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Providing a place of connection, rest and encouragement for women who are on the journey of living out their passion and purpose in Jesus Christ.

Abiding Together Heather Khym, Michelle Benzinger, Sister Miriam James Heidland

    • Christianity

Providing a place of connection, rest and encouragement for women who are on the journey of living out their passion and purpose in Jesus Christ.

    S07 Episode 1: Good Soil

    S07 Episode 1: Good Soil

    Good Soil
    In this episode we break open the parable of the sower and the seeds. We chat about how we can cultivate good soil in our hearts where seeds can grow and bear good fruit. We also talk about the practicals of what makes up rocky ground that chokes out goodness and what makes up the fertile soil, where God can bring forth life and abundance.
    Sister Miriam’s one thing - Undone: Freeing Your Feminine Heart from the Knots of Fear and Shame by Carrie Schuchts Daunt 
    Michelle’s one thing - Higher Love - Kygo, Whitney Houston 
    Heather’s one thing - The team building my house from Tundra Developments

    The Abiding Together Lenten Book Study will be Return of the Prodigal Son by Henri Nouwen. A great way to support our podcast is  to purchase the book through our Abiding Together Amazon Link.
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    This episode is sponsored by Pilgrimage to Beauty. Their mission is to create a transformative experience of true rest and retreat, for couples or individuals wired for adventure.
    Pilgrimage to Beauty believes that traversing the world, cultures and even our own street can teach us so much. Gaining knowledge of other peoples and lands gives us a genuine curiosity to learn and experience even more of what the world has to offer. 
    Their aim is to give you a unique once in a lifetime experience that transforms and renews your spirit, no matter your vocation or state in life. Their next trip is to Guatemala in March 2020, so check it out quickly!

    Discussion questions:    
    What struck you from the podcast? What is the terrain of your heart? What does the soil in your life look like right now? Where do you need to dig in the dirt and let God bring in His light and cultivate the soil? What do I need to steward well in my life and what do I need to prune back? What are the weeds that need to be pulled out in my heart?  
    Journal Questions:
    Reflect and journal about this scripture: Matthew 13. What does it speak to you personally?  What are the thorns that choke the good seed in your life? Where do you need to seek the true face of Jesus? What is the fruit being born in your life? What do you think God is trying to show you about your soil?  
    Quote to Ponder - “Learn the lesson that, if you are to do the work of a prophet, what you need is not a sceptre but a hoe.” ― St. Bernard of Clairvaux

    Scripture for Lectio Divina -  Matthew 13: The Parable of the Sower
    That same day Jesus went out of the house and sat by the lake. Such large crowds gathered around him that he got into a boat and sat in it, while all the people stood on the shore. Then he told them many things in parables, saying: “A farmer went out to sow his seed. As he was scattering the seed, some fell along the path, and the birds came and ate it up. Some fell on rocky places, where it did not have much soil. It sprang up quickly, because the soil was shallow. But when the sun came up, the plants were scorched, and they withered because they had no root. Other seed fell among thorns, which grew up and choked the plants. Still other seed fell on good soil, where it produced a crop—a hundred, sixty or thirty times what was sown. Whoever has ears, let them hear.”
    The disciples came to him and asked, “Why do you speak to the people in parables?”
    He replied, “Because the knowledge of the secrets of the kingdom of heaven has been given to you, but not to them. Whoever has will be given more, and they will have an abundance. Whoever does not have, even what they have will be taken from them. This is why I speak to them in parables:
    “Though seeing, they do not see;  though hearing, they do not hear or understand. In them is fu

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    S06 Episode 18: Repost - Striving vs. Abiding

    S06 Episode 18: Repost - Striving vs. Abiding

    We chose to repost this episode from Season 1 because it is a message at the heart of the Abiding Together Podcast. Many of us live a life of striving and struggle, rather than accepting the invitation of abiding and trust. We take time to reflect on the scripture John 15:4-5, where Jesus invites us to abide in His love. We also chat about how we can recognize the pitfalls of striving and how to learn to trust that God is a good Father.

    • 38 min
    S06 Episode 17: Word of the Year

    S06 Episode 17: Word of the Year

    In this episode we reveal and discuss our word of the year. A few years ago, we each began the practice of praying and listening for the Lord to give us one word to focus on for the new year. It’s an opportunity to dive in to what God is speaking in our individual lives and respond in intentional ways. 

    • 35 min
    S06 Episode 16: The Good News

    S06 Episode 16: The Good News

    In this episode, the fourth part of our Advent series, we interview our friend Sarah Kaczmarek. Sarah is the Assistant Director of Alpha Catholic USA, as well as the Pastoral Director of Encounter School of Ministry. We chat about the call we have as Catholics to share the Good News of the Gospel and the stumbling blocks we often run into. We also discuss how essential it is to be an authentic witness and how to grow in having the Father's heart for the lost.

    • 44 min
    S06 Episode 15: He's in the Waiting

    S06 Episode 15: He's in the Waiting

    In this episode, the third part of our Advent series, we interview our friend Beth Davis from Blessed is She. We talk about the theme of having hope in seasons of waiting, trusting God when we can't see what He's up to, and being transformed by the renewal of our minds.

    • 42 min
    S06 Episode 14: Making Room for Others

    S06 Episode 14: Making Room for Others

    In the second part of our Advent series, we interview Ennie Hickman, our good friend and founder of Del Rey Collective. We talk in depth about what it means to actually love our neighbor and how to make “room at the inn” for strangers and people in the periphery of our lives. We also talk about hospitality and making our hearts ready for guests before making our homes ready.

    • 46 min

Customer Reviews

Meenz86 ,


I absolutely loved the “word for the year” episode. It made me want to go and find out what my word was. I have recently been introduced by “accident” on YouTube to Sr Mariam Heidland, SOLT, and I think I’ve watched every single talk she’s given. I think you are wonderful and an absolute true witness to God’s redemptive power. I would love to meet up one day! God bless you all xx

lloshana ,


This podcast is a gift! Have been journeying with the Women Doctors of the Church series and am already feeling/seeing the stirrings and transformation of my heart! Thank you so much!

sarahtherese78 ,


This podcast is so full of joy & hope - a powerful witness to God’s love and grace in our lives

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