Episode Recap In this week’s episode Adam Spiegelman and Reggie discussed various personal and professional topics, including parenting, technology, and career experiences. We share stories about our children’s school activities, the challenges of balancing work and family life, and the evolution of technology in parenting. The episode touched on their shared history, including childhood memories and their current lives in different locations. We also discuss the importance of managing expectations and breaking down goals into smaller, achievable steps. The episode concludes with a brief discussion about potential political aspirations and the use of a software tool called Descript for audio and video editing. Episode Details Podcast Quality and Friendship Impact Coach and Adam discussed the quality of Coach’s microphone during their podcast, with Adam suggesting Coach upgrade to improve audio quality. They reflected on the positive impact their weekly conversations have had on each other’s careers and personal lives, expressing gratitude for reconnecting after many years. Coach shared that podcasting has helped him maintain focus on his current clients and approach, while Adam mentioned his recent podcast episode releases and the emotional significance of their friendship. Generational Research Methods Discussion Adam and Coach discussed New Jersey’s languages and foods, including Portuguese, Spanish, Italian, and unique dishes like disco fries and elephant ears. Adam shared his experience visiting his daughter’s school, where she presented on Massachusetts, and expressed concern about students relying on technology for research rather than traditional methods. They reflected on how research methods have changed over generations, with Adam and Coach agreeing that using technology might be considered cheating for them but might be the norm for younger generations. Parenting in the Tech Era Coach and Adam discussed their experiences with parenting and technology. They compared their childhoods to their current parenting styles, noting how technology has changed the way parents monitor and interact with their children. Adam shared his family’s use of trackers and calendars to keep track of his children’s activities, while Coach recounted a recent incident where he accidentally left his daughter’s tracker at home. They also discussed the differences in parenting approaches, with Adam mentioning their unorganized lifestyle and Coach describing his family’s strict screen-time rules. Parenting and Work-Life Balance Insights Coach and Adam discussed their experiences with parenting and work-life balance. They shared anecdotes about their children’s activities and the different lifestyles between generations. Adam mentioned his current role in the entertainment industry and how it has changed since the pandemic. They also talked about their children’s interests, including piano lessons and sports like jiu-jitsu. Coach reflected on how being involved in their children’s activities has become an additional stressor, despite it being a fulfilling part of their lives. Breaking Down Big Goals Coach discussed the importance of breaking down large goals into small, manageable batches to prevent burnout and improve success rates. He emphasized the value of celebrating small victories along the way and avoiding the temptation to take on too much at once. Adam and Coach also touched on the need for clear objectives and expectation management when pursuing new skills or goals, such as becoming a stand-up comedian or drummer. Late-Life Learning and Expectations Coach and Adam discussed the challenges of learning new skills later in life, using the example of a man who learned drumming in 45 days to perform on stage. They explored the concept of managing expectations, particularly in the context of creating hit songs and dealing with spam calls. The conversation concluded with Coach expressing appreciation for the consistency of their show and Adam suggesting they use Descript for better audio editing. Script Advantages and Industry Insights Coach and Adam discussed the advantages of using scripts in their creative process, highlighting how scripts enable efficient searching and the addition of elements like music, stock videos, and photos to enhance productions. Adam shared his experience working in the entertainment industry, including producing roles at Divorce Court and his aspirations to work in comedy, though he noted that knowing one’s lane is crucial for career success. They also humorously recalled an instance where Adam’s race was questioned for a comedy role, emphasizing the challenges faced in breaking into the industry. AI Tools and Relationship Insights Coach and Adam discussed various topics, including running for office, empathy in relationships, and the use of AI tools for creative work. Coach shared his experience with marriage counseling and emphasized the importance of understanding and listening to others. They also briefly touched on Adam’s high school political campaign and Coach’s potential interest in running for a school-related position. The conversation concluded with a recommendation for a subscription service that offers AI tools for creative work. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit rvhoss.substack.com/subscribe
