Please check out our privacy policy: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1YJZ4Sdh4OpxjRR9twGY6dOMH9n55Mq6qTqLBxOtN3Fw/edit?usp=sharing  Content Warnings: We do reference some thoughts that people may find distressing so please listen with caution if this is you, and take a break if you need to.  Disclaimer: This podcast provides educational content only and is not a substitute for professional mental health support, please contact a mental health professional for advice and support.

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  2. 30 jun

    Sex & OCD: Intrusive Thoughts, Compulsions & Taboo Fears Explained

    Sex and OCD; the topic everyone's thinking about but nobody wants to bring up in session. Jess and Laura get into how sex shows up across intrusive thoughts and compulsions, the impact on relationships and intimacy, and the trickier corners like groinal responses, kink fears, and bestiality-themed intrusions. They also talk SSRIs, communication, and why therapists need to get comfortable bringing sex into the room. Podcast by: Laura Mole, Adv. Dip, MBACP OCD specialist therapist and Jessica Hayes, Msc PGDip, BABCP Accred OCD and perinatal specialist therapist Edited by Christian Nickson Content Warnings: We do reference some thoughts that people may find distressing so please listen with caution if this is you, and take a break if you need to. Please be aware that this episode contains sexual themes, listener discretion advised. Disclaimer: This podcast provides educational content only and is not a substitute for professional mental health support, please contact a mental health professional for advice and support. Time Stamps: 00:40 What today covers  01:50 Hello and catch up 03:10 Brain Spam 06:34 How sex shows up in intrusive thoughts 09:50 Sex in compulsions  15:20 How common these thoughts can be 21:10 Communication around sex 26:03 The impact of OCD on relationships and intimacy  28:20 Casual relationships and dating 28:50 Bestiality fears 29:44 Groinal response 32:18 SSRIs, sex, and OCD 39:12 Fears around kink 42:00 How we bring sex into the therapy room 47:19 Trauma and sex with OCD 48:00 Culture, religion and values on sex and OCD 51:20 Question from the listeners 54:11 Weekly Win 54:50 Exposure Lab 56:36 Goodbyes Get in Touch: Got intrusive thoughts to share or questions for us: Email us at ocdcollectiveuk@gmail.com Follow us on Instagram and Tiktok: @justcheckingpod For our individual OCD pages, you can find Laura on Tiktok and Instagram as @ocdtherapylaura and Jess as @jess_helps_your_ocd Please check out our privacy policy: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1YJZ4Sdh4OpxjRR9twGY6dOMH9n55Mq6qTqLBxOtN3Fw/edit?usp=sharing

    58 min.
  3. 23 jun

    Harm OCD: When Your Brain Screams "Monster" (You're Not One), Loss of Control, and/or Bad Things Happening to Loved Ones

    If your intrusive thoughts have ever convinced you that you're secretly dangerous- welcome to Harm OCD. This is the subtype that makes loving, gentle people terrified of their own minds. This week Jess and Laura dig into one of the most misunderstood and shame-soaked corners of OCD- where caring deeply about not hurting anyone gets twisted into "proof" that you might. Harm OCD can include a fear of harming others, yourself, or a fear that harm will/has come to others because of you- this episode explores it all. We talk about what these thoughts actually sound like, why "possible" doesn't mean "probable," and why your brain treats a passing thought like a five-alarm fire. We also get into the messier stuff- anger, allergy and poisoning fears, and the compulsions that quietly creep in when you're trying to "just be sure."  Plus: what real exposure work looks like for harm OCD, how to rebuild trust in yourself, and why badly-pitched exposures can do more harm than good. As always, there's Brain Spam, an Exposure Lab, a listener question, and a bit of social media chaos courtesy of Laura. Trigger warning: Please note that this episode contains discussions around harm and suicide, so please listen with caution. Podcast by: Laura Mole, Adv. Dip, MBACP OCD specialist therapist and Jessica Hayes, Msc PGDip, BABCP Accred OCD and perinatal specialist therapist Edited by Christian Nickson Time Stamps: 00:34 What we cover today 01:26 Hellos and introductions 02:42 Brain Spam 07:02 What harm OCD thoughts sound like 08:06 Compulsions in harm OCD  08:57 Harm OCD misunderstandings 10:00 What if you experience anger with harm OCD? 11:14 Common harm OCD themes 12:29 Possible vs probable 13:56 The meaning of harm OCD themes 16:10 Why does it feel so real? 18:10 How do we know you won't hurt someone? 19:45 OCD vs actual risk of harm  24:15 Common compulsions for harm OCD 28:44 Allergy and poisoning fears  29:39 What does therapy look like for harm OCD? 33:31 Harm exposures or behavioural experiments  35:07 Trusting yourself again 37:00 How exposures can be pitched wrong  39:00 Building up exposures and behavioural experiments  41:55 Harm OCD summary 43:15 Laura's social media backlash  44:30 Next episode teaser  45:40 Compassionate work and rebuilding your life 47:28 Question from the listeners  49:15 Exposure Lab 53:20 Goodbyes    Get in Touch: Got intrusive thoughts to share or questions for us: Email us at ocdcollectiveuk@gmail.com Follow us on Instagram and Tiktok: @justcheckingpod For our individual OCD pages, you can find Laura on Tiktok and Instagram as @ocdtherapylaura and Jess as @jess_helps_your_ocd Please check out our privacy policy: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1YJZ4Sdh4OpxjRR9twGY6dOMH9n55Mq6qTqLBxOtN3Fw/edit?usp=sharing  Content Warnings: We do reference some thoughts that people may find distressing so please listen with caution if this is you, and take a break if you need to.  Disclaimer: This podcast provides educational content only and is not a substitute for professional mental health support, please contact a mental health professional for advice and support.

    54 min.
  4. 16 jun

    What the Research Actually Says: OCD Science from the Orchard Conference

    What does the latest OCD research actually tell us, and what does it mean for the people living with it and treating it? This week Jess and Laura dig into the key findings from the recent Orchard OCD International Conference, translating the science into something genuinely useful. They cover a lot of ground: the economic cost of OCD, which brain areas are involved and what that means for treatment, early signs in children, the genetics of OCD, body-focused repetitive behaviours (BFRBs), and what mental health medications are actually targeting (and what questions you should be asking).  Plus: mouse models, psychedelic research, PANDAS, secondary OCD, and what healthy lifestyle factors like sleep, diet, and exercise actually do for OCD symptoms. Jess also shares her pet peeves from the research (you'll want to hear those), and they round things off with listener questions, Weekly Wins, and an Exposure Lab challenge. Podcast by: Laura Mole, Adv. Dip, MBACP OCD specialist therapist and Jessica Hayes, Msc PGDip, BABCP Accred OCD and perinatal specialist therapist Edited by Christian Nickson Time stamps: 00:00 Overview of the episode 01:00 Introduction and hellos  02:30 Brain Spam 05:30 Superstitions and OCD 08:10 Disclaimer  08:30 OCD's cost on the economy 09:20 Brain areas involved in OCD 10:57 Early detection, OCD signs in children 15:42 Body Focused Repetitive Behaviours: skin picking and hair pulling  19:57 How much OCD runs in families 21:30 What are mental health medications targeting and what types should we ask about? 25:33 Mouse research and implications 29:30 Psychedelic research and an OCD holiday 33:20 Onset ages of OCD and OCD genes 32:20 Secondary OCD and PANDAS 38:40 Healthy living and OCD; sleep, diet and exercise  39:45 How therapy can use this information 48:20 Sleep disorders in OCD 49:11 Neuroplasticity to help OCD 51:00 Jess' pet peeves from the research 53:00 Question from the listeners 53:48 Weekly Wins 54:42 Exposure Lab 55:33 Goodbyes Get in Touch: Got intrusive thoughts to share or questions for us: Email us at ocdcollectiveuk@gmail.com Follow us on Instagram and Tiktok: @justcheckingpod For our individual OCD pages, you can find Laura on Tiktok and Instagram as @ocdtherapylaura and Jess as @jess_helps_your_ocd Please check out our privacy policy: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1YJZ4Sdh4OpxjRR9twGY6dOMH9n55Mq6qTqLBxOtN3Fw/edit?usp=sharing  Content Warnings: We do reference some thoughts that people may find distressing so please listen with caution if this is you, and take a break if you need to.  Disclaimer: This podcast provides educational content only and is not a substitute for professional mental health support, please contact a mental health professional for advice and support.

    58 min.
  5. 9 jun

    The First International Guidelines for OCD Treatment: What You Need to Know (Orchard OCD Conference, Part 1)

    For the first time ever, there are international guidelines for how OCD should be treated — and in this episode, we break them down. Fresh from the Orchard OCD International Conference, Jess and Laura unpack what these landmark guidelines actually say: which treatments are recommended, in what order, and what this means for people with OCD and the clinicians supporting them. From ERP and medication through to TMS and DBS, the guidelines bring global consensus to questions that have long been answered differently depending on where you live or who you see. Before they get there, they cover what the conference revealed about OCD neuroscience — brain imaging showing OCD as a network problem, gene mapping progress, biomarkers, and what the research says about how psychological treatments work on a neurological level.  There's also a section on OCD in childhood, apps and neuroimaging, and Body Focused Repetitive Behaviours. This is Part 1 of a series covering the conference — and it's a good one to start with. As always: Brain Spam, Weekly Wins, and a look at what's coming next. Podcast by Laura Mole, Adv. Dip, MBACP OCD specialist therapist and Jessica Hayes, Msc PGDip, BABCP Accred OCD and perinatal specialist therapist Edited by Christian Nickson Caveat Before we get started, a quick disclaimer. This episode is intended for educational and informational purposes only. We discuss a range of medical and therapeutic interventions used in OCD treatment, including medication and neuromodulation approaches such as TMS, DBS and tDCS. However, we are not medical doctors or prescribing professionals, and nothing in this episode should be taken as medical advice or a recommendation to pursue any particular treatment. We also mention some commercially available products and technologies. These references are provided for information only and should not be interpreted as an endorsement or recommendation to purchase or use them. If you are considering any medical treatment, medication, or intervention discussed in this episode, please consult a suitably qualified healthcare professional who can advise you based on your individual circumstances. Timestamps: 00:34  Extra disclaimer 02:26  Catch up 02:48  Introduction to the episode 04:00  Brain Spam 08:33  Who are Orchard OCD? 13:25  Takeaways about OCD treatment choice 16:00  OCD treatment and costs 18:34  OCD in childhood and brain changes 20:00  Apps and neuroimaging 20:49  OCD as a brain network problem 22:26  Exposure Response Prevention (ERP) and cognitive therapy work 24:00  Metacognitive Training 24:40  Biomarkers and precision psychiatry 25:30  Body Focused Repetitive Behaviours 27:39  The International Guidelines for OCD Treatment 46:30  How the guidelines can help people with OCD 49:25  How we plan to use the guidelines 52:40  What next? 54:06  Possible next episode themes 56:01  Weekly Wins 58:00  Goodbyes Links: Orchard OCD: https://www.orchardocd.org/ Orchard OCD Registry: https://orchardocdregistry.org/ CANMAT/ICOCS International Guidelines for OCD: https://icocs.org/2025-canmat-icocs-international-guidelines-for-the-management-of-patients-with-ocd/ Get in Touch: Got intrusive thoughts to share or questions for us: Email us at ocdcollectiveuk@gmail.com Follow us on Instagram and Tiktok: @justcheckingpod For our individual OCD pages, you can find Laura on Tiktok and Instagram as @ocdtherapylaura and Jess as @jess_helps_your_ocd Please check out our privacy policy https://docs.google.com/document/d/1YJZ4Sdh4OpxjRR9twGY6dOMH9n55Mq6qTqLBxOtN3Fw/edit?usp=sharing  Content Warnings: We do reference some thoughts that people may find distressing so please listen with caution if this is you, and take a break if you need to.  Disclaimer:  This podcast provides educational content only and is not a substitute for professional mental health support, please contact a mental health professional for advice and support.

    58 min.
  6. 2 jun

    When OCD Meets ADHD: Adapting Therapy, ACT, and ERP with Joshua Munn

    This week Jess is joined by Joshua Munn, a therapist specialising in OCD and ADHD, for a conversation that's long overdue on this podcast. They get into how to tell OCD and ADHD apart (spoiler: it's not always straightforward), why adapting ERP for ADHD brains actually makes therapy better for everyone, and how ACT and compassion-focused approaches fit into the picture. Expect honest chat about rejection sensitivity, executive functioning, hyperfixation shame, and why the goal was never a neurotypical brain anyway. Podcast by:  Laura Mole, Adv. Dip, MBACP OCD specialist therapist and Jessica Hayes, Msc PGDip, BABCP Accred OCD and perinatal specialist therapist Edited by Christian Nickson Special guest Joshua Munn, OCD and ADHD specialist therapist  Website: www.therapywithjosh.co.uk Social media: @therapywith_josh on Instagram and @therapywithjosh on Tiktok Time stamps: 00:00 What to expect this episode  01:44 Introduction to Josh 02:50 Why Josh started working with OCD and ADHD 03:40 How to differentiate OCD and ADHD 05:50 Not aiming for a neurotypical brain 06:20 Rejection sensitivity and OCD 09:00 Imposter syndrome in ADHD and OCD 10:30 What executive functioning difficulties people may notice 12:40 ADHD adaptions for OCD therapy  17:00 What ACT therapy is and how it works with OCD and ADHD 22:00 Neurodivergence and parenting  25:33 Making ERP more ADHD friendly  27:30 Visualising characters for OCD 29:20 OCD leading to low mood in ADHD 31:00 ADHD and boredom 34:33 Neurodivergence and OCD Venn diagrams 36:56 Attention training and music  39:10 Hyperfixations and shame 39:35 Healthy guilt vs OCD guilt 42:52 Josh's favourite tips for OCD and ADHD 45:20 Session adaptions for people with ADHD 48:00 Being mindful of how much OCD content you consume  50:36 Considerations for medication  53:49 Question from the listeners  56:22 Exposure Lab 58:00 Goodbyes Get in Touch: Got intrusive thoughts to share or questions for us: Email us at ocdcollectiveuk@gmail.com Follow us on Instagram and Tiktok: @justcheckingpod For our individual OCD pages, you can find Laura on Tiktok and Instagram as @ocdtherapylaura and Jess as @jess_helps_your_ocd Please check out our privacy policy https://docs.google.com/document/d/1YJZ4Sdh4OpxjRR9twGY6dOMH9n55Mq6qTqLBxOtN3Fw/edit?usp=sharing  Content Warnings: We do reference some thoughts that people may find distressing so please listen with caution if this is you, and take a break if you need to.  Disclaimer:  This podcast provides educational content only and is not a substitute for professional mental health support, please contact a mental health professional for advice and support.

    58 min.
  7. 26 mei

    OCD in Children & Young People: A Guide for Parents, Families & the Young People Themselves

    If you've found yourself Googling "does my child have OCD?" at 11pm, this episode is for you. This week, Laura takes the lead whilst her and Jess take a dive deep into OCD in children and young people — what it looks like, how it hides, and what actually helps. Whether you're a parent trying to make sense of what you're seeing, a young person wondering if what you're experiencing has a name, or a teacher noticing something feels off — this one's for you. They cover the signs parents and teachers often spot first (including one you really might not expect), the most common OCD themes in younger people, and how to have those early, important conversations without making things worse. There's also a genuinely hopeful message for young people who are in the thick of it right now. On the practical side: how to find a good therapist (and the questions to ask to make sure they actually know their stuff), what to expect from therapy sessions, how ERP works with younger clients, what to do if your young person refuses help, family accommodations, and co-regulation — because OCD is a whole-family thing. Plus: listener questions, the Exposure Lab, a brilliant book recommendation for the trickiest of situations, and Laura's reassurance game which is exactly as chaotic as it sounds. Podcast by:  Laura Mole, Adv. Dip, MBACP OCD specialist therapist and Jessica Hayes, Msc PGDip, BABCP Accred OCD and perinatal specialist therapist Edited by Christian Nickson Timestamps: 01:35 – Hello and Greg's Anatomy facts 04:13 – Introduction to OCD in children and young people 07:05 – Just Checking merch 07:47 – Brain Spam 🧠 12:44 – Signs a parent might notice in their young person 18:22 – Key OCD themes in children and young people 22:49 – What early signs can a teacher spot? 26:50 – Jess's message of hope 28:05 – Laura's tip for young people who think they have OCD 31:50 – How to talk to your child about OCD concerns 36:40 – Family accommodations 39:18 – Co-regulation and modelling for your young person 40:40 – What if your young person doesn't want help? 43:38 – An amazing book for parents in this situation 46:00 – Tips for finding the right therapist 47:00 – What to expect in therapy and what gets shared with parents 49:00 – How ERP works with young people 52:00 – What if someone isn't ready for ERP? 55:48 – OCD onset and how to access help 1:00:30 – Tips on what you can request 1:02:14 – Medication for OCD 1:02:44 – Advocating as a parent and key resources 1:04:45 – Questions to scope out a good therapist 1:06:30 – Listener questions 1:08:52 – Exposure Lab 1:12:40 – Weekly Wins 1:13:26 – Goodbyes 📚 Resources mentioned: Because We Are Bad – Lily Bailey Natasha Daniels' videos How Josh Defeated the Worry Villain- www.reimaginetherapy.co.uk Can I Tell You About OCD? – Amita Jassi OCD Tools to Help You Fight Back – CBT workbook for young people Break Free from Childhood Anxiety and OCD – Eli Lebowitz The SPACE Programme Laura's website: Counselling Service North London | Laura Mole Counselling | England  OCD-UK: ocduk.org OCD Action: ocdaction.org.uk Get in Touch: Got intrusive thoughts to share or questions for us: Email us at ocdcollectiveuk@gmail.com Follow us on Instagram and Tiktok: @justcheckingpod For our individual OCD pages, you can find Laura on Tiktok and Instagram as @ocdtherapylaura and Jess as @jess_helps_your_ocd Please check out our privacy policy: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1YJZ4Sdh4OpxjRR9twGY6dOMH9n55Mq6qTqLBxOtN3Fw/edit?usp=sharing  Content Warnings: We do reference some thoughts that people may find distressing so please listen with caution if this is you, and take a break if you need to.  Disclaimer  This podcast provides educational content only and is not a substitute for professional mental health support, please contact a mental health professional for advice and support.

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  8. 19 mei

    Perinatal OCD — The Intrusive Thoughts No One Warned You About

    If you Googled something terrifying about your baby and ended up here, you're in the right place. This week Jess and Laura are talking about one of the most misunderstood and underdiagnosed presentations of OCD — perinatal OCD. Whether you're pregnant, postpartum, or supporting someone who is, this one's for you. We get into why OCD loves to latch onto the thing you love most, what's actually happening in your brain and body during the perinatal period, and why so many people suffer in silence. We talk about that fear directly, and what advocating for you actually looks like. From the most common perinatal presentations to what therapy actually looks like in this season of life — including why regulation comes before challenging OCD — this episode covers the full picture. We also talk maternity leave grief, secure attachment, parenting values, and we close with a note from someone who has been where you might be right now, and come out the other side. You are not a bad parent. Your thoughts are not your character. And you are not alone in this. Podcast by  Laura Mole, Adv. Dip, MBACP OCD specialist therapist and Jessica Hayes, Msc PGDip, BABCP Accred OCD and perinatal specialist therapist Edited by Christian Nickson Time stamps 00:36 Shout out to followers 01:10 Things you might have Googled with perinatal OCD 02:26 Introductions and shout out to Josh Fletcher 09:48 Introduction to perinatal OCD 10:44 Brain Spam 13:30 Prioproceptive input 15:50 Matrescence and mental health 20:00 Increased responsibility and vulnerability to OCD 22:05 Hormone shifts and OCD 23:52 Why OCD latches to the baby 24:30 Traumatic births and what you expect to feel 26:50 Birth planning and expectations 29:40 Preparing for pregnancy with OCD 31:30 Perinatal mental health team involvement 23:45 Building a village 36:07 Main OCD presentations in OCD 38:30 How common these intrusive thoughts are 39:20 What makes it OCD 42:30 Why we need more awareness of this 44:00 What if they report things to social services? 46:00 How we can advocate for you 48:00 What risk do we check more? 49:33 Options for support 50:55 Therapy for perinatal OCD; how it looks 52:00 Regulation before challenging OCD 54:00 Grieving maternity leave ideas and living like you value 58:21 Secure attachments and OCD 1:01:50 Prioritising parenting values 1:04:03 Responsive self-care lists 1:04:40 A note from someone who is recovered from perinatal OCD 1:05:23 Questions from the listeners 1:08:25 Key takeaways for perinatal OCD 1:09:00 Helpful resources and support websites 1:10:24 Exposure Lab 1:12:48 Weekly Wins Get in Touch: Got intrusive thoughts to share or questions for us: Email us at ocdcollectiveuk@gmail.com Follow us on Instagram and Tiktok: @justcheckingpod For our individual OCD pages, you can find Laura on Tiktok and Instagram as @ocdtherapylaura and Jess as @jess_helps_your_ocd and her perinatal page @jess_the_therapy_mum Please check out our privacy policy https://docs.google.com/document/d/1YJZ4Sdh4OpxjRR9twGY6dOMH9n55Mq6qTqLBxOtN3Fw/edit?usp=sharing  Content Warnings: We do reference some thoughts that people may find distressing so please listen with caution if this is you, and take a break if you need to.  Disclaimer  This podcast provides educational content only and is not a substitute for professional mental health support, please contact a mental health professional for advice and support. Resources mentioned: Jess’ perinatal mental health Instagram: @jess_the_therapy_mum Birth Rights: Birthrights - your human rights during pregnancy and maternity care  OCDUK: OCD-UK | A national OCD charity, run by, and for people with lived experience of OCD  IOCDF Perinatal OCD Resource Centre: Perinatal OCD Resource Center To Help People Find Relief  Maternal OCD UK: Welcome to Maternal OCD  Postpartum Support International: Postpartum Support International - PSI  The Breastfeeding Network (medication guidance): Drugs in Breastmilk factsheets - The Breastfeeding Network

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OCD therapists talk intrusive thoughts, scary themes, and why your brain can be a dick. If you are looking for reputable information that comes from some good friends then come and join us; Laura Mole and Jessica Hayes. Get involved by emailing ocdcollectiveuk@gmail.com and following us on Instagram @justcheckingpod to contribute towards features and to request that we cover what you want to hear. Disclaimer: This podcast provides educational information only and is not a substitute for professional mental health support.

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