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Steven Moe

Conversations with people living with purpose and having a positive impact in our world. Host Steven Moe asks about their life journeys and what has shaped them into who they are today.

  1. 2 DAYS AGO

    The Spotlight Paradox

    In this short 2 minute episode I reflect on "The Spotlight Paradox" and what it might mean when we come to make decisions.   Who might you know that this would help?  Why not post about it, tag them in or forward the link?  It all helps to spread the word about seeds! For more content visit www.theseeds.nz    "In this episode I want to talk about a principle that could unlock a new approach for you.   It's something called the spotlight paradox.  The point here is pretty simple - we all know what a spotlight is.  it illuminates someone on stage and a lead role might step into the spotlight so all can see them.   To use that picture, we are like the main lead actor or actress in the stage show of our life, so we probably assume that the spotlight is always on us.  In other words, everyone is watching us in detail and studying our every move. So the paradox part of this is that while we all assume we are in the spotlight being observed the opposite is actually more likely to be true. No one is actually watching or observing you the way you perceive they are - you are not in the spotlight at all.  While our self centred egos may put us there it is a perception.   But the reality is that others have their own worries and fears.  They are probably thinking you are watching them in their own spotlight rather than even noticing you. In other words, we think people notice us more than they actually do. So the consequence of this: It should free you up to take risks and live without a fear of others opinions.  If you don't have to think that others are obsessed with you or noticing every choice you make, then it should free you up to do things and experiment and have ideas not work out, but then try again. The next time you find yourself hesitating to take a risk or embrace an opportunity because of what others might think, just remember they probably are not noticing you the way you might think they are.  The spotlight paradox helps us remember not to worry so much about what others think.   So what might that mean you do? Until next time, Ka kite ano."

    2 min
  2. 23/11/2025

    Azoora Ali interviews me on Purpose for her podcast 'Care Beyond Profits'

    I was interviewed by Azoora Ali for her new "Care beyond profits" podcast recently - this is a portion of that interview.  For the full episode listen on her show: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/1nkiSFbWQhBoGCFkXZR6lA?si=aNWoGQyQQ6yzm8N2pJT1KA  Video: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8j76XbSDm8g  In this episode, discover how to: • Overcome the fear of the unknown with courage  • Embrace mindset shifts to unlock growth and success • Build resilience while navigating challenges and change • Find purpose-driven direction in your career and personal life • Align values, community, and even faith  with authentic leadership This conversation is perfect for anyone seeking personal growth, career inspiration, or guidance on leading with purpose. Timestamps: 0:00 Would your 95-year-old self regret this choice? 0:27 Meet Steven Moe: Lawyer turned purpose-driven leader 1:27  Family chaos, laughter & a love of books 3:36  Childhood across countries → building resilience 7:32  The leap to Japan at 21 that changed everything 10:20  Why "work–life balance" is a myth 12:07  The bell test: How to find your true purpose 15:32  Faith, values & the spiritual side of leadership 21:18  3 daily habits for focus & lasting energy 25:17  Family first: urgent work won't matter in 10 years 31:57  The #1 thing founders must do to succeed 37:12  Everyone is a leader - starting with yourself    Join us in this interview series of inspiring purpose-driven founders, CEOs, and social enterprise leaders who build care into how they work and live. We unpack their values, choices, and habits so you can apply the same ideas in your world. I believe that care turns purpose into impact in positive ways. Hosted by Azoora Ali, a Virtual (Fractional) CFO using the CARES lens: clarity, actionable insights, returns, efficiency, stability. New episodes every 2 weeks.

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Conversations with people living with purpose and having a positive impact in our world. Host Steven Moe asks about their life journeys and what has shaped them into who they are today.

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