Calmly Coping

Tatiana Garcia
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Calmly Coping is the go-to podcast for high-achieving professionals who look like they have it all together—but inside, they're overthinking, self-doubting, and feeling the weight of constant pressure. I'm Tati Garcia, a licensed therapist and coach specializing in high-functioning anxiety. I help ambitious professionals break free from the cycle of overworking, overthinking, and never feeling good enough, so you can cultivate confidence, balance, and peace—without sacrificing success. If you struggle with: ✔ Overanalyzing everything and second-guessing yourself ✔ Feeling stuck in busyness but unsure how to slow down ✔ Putting immense pressure on yourself to always do more ✔ Trouble relaxing, switching off, or setting boundaries ✔ Self-doubt, imposter syndrome, and fear of failure Then you're in the right place. Each bite-sized, evidence-based episode is designed to help you manage anxiety, improve focus and performance, communicate more confidently, and build the inner calm you crave. New episodes every Wednesday. Hit follow and start breaking free from the anxiety-driven cycle today.

  1. 12 Aug

    Nervous System Reset for High Achievers

    Use this nervous system reset to move out of overdrive and into a state of calm. Follow along to regulate your body and feel grounded. If this helped you settle, follow Calmly Coping wherever you're listening so you don't miss the next one.   You can't think your way into feeling calm. Your body has to actually experience it, and experience it often enough to learn that it's allowed to relax. This is a short guided reset for high achievers whose bodies have been stuck in overdrive for too long, and it works best when you come back to it regularly. In this episode, you'll learn: 👉 The one breathing adjustment that signals safety to your nervous system 👉 Where your body is holding tension you haven't noticed yet 👉 The best moments in your day to use this practice, before the wind-up starts   🎤 SPEAKING: I deliver talks and workshops helping high-performing teams manage pressure without burning out: https://www.becalmwithtati.com/speaking/   CONNECT WITH ME Website: https://www.becalmwithtati.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatianaglpc/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tatianaglpc/ Podcast: https://calmlycoping.com   Calmly Coping is a podcast for high-achievers who struggle with high-functioning anxiety, helping you feel calmer, more balanced, and more confident from within.   🎵 Intro/Outro Music: Rescue Me (Instrumental) by Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/57990 Ft: Copperhead 📄 Disclaimer All content here is for informational purposes only. This content does not replace the professional judgment of your own mental health provider. Please consult a licensed mental health professional for all individual questions and issues.

  2. 5 Aug

    Stuck in Survival Mode? Here's Why

    There's a point where pushing harder stops improving your performance and starts degrading it. If you've hit that wall and caught yourself wondering what's wrong with you, this episode is about what's actually going on. 🎓 FREE TRAINING: How to overcome high-functioning anxiety (on-demand, watch anytime): https://calmlycoping.com/workshop   There's this belief that if you are just disciplined enough, if you keep pushing harder and doing more… then you will accomplish your goals and improve your performance. But what if that's not true? What if you are pushing harder and your performance starts to degrade? Or you hit a wall and you feel utterly exhausted and overwhelmed and start wondering what's wrong with you? This could mean you're stuck in survival mode. Your nervous system never gets the chance to regulate and feel safe. And that's the very thing keeping you from progressing. In this episode I'll be talking about the 80/20 rule of performance and how you can utilize this to improve your performance without burning out. In this episode, you'll learn: 👉 Why pushing harder eventually works against you 👉 The 80/20 rule of performance (not productivity) 👉 Three ways to get out of survival mode and actually perform better   ⏱️ TIMESTAMPS 00:00 - The pushing harder myth 01:15 - The science of survival mode 03:31 - My running wake up call 05:00 - The 80/20 rule explained 05:52 - Resetting my training approach 06:58 - Tip 1: Spot the survival signs 08:46 - Tip 2: Change your self-talk 10:03 - Tip 3: Regulate daily 11:57 - Key takeaways and next steps 13:15 - Wrap up and question for you   📚 RESOURCES + SOURCES MENTIONED Run Like a Pro by Matt Fitzgerald and Ben Rosario: https://bookshop.org/a/87936/9780593201916 * Positive affirmations for overachievers: https://www.becalmwithtati.com/positive-affirmations/ Guided Nervous System Reset Practice: https://www.becalmwithtati.com/nervous-system-reset/   🎓 Ready to go deeper? Watch my free on-demand training on overcoming high-functioning anxiety: https://calmlycoping.com/workshop 🎤 SPEAKING: I deliver talks and workshops helping high-performing teams manage pressure without burning out: https://www.becalmwithtati.com/speaking/ CONNECT WITH ME Website: https://www.becalmwithtati.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatianaglpc/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tatianaglpc/ Podcast: https://calmlycoping.com   Calmly Coping is a podcast for high-achievers who struggle with high-functioning anxiety, helping you feel calmer, more balanced, and more confident from within. 🎵 Intro/Outro Music: Rescue Me (Instrumental) by Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/57990 Ft: Copperhead 📄 Disclaimer All content here is for informational purposes only. This content does not replace the professional judgment of your own mental health provider. Please consult a licensed mental health professional for all individual questions and issues.   *Links included in these show notes may be affiliate links. This means that I may earn a small commission for purchases made using these links (at no additional cost to you). All products that I share are products I use, love, and recommend.

  3. 29 July

    Grow On Purpose, Not On Autopilot

    You hit one goal, and before you can even feel it, you're already onto the next one: being more productive, more efficient, more successful, constant improvement, and seeking perpetual growth… But have you ever stopped to ask what all that growth is actually for? If the goalpost keeps moving no matter what you accomplish, this one is for you. 🎓 FREE TRAINING: How to overcome high-functioning anxiety (on-demand, watch anytime): https://becalmwithtati.com/hfa-training   Growth gets treated as an automatic good, so we rarely stop to question it. In this episode, I unpack the difference between healthy ambition and the compulsion to grow, where that drive comes from culturally and personally, and how to move from autopilot to intentional growth without losing your ambition. If the goalpost keeps moving no matter what you accomplish, this one is for you. In this episode, you'll learn: 👉 The difference between healthy ambition and a drive that never lets you rest 👉 Where your definition of "more is better" actually came from (it's not just you) 👉 How to grow on purpose instead of on autopilot   ⏱️ TIMESTAMPS 00:00 - Chasing More 00:58 - Healthy ambition vs. the compulsion to grow 02:20 - Cultural and systemic origins: the American Dream, capitalism, keeping up 05:44 - Lifestyle creep and the moving goalpost 06:59 - Why our brains still chase more 08:29 - Tip 1: Separate your values from what was conditioned 08:53 - Tip 2: Autopilot growth vs. intentional growth   📚 RESOURCES + SOURCES MENTIONED Juliet Schor, The Overworked American (book referenced in this episode) Lifestyle creep: https://www.investopedia.com/terms/l/lifestyle-creep.asp   🎓 Ready to go deeper? Watch my free on-demand training on overcoming high-functioning anxiety: https://becalmwithtati.com/hfa-training   🎤 SPEAKING: I deliver talks and workshops helping high-performing teams manage pressure without burning out: https://www.becalmwithtati.com/speaking/ CONNECT WITH ME Website: https://www.becalmwithtati.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatianaglpc/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tatianaglpc/ Podcast: https://calmlycoping.com Calmly Coping is a podcast for high-achievers who struggle with high-functioning anxiety, helping you feel calmer, more balanced, and more confident from within. 🎵 Intro/Outro Music: Rescue Me (Instrumental) by Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/57990 Ft: Copperhead 📄 Disclaimer All content here is for informational purposes only. This content does not replace the professional judgment of your own mental health provider. Please consult a licensed mental health professional for all individual questions and issues.

  4. 22 July

    The Strengths That Are Secretly Costing You

    You're the reliable one, the one who's always five steps ahead and seems to have it all together. But what if those strengths are secretly costing you? 🎓 FREE TRAINING: How to overcome high-functioning anxiety (on-demand, watch anytime): https://calmlycoping.com/workshop   In this episode, you'll learn: 👉 Why your most praised strengths might be quietly costing you 👉 How to tell the difference between genuine drive and anxiety in disguise 👉 How to keep the strengths you value while changing what's fueling them   ⏱️ TIMESTAMPS 00:00 The Reliable One Trap 01:26 High Achiever Burnout Signs 02:18 Same Output, Different Fuel 03:21 High Functioning Anxiety Explained 03:58 Research Breakdown 06:10 Shift the Fuel Practical Tips 08:49 Stop Earning Your Rest   📚 RESOURCES + SOURCES MENTIONED Perfectionistic strivings vs. perfectionistic concerns: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5303723/ Perfectionism and burnout: https://researchportal.bath.ac.uk/en/publications/9e5e8dd7-4507-4ba9-ad6f-41d13216e7e2/ Episode: Do You Have Unrealistic Expectations? https://www.becalmwithtati.com/unrealistic-expectations/ YouTube: https://youtu.be/xEkbSU53zJo Episode: What To Do If You Feel Guilty Relaxing: https://www.becalmwithtati.com/feel-guilty-relaxing/ YouTube: https://youtu.be/2HB9DL2bJlg Free Quiz: Do you have high-functioning anxiety? https://www.becalmwithtati.com/high-functioning-anxiety-quiz/   🎓 Ready to go deeper? Watch my free on-demand training on overcoming high-functioning anxiety: https://calmlycoping.com/workshop 🎤 SPEAKING: I deliver talks and workshops helping high-performing teams manage pressure without burning out: https://www.becalmwithtati.com/speaking/ CONNECT WITH ME Website: https://www.becalmwithtati.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatianaglpc/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tatianaglpc/ Podcast: https://calmlycoping.com Calmly Coping is a podcast for high-achievers who struggle with high-functioning anxiety, helping you feel calmer, more balanced, and more confident from within. 🎵 Intro/Outro Music: Rescue Me (Instrumental) by Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/57990 Ft: Copperhead 📄 Disclaimer All content here is for informational purposes only. This content does not replace the professional judgment of your own mental health provider. Please consult a licensed mental health professional for all individual questions and issues.

  5. 18 Mar

    What No One Taught You About Your Cycle: PMDD and PME Explained

    If certain times of the month leave you anxious, unmotivated, and questioning yourself, it might not just be PMS.  In this episode, I'm breaking down what premenstrual disorders like PMDD and PME actually are, why they're so often misunderstood, and why high achievers tend to be hit especially hard. As part of Podcasthon 2026, I'm spotlighting the International Association for Premenstrual Disorders (IAPMD) and sharing free resources that can help you or someone you love start getting real support. In this episode, you'll learn: What PMDD and PME are and how they differ from typical PMS Why it's not a hormone imbalance (and what's actually happening) How premenstrual disorders show up for high achievers The cyclical pattern that helps distinguish these from other conditions Resources mentioned: IAPMD (International Association for Premenstrual Disorders) – Global nonprofit supporting people with PMDD and PME through research, peer support, and advocacy → iapmd.org PMDs Self-Screen – Free quiz to help you identify whether you may be experiencing PMDD or PME → iapmd.org/self-screen IAPMD Peer Support Groups – Free moderated video and online support communities → iapmd.org/support IAPMD Global Provider Directory – Find a clinician who understands premenstrual disorders → iapmd.org/provider-directory PMDD/PME at Work Guide – Steps you can take if premenstrual disorders are affecting your career → iapmd.org/pmdd-pme-work-guide Free PMDs Symptom Tracker – Track your symptoms across your cycle to identify patterns → iapmd.org/shop/p/iapmd-pmds-symptom-tracker Donate to IAPMD – 100% of public donations fund their programs and research → iapmd.org/donate Podcasthon 2026 – A global event where podcasters spotlight charitable organizations → podcasthon.org   00:00 Cycle Challenges 01:39 My PMDD Story 03:40 PMDD and PME Symptoms 06:56 The Scale of PMDD 07:51 What IAPMD Does 08:32 Free Tools and Support 09:33 Donate and Share ——————— Calmly Coping is a self-improvement podcast for high achievers who struggle with high-functioning anxiety to help you feel more calm, balanced, and confident from within. ——————— 💬 Submit a message, question, or suggestion to the podcast: https://calmlycoping.com/message ——————— Want more? 👩🏽‍💻 Work with me: My mission is to help you decrease your anxiety, declutter your mind, and say hello to a life of calm and balance.  Learn more about my coaching, therapy, and course offerings here: https://becalmwithtati.com/work-with-me 👥 Join the Calmly Coping Group: The free supportive community for high-achievers with high-functioning anxiety. Join Today: https://www.facebook.com/groups/CalmlyCoping 📝 Take the Free High-Functioning Anxiety Quiz: http://hfaquiz.com ——————— Say hi on social: 🔗 Website: https://becalmwithtati.com/ 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/tatianaglpc 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatianaglpc/ 📌 Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/tatianaglpc ——————— Intro/Outro Music: Rescue Me (Instrumental) by Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/57990 Ft: Copperhead Disclaimer All content here is for informational purposes only. This content does not replace the professional judgment of your own mental health provider. Please consult a licensed mental health professional for all individual questions and issues.

    What No One Taught You About Your Cycle: PMDD and PME Explained

  6. 11 Mar

    What Your Procrastination Is Actually Trying to Tell You

    If you keep putting something off and can't figure out why, it might not be laziness or lack of discipline. It might be your subconscious trying to tell you something. In this episode, I break down what's really driving procrastination beneath the surface, and walk you through how to use it as a signal to understand yourself better and finally get unstuck. In This Episode, You'll Learn: Why procrastination is often a signal from your subconscious, not just laziness or poor discipline How I used my own procrastination patterns to uncover a deeper belief that was keeping me stuck A three-step process for noticing, getting curious about, and processing what your behavior might be communicating How to question the internal "boxes" and expectations you've created for yourself without realizing it   📝 Free Workbook: From Pressure to Ease: A short guided reset to help you soften internal pressure and feel more at ease without dropping the ball: https://calmlycoping.com/pressure   00:00 Why We Procrastinate 02:28 Emotions Behind Avoidance 03:19 Subconscious Signals 05:43 My Podcast Procrastination 06:23 Discipline Versus Creativity 10:24 A New Theme Based Format 11:57 Three Phases Of Growth 14:23 Use Signals To Reflect 16:43 Free Guide And Next Steps 17:03 Podcast Plans And Break ——————— Calmly Coping is a self-improvement podcast for high achievers who struggle with high-functioning anxiety to help you feel more calm, balanced, and confident from within. ——————— 💬 Submit a message, question, or suggestion to the podcast: https://calmlycoping.com/message ——————— Want more? 👩🏽‍💻 Work with me: My mission is to help you decrease your anxiety, declutter your mind, and say hello to a life of calm and balance.  Learn more about my coaching, therapy, and course offerings here: https://becalmwithtati.com/work-with-me 👥 Join the Calmly Coping Group: The free supportive community for high-achievers with high-functioning anxiety. Join Today: https://www.facebook.com/groups/CalmlyCoping 📝 Take the Free High-Functioning Anxiety Quiz: http://hfaquiz.com ——————— Say hi on social: 🔗 Website: https://becalmwithtati.com/ 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/tatianaglpc 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatianaglpc/ 📌 Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/tatianaglpc ——————— Intro/Outro Music: Rescue Me (Instrumental) by Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/57990 Ft: Copperhead Disclaimer All content here is for informational purposes only. This content does not replace the professional judgment of your own mental health provider. Please consult a licensed mental health professional for all individual questions and issues.

  7. 4 Mar

    Too Overwhelmed to Get Help With Being Overwhelmed?

    Have you ever been so stressed, so stretched thin, so completely running on fumes... that when someone suggested you try something to feel better, your immediate reaction was "I don't have time for that?" Maybe it was a friend suggesting therapy. A coach recommending a program. A podcast episode telling you to slow down. And instead of feeling relieved, you felt almost annoyed—because who has time to work on their stress when they're already drowning in it? If that's you, then this episode is for you. In this episode, you'll learn: Why overwhelm doesn't just affect your schedule—it affects your nervous system and decision-making The hidden pattern behind waiting for the "right time" to get support How internal pressure (not workload) is often the real weight you're carrying What shifts when you change your relationship with ambition, rest, and self-expectations   ✨ Learn more about the brand new program, From Pressure to Ease: https://calmlycoping.com/ease   00:00 Too Overwhelmed to Start 01:11 The Overwhelm Trap 02:20 Support Is Not More Work 03:23 Client Story Internal Shift 05:22 A Reframe on Timing 06:28 You Are Not Too Far Gone 07:10 From Pressure to Ease ——————— Calmly Coping is a self-improvement podcast for high achievers who struggle with high-functioning anxiety to help you feel more calm, balanced, and confident from within. ——————— 💬 Submit a message, question, or suggestion to the podcast: https://calmlycoping.com/message ——————— Want more? 👩🏽‍💻 Work with me: My mission is to help you decrease your anxiety, declutter your mind, and say hello to a life of calm and balance.  Learn more about my coaching, therapy, and course offerings here: https://becalmwithtati.com/work-with-me 👥 Join the Calmly Coping Group: The free supportive community for high-achievers with high-functioning anxiety. Join Today: https://www.facebook.com/groups/CalmlyCoping 📝 Take the Free High-Functioning Anxiety Quiz: http://hfaquiz.com ——————— Say hi on social: 🔗 Website: https://becalmwithtati.com/ 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/tatianaglpc 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatianaglpc/ 📌 Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/tatianaglpc ——————— Intro/Outro Music: Rescue Me (Instrumental) by Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/57990 Ft: Copperhead Disclaimer All content here is for informational purposes only. This content does not replace the professional judgment of your own mental health provider. Please consult a licensed mental health professional for all individual questions and issues.

  8. 25 Feb

    How I'm Letting Go of Pressure (As a High Achiever)

    In this episode, I'm sharing honestly about how I realized I was nearing burnout—and the step-by-step shifts I'm making to reduce pressure, regulate my nervous system, and create more grounded clarity in my life and business. Instead of chasing numbers or productivity goals, I'm working backwards from how I want to feel: calm, present, and regulated. If you've been pushing hard and feeling the weight of your own expectations, this conversation is for you. In this episode, you'll learn: Why burnout isn't just about doing too much, it's about mental load and divided focus How nervous system regulation changes the way you make decisions A practical boundary filter to help you stop overcommitting   Mentioned in episode: ✨ Learn more about the brand new program, From Pressure to Ease: https://calmlycoping.com/ease Managing high-functioning anxiety as a highly sensitive person: https://www.becalmwithtati.com/high-functioning-anxiety-questions/  Reducing pressure series: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjHuRBdtyMkE0SGcsHlyYWkw6aelfvk5H   00:00 Introduction 01:04 Burnout Warning Signs 03:30 Essentialism Focus 05:44 Regulation Practices 08:02 Smaller To Do Lists 10:36 Hell Yes Boundaries 11:59 Seasons and Sensitivity 14:38 Why No Video 17:07 From Pressure to Ease 18:42 New Group Program 21:06 Closing and Resources ——————— Calmly Coping is a self-improvement podcast for high achievers who struggle with high-functioning anxiety to help you feel more calm, balanced, and confident from within. ——————— 💬 Submit a message, question, or suggestion to the podcast: https://calmlycoping.com/message ——————— Want more? 👩🏽‍💻 Work with me: My mission is to help you decrease your anxiety, declutter your mind, and say hello to a life of calm and balance.  Learn more about my coaching, therapy, and course offerings here: https://becalmwithtati.com/work-with-me 👥 Join the Calmly Coping Group: The free supportive community for high-achievers with high-functioning anxiety. Join Today: https://www.facebook.com/groups/CalmlyCoping 📝 Take the Free High-Functioning Anxiety Quiz: http://hfaquiz.com ——————— Say hi on social: 🔗 Website: https://becalmwithtati.com/ 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/tatianaglpc 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatianaglpc/ 📌 Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/tatianaglpc ——————— Intro/Outro Music: Rescue Me (Instrumental) by Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/57990 Ft: Copperhead Disclaimer All content here is for informational purposes only. This content does not replace the professional judgment of your own mental health provider. Please consult a licensed mental health professional for all individual questions and issues.

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Calmly Coping is the go-to podcast for high-achieving professionals who look like they have it all together—but inside, they're overthinking, self-doubting, and feeling the weight of constant pressure. I'm Tati Garcia, a licensed therapist and coach specializing in high-functioning anxiety. I help ambitious professionals break free from the cycle of overworking, overthinking, and never feeling good enough, so you can cultivate confidence, balance, and peace—without sacrificing success. If you struggle with: ✔ Overanalyzing everything and second-guessing yourself ✔ Feeling stuck in busyness but unsure how to slow down ✔ Putting immense pressure on yourself to always do more ✔ Trouble relaxing, switching off, or setting boundaries ✔ Self-doubt, imposter syndrome, and fear of failure Then you're in the right place. Each bite-sized, evidence-based episode is designed to help you manage anxiety, improve focus and performance, communicate more confidently, and build the inner calm you crave. New episodes every Wednesday. Hit follow and start breaking free from the anxiety-driven cycle today.

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  • Creator
    Tatiana Garcia
  • Years Active
    2020 - 2026
  • Episodes
    278
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Copyright 2020-2026 Be Calm With Tati LLC
  • Show Website
    Calmly Coping

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