Everyday Life:Conversations Over Coffee

Jen & Dagda

 We have been the best of friends for 15 years (whether he  likes it or not..lol).  Sometimes it's not what you say but how you say it! Come and laugh with us at our quirky, weird brains as we navigate this thing called "podcasting". We truly are just a couple of smart asses with diverse interests who need jobs to make an income. Since we couldn't find that in the "normal" world, we came here to give it a go! We truly are grateful you are here to support us on our journey. If you would like to help us along, we accept one time (or reoccurring) donations thru paypal! ** paypal.me/ELConversations2025 ** Please be sure to check us out on Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, Patreon and Discord!! Sound Clips:Dagda_Ra Music:DELOSound **New episodes drop on Monday and Wednesdays.** ** Be sure to check out our other podcast:  Everyday Life: After Dark  for a more NSFW look into our previous careers **

  1. Drop Zone Got Tapped Out

    2 DAYS AGO

    Drop Zone Got Tapped Out

    Send us Fan Mail In this episode, Jen and Dagda navigate the highs and lows of life, from the literal "downswing" of a military parachute jump to the emotional "abacus" of modern stress. Highlights include: Night Jumps: Dagda recounts a harrowing "feet, knees, face" landing in the pitch black and explains the science of oscillating under a chute.The Emotional Abacus: Jen gets vulnerable about hitting her breaking point and how small, invisible stresses can lead to a total meltdown.Retail Scams: A warning to all service workers about the "Fake Tap Pay" trick and the rise of organized theft rings in Pierce County.GWAR & Shock Rock: A deep dive into the theatrical (and disgusting) world of Dagda’s favorite band.Neighborhood Gremlins: Why sleep deprivation makes snowmen look like monsters.From military history to modern-day survival tips, this episode covers the "worst-case scenarios" we all face and how to plan your escape. #podcast #PNW #GenX #DropZone #GWAR #Snowdays #faketap Artwork:YIIBajrami Support the show Your new addiction awaits you..you're welcome! #podcast #lol #genx #smartass #egosandattitudes Find us on social media: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61578374587810 https://www.instagram.com/elcoceverydaylife2025/# http://www.youtube.com/@2025everydaylifepodcastCOC https://discord.gg/tHA3AkNpVC https://patreon.com/EverydayLifeConversations?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Music by:DELOSound

    48 min
  2. Prepare Predictably

    4 DAYS AGO

    Prepare Predictably

    Send us Fan Mail In this episode, Jen and Dagda explore how being a gamer is actually the ultimate training for real-life survival, financial stability, and emotional resilience. They dive into: The Dresden Files: Why Jen finally gave in to the hype and how it’s feeding her brain.The 3-Step Rule: How planning ahead helped Jen conquer debt and anxiety.Money Skills: Why "if the card goes ding, I have money" is a dangerous mindset and how to use "round-up" savings to build a safety net.The Midol Hack: A genius (and hilarious) way to hide emergency cash where no one will find it.Gaming Grudges: Why Jen will never forgive The Elder Scrolls and why she prefers turning Seven Days to Die into a peaceful homesteading simulator.Worst-Case Scenarios: Preparing for verbal attacks, conflict, and the "inherent stupidity" of the world.Whether you're a hardcore gamer or just trying to get your life in order, this episode is about "pre-planning predictabilities" so you can handle whatever curveball comes next. #podcast #GenX #adulthumor #preparedness #gamersrule Artwork:Tumisu Support the show Your new addiction awaits you..you're welcome! #podcast #lol #genx #smartass #egosandattitudes Find us on social media: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61578374587810 https://www.instagram.com/elcoceverydaylife2025/# http://www.youtube.com/@2025everydaylifepodcastCOC https://discord.gg/tHA3AkNpVC https://patreon.com/EverydayLifeConversations?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Music by:DELOSound

    57 min
  3. Politicized Pizza

    8 APR

    Politicized Pizza

    Send us Fan Mail What starts as a sleepy, bathroom-emergency kind of morning turns into a surprisingly deep dive into war, politics, privilege, and pizza. Jen and Dagda begin with: Late-night work, 2 a.m. stomach issues, long walks to the bathroom, and way too much information about trash cans that are the “perfect height.”Moody Washington weather and YouTube fatigue, with commentary on Abba & Preach, Asmongold, and political burnout.Then things get heavier: Current conflicts, oil and money, terrorism, and how US interventions can be both strategic and morally muddy.Iran, Venezuela, shifting stories about WMDs, and memories of Desert Storm/Desert Shield and the Iraq WMD fiasco.A “high school” analogy for modern politics—smart kids, lazy kids, and rumor-mill mean girls running government narratives.Jen’s resistance to picking a political “supreme leader,” guided instead by veterans, a POW grandfather, and her own moral compass.They also unpack: Being slightly left-of-center while still holding nuance and respecting both sides’ humanity.A conversation with a young, very far-left person who says they “hate America,” and why that hits Jen as both offensive and heartbreaking.Global realities like FGM, stoning LGBTQ+ people, and child slavery—why, despite its flaws, the US is still a place with people actively fighting for better policies and protections.Cancel culture, how any statement about Trump/Biden/“the other side” can get you labeled and ostracized, and why they usually avoid political talk on-mic.To cool things down, they pivot to: Cooking YouTube, The Steak & Butter Gal’s carnivore pizza crust (cottage cheese, egg white powder, mozzarella), weird marshmallow made from bean liquid, and gumbo history, okra slime, and sassafras/root beer nostalgia.Jen’s real “job”: human connection—compliments, kindness, making people feel seen, instead of trying to fix geopolitics.If you’ve ever felt politically homeless, exhausted by news, but still obsessed with food videos, this episode might feel uncomfortably relatable. Artwork:MoroccanSansit #podcast #GenX #politics #leftofcenter #politicallyexhausted #wargames #humanconnection #ProundtobeAmerican Support the show Your new addiction awaits you..you're welcome! #podcast #lol #genx #smartass #egosandattitudes Find us on social media: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61578374587810 https://www.instagram.com/elcoceverydaylife2025/# http://www.youtube.com/@2025everydaylifepodcastCOC https://discord.gg/tHA3AkNpVC https://patreon.com/EverydayLifeConversations?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Music by:DELOSound

    48 min
  4. Gnome Your Garden

    6 APR

    Gnome Your Garden

    Send us Fan Mail Jen and Dagda start with sleepless nights, Ozempic side effects, and lingering fear of another painful sleep paralysis “demon”—then pivot into something surprisingly grounding: gardening, homesteading, and knowing where your food comes from. In this episode, they chat about:Ozempic, broken sleep, sinus “glue,” and why Jen is exhausted and on edge, Viral kid classics (“Listen, Linda,” the corn kid who loves that it’s “got juice”) and a corn-obsessed cat named Tom. Generational food memories: German dill pickles loaded with garlic and flowering dill, strawberry and raspberry jams, and crying over the last cherished jars. The fantasy vs. reality of going off-grid: constant chores, aging bodies, and why homesteading is not a vacation. Creative ways to grow food—raised beds, microgreens, potato towers, small greenhouses, balcony buckets, and windowsill herb kits. Heirloom and heritage seeds, raccoons and possums stealing tomatoes, and which staple crops matter most when the world feels a little apocalyptic. How gardening builds plant identification skills and basic resilience in a world where disaster (or supply chain chaos) can hit at any time. It’s part cozy nostalgia, part gentle survival wake-up call—and a reminder that gnoming your garden might be one of the most empowering skills you can learn. #podcast #genx #gardening #survivalskills #selfsufficient #food #plantergarden #organicgrown #homegrown #themoreyouknow Artwork: jcoope12 Support the show Your new addiction awaits you..you're welcome! #podcast #lol #genx #smartass #egosandattitudes Find us on social media: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61578374587810 https://www.instagram.com/elcoceverydaylife2025/# http://www.youtube.com/@2025everydaylifepodcastCOC https://discord.gg/tHA3AkNpVC https://patreon.com/EverydayLifeConversations?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Music by:DELOSound

    47 min
  5. Darkly Dreaming Demon

    1 APR

    Darkly Dreaming Demon

    Send us Fan Mail Jen and Dagda crack open one of the most unsettling sleep experiences out there: sleep paralysis—the kind where you wake up, can’t move, and swear a demon is sitting on your chest. In this episode, they explore  Jen’s most recent paralysis episode: being pinned by an eight-foot “demon,” feeling hooves kicking her legs, and waking up with very real bruises! Dagda’s own demon and mist-entity encounters before he knew what sleep paralysis was. How core emotions and “resting anger” can shape how we react to fear and stress. Why our brains can create real pain, welts, and marks from dreams and hallucinations. Grounding strategies like “making rocks grow” and drawing strength from a stuffed-husky guardian named Bernard How aging, hormone changes, and REM sleep behavior disorders can ramp up vivid dreams and sleep disturbances. Anchored in humor, science, and a lot of “you don’t have permission to be here,” this conversation is for anyone who’s ever woken up frozen, terrified, and wondering if they’re the only one. Artwork: jcoope12 Support the show Your new addiction awaits you..you're welcome! #podcast #lol #genx #smartass #egosandattitudes Find us on social media: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61578374587810 https://www.instagram.com/elcoceverydaylife2025/# http://www.youtube.com/@2025everydaylifepodcastCOC https://discord.gg/tHA3AkNpVC https://patreon.com/EverydayLifeConversations?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Music by:DELOSound

    41 min
  6. Artificially Animated

    30 MAR

    Artificially Animated

    Send us Fan Mail In this episode, Jen and Dagda go deep on the weird, messy intersection of AI, animation, and aging. They start with a hilariously horrifying detour into Urban Dictionary and pumpkin carving, then shift into Dagda’s AI coursework, buggy learning platforms, and how people use AI for résumés and job hunting. From there they break down AI-generated music videos, voice cloning, deepfakes, and what it means when you can resurrect actors, de-age Arnold, or bring back beloved animated characters after their voice actors have died. Along the way, they unpack why some adults avoid “kids’” animation, celebrate icons like Robin Williams and Alan Tudyk, swap anime recommendations, and wrestle with the ethics of AI taking jobs from animators and voice actors—while also creating wild new opportunities. It’s part media-ethics roundtable, part love letter to animation, and part raw reflection on mortality, legacy, and what it means to be “artificially animated” in every sense. #ConversationsOverCoffee #ArtificiallyAnimated #Podcast #Animation #Anime #AI #VoiceActing #Deepfake #KingOfTheHill #Archer #RobinWilliams #AlanTudyk #EverydayLife #GenX #PNW Artwork: EdenMoon Support the show Your new addiction awaits you..you're welcome! #podcast #lol #genx #smartass #egosandattitudes Find us on social media: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61578374587810 https://www.instagram.com/elcoceverydaylife2025/# http://www.youtube.com/@2025everydaylifepodcastCOC https://discord.gg/tHA3AkNpVC https://patreon.com/EverydayLifeConversations?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Music by:DELOSound

    1hr 8min
  7. Twelve Months

    23 MAR

    Twelve Months

    Send us Fan Mail Major spoilers for the entire Dresden Files series, especially "Twelve Months" and "Battle Ground." Join Jen and Dagda as they dive deep into Jim Butcher's latest Dresden Files novel, "Twelve Months." In this  episode, the hosts provide an in-depth, spoiler-filled discussion of Harry Dresden's year-long mourning period following the devastating Battle of Chicago and the loss of Karrin Murphy. From analyzing Harry's emotional growth and healing process to exploring the magical castle with gargoyles, the hosts cover every major plot point and character development. They discuss Thomas's heartbreaking situation, Lara Raith's surprising vulnerability, Mab's hidden depths, and the shocking revelation about White Court demons being connected to outsiders. The conversation also includes fun speculation about dream casting for a potential TV adaptation (Jacob Elordi or Charlie Hall as Harry Dresden?), comparisons to other fantasy series, and excitement about upcoming books including "Mirror Mirror" and the "Outlaw" short story. Whether you're a longtime Dresden Files fan or curious about the series, this episode offers thoughtful analysis, passionate fandom, and plenty of laughs.  Major spoilers for the entire Dresden Files series, especially "Twelve Months" and "Battle Ground."  #DresdenFiles #JimButcher #TwelveMonths #BookDiscussion #UrbanFantasy #GenX #podcast #longlivetheZaLord #MajorGeneralTootTootRules Artwork: DavidGallie Support the show Your new addiction awaits you..you're welcome! #podcast #lol #genx #smartass #egosandattitudes Find us on social media: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61578374587810 https://www.instagram.com/elcoceverydaylife2025/# http://www.youtube.com/@2025everydaylifepodcastCOC https://discord.gg/tHA3AkNpVC https://patreon.com/EverydayLifeConversations?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Music by:DELOSound

    1hr 16min

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 We have been the best of friends for 15 years (whether he  likes it or not..lol).  Sometimes it's not what you say but how you say it! Come and laugh with us at our quirky, weird brains as we navigate this thing called "podcasting". We truly are just a couple of smart asses with diverse interests who need jobs to make an income. Since we couldn't find that in the "normal" world, we came here to give it a go! We truly are grateful you are here to support us on our journey. If you would like to help us along, we accept one time (or reoccurring) donations thru paypal! ** paypal.me/ELConversations2025 ** Please be sure to check us out on Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, Patreon and Discord!! Sound Clips:Dagda_Ra Music:DELOSound **New episodes drop on Monday and Wednesdays.** ** Be sure to check out our other podcast:  Everyday Life: After Dark  for a more NSFW look into our previous careers **