The New Man

Tripp Lanier

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Advice for Men to Align Career, Sex, Relationships, and Money

3 MRT

The Trap of Trying to Reach Your Full Potential — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Do you feel like your life is supposed to be bigger than it is? What would it mean if you weren’t exceptional? And why do so many successful folks still feel like they aren’t enough? Today Alyson and I explore why some people feel pressured to reach their full potential. We discuss the expectation to be exceptional, how fixating on the future kills our satisfaction, and why having what we truly want may be much simpler than we think. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2026/03/reach-your-full-potential COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? “This Book Will Make You Dangerous” is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

47 min
17 FEB

I Shouldn’t Have to Ask: When Relationships Feel One-Sided — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Are you tired of being the one who just handles everything? Do you ever catch yourself thinking, “I shouldn’t have to ask for help”? Or are you on the other side feeling like no matter what you do, it’s never enough? Today Alyson and I discuss what’s really happening when things don’t feel fair in a relationship. We explore why score-keeping poisons a partnership, how doing whatever they want makes you a burden, and why complaining and nagging aren't going to solve the problem. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2026/02/one-sided-relationship COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? “This Book Will Make You Dangerous” is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

57 min
2 FEB

Staying Stuck vs Moving Forward: Doing the Hard Thing — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Is it clear that something has to change, but you’re afraid to make a move? How do you know when it’s time to throw in the towel? And how does “hope” fuel anxiety and keep us stuck? Whether it’s our business, a relationship, or whatever, we tend to stay stuck in a painful place because we don’t want to do the hard thing. Today, Alyson and I discuss why we avoid reality, how we can reclaim our power, and what we can ultimately do to allow peace of mind. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2026/02/staying-stuck-moving-forward COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? “This Book Will Make You Dangerous” is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

33 min
19 JAN

Why Being Perfect Makes Us Weak — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Whether it’s your looks, your job, or whatever — do you feel a lot of pressure to get it right? Do you ever beat the hell out of yourself for making a mistake? And if we all know that no one’s perfect, then why do so many of us think we should be? Today Alyson and I dig into perfectionism: how we get wired for it, why we let it abuse us, and why striving to get it right makes it harder for us to have what we truly want in life. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2026/01/perfectionism-makes-us-weak COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? “This Book Will Make You Dangerous” is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

39 min
6 JAN

What Do You Really Want? Getting Out of Autopilot and the Prescribed Life — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Do you know what you really want in life or are you just reacting to whatever comes your way? Do you do things because they actually strengthen you or because some guy on a podcast said you should do them? And how can we get out of autopilot to begin the process of forging our own path? Today we dig into a question that scares a lot of people: What do you want? So many of us are firefighting, reacting, or quietly living a “prescribed life” and then wondering why we feel chronically trapped, drained, isolated, or out of alignment. Is there another way? Can we find and follow a different compass heading without blowing up everything we care about? Let’s find out. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2026/01/what-do-you-really-want COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? “This Book Will Make You Dangerous” is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

50 min
16-12-2025

Are They Busy or Just Not That Into You? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Do you care more about the relationship than your partner does? Does it seem like something else is getting their attention? And are your efforts to create time together actually pushing them away? Today Alyson and I talk about what it means when one partner is always busy or distracted. We explore why pushing for more connection can actually drive them away and why choosing to be busy may sometimes mean they’re just not that into you. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/12/too-busy-for-relationship COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? “This Book Will Make You Dangerous” is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

41 min
30-11-2025

How to Deal with Holiday Stress, Guilt, and Family Pressure — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Are the holidays a source of stress and dread for you? Do you feel boxed in by family obligations? And does the thought of doing things differently feel like it would blow up the whole season? Today Alyson and I dig into the pressure, guilt, and expectations that show up this time of year. We talk about why it’s so hard to break old patterns, what drives the “I have to…” mindset, and how to start honoring what you actually want without torching the relationships that matter most. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/11/holiday-stress-guilt COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

36 min
18-11-2025

The Sexless Marriage: Can it Be Repaired? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Are you afraid of being trapped in a sexless marriage? Does your partner treat sex like it’s just another chore? And what are the ways you’re killing your sex life without even knowing it? Today Alyson and I discuss sex — or the lack of sex — in long term relationships. We identify some of the ways we unconsciously kill attraction, what might truly be in the way, and why avoiding the issue just makes it worse. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/11/sexless-marriage COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

56 min

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Love this podcast

13-02-2021

Syllie!!

Even as a woman, I love to listen to this podcast because it’s so straight forward and going in deep on who we are and why we respond in a certain way. Very insightful and practical. Thank you and keep up the good work Tripp. My best from the Netherlands, Sylvia
The New Man Rocks

02-02-2016

mijnbasis

Listening in the car on my way to work, down to earth topics that we just aren’t taught at school… it has given me a lot of insights in how I look at my life, my work and my relations. Thanks Tripp! Rienk
Wicked podcast!

24-11-2015

Mexxxxxqw

I've been listening to Trip's podcast full of wisdom for a while and it helped me a lot in my journey of personal development. Trip also has great free courses on his website! Check it out!
Comprehensive and high quality podcast

29-07-2014

latent1234

In a timespan of a couple of weeks I have listened to nearly all of The New Man podcasts. Tripp his unique radio voice in combination with his knowledgeable guests make this podcast informative and entertaining to listen to, whilst always offering practical knowledge that can be used and tested by yourself! Recommended.