Pour Minds Podcast

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Two single Houstonians residing in Atlanta, Drea and Lex are navigating their way through life, friendships and dating. Discussing all the hot topics while getting lit on their favorite wine along the way! Just like having a good ol' drunk therapy session with your friends, pull up a chair, join the convo and wine down!

  1. 4 HR AGO

    Give Me A Sign

    This week, Lex P and Drea Nicole are back with a solo episode and baby… it goes everywhere. The girls kick things off debating zodiac stereotypes and why the internet swears everything is “so Libra coded.” From being misjudged in the comments to side-eyeing astrology girls who claim every cool trait for their sign, Lex and Drea unpack the obsession with labels and whether signs really mean what we think they do. They also break down the viral Dr. Pepper jingle moment and the bigger conversation around going viral, corporate responsibility, and why the internet needs to learn patience. That spirals into a real talk about pandemic-era scams, PPP loans, unemployment checks, and why people are still getting locked up years later. If you ran it up in 2020… just know the clock might still be ticking. Later, the vibe lightens up as they talk about random talents that don’t pay the bills but deserve recognition—elite parallel parking skills, predicting movie plot twists, tap dancing dreams making a comeback, and being weirdly good at guessing zodiac signs. To close it out, they get into whether your man needs to match your aesthetic. From Build-A-Bear boyfriends and makeover horror stories to gym bros, nerd baes, veneers, hairlines, and preferences vs. disrespect—the conversation is funny, honest, and a little messy in the best way. If you’ve ever judged a sign, dodged a scam, upgraded a man, or thought about ordering tap shoes at 2 a.m.—this episode is for you. Pour up and press play. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    1h 29m

  2. 20 FEB

    Hang It Up

    This week, Lex P and Drea Nicole are back with a solo episode and baby… they had time. They kick things off talking about the ice storm chaos, warming up your car (or not), heated seats vs. struggle seats, gym life updates, and why running outside in freezing weather feels absolutely unhinged. From THC drink munchies to fixer-upper frustrations, the poor decisions this week are real and relatable. Since it’s Black History Month, the conversation takes a turn when the girls react to a so-called “whites only” community in Arkansas—and let’s just say… if you don’t want us there, you don’t get our inventions either. No dryers. No blood banks. No folding chairs. No microphones. Put it back. What starts as jokes turns into a real conversation about Black innovation, cultural contributions, and how wild it is that we’re still having these conversations in 2026. They also revisit an old topic: how they argue. Are they emotional arguers? Logical? Do tears make you weak—or strategic? The girls reflect on how they used to handle conflict versus how they move now, growth in relationships, and recognizing when certain people bring out a side of you that doesn’t feel good. It’s funny, petty, self-aware, and layered—just how y’all like it. Pour up and press play. 🍷 See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    1h 25m

  3. 13 FEB

    My Lil Valentine

    This week, Lex P and Drea Nicole are back with a solo episode just in time for Valentine’s Day—and they’re talking all things love, romance, and the absolute no’s of V-Day. From debating “hood romantic” gestures and whether oversized stuffed animals should be illegal, to breaking down why proposing on Valentine’s Day is a hard pass, the girls keep it real (and hilarious) as always. They also get into spreading kindness (or not), why everybody isn’t obligated to wave at your baby, and how kids, pets, and unsolicited pictures can kill the vibe at the bar. Plus, they talk hosting, couples dates, group Valentine’s plans, and what actually makes a romantic gesture feel thoughtful instead of corny. If you’re in love, dating, single, or just here for the jokes—this episode is for you. Pour up and press play.   See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    1h 15m

  4. 6 FEB

    The Way Love Goes ft. Da Brat and Judy

    This week on Pour Minds, Lex P and Drea Nicole sit down with Da Brat and Judy for a real, funny, and emotional conversation about how their love story actually happened! They break down the first time they met, how Judy shot her shot at the studio, and the moment Brat realized she was catching real feelings. The couple gets into the miscommunication that almost kept them apart, including the infamous Atlanta flight with no answer, the ghosting, and the relationship Judy had that made Brat realize she might’ve lost “the one.” From stalking Instagram to finally reconnecting, they tell the full story of how they found their way back to each other. Brat and Judy also open up about marriage, motherhood, and how having their son changed their relationship. They get real about their IVF journey, the genetic testing process, the backlash they faced over choosing a sperm donor, and the health scare that landed Judy in the hospital with blood clots. The conversation goes deep into what it really takes to build a family, protect your peace, and make hard decisions in public. Plus, Judy talks her entrepreneur bag — from TikTok Live selling and e-commerce pressure to how the economy has changed how people buy — while Brat keeps it honest about work-life balance, boundaries, and not wanting to work 17 hours straight. And of course, Ty sets the vibe with a custom cocktail called “The Way Love Goes” in honor of their book, while the room stays full of laughs, real talk, and classic Pour Minds chaos. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    1h 24m

  5. 30 JAN

    Where Is Monty?

    This week on Pour Minds, Lex P and Drea Nicole are back with a solo episode — just a kickback with the girls — and it goes from unhinged to deep real quick. They start off debating the afterlife and reincarnation (because imagine coming back as a roach??) and spiral into questions nobody can answer: what do we look like when we cross over, do we get signs from loved ones, and do we really come back as somebody—or something—else? The girls also catch up on life updates, gym routines, sleep schedules, and Lex learning the hard way that being “too honest” on the internet will have folks dragging your name for fun. From raggedy car jokes to people tagging you in wild stuff, they talk about setting boundaries with fans, not letting strangers get too comfortable, and why blocking is self-care in 2026.Then they get into a bigger conversation: are people addicted to being offended? Lex and Drea break down rage bait culture, cancel culture, and why folks love acting morally superior online — even when they don’t keep that same energy in real life. Plus, The Bed (brought to you by Salt.xo) gets spicy with hookup etiquette: don’t ghost, wrap it up, be honest about other partners, and for the love of God… don’t be doing mouth-spit activities with a hookup like it’s a committed relationship. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    1h 24m

  6. 23 JAN

    Look At That Donkey

    This week on Pour Minds, Lex P and Drea Nicole kick off the new year with a solo episode, just the two of them, catching up and getting honest as they step into 2026. The girls talk lifestyle shifts, Dry January (or the attempt at it), fitness journeys, and the pressure that comes with trying to “reset” every new year. From debating cutting back on drinking to unpacking personal habits they’re actively working through, this episode is all about growth without pretending perfection exists. Lex and Drea also dive into relationships and boundaries—why more women are choosing not to live with men, how cleanliness and personal space can make or break a relationship, and the difference between standards and control. They touch on beauty trends, filler culture, and the quiet insecurity that can come with chasing an ever-changing look online. Things take a deeper turn as they discuss friendship fallouts, family betrayal, letting go of people who no longer serve you, and whether everything really deserves closure. The conversation wraps with candid talk about aging, sex, libido myths, flakiness, accountability, and why communication still matters, even when you’re tired. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    1h 57m

  7. 16 JAN

    Cant Fake It Ft. India Love

    This week on Pour Minds, Lex P and Drea Nicole are joined by the queen of reinvention herself — India Love — for an honest, vulnerable, and hilarious conversation that covers everything. India opens up about growing up on the internet, being one of the original influencers before social media was even a job, and how she’s navigated fame, criticism, and constant reinvention. From her Tumblr days to reality TV, music, and now Twitch streaming, she breaks down what it really takes to stay relevant without losing yourself. The girls get into her viral streamer awards moment (yes, that moment), internet backlash, learning accountability, and why she’s currently taking a break from alcohol and dating to focus on her relationship with God. India also gets real about OnlyFans, money, family, and the moment that made her walk away from it all. Of course, it wouldn’t be Pour Minds without a little mess — the ladies play Love It or Leave It, talk celebrity dating (or not ), men chasing women they can’t have, soul ties, boundaries, and why turning 30 hits different. This episode is funny, raw, reflective, and full of growth — a reminder that evolution isn’t always pretty, but it’s always necessary. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    1 hr

  8. 9 JAN

    Egg Rent ft. Kayla Nicole

    The girls are back on the couch — and this time, they’re joined by media personality, journalist, and fitness baddie Kayla Nicole. From the jump, it’s laughs, honesty, and real conversations as Lex P and Drea Nicole sit down with someone they’ve been watching, respecting, and rooting for for a long time. The trio gets into everything from Kayla’s journey in media, her early days at TMZ, and what it really takes to survive in entertainment when the internet won’t let you forget your past. They talk reinvention, public perception, and why letting comments shape your identity will burn you out faster than anything else. Things get real as they unpack fitness as therapy, mental health, discipline, and why movement isn’t just about bodies — it’s about clarity, confidence, and sanity. Kayla opens up about building her own lane, protecting her peace, and learning when to speak up versus when to let people talk. Of course, it wouldn’t be Pour Minds without the chaos. The conversation spirals into shooting your shot in 2026 (no more hint-dropping), dating fatigue, freezing eggs vs. trusting the timeline, and whether your sexual past is allowed to stay in the past — including a hilarious debate about “retiring” from things you once did in the bedroom. Funny, honest, and full of grown-woman gems, this episode is all about growth, boundaries, self-trust, and realizing you don’t owe the internet an explanation for who you used to be. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    1h 27m
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Two single Houstonians residing in Atlanta, Drea and Lex are navigating their way through life, friendships and dating. Discussing all the hot topics while getting lit on their favorite wine along the way! Just like having a good ol' drunk therapy session with your friends, pull up a chair, join the convo and wine down!

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  • Channel
    The Black Effect Network
  • Creator
    The Black Effect Podcast Network and iHeartPodcasts
  • Years Active
    2018 - 2026
  • Episodes
    390
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    2026 iHeartMedia, Inc. © Any use of this intellectual property for text and data mining or computational analysis including as training material for artificial intelligence systems is strictly prohibited without express written consent from iHeartMedia
  • Show Website
    Pour Minds Podcast
  • Provider
    iHeartMedia + Entertainment, Inc

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