Brainwashed To Be Broke

Adam Rother

Most people aren’t stuck by accident. They’re stuck by design. From the moment we’re born, we’re handed a script. What to believe, what to want, what’s possible and what isn’t. And most people never stop to question it. They just keep living it. Brainwashed to Be Broke exists to change that. Hosted by Adam Rother, this show pulls back the curtain on the beliefs and conditioning that quietly run your life. The stories you’ve been told about money, success, identity, and worth. The things you believe so deeply you don’t even know you believe them. This isn’t just about being broke financially. It’s about being broke mentally. Stuck in thinking that was handed to you by people just as conditioned as you are. Raw, honest conversations with founders, thinkers, and people who woke up, questioned everything, and rebuilt life on their own terms. If you’ve ever felt like something is off but couldn’t name it, you’re in the right place. It’s time to break the script.

  1. 1 DAY AGO

    How To Heal From Rock Bottom And Start Again w/ Alicia Ann Wade

    What happens when you do everything “right” and still feel completely empty? In this episode of Brainwashed To Be Broke, I sit down with Alicia Anne Wade, also known as Dr. Gratitude, to talk about the hidden programming behind success, self-worth, relationships, money, leadership, and what it really takes to rebuild yourself from the inside out. Alicia ticked all the boxes most people are told to chase: the job, the car, the house, the marriage, the family, the image of success. But underneath it all, she was not fulfilled. After being bullied as a child, struggling with dyslexia, falling into destructive patterns, experiencing a domestic violence relationship, losing everything more than once, and hitting a deep emotional breaking point in 2015, Alicia started asking a different question: What am I actually telling myself every day? That question led her into gratitude, not as a nice quote or surface-level habit, but as a full identity reset. She committed to daily gratitude, created her own gratitude journal, helped people who were at the edge of giving up, and built a movement around using gratitude to shift your mind, your relationships, your leadership, and your life. This conversation goes deep into the stories we inherit, the boxes we chase, the inner dialogue we normalize, and the moment you realize success without fulfillment is not freedom. Some of the biggest turning points in this episode: Alicia realizing that the “perfect life” still left her unhappy. Her first gratitude journal helping people find hope again. The painful connection between her inner dialogue and the relationships she accepted. Learning to respond instead of react, and lead from calm instead of control. Her decision to turn gratitude into a worldwide mission. In this conversation, you’ll learn: Why chasing the traditional success script can still leave you empty How your inner dialogue shapes the relationships and results you tolerate Why gratitude is not toxic positivity, and how to practice it properly How to respond instead of react when life gets heavy Why self-forgiveness is one of the hardest but most freeing resets How to stop living on autopilot and start rewriting your own script Connect with Alicia Ann Wade (Dr Gratitude) 👇 🔗 Website: aliciawade.com.au 🔗 Facebook: Alicia Anne Wade 🔗 Instagram: Alicia Wade 🔗 TikTok: Dr Gratitude 🔗 YouTube: Alicia Wade Gratitude 🔔 If this episode stirred something in you, don't ignore it. Share It with someone who needs to hear this. Subscribe, leave a comment and remember, you weren't born to follow the script, you were born to be free.

    58 min
  2. 3 DAYS AGO

    How to Sell Without Feeling Pushy or Fake w/Jennifer Lamprey

    What if the thing keeping you broke is not your skill, your offer, or your work ethic? What if it is the version of yourself you were taught to believe in? In this episode of Brainwashed To Be Broke, I sit down with Jennifer Lamprey, sales powerhouse, creator of the 12 Quickest Close Map, and founder of The Quickening. Jennifer grew up around entrepreneurship, but her path was anything but clean or easy. After losing her sister at a young age, surviving abuse, doing crystal meth at 12, and carrying years of trauma, she had a moment at 15 that changed the direction of her life. She says she saw herself the way God saw her, and that moment helped her break a pattern that could have destroyed her. But the story does not stop there. Jennifer went through divorce, foreclosure, single motherhood, financial pressure, and the painful realization that confidence, love, systems, and sales are all connected. This conversation gets into the real stuff most people avoid: why talented people stay broke, why sales is deeply tied to self-worth, why trauma can distort confidence, why “just stay positive” is not always enough, and why love may be the most underrated force in business. Some of the biggest turning points in this episode: Jennifer walking away from drugs at 15 after a life-changing spiritual moment. Losing everything after divorce and realizing she had to sell her way into freedom. Investing heavily into the best sales and marketing training she could find. Teaching her daughter to sell high-ticket coaching as a teenager instead of following the normal $10/hour path. In this conversation, you’ll learn: Why confidence is not fake energy, but remembered evidence How trauma can quietly shape your money and sales beliefs Why high-ticket sales forced Jennifer to rebuild her identity The difference between pressure-based selling and love-based selling Why entrepreneurship without systems can keep you stuck How Jennifer teaches her kids to think outside the traditional script Guest: Jennifer Lamprey Connect with Jennifer 👇 🔗 Facebook: Jennifer Lamprey 🔗 Instagram: @conversionqueens 🔔 If this episode stirred something in you, don't ignore it. Share It with someone who needs to hear this. Subscribe, leave a comment and remember, you weren't born to follow the script, you were born to be free.

    53 min
  3. 5 DAYS AGO

    How To Stop Depending On A Paycheck And Build Your Own Path w/Brian K Wright

    What if your “safe” job was never designed to make you free? Brian K Wright spent years working for other people, trying businesses, going back to jobs, and feeling the same frustration over and over: he was making money, but not building the life he actually wanted. Brian is a writing coach, radio host, magazine publisher, and bestselling author of Success Profiles. He has interviewed major names like Kevin Harrington, Jack Canfield, Bob Burg, and others. But before all of that, he had to face the belief that was keeping him stuck: he did not fully believe he could make entrepreneurship work. In this episode of Brainwashed To Be Broke, Brian breaks down how the system trains people to seek safety, depend on employers, avoid risk, and call their dreams “unreasonable.” The turning point came when he was let go from his final job. At first, he felt free. Then Monday came, and he realized he had nowhere to go. That moment forced him to stop treating entrepreneurship like an option and start making it work. We also get into sales, rejection, self-belief, legacy, and why Brian believes sales is something you do for someone, not to someone. In this conversation, you’ll learn: Why employers often pay just enough to keep you dependent How school trains people to become workers instead of independent thinkers Why hearing “no” might be part of the path to the one “yes” that changes everything How Brian turned writing, teaching, radio, and publishing into one aligned business Why selling works better when you stop pushing and start listening How to surround yourself with coaches, peers, and people you can lift up Guest: Brian K Wright Connect with Brian K Wright👇 🔗Facebook: Brian K Wright 🔗 Website: BrianKWright.com 🔔 If this episode stirred something in you, don't ignore it. Share It with someone who needs to hear this. Subscribe, leave a comment and remember, you weren't born to follow the script, you were born to be free.

    41 min
  4. 16 MAY

    How To Build Trust Before You Sell Anything w/Danno Hanfling

    What happens when the thing you’re proud of is actually the thing destroying you? Danno Hanfling used to work three jobs in a single day, sometimes pushing through 40 hours straight, convinced that more hours meant more success. He thought hustle was the answer. Until his body, his peace, and his life started proving otherwise. Danno’s story starts long before business. Growing up between two homes after his parents divorced, he struggled with feeling unsupported, disconnected, and undeserving of love. That wound eventually led him into nightlife and event promotion, not for the parties, but for the family, connection, and community he found there. From handing out flyers before social media existed, to helping fill events with thousands of people, Danno learned something most entrepreneurs still miss: Business is not built on followers. It is built on people. But even after discovering his gift for bringing people together, he had to face a deeper belief: “Who am I to serve?” That belief kept him small until he started rewriting the script around money, impact, leadership, and his own worth. Some of the biggest turning points in this conversation: He realized working harder was not the same as building freedom. He went from feeling undeserving of love to feeling undeserving of service. He stopped seeing money as bad and started seeing it as a tool for impact. He built communities where strangers became clients, supporters, and family. In this conversation, you’ll learn: Why hustle culture can become a socially accepted form of self-abandonment How childhood programming shapes your money and success beliefs Why community is more than a Facebook group or audience The difference between selling to people and truly serving them How Danno shifted from scarcity to impact-driven abundance Why money can expand your mission when your values are clear Guest: Danno Hanfling Connect with Danno: 🔗 Facebook: Danno Hanfling 🔗 His ecosystem: Evolve Omega 🔗 His community: Greater Impact Community on Facebook 👉 DM Danno the keyword “FREEDOM” on his business page to get his special gift and see his chatbot systems in action. 🔔 If this episode stirred something in you, don't ignore it. Share It with someone who needs to hear this. Subscribe, leave a comment and remember, you weren't born to follow the script, you were born to be free.

    48 min
  5. 14 MAY

    Why College Doesn’t Teach You How Business Actually Works w/Ryan Cron

    What if the “safe path” was never actually safe, just familiar? Ryan Cron grew up around good people, strong values, and the kind of money beliefs most of us inherit without questioning: don’t take risks, get a stable job, money doesn’t grow on trees, investing is gambling. And for a while, that script worked. He went to college, climbed the corporate ladder, landed in leadership, and built what looked like a responsible life. But after one family vacation, while helping his young daughter, something hit him hard: he didn’t want to miss her growing up just to keep repeating the same workday forever. That moment sent him down the entrepreneurship rabbit hole. Amazon FBA. Furniture flipping. Wedding photography. Sales. Marketing. Branding. Failure after failure, lesson after lesson, until he eventually built real momentum, helped double a wedding photography business with his wife, and landed in high-ticket sales working with Tony Robbins. But this conversation is not just about business. It’s about the programming behind why people stay stuck, why failure feels so dangerous, why “safe” often becomes a cage, and why the skills that change your income usually aren’t taught by the system. A few turning points from Ryan’s story: He realized he would rather make less money from home than miss his daughter’s life. He discovered that most “easy business” promises online were not as simple as they looked. He built wedding videos while dealing with six eye surgeries and limited vision. He learned that real sales is not manipulation, it’s helping people find the truth. In this conversation, you’ll learn: Why inherited money beliefs quietly shape your ceiling How Ryan went from corporate leadership to commission-based sales Why failure became a strategy instead of something to avoid What most people misunderstand about sales, persuasion, and trust Why branding is not your colors, fonts, or logo How Ryan and his wife are teaching their kids money differently Guest: Ryan Cron 👉 Connect with Ryan here: 🔗 Facebook → Ryan Cron 🔔 For everyone who is listening, if this stirred something in you, don’t ignore it. Share it with someone who needs it. Subscribe, leave a review, and remember: You weren’t born to follow the script. You were born to be free!

    46 min
  6. 10 MAY

    How To Stop Making Excuses And Finally Change Your Life w/Camila Markson

    What if the people you’re trying not to disappoint are the same people keeping you stuck? Camila Markson grew up in Brazil as the quiet, shy, people-pleasing girl who felt like the “lost one” in her family. Her sisters followed respected career paths. She tried college, different professions, and every route that was supposed to make her successful, but none of it felt like her life. Then she moved to the U.S. with less than $1,000, no English, and no real safety net. She worked nanny jobs, took multiple buses just to make $60 a day, and kept searching for a way out. But the real breaking point came when her family pressured her to return to Brazil. She did what they wanted, spent eight miserable months there, and realized something painful: the people telling her how to live weren’t the ones who had to live with the consequences. That was the reset. Camila stopped waiting for permission, came back to the U.S., and started building a new life on her own terms. No followers. No public speaking skills. No perfect English. Just a decision: results or excuses. In this conversation, you’ll learn: How people-pleasing can quietly steal years of your life Why comfort is often the most expensive thing you keep choosing How Camila went from four nanny jobs and buses to building online income Why “being bad at first” is part of the price of freedom The mindset shift that helped her stop reinventing the wheel How she’s now helping women see opportunities they were never taught to look for Guest: Camila Markson 🔗 Instagram → @milamarksonofficial 🔗 Facebook → Camila Markson 🔔 For everyone who is listening, if this stirred something in you, don’t ignore it. Share it with someone who needs it. Subscribe, leave a review, and remember: You weren’t born to follow the script. You were born to be free!

    42 min
  7. 8 MAY

    How To Change Your Money Mindset Before It Keeps You Broke w/Eddy Miranda

    What if the reason you’re struggling with money has less to do with skill, and more to do with what you were taught to believe? Eddy Miranda grew up around money, but not with a healthy understanding of it. His parents were doctors, yet his childhood was filled with financial instability, confusion, and painful examples of what money could do when it was misused. After losing his mom as a teenager, seeing his father’s relationship with money, and carrying those wounds into adulthood, Eddy found himself struggling to receive money, ask to be paid, and believe he could actually become financially successful. But his story didn’t stop there. Eddie went from failed business attempts, getting kicked out of his apartment, working jobs he didn’t want, and almost giving up entrepreneurship, to building real-world marketing skills, working with Grant Cardone, Brandon Turner, and HL Pro Tools, then finally stepping into his own lane with paid ads. The deeper shift was not just business strategy. It was identity, faith, obedience, and finally questioning the script he had been living under for years. Some of the biggest turning points in this conversation: Eddy realizing his childhood money beliefs were blocking his ability to receive. The moment he walked away from the idea that a job was the only path to success. Why working for Grant Cardone became a catapult, not the destination. How a three-day fast led to clarity, a $20K contract, and a complete repositioning of his business. In this conversation, you’ll learn: How childhood money wounds can quietly shape your adult financial reality Why Eddy believes student loans only make sense for very specific careers What real-world skill building taught him that school never did Why finding your positioning matters more than chasing every opportunity How faith changed the way Eddy makes business decisions Why fear of other people’s opinions keeps so many people broke and invisible Guest: Eddy Miranda 🔗 Facebook: Eddy Miranda 🔗 His program: MetaAdsEssentials.com 🔔 For everyone who is listening, if this stirred something in you, don’t ignore it. Share it with someone who needs it. Subscribe, leave a review, and remember: You weren’t born to follow the script. You were born to be free!

    51 min
  8. 6 MAY

    How to Stop Feeling Stuck in Life as a Man w/Steve X McNamara

    He had the money, the status, and the respect, but none of it felt like a life. In this episode of Brainwashed To Be Broke, Steve X McNamara opens up about the moment everything cracked, after a close mate died by suicide, and why that shock forced him to ask a question most people avoid: Why am I even here? Steve is now a coach helping men lead themselves with more clarity, strength, and purpose. But before that, he was trapped in a brutal cycle of work, stress, anger, alcohol, status, and survival. On the outside, he looked successful. On the inside, he was running on fumes. This conversation gets into the real conflict a lot of men live with, the pressure to perform, provide, suppress emotion, and keep going even when there’s no joy left. We talk about how identity gets built, how environment shapes behavior, and what actually has to change if you want to stop repeating the same script. Some of the biggest turning points in this episode: losing a close friend and suddenly seeing his whole life differently walking away from high-paying work that was draining him realizing anger was not his personality, it was conditioning discovering that growth is not about having more first, it is about becoming more first In this conversation, you’ll learn: why high income can still hide a deeply broken life how childhood conditioning can shape anger, addiction, and identity why changing your environment matters, but is never enough on its own what men actually need to lead better in business, relationships, and life why waiting until retirement to live is one of the biggest lies people accept Guest: Steve X McNamara 🔗 Facebook: Steve X McNamara 🔗 Instagram: @SteveXMcNamara 🎧 His Podcast → The Wildman Revolution Show 🔔 For everyone who is listening, if this stirred something in you, don’t ignore it. Share it with someone who needs it. Subscribe, leave a review, and remember: You weren’t born to follow the script. You were born to be free!

    48 min

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Most people aren’t stuck by accident. They’re stuck by design. From the moment we’re born, we’re handed a script. What to believe, what to want, what’s possible and what isn’t. And most people never stop to question it. They just keep living it. Brainwashed to Be Broke exists to change that. Hosted by Adam Rother, this show pulls back the curtain on the beliefs and conditioning that quietly run your life. The stories you’ve been told about money, success, identity, and worth. The things you believe so deeply you don’t even know you believe them. This isn’t just about being broke financially. It’s about being broke mentally. Stuck in thinking that was handed to you by people just as conditioned as you are. Raw, honest conversations with founders, thinkers, and people who woke up, questioned everything, and rebuilt life on their own terms. If you’ve ever felt like something is off but couldn’t name it, you’re in the right place. It’s time to break the script.