So many of the expectations shaping our choices never originated with us. They're inherited, absorbed, and repeated, quietly influencing how we move through our days and how we navigate each season of transition. In this episode, Shannon uncovers the invisible “shoulds” running your life, where they come from, and how they clash with the season you're actually in. You’ll learn a simple three-step Should Audit to help you see your patterns with clarity and compassion. Whether you’re in Recovery, Reinvention, or Integration, this episode will help you notice the pressures you’ve been carrying, and begin loosening their grip. In This Episode, We Explore: 1. The Invisible Drivers Why “should” thoughts feel like responsibility, even when they’re inherited scripts we never agreed to. How Shannon discovered her own subconscious timelines during her layoff and entry into Integration season. 2. Where Shoulds Come FromHow family systems, culture, workplaces, and social media create internal pressure long before we’re old enough to question it. 3. Shoulds vs. Your Actual Season How each season—Recovery, Reinvention, Integration—has needs that often directly conflict with your conditioned expectations. 4. The Should Audit (3-Step Process)A practical framework to help you identify, sort, and begin releasing the expectations that no longer serve you. 5. The Power of QuestioningWhy questioning one “should” at a time can create space, clarity, and self-trust. Key Takeaways Most of your shoulds are inherited scripts, not personal truth.When a should conflicts with your season, your season will always win—eventually.Awareness is the first step. You can’t challenge a pattern you haven’t named.Your preferences, not your pressures, reveal the aligned path forward.Questioning a single should creates enough space for something new to emerge. Links and Resources ✨ Download the Should Audit Worksheet inside the Right Now This Matters Facebook Community ✨ Connect with Shannon on LinkedIn for weekly reflections and tools ✨ Missed the episode on Recovery season? Listen to Episode 3 here. Join the Conversation Inside our Facebook community, share the “should” you’re questioning this week. Your reflection often gives another woman language for what she’s been carrying, too. Download the Should Audit Worksheet in the Facebook group, share what surfaced for you today, and hit Subscribe so you don’t miss next week’s episode on the truth about Integration season. Deliberate Thought by Kevin MacLeod is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 license. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/ Source: http://incompetech.com/music/royalty-free/?keywords=deliberate+thought Artist: http://incompetech.com/