Born to Win

Brian Proctor

Born to Win isn’t just another motivational podcast — it’s your weekly reset for focus, clarity, and unstoppable growth. Hosted by Brian Proctor, son of legendary teacher Bob Proctor, this show distills six decades of success wisdom into bite-sized, 15-minute episodes you can actually use. Each Monday, you’ll get real-world principles that work when you work them — helping you transform your income, health, relationships, and business from the inside out. No fluff. No hype. Just timeless laws of life simplified for today’s world. Because you weren’t born to settle — you were Born to Win. Simplified Success in 15 Minutes or Less. Listen now and win big!

  1. 3 DAYS AGO

    EP15: Who Told Me That? — The Power of Re-Evaluation and Reframing

    Every result in your life is being shaped by a belief. Not the beliefs you say you have — but the ones quietly running in the background, influencing your behavior, your decisions, and what you think is possible for you. In this episode of Born to Win, I want to share one of the most powerful questions my father taught me — a question that has the ability to loosen old limits and open the door to real change: “Who told me that?” Because many of the beliefs you’re living with today were never consciously chosen. They were absorbed early — from parents, teachers, culture, religion, media, and emotional experiences that were never questioned. Over time, those borrowed ideas became familiar. And familiarity slowly turned into identity. In this episode, I walk you through: why beliefs are formed before we ever learn how to evaluate them how an inherited idea can quietly become a lifelong limitation the difference between truth and what simply feels familiar why you don’t fight old paradigms — you outgrow them how reframing changes meaning without denying reality and how asking better questions reshapes your future This is not about positive thinking or pretending everything is fine. It’s about self-leadership — choosing which ideas get to shape your life going forward. Because the moment you stop living inside outdated stories… you begin writing a new one. And that’s where real freedom begins. Simplified Success in 15 Minutes or Less. More from Brian Proctor: https://www.brianproctor.com My Father Knew the Secret: Growing Up with Bob Proctor — now at Amazon, Audible, Barnes & Noble and other retailers: https://www.MyFatherKnewtheSecret.com 12 Easy Steps To Change Your Life: Stop Waiting For That BIG Thing — now at Amazon, Audible, Walmart, Barnes & Noble and other retailers: https://www.12easysteps.com Proctor’s Principles Coaching — enroll now: https://www.ProctorsPrinciples.com Watch Brian's Masterclass now: https://www.BrianProctor.com/Masterclass

    16 min
  2. 2 FEB

    EP14: Leading Your Life and Ending Thought Loops

    Most people think their biggest obstacle is a lack of time, discipline, or opportunity. But more often than not, it’s something quieter… the way they speak to themselves. In this episode of Born to Win, we’re talking about how to interrupt negative thought loops, lower the volume on your inner critic, and step into true self-leadership — not by forcing positivity, but by guiding yourself with intention. You’ll hear one of the simplest tools my father used for decades to stop spirals before they turn into habits: “NEXT.” A command that breaks the loop, resets your focus, and puts you back in the driver’s seat. In this episode, you’ll learn: why self-criticism isn’t motivation — it’s conditioning how to reframe mistakes as feedback, not verdicts how your words (to yourself and others) reinforce identity the 3-step Self-Talk Reset to practice all week what it actually means to “lead your life” in real time Because leadership isn’t just what you do for others. It’s how you guide yourself when things get uncomfortable. And the moment you stop attacking yourself and start directing yourself… everything changes. Simplified Success in 15 Minutes or Less. More from Brian Proctor: https://www.brianproctor.com My Father Knew the Secret: Growing Up with Bob Proctor — now at Amazon, Audible, Barnes & Noble and other retailers: https://www.MyFatherKnewtheSecret.com 12 Easy Steps To Change Your Life: Stop Waiting For That BIG Thing — now at Amazon, Audible, Walmart, Barnes & Noble and other retailers: https://www.12easysteps.com Proctor’s Principles Coaching — enroll now: https://www.ProctorsPrinciples.com Watch Brian's Masterclass now: https://www.BrianProctor.com/Masterclass

    13 min
  3. 26 JAN

    EP13: Attraction — Living in Harmony with the Law of Vibration

    You’re always attracting something. The real question is: what vibration are you living in? In this episode of Born to Win, I want to clear up one of the biggest misunderstandings in personal development — the idea that attraction is about wishing, hoping, or visualizing alone. My father taught me that the Law of Attraction is secondary. The primary law is the Law of Vibration. You don’t attract what you want. You attract what you are in harmony with. In this episode, I’ll walk you through: why attraction is an effect, not the cause how your thoughts, emotions, and actions shape your vibration why frustration, fear, or resentment block what you desire the difference between visiting a higher frequency and living there practical ways to raise and stabilize your vibration daily When you understand vibration, you stop asking, “Why isn’t it here yet?” And you start asking, “Am I aligned with what I say I want?” That shift changes everything. When you live in harmony with who you are becoming, life begins to respond — not through force, but through flow. Simplified Success in 15 Minutes or Less. More from Brian Proctor: https://www.brianproctor.com My Father Knew the Secret: Growing Up with Bob Proctor — now at Amazon, Audible, Barnes & Noble and other retailers: https://www.MyFatherKnewtheSecret.com 12 Easy Steps To Change Your Life: Stop Waiting For That BIG Thing — now at Amazon, Audible, Walmart, Barnes & Noble and other retailers: https://www.12easysteps.com Proctor’s Principles Coaching — enroll now: https://www.ProctorsPrinciples.com Watch Brian's Masterclass now: https://www.BrianProctor.com/Masterclass

    15 min
  4. 19 JAN

    EP12: Overcoming Fear, Doubt, and Worry

    Fear doesn’t mean you’re on the wrong path. It means you’re standing at the edge of growth. In this episode of Born to Win, I’m talking about what shows up the moment you decide to change your life — fear, doubt, and worry. These feelings are often misunderstood as stop signs, but my father Bob Proctor taught me something very different. He called it the Terror Barrier — the invisible line between your comfort zone and your next level of growth. In this episode, I’ll help you understand: why fear, doubt, and worry appear after you commit to growth what the Terror Barrier really is — and what it’s not how fear is tied to your old self-image trying to keep you the same why courage matters more than confidence simple ways to move forward without needing certainty Fear isn’t here to stop you. It’s here to shape you. Every meaningful goal, every personal breakthrough, and every new level of life sits on the other side of what feels uncomfortable. This episode will help you stop obeying fear — and start moving forward with intention. Simplified Success in 15 Minutes or Less. More from Brian Proctor: https://www.brianproctor.com My Father Knew the Secret: Growing Up with Bob Proctor — now at Amazon, Audible, Barnes & Noble and other retailers: https://www.MyFatherKnewtheSecret.com 12 Easy Steps To Change Your Life: Stop Waiting For That BIG Thing — now at Amazon, Audible, Walmart, Barnes & Noble and other retailers: https://www.12easysteps.com Proctor’s Principles Coaching — enroll now: https://www.ProctorsPrinciples.com Watch Brian's Masterclass now: https://www.BrianProctor.com/Masterclass

    12 min
  5. 12 JAN

    EP11: Attitude — The Daily Choice

    Most people believe their attitude is shaped by circumstances. I was taught the opposite. In this episode of Born to Win, I’m sharing one of the most important lessons I learned from my father, Bob Proctor: attitude is a daily choice — and it’s one of the few things you always control. Last week, we talked about decision — the moment desire and goals crystallize into committed action. But once you’ve made a decision, the real work begins: how you show up each day. In this episode, I’ll walk you through: Why attitude is more than behavior — it’s thoughts, feelings, and action combined How your attitude sets your vibration and shapes what shows up in your life Why a good attitude is the cause of better conditions, not the result How to recognize when your attitude has slipped — without judgment A simple, practical way to reset your attitude throughout the day You don’t need perfect circumstances to have a powerful attitude. You need awareness — and the willingness to choose again. Because when you choose your attitude, you choose your vibration. And when you choose your vibration, your results begin to rise. Simplified Success in 15 Minutes or Less. More from Brian Proctor: https://www.brianproctor.com My Father Knew the Secret: Growing Up with Bob Proctor — now at Amazon, Audible, Barnes & Noble and other retailers: https://www.MyFatherKnewtheSecret.com 12 Easy Steps To Change Your Life: Stop Waiting For That BIG Thing — now at Amazon, Audible, Walmart, Barnes & Noble and other retailers: https://www.12easysteps.com Proctor’s Principles Coaching — enroll now: https://www.ProctorsPrinciples.com Watch Brian's Masterclass now: https://www.BrianProctor.com/Masterclass

    14 min
  6. 5 JAN

    EP10: Decision — The Turning Point of Transformation

    Most people think change happens when they’re ready. When they know how. When the timing feels right. But that’s not how transformation works. In this episode, I’m sharing the most important lesson I learned from my father, Bob Proctor — the moment everything actually changes: the decision. Over the last month, we’ve built the foundation for 2026 with intention. We explored habits. We reawakened imagination. We uncovered desire. We shaped that desire into a worthy goal. Now comes the activating force. A goal sets direction. A decision locks it in. In this episode, I’ll show you: Why decision comes before belief — not after How indecision quietly steals your potential Why willingness matters more than confidence What actually shifts in your mind and awareness the moment you decide How decision creates identity, momentum, and clarity If you’ve been waiting for certainty, permission, or the “right time,” this episode will meet you right where you are — and move you forward. Your future doesn’t begin when the goal is achieved. It begins the moment you decide. Simplified Success in 15 Minutes or Less. More from Brian Proctor: https://www.brianproctor.com My Father Knew the Secret: Growing Up with Bob Proctor — now at Amazon, Audible, Barnes & Noble and other retailers: https://www.MyFatherKnewtheSecret.com 12 Easy Steps To Change Your Life: Stop Waiting For That BIG Thing — now at Amazon, Audible, Walmart, Barnes & Noble and other retailers: https://www.12easysteps.com Proctor’s Principles Coaching — enroll now: https://www.ProctorsPrinciples.com Watch Brian's Masterclass now: https://www.BrianProctor.com/Masterclass

    15 min
  7. 29/12/2025

    EP9: Goals — Giving Direction to Your Desire

    Entering 2026 with Intention: Part 4 of 4 Desire is the spark. But a goal is the destination. In this final episode of the Entering 2026 with Intention series, I’m showing you how to take the fire of desire and turn it into something you can aim at, measure, and move toward every single day. Most people don’t set real goals — they make resolutions, to-do lists, and half-hearted wishes. But a true goal should pull you. It should excite you, stretch you, and demand more of you. My father used to call it a pleasant obsession. In this episode, we’ll explore: • why goals aren’t about getting — they’re about becoming • the difference between A, B, and C Type Goals (and why C Type changes your life) • how goals move from fantasy → theory → fact • why most people sabotage goals (and how to align your habits, identity, and belief) • a simple 4-part method to set your 2026 goal the right way If you’re ready to stop hoping and start directing your life with intention, this episode will give you the structure to do it. Simplified Success in 15 Minutes or Less. More from Brian Proctor: https://www.brianproctor.com My Father Knew the Secret: Growing Up with Bob Proctor — now at Amazon, Audible, Barnes & Noble and other retailers: https://www.MyFatherKnewtheSecret.com 12 Easy Steps To Change Your Life: Stop Waiting For That BIG Thing — now at Amazon, Audible, Walmart, Barnes & Noble and other retailers: https://www.12easysteps.com Proctor’s Principles Coaching — enroll now: https://www.ProctorsPrinciples.com Watch Brian's Masterclass now: https://www.BrianProctor.com/Masterclass

    14 min
  8. 22/12/2025

    EP8: Desire — The Fire That Sparks Your Future

    Entering 2026 with Intention: Part 3 of 4 Nothing new is ever created until someone first desires it. Desire is the starting point of all achievement — the inner fire that gives life to your imagination and momentum to your future. In this episode, I’m exploring what desire really is (and what it isn’t). Desire isn’t a weak wish or fleeting emotion — it’s a spiritual signal. A call from within that says, there’s more for you. Without desire, imagination has no power. Without belief, desire never takes form. But when desire is honored, nurtured, and followed — creation begins. In this episode, we’ll explore: • why desire is guidance, not indulgence • how imagination and desire work together in the creative process • why suppressing desire suppresses growth • how desire naturally evolves into belief and action • four practical ways to strengthen desire as you move toward 2026 I also share personal lessons from watching my father follow desire long before results appeared — trusting the inner pull even when it didn’t make sense on paper. As we prepare for the year ahead, this episode invites you to listen honestly to what you want — not what’s safe, expected, or familiar — but what’s calling you to expand. Because your desire is not random. It’s instruction. Simplified Success in 15 Minutes or Less. More from Brian Proctor: https://www.brianproctor.com My Father Knew the Secret: Growing Up with Bob Proctor — now at Amazon, Audible, Barnes & Noble and other retailers: https://www.MyFatherKnewtheSecret.com 12 Easy Steps To Change Your Life: Stop Waiting For That BIG Thing — now at Amazon, Audible, Walmart, Barnes & Noble and other retailers: https://www.12easysteps.com Proctor’s Principles Coaching — enroll now: https://www.ProctorsPrinciples.com Watch Brian's Masterclass now: https://www.BrianProctor.com/Masterclass

    14 min

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Born to Win isn’t just another motivational podcast — it’s your weekly reset for focus, clarity, and unstoppable growth. Hosted by Brian Proctor, son of legendary teacher Bob Proctor, this show distills six decades of success wisdom into bite-sized, 15-minute episodes you can actually use. Each Monday, you’ll get real-world principles that work when you work them — helping you transform your income, health, relationships, and business from the inside out. No fluff. No hype. Just timeless laws of life simplified for today’s world. Because you weren’t born to settle — you were Born to Win. Simplified Success in 15 Minutes or Less. Listen now and win big!

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